Plating two girls at the moment. Girl one, I haven't seen (fucked) in about a week and a half. She disclosed she has feelings for me so I'm guessing that's why she's minimizing contact.

Girl two, definite LTR material, we hit it off fast and great, I really like this chick. But, there are a couple of problems... I am 25, she's 31. based on that fact alone I do not want to LTR her. I wouldn't say she's hit the wall, but it is definitely coming in the next couple years. I recently found out through her best friend that she's got feelings for me as well and would like something more with me. Truth is, I like her a lot but the timing just isn't right, we're at different points in our life. I want to keep spinning plates and not get tied down.

How do you guys deal with plates falling for you, and what could be done so that in the future, they don't catch the feels?