Why is rejection so common?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-10T18:09:55+00:00

How is it possible that a woman refuse the gift of my presense.

Y'know, even I think "Hmm...that's a bit narcissistic."

That said, remember we live in the age of "Muh GRRRRLLLL POWER!!!"

"You can be fit at any weight! You can be beautiful at any age!", 6s think they are 9s and so forth. The propaganda has gotten to them, together with online validation machines like Tinder and Instawhore. This is why I only hunt in Meat Reality.

KeffirLime · 2018-11-10T18:04:28+00:00

80/20 principle. If you're not in the top 20% percent scoring, you're in the bottom 80% getting bat.

Nicolas0631 · 2018-11-10T17:56:03+00:00

I don't get your point. You should be able to approach a few girls each time you apply to it and so a 5% rate mean that you'll soon be going. Sound nice.

Remember that 80% of the population is already in a couple, that people may not be in the mood for this kind of stuff at the moment with something else on their mind and they may have their own preferences.

All of this clearly explain that 5% success rate is not that bad and that should be enough to get you many nice girls up to you and one ultimately you'd be confortable to make your life with, in time.

Also, if you were asked 10 time per night by many girls, do you really think you'll accept to go out with all decent girls, say all the 7/10 ? Wouldn't you be more selective ? Because that what they live you know...

Ultimately you may be over confident into your self value. Are you really that smart ? Are you reall well dressed ? Are you really a 10/10 alpha male ? Are you really a pleasure to talk with and does everybody all the time want to to be with you male and female ? Are you extremely charismatic ?

Or are you just the average guy, maybe a bit better and just invested a bit more in the gym than the average ? Maybe even a bit condescending because you feel too much of yourself ?

Talinor09 · 2018-11-10T19:34:34+00:00

Attitude
Age

I get more interest from 25 year olds now that i’m in my 30’s than when I was in my 20’s.

In college it’s harder to have a distinct SMV advantage. I considered myself good looking, smart, fairly social and had a good friend group. I still got hot tail but way less frequently.

Other than an insane physique it was the guys with massive social game that pulled the most birds. Like the guys who were the centre of big groups and did some of the political stuff. Even then they probably didn’t pull a heck of a lot. The guy I know who pulled the most was decent looking, very social and just had ruthless game.. i.e he would game anything he came across meaning he chased more numbers. He would have had more rejection than you.

Once you get out of college and into the business world then you can tear ahead by building a good career, associating with other professionals and by maintaining a good physique.

You’ll notice by 30 a lot of guys settle/let themselves go so you biggest competition is guys who are like 27-29 looks wise but most don’t have their shit together careerwise/financially.

oldredder · 2018-11-11T01:20:34+00:00

Women all have dozens and some have hundreds of men chasing them. That means rejection has to be common. There's lots of us and not nearly as many of them we're going for because most of us have the sense not to fuck 3's and fatties.

Women have easily 10 or more at a time just like you to pick from. Play the numbers. At some point some other dude will get rejected and you get your dick sucked.

5% to 10% is about the best you can hope for. ANY man. Unless you're above average by a lot, jacked and rich and social status to go with it.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-11-11T04:57:50+00:00

Yeah, the stock market shouldn't be rising as much, but it did. People shouldn't fart so much, but they do.

Don't worry yourself too much about how you think things ought to be, but aren't.

markinsinz7 · 2018-11-10T22:01:29+00:00

This is cause we're in the tinder era. It's going to be like this here on out. Status real status will be king always. In fact best success rates pre online dating was 15-20 % that's just how these things are now.

DanishApollon · 2018-11-10T20:25:42+00:00

This rant makes you sound like a bitter niceguy.

Title	Why is rejection so common?
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Date	November 10, 2018 5:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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