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Argument against your weightlifting claim. No one lifts weights to be stronger at their physical job. People lift to "look better" and or "cooler". In that case lifting is not a time waste because that's the only way you can become sexier (minus the diet and surgeries).
/r/askTRP23/06/18 02:18 PM
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Haven't seen it myself, but the word is that it's mostly about mra and only has The Red Pill as title more for marketing reasons.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/18 03:21 PM
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You're not native english speaker, eh? "Do the legwork" is a figure of speech, meaning do the research on your own.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:04 AM
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Are you a cyclist? If no then there's reason to shave legs, but to impress your boyfriend. When it comes to make up. Super gay. Pass.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:57 AM
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Well then, you have some catching up to do. But for real, your post headline question is so fucking noob, it screams that you haven't spent any reasonable time reading on steroids. Do the leg work and educate yourself. No matter how old you are.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:51 AM
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Do some reaserch. By a book or something. Read a few months on the topic of juicing and then make decisions. Your op post reads like you're a 17 year old kid who obviously is looking for a shortcut and obly read a few random forum posts on gear. My point is, you sound very uneducated on the matter. Please do more research and don't jump on doing shot you might later regret.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:43 AM
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Alright, I'm with you that we don't know for sure what happened. And sure, the dude might never ever again put his hands on op's sister or any women, for that matter. From the info as is, if I had to bet, I would bet that dude has issues, because of the prison thing. It might be judgemental, but I'm being honest. Now, for the other stuff, that the sis might like it and what not. If I was the brother in this case (assuming that my relationship with my sis is great) I would try to look out for my …
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:59 PM
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If you were joking, I did not get it. My bad.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:42 PM
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How the hell do you know?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:40 PM
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Looks like that dude was born a bit too late. He would've thrived with that nazi funding lol
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:42 PM
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Talk with your sister. Check what's up if she's fine and what not. But whatever the story is if he actual choked for reals this is a bad relationship for her to be in. This shit can't go anywhere but escalate in the future. I almost want to bet that after they get married the dude, being jealous, will beat her. For fuck sake the guy was in prison, that's not a good thing on ones life resume.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:25 PM
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Get on those deep webs and find Mein Kampf.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:14 PM
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Sorry, I don't speak mexican.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:11 PM
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What about fucking other men? That seems pretty masculine too.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 05:11 PM
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You're correct, when love comes into play objective standarts of beuty mean nothing. But you have to find a person physically attractive in the first place to eventually fall in love with them.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/18 10:39 AM
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This is just pure irrational hate. What's the point of this? Everything can be interpreted many ways. Some fucked up people will interpret trp as "tactics to rape", others, the more mentally healthy kind, will see expand their sexual and dating lives and make their life's better. Obligatory disclaimer: I believe that there aren't enough truly useful information to sustain +200k sub for as it exists, without devolving to mental masturbation. Everything useful on trp sub has already been said. But…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/18 10:22 AM
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I'm sorry, for your experience, but that guy's behaviour has little to do with being redpill. First and foremost he was an insecure asshole.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/18 10:53 AM
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Just say "sure" and change the subject. If she insists on talking about that you can decline or leave. There's no point in being smart-ass, besides ego masturbation.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:20 PM
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That's really argumentative if the goal is to neutralise or not argue with a person. To answer that specific question op wrote is enough with "sure"
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:17 PM
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Statistically women do great in Nursing/care giving. There's obviously other careers. If you wanna go that route, the career professional, than look at interests and 9 tomes out of 10 women will do better at women' interests than men. Which is kind of 'duh-uh'.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 02:54 PM
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I think the main idea for eating carbs is to get energy to train. Cuz even if you cut carbs to 0, muscle glycogen is still needed. Fats are good energy source when you are not being athletic though.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:01 PM
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It depends on personal values.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:55 PM
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I don't think he feels like it's a choice for him.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:47 PM
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Sure. I can't say which one applies him more, though.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/18 06:20 PM
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I do agree that one can use "I take responsibility" as an excuse. But if you are brutally honest with yourself, yeah... do whatever. I believe that life has different aspects and when you work on them, you will improve the wellbeing of ones life. Stuff like being active, taking care of ones diet, socialising with people, letting yourself to be lazy and other stuff. But the main thing is that you can fulfill those aspects in variety of ways; doing different activities. And it's every persons resp…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:32 PM
