Why is being considered relationship material bad?

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-11-06T09:29:58+00:00

Calibrate. "Relationship material" guys still have casual sex. They just upgraded a FWB to an LTR.

Not getting enough blowjobs isn't an issue unless you know she didn't mind doing it for another man and just refused to service you. Some bitches just aren't into it, and most aren't even good at it.

It's bad when you're getting later what dudes got for cheap - which would be her pussy.

All of of my exes I fucked our first or second time out. The desire and willingness was there all along, and that's what you need to be paying attention to.

Some bitches may have the desire to fuck you but won't act on it, but it doesn't mean you're not as attractive as her ONS 3 months ago, it's just that the setting is different and her mindset reflects that. If she met you at her party then you would have been her ONS or her FWB and eventually LTR.

In the end you have to know what true desire looks like. That's all.

Rev_Irreverent · 2020-11-06T12:25:12+00:00

If you are both a chad and an eligible bachelor, they will treat you as a chad. If there are signs that they are treating you like a beta (i.e., taking too long to have sex, expecting you to pay for things etc), it's a sign they are not attracted to you.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2020-11-06T09:37:39+00:00

if I know what behaviours I will accept in a relationship and nothing less then is that really a bad thing?

You have standards and won’t settle for less. That’s a good thing.

For example one girl I broke up with because she didn't give me blowjobs as much as I liked. This might sound excessive but I didn't feel like it was at the time. Maybe it was...

It’s not excessive if either she was actually rejecting sucking your cock, you tried to train her and she wasn’t receptive or you just didn’t want to train her.

Is being viewed as beta bucks that bad if you will walk away at the 1st sign that she will not give you what you want?

Being viewed as Beta Bucks is always bad as women are more likely to withhold sex from you early on. So it means that you will go without sex for a period of time whereas an Alpha Fucks wouldn’t.

Walking away at the first sign of not getting what you want can be a bad thing:

If you’re not getting what you want then there’s always a reason for that. It could be a shit test and her viewing you as BB so if you pass then you will move towards her viewing you as AF. Or, it could be you not recognising the need for something else (eg. more kino) before you get rejected.

So if you walk away in these situations, you lose the opportunities of getting what you want from her and it could cause you to not recognise areas of improvement, losing opportunities to get what you want from future girls.

Joe_Doblow · 2020-11-06T09:55:51+00:00

This is a projection thing

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IXseed · 2020-11-06T13:43:03+00:00

The only real issue I see is coming here asking this question to the sub. Bro, if you like what you're doing, keep doing it. No reason to come here and get approval from guys on the internet. That's what "beta" truly is, y'kno?

At the end of the day you're getting what you want from the situation and kicking her to the curb if you don't. That's all the game you really need.

dudedoodickle · 2020-11-06T18:53:01+00:00

It's not black and white. Being relationship material doesn't mean you are cuck who doesn't get pussy and vice versa.

Title	Why is being considered relationship material bad?
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