I go to college. Big party scene. People go out 5-6 times a week. This mainly focuses on talking to girls during the night. Im also mostly interested in ONS.

However, I noticed that I can literally chill by myself on my phone at the bar and within 30min to an hour there is going to be a hb7 buying me drinks and talking to me. Like its almost guaranteed. I tried it yesterday; Im literally standing next to the bar when a girl comes up and asks "whats your name?" and within 5 minutes shes buying me drinks and asking where i live. Id rate her probably a hb8. Turns out this girl is in a top sorority at my school, where even the ugliest girls (in top sororities) get attention from all the top fraternities.

Like if I can literally just stand by myself and get a decent hb7-hb8 by doing nothing, why should I try to approach girls who are in groups and a little bit hotter than the ones approaching me right now. Like right now, I literally do not have any motivation to go through shit tests and rejections when I can chill by myself or with my friends and a girl is eventually going to open up to me.

The only negatives I see with my approach right now is that I am not in control of who I get to fuck, there are nights where I dont talk to anyone, and to be honest opening up to a girl thats hot and have a connection (like great convos, etc) is a pretty great feeling. But I've gone out with the intentions of doing that and every time I just go back to my chilling at the bar stage.

Any tips or help? this is probably the biggest downside I have right now.