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Says who? Happiness is subjective. For example, there are scientists (can't say exactly who, though) that left a legacy; imprinted their names in their field's textbooks for generations to come, who were drug addicts or miserable in some way. EDIT: On the other hand there are people, like Buddhist monks, who, one might say, achieved nothing in life. And yet are the most happy people in the world. We only like to see highlights of things. Also, I do believe (and my experience is so) that we, huma…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:40 AM
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Yeah, you're right things change. I don't find fun in playing video games anymore, though I had a blast as a kid. Point is that one always does what makes one happy. And at the same time, doing things that make one happy is the most efficient way of doing those things.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:21 AM
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My favorite natty in all of the youtube fitness. Rip
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:58 AM
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Dude, your way is not the way, m'ok. Every man walks his own path, whatever the fuck that path may be. If a man takes full responsibility for it it's not a life wasted.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:54 AM
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You get that not everyone has the same interests as you right? Do whatever makes one happy.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:52 AM
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Unless you deal it. Them it's kind of a job perk.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 10:49 AM
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I took his "not dealing in absolutes" as an admirable thing. Life's rearly black or white if ever. I suppose the closest thing to "him making a point" would be his book or, if you're interested, check his speak about his book. It's a condensed version of it. But I do agree that Perterson, seems like he likes to talk about thing without neseceraly reaching any hard conclusions. He really likes to ask questions in a "thought experiment" sort of way. And, as I said, in a world (read as Internet) wh…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/18 07:23 AM
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In the world of youtube sjw compilations he definitely might seem edgy. I'm not that familiar with his ideas, I mean ai now of him and I have seen some of his stuff on youtube, but I don't follow him. Anyways, there definitely is a point he's making, especially in his book or public speaks, at least I think so. But because he's primarily a lecturer, he mostly gives you information and you decide what to do with it; form an a pinion. My philosophy teacher in college was the same. He had no opinio…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/18 06:54 AM
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I'm not good. I spend about 4-5 months learning it, for the fun of it, but I haven't used the knowledge much, yet. If you really interested in it, google Halbert copywriting challange. It's 30 day challenge, in theory, in reality it took me close to 5 month to do about 80% of everything.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:24 PM
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Or write a better ad copy for your mousetrap.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:54 PM
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However exactly the saying goes: "If you say that you can or can't do something, you're right."
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:50 PM
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Say what you want, but if we take away the bullshitty trp lingo out of his comment, his assessment of what happened is quite correct. Trp in general would've advised him (for better or worse) to not even start with a girl that has experienced abuse in her life. They would've said not to get pissy about her refusing to have sex with him not to get himself into drama and rather concentrate on his own life. Also, isn't this subs point to show the "correct" path so to say, for people who are/were ex…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/18 08:34 PM
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Sure, trp ideas can, if a young guy with limited or no experience reads it and believes it without questioning, can mess his mind and be genesis for some unhealthy behaviours when it comes to relationships (long or short). But to say that TRP (or anyone else) made you do it, is Victim Mentality 101. No one made you do shit, it was your choice own it. Again, I'm not defending TRP and it's philosophy, but playing a blame game won't solve a thing. And last thing. On TRP there's quite a strong stanc…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/18 04:37 PM
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People want to get to know each other based on outer things: looks, status, money and such. In a first impressions way it's attractive and it creates the want, a desire, in us to get to know that stranger (man or women). However, we stay and build a relationship with that person (platonic or not) based on inner stuff: overlapping interests, philosophy, admiration, similar value system etc. It's cliché but it seems how things work. Halo effect and all psychological workings of a human. Judgement …
/r/ExRedPill10/05/18 12:25 PM
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Chick was exited. Stop panicking. Smile, laugh, say thanks or come back at her with some funny shit. Do whatever is normal to you. It's not a test. She might be a boring girl, living a boring life and you are a spark of sexy sunshine that is uncommon in her day to day. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:47 PM
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Are you purposefully make your life unnecessary more difficult? Chick was exited. It was a compliment. Say thanks.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:42 PM
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The first statement is way too absolute and misleading. Concept of a niche is a thing, you know. You mix the tastes of an audience and an artist and shit happens. But yeah, I get your point, I think. "Extreme ownership" and strive for zero victim mentality is the way to go in life, in general.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:39 PM
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I wouldn't say that trp is even good for going the "scoring" route. There are two clashing view points in trp sub. One says that trp is only about "sexual strategy" (a.k.a. building up the notches) and yet on the other side there is a mindset that "life is more than fucking a lot of chicks". So no matter which idea you subscribe personally the other one will look like an excuse and yet there will be loads of posts entertaining that philosophy on the sub. To be honest if one wants to concentrate …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/18 11:17 AM
