So I'll try to be as detailed as I can with out giving away my Identity. I know a few people who browse redpill topics. The girl and I are both in our early 20's. I work for a large company with different departments and high turnover. About a year ago I asked out a girl out in my department because she was quiting and moving out of state across the country. I figured why not and I got the feeling she was flirting with me. Date went great. Took her to a themed restaurant that I had been wanting to go for a while. She insisted on paying for her half. Made out with her in my car before dropping her off at home as she had a prior engagement. Saw her one last time at work. Asked if she wanted to hang out for a little bit after work. Said she had made plans, but if she hadn't it would've been a sure yes. Said goodbye and good luck.

A few months later I saw on social media she was back in the state. Said hey and asked if she wanted to meet up. Said she had things planned for the holidays and would be booked during her stay. Also said that she's sorry but she's considering going back to the company and would rather not start a relationship with anybody there. That it's not professional. I answered with a simple ok. She said shes really sorry if she hurt my feelings.

So she said that because she had actually went on a date with another co-worker of mine. He's gone from the company now. I had found out through work place gossip as the guy blabbed to everyone about it while I kept my mouth shut. She knows and she thinks that upset me. It didn't. We went on one date, but I guess she thinks I would react really beta and cry about it. Never responded after my simple ok as I didn't know what to say and I honestly didn't think she would come back.

Well yeah she did. Its been a few weeks. It was awkward at first. I was actually happy to see her. I didn't expect a relationship or anything, but she seemed like a decent person and I liked working with her before the date. So I thought we'd forget the whole thing and have a platonic work relationship. We didn't talk to each other. I noticed her staring at me a few times. I'd look at her sometimes wondering what her deal was. She'd calmly turn away if we met eye contact when I'd enter the room.

One day we had to work closely where we had to talk to each other and it actually went smoothly. She wasn't a bitch to me, but she kept me on my toes with any work related question and double checked with me if I did the things that needed to be done. Thought ok great are we finally moving past this.

Next day she was passing through and casually helped me out with a work task that was on her way. I said thank you. She ignored me. Granted it was a loud work environment, but I'm pretty sure she heard me. So Yea what's her deal? Is she really mad I'm not begging for a relationship with her? She's the one that turned me down. I'm cool with it. I'd rather we not be anything at this point if this is how she insists on treating me. She just seems really angry sometimes. Any advice on how to proceed? Or reading suggestions?

Appreciate any help.