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Right, but there are many things I would love to maximise myself in. There are many areas that facinate me. It would take me a few life times to get great at all of them. How to find peace with the fact that, most likely, you won't be better than average (might not even reach that) in some things, if you want to be great in others? I can set priorities, yet it hurts to know that there only can be one #1.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/18 06:59 PM
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Minox defo works. It takes time though. Up to 4-6 months.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/18 02:44 PM
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Question on very last sentence: "None of us get to have it all." Any tips on how to make peace with this fact of life?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/18 10:48 AM
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Healthy little habits here for sure, but only one of these actually work for getting out of bed and that is light timer. When you signal your brain that it's day time it will make you awake real quick, assuming that you had enough sleep that night.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:02 PM
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I agree with you. My point about stereotypes was based on my experience, not animal kingdom. Most of the time, at least it seems, that a stereotype is based on some amount of truth. "should want"? No, of course not. Life's too complex for "shoulds" and "should nots". I think there's a "want" however. It just feels good to accomplish things after exerting effort. I do agree that it's unwise to base one's relationships on "conquering". That won't get you any better relationships. That said, "conqu…
/r/ExRedPill23/04/18 10:59 AM
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MRA is not the same as TRP. At least TRP dudes would distance themselves from mra as much as they can. MRA from TRP perspective look like a bunch of bitching fatties. (I'm not saying that's true, just giving you an idea.) Anyway, my point is that TRP, MGTOW and MRA, even if a percentage of people overlap in all of them, I would struggle to call them even similar. I'm not trying to defend any of them, but it's a phallicy to say that if something is in a "sphere" it's all the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/18 07:20 AM
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I get that that comment is retarded, but it's not an argument for the op.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/18 01:44 PM
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That's really true. Trp constantly retorts tjat one should not care about woman, yet the whole point of the sub is to "get chicks". I believe, if they just go with the idea of "here we do everything for women and we'll do this for a while" they woul,ironically, take women of the pedestal more than the current approach.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/18 01:41 PM
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Isn't the search for "conquest", at least to some extent, the basis of man's psyche? The stereotype of "conquering" a chick to sex is based on some truth, no?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/18 01:36 PM
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Well, now that you explained, it sounds kind of dumb, don't you think?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:18 PM
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The fuck is camera game?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:50 PM
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It seems that there's quite some ego involved on your part. It looks like you want to "teach" to show of how big's your dick rather than helping people. You can't be a good teacher if you lack empathy. Also, even though it's a bit cliché, but most good teachers, in the beginning, had no desire to teach and went against the notion. They essentially where forced into that position by people overwhelmingly asking for advice and help. However, if you don't seek to be a good teacher and you just want…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:34 PM
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If in this hypothetical fantasy situation I could retain the mind I have right now, I would instantly DROP-the-fuck-OUT of college.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:23 PM
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You don't. If you live a life worth following they will follow you, a.k.a start asking questions and advice from you. If you start "teaching" them the "truths" or whatever the fuck you think you know so valuable without people asking first, you'll come of as cringy and a douche--"that guy". Everyone notices "that guy" and noone likes "that guy". Just do the most effective thing and concentrate on your own life rather than on changing others'.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 12:16 PM
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Does The Red Queen gets any better? I'm around 50 pages in and it's boring as fuck. I also grabbed The Female Brain (can't remember author's name), maybe that one will be easier read.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:02 PM
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Do you think these are absolute reality? How much would context matter in these cases? I'm not saying that these are not true or true. I just can't recall any other "place" besides trp painting these things as certainties. I don't even know where I'm going with this lol. One thing's for sure though, the older I get (relatively speaking) the more skeptical I am about anyone saying that they have an obsolute truth about anything. And the certainty of trp about things that is impossible to be certa…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:24 PM
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What are the worst aspects of trp that you think an average dude won't be able to swallow?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 12:27 PM
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Mgtow, iirc go abstinet. And the ones who don't buy hookers. Besides the ones who use hookers mgtow don't want anything to do with women, ever. Which is kind of funny, cuz they still talk alot about them.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/18 12:06 PM
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For sure, elimination is not end all and be all solution. You're right that that "obsession" if eliminated in one place will eventually surface in another, because it's only a symptom of deeper issues. But as a "first step" sort of solution, elimination is effective.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 05:24 AM
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You know, scratch that. I though about it and yeah, I misjudged few things. For the specific subset of people who come to trp, on average, this type of tone will motivate them to lift, no doubt. Me personaly, it doesn't motivate. Not anymore, at least. Me in the past, even 3 or 4 years ago, I would've responded well to this sort of "assault" to drive a point quite well. My bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 03:15 PM
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My point was that the post doesn't work neither as "advice for lifters" nor as "recruitment of nonlifters."
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:37 PM
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I'm with you. I did not mean any sentiment of "blame shifting" or "victim mentality" in my comment. I was talking strictly from pov of "striving to be better self". And as the first step towards that, for me personally, cutting out porn, instead of moderating it's use, worked much better. Granted, the more "mentally healthy" or "better" one becomes (meaning fixing underlining inner issues) the easier it is to maintain "moderation for all" attitude.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 01:30 PM
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Why don't you say that in your post? The tone of your post will inspire people who already know that lifting is valuable. There's nothing in the post for the "already lifting" crowd, there's no lifting insight or info to help and up my lifting game. And for people on the fence, at best this post will do nothing, at worst it'll offend. This is just not effective marketing, man.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 12:17 PM
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By addressing people "you retarded fag go lift" you won't recruit new people to try the hobby. Only, people who already lift will respond positively to this sort of motivation, because they already know why lifting adds value to their life's. This post is apitome of circle jerking.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 12:01 PM
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People are different though. Some can use moderation for things that other's can't. Some can drink socially for all their life's, some become alcoholics and have to cut booze out completely. You saying that everyone should apply moderation to all things is the same "all or nothing" attitude just dressed differently. I'd say people should chose whatever works best for their life's, whether it's "moderation" or "all or nothing".
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:06 AM
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Jerking off never was and never will be bad. But when your sexlife consists only of porn then there're big issues. And porn will fuck your head right up. And it seems that an average nofap'er had that exact issues before they joined the cult of NPMO. They were losers and not touching their peepee for extended time was the first sizeable achievement in discipline in their lives. And on average they are all young dudes, they have no perspective on life. And not fapping is the first achievement tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:57 AM
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Well, say what you want but that's smart business decisions. Minmaxing the fuck out of their app and taking care of all those small things that leak the potential revenue. That said, I don't own netflix account, or a tv for that matter. I'm too cheap for that. And also I grew up in culture of pirating things, so there's that lol
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 10:30 AM
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When you are a teenager or even a student (have no job and course work is easy) there's nothing to do. But it all comes down to no hobbies and no interests, just consumption.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 03:13 PM
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There's definitely more fucked up places people stuck their dick into, so a tree... whatever.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:05 PM
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Yeah, you roght man. How about the new tv model that Netflix does. They relese full season of a tv show all at once, because people like to binge rather than watch an episode a week as in good 'ol days.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 02:03 PM
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To be fair, porn is addictive not because an individual wants to jerk off many times (at least not in later years, cuz psisically there's a limit, though as a teen sure, one wants to rub his dick till it's raw). It's easy to get lost in browsing porn for hours, because there's so much of it and so many different chicks. And that feel of "discovery", the drive to find the hottest porn clip there is, so you could bust as mind meltingly as it felt the very first time you were a wee lad, is what kee…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:57 PM
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Thanks for the reality check. We all humans, we all make mistakes and are flawed to an extent. A person who expects you be perfect and judges you harshly (leaves you) for making clumsy non-malicious mistakes, is deeply scared (there's experiences of abuse and neglect in his past). Striving to be perfect for other's (and in general) and putting the blame on oneself for "braking frame" is fundamental based on low self esteem. You can't become confident by perfecting behaviour thay is based in low …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:30 AM
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Haven't read it. There's an hour and a half long speech on youtube in which JP summarises all the rules he talk about in his book. It's quite interesting. I do want to read the book though. I'm not sure when that'll be though, too much other stuff on my list.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/18 02:39 PM
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Dudes do the same. Nice guys are built on "I'm not like those other guys. I'm smart and sensitive" (or how ever else then want to separate themselves from other men in that instance). And even if it is how you say it is. Everyone conspire to deny the awalt idea. What good does it do to reiterate again and again and again, that a portion of people are a certain way, when one (a man) can't change other people. A person only can change himself. Wouldn't it make more sense to analyse the amalt idea?…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:46 AM
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Good bot
/r/ExRedPill09/04/18 04:36 PM
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He has nothing to do with trp, at least with the sub as far as I know. He might share a few of similar views as the trp sub, but he would definately just roght of tjat sub as "a bunch of troubled individuals." He's a Canadian professor that gained media's attention because he was against legislation for making gender pronouns legal, or rather not using them illegal (that's way he was so against it). I don't know the exact specifics. Anyways, he's a smart dude, has a bunch of interesting lectures…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/18 04:34 PM
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It could be many reasons: you're not attractive enough for a specific girl, a chick only has tinder for validation and chatting, she found some one else in the meanwhile, she was horny at the time of matching you, but now she isn't, she's in a bad mood, she forgot about you, her goddamn grandma died... who knows. It doesn't matter. Variety of reasons. To go all statistical on your ass. As far as I know the average closing rate is 1-5%. So if you not getting 1-2 dates a month then yes, there's so…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:54 PM
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If you ain't hot, you ain't worth fucking, mate. Would you pass a 9 because she has a mirror selfie? Women don't either.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:34 PM
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Jordan Peterson. His ideas caught some attention on the trp sub in the recent months. I mean, even if we disregard how one feels about JP's ideas and views and what he's all about, one can't deny that he at least has the credentials to back his stuff up.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/18 03:13 PM
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What really confuses me is that trp is so adamant about awalt concept and talk about it nonstop, yet fails to mention anything about "all men being like that". I mean a stick has too ends.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:24 PM
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Using or not using reddit has more to do with persons interests rather then intelligence. Op's post is a huge stretch and really looks like he's hamstering big time: "no, I'm not wasting time on reddit, I'm being smart, see." lol
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:19 PM
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Dude, you don't need to be smart to use reddit. Does reddit have a specific demographic of users? Yes, of course, it's a generation that grew up with Internet and message boards. But that doesn't mean that these people are smarter. It's just that these people grew up in a particular "environment" and have particular "skills". At best you could argue that redittors are "smarter than average" at using Internet or rather reddit itself. The conclusion that redditors are "smarter than average" in gen…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 12:12 PM
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Good question. The amount of respect trp gives to the man really really peaks my interest how legit he is in academical sense. Is he closer to JP levels of accomplishments or just a "intelectual" blogger. Seeing how he hides behind a pseudonym and built his fame blogging I don't have much fate for the former.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/18 10:43 AM
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I suppose the only think to know here is, do you, OP, do this stuff (do you actually talk like the examples you gave)? And how does that work put for you (on how many chicks you tried this)?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 08:22 PM
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It doesn't matter what you say as long as you escalate physically (touch her). A chick decides if she's going to let you to fuck her mainly from how sexy you look after that comes how you carry yourself. Words mean nothing (very little). You can't say anything to a woman to change her mind, if she's not into you. Attraction is not a choice.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:34 PM
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Your common sense is like fresh air.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 05:28 PM
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Also, bullshiters target vulnerable people: kids, depressed, druggies etc. Sadly when you are on of those vulnerable people it's unlikely that you'll smell the bullshit that is being served to you.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 10:38 AM
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One thing to mention talking about ripped gymnasts is that an average gymnast is very short (1m 65cm for dudes, or there abouts). It's just reality of the sport. Short dude shorter leverages, easier to do the isometric poses and transition moves. The goal for them, after all, is to achieve elite level gymnastic skills, rather than build muscle. For example, no matter how dedicated one is it's impossible for a 6'+ dude to ever acieve elite level skills like full v-sit or mana. So at this point it…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:00 AM
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Yeah, this kind of thinking is too hippy for this sub. I agree though with "be yourself" thing (more or less). Personally, though I like the idea of "be whatever you want to be".
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:17 PM
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Women can be fun to shoot the shit, even without fucking them. But besides that intimacy. I mean no matter how good of a dude friend you have you won't be grabbing a few bears forba movie nigh and cuddling with him.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:20 PM
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Every culture has a stereotype of "proud parents". But yeah, I think actions of your grandparents can be explain in more practical way(?). Your grandparents aren't rich. And to build up 3 kids (school, food, toys and everything else a kid would need that later on the kid would have money, career, a house, cars etc.) requires a ton of money, money that your grandparents didnot have, so they made a choice they pick one kid and gave everything to her. And you can even notice when parents talk about…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 03:07 PM
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Nr. 1 goal--Nr.1 priority. It's quite difficult to internalise this idea (though I am getting there). My ambitions make me greedy and I get grief from only focusing on one or two things at a time, but it's the most efficient attitude to have. Cut everything but the mandantory things (work, school, basic workouts) and work on your one goal until you achieve it. After that take another goal and do the same. Also, break your goal into milestones (as small or as big as you want). I for example like …
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:26 PM
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I think this is way simpler than you think. Your auntie A is just a spoil brat. She's the first kid. And even though in ideal world all kids would get the same love from parents, in reality parents still have their preferred (more loved) child and the rest get the shaft. I see the same in my family. Though in my family the youngest auntie gets the most love from my grandma. I don't know how conscious of a choice it is, but it seems that parents just pick one kid that they will "invest" in and gi…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:52 AM
3

Defo agree. But it's just the most mature thing to do in general, whether talking with women or men. Being humble a bit only benefits one.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:34 PM
7

At least she's being mature about this. I mean being aware of one's emotional state at not letting it run your head is something most people aren't able to do, women nor men.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:31 PM
13

I get the "effortless achievement" thing. But at least specifically talking about the gym. I mean how dumb a chick must be to not understand that getting model tear body requires time and effort in the gym. I remember time before I started lifting regularly. Time when I though that you can have a body of IFBB pro, just by starting to go to the gym. A time when I was concerned woth not getting "too big" like those beef cakes on stage... My point is, that sure, a chick could be ignorant to exact a…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 08:22 PM
0

"No judgment"? That's objectively not true. A very small minority of dudes will actually listen to you and give honest best advice they can. Most will laugh and try to amog the fuck out of you.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:51 AM
1

What does that mean?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:19 PM
1

Ok. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:18 PM
1

The answer I want is how do you came in terms with this? How did you find peace with all this? When the feeling flares up what are your management tactics?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:42 PM
1

Thing is, as I mentioned, that feeling after some time (anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months) becomes so strong that it's difficult to stay on track with my goals. I want drop what I'm working on and start doing that other thing.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:07 PM
1

Yes. Set priorities. Exactly. How to deal with the emotional turmoil one feels by setting priorities? How to find peace in deciding that you won't be able to be great at thing A because you also love/want to do thing B. What are my goals doesn't really matter. But they are big enough (time and effort wise) that you can only work on 1 at a time (for example: building a business and writing a novel, etc.).
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:36 PM
1

I do all that. I plan my day. I plan my week. I do 3-4 hours of work (on my goals) in the morning and a few more after my day job. The question is about the nagging feeling of missing out on thing B while I'm working on thing A. And the point is that I can't be efficiently working on both things (A and B) at the same time.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 01:27 PM
1

Yeah, I can see the high contrast between Stacy and The Horse working and, to be honest the higher the contrast the better you can illustrate the point (exactly the job of a parable), between the men/women values. Also the stylistic difference "old timey" v "valley girl" works too. And I get that that's what you went for. I'm not knocking on the idea. It's great. However, abiding to the basics of story telling, (in this case characters) my biggest issues as reader is: who the fuck is Stacy? (In …
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 02:27 PM
-1

Love the idea and I don't disagree with it. I want to comment on the story itself. It's kind of all over the place. I mean, unless, I am really missing the juxtaposition, the obvious metaphor of a "plowing horse" feels too disconnected from the "Stacy's Credo" part. I suppose, you could argue that that's the point, that men and women are that different, but, still, at least for my taste, there's a lack of overall story shell which engulfs both metaphors (though I struggle to call "Stacy's Credo"…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 01:06 PM
1

I might have used a wrong word. But you know you can experience erectile disfunction because of anxiety, right? You're physically healthy but your dick don't work. Anyways, in similar vein that could effect your lasting time too.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 09:47 PM
3

If pe is psychological, it might shed some light what's up with op and how to fix it.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 04:56 PM
2

If your gym is worth it's salt, coaches won't be handing belt for the fuck of it (assuming that he earned his belt in that gym). And yes, one needs time to develop one's ability. I don't know man, you trying to prove that you're so right over the brown belt and discrediting him, kind of still seems like a dick measuring contest. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 12:03 AM
2

Merit and ability is the only metric... Ok. And in this context (bjj/mma gym) the brown belt has both. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't brown belt one of to getting black? Which is something like 5 years of practice (minimum). Say what you want about that guy, he might be a douche and his belt is his only achievement (which is still quite something), but in this context he has respect, if not as human being, definitely, as an athlete.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:43 PM
3

Well, you're in environment where respect is measured by the color of your belt. Until you go above the brown belt you wont get any respect from him. Obviously, that doesn't excuse anyone to be an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:14 PM
8

Don't worry about it and just go for it.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:44 PM
2

I think, the best bet here would be trade school. Unless you have current hobby that you can, in a near future, monetize.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:35 PM
1

What sort of blog? What will you be writing about?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 04:29 PM
1

Why though? What do you think changed in you that day?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:47 PM
1

Ok. Yeah, for sure each group has it's own "way". "There's no way to 'become a man'" objectively speaking, yes. But as you said each group (I'd also expand to each individual) has it's own "way".
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:06 PM
1

My bad, but I don't follow. What do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:00 PM
1

"Back in the day" tribal groups would argue otherwise haha
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:49 PM
1

I didn't want to share my story with you, it just seemed the quickest way to nudge you to answer my question when you see the context of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:43 PM
1

My experience: even if it's way too early to say that there's an actual difference in my psychology, I would say that the moment of my "shift" happened about 4-5 months ago. Last year I hit a low point mentally. Subjectively the hardest ever. Again, anxieties, doubts and fears about life in general hit me. For about 3 months (3-4 hours a day) I studied (again) general self-help with some Buddhism flavor to it and also questions like: what it means to be a man, what is happiness, what it means to…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:28 PM
1

Oh okay. Well, I'm not talking about that far. My question was directed for your personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 01:22 PM
2

Maybe you're right. The question defonately can seem ridiculous. But, I do believe so, that even if there's no "hard edge" when one transitions from "boy" to a "man", there's a definite psychological difference between "boy's mindset" vs "man's mindset". So, for you the "ritual" was hunting with your dad? What was your age when you could tell the difference that your mentality shifted?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:22 PM
2

But that's from pov of your mom. She assigned you the label of "man". Op's questions is, as far as I can tell, when did you assigned the label of "a man" for yourself and actually believed it. Did you truly believed that you are a man at age 5? Did you actually looked at your friends dads, at that age, and though "yeah, there's no difference between Jeols dad, 45 yearold, and me, 5 yearold."?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:09 PM
1

Drop the ego. You're not special. You're not better nor worse than anyone else. You just haven't started to learn shit yet
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:07 PM
1

You want to 'win'? Then stop playing games.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:55 PM
2

Most effective way to strengthen your frame (in any particular situation) is practicing (that particular situation).
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:53 PM
2

The most attractive thing, in the long run, would be to really stop giving a shit about things like this.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 04:50 PM
1

My bad, by "anyone" I meant, that there're no boundaries, a selection process (so to say). And yes you're right. My "philosophy" is, definitely, vulnerable to being used at least once. But as a defence to that I would say that, the main word here is "once". In the case of being used, I take responsibility and I take accountability to not fall for the same thing again. And as a pro to why I have "philosophy" like that, I would say: if I put myself out there more, I will have more chances to find …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:38 PM
2

Have you ever heard a remark:"I'm sorry I wrote you such a long letter, it's because I didn't have enough time."? It seems counterintuitive but in writing you almost always need more time to write something great and concise, than long and mediocre.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 08:11 PM
1

Why do you assume that I give gifts to anyone? And that I can't recognise if a person wants to use me? On the other hand. Isn't a reason that it makes one feel great (ups your wellbeing, inspires confidence) enough, for one to do that?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 08:01 PM
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Maybe that's the problem it's poorly written because you didnot spend enough time on it. To be fair, I don't think that your post is that bad. In my comment I talk in general cases and my comment was a response specifically to that user who said you're laying.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 05:07 PM
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Not a case study, rather a summary of a case study, if you want to go with that example. Boring and concise are not the same thing. Example Hemingway. He's An epitome of writing in short sentences and going to the point (whatever point it may be).
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 04:54 PM
15

Nothing in the story, action wise, seems too out there. There're definitely dudes who act like Billy and like OP and women who are like Mindy. The problem with posts like these come form the fact that OPs want to show off how big's their writer's prick and fluff their stories with unnecessary fictiony verbiage, instead of being concise expressing their point.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 04:24 PM
2

Yes, of course, one will always wants to be/become friends with people that add value to one's life. I suppose, my point was that if you only do good deeds after others do something good for you, it's not the most effective way of building a friendship. In my opinion, one should just do good things for people as a gift, expecting nothing in return. And at the end you keep those people around who actually value your good deeds towards them. Edit: I figured that my first comment could be unclear a…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:22 PM
2

And how do people become close friends? By selflessly helping each other, right?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:21 PM
1

The thing is that she's Polish nor French. But that's besides the point. No gifts on the first date, no matter where she's from.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:09 PM
9

Why the fuck we are pretending that "nice guy" means: "confident man that has a good heart" when in reality it's womanese for "spineless manchild". That chick explicitly (in womanese) said that in her text. No, no healthy woman wants to have a relationship with a manipulative passive aggressive crybaby (a.k.a nice guy). In fact no healthy person wants to hang out with such a "man".
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 10:24 PM
3

I heard it from Jeo Rogan.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:20 PM
2

I've read it. Later I also heard that it's based on broscience.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:19 PM
-1

It was not a 'mistake' for you to open up. At most it was unwise to open up to emotionally sick person, your oneitis. Of course hookers don't give a fuck. They only want money. They are the most emotionally unhealthy and unstable people. I get annoyed at how emotional I can be. I suppose my point is, that you shouldn't be. Learn to except yourself how and who you are.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:18 PM
1

I heard that Sperm Wars is based in broscience
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:38 PM
1

Oh, okay. I took it mostly as you having issues to escalate: going for a kiss, escalating towards sex, getting erection, having satisfying sex. Other than that, you might try being emotionally open. I not talking about whining and crying to a chick and shit, rather about being confident in saying to a chick what you like/dislike (in sex and in life), not being afraid to say that you have flaws (again not crying about them) things along those lines. Example from what I'm dealing with: I have issu…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:15 PM
3

Self-esteem issues. The lack of sexual experience. The regular stuff. Only practice will fix that.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:56 PM
1

From your post I got that you're 29 and lack sexual experience. And you never had a gf. You're deprived from intimacy. It'll sound harsh, but you have no clue what's 'natural'. I do sympathise with you though. I myself only in the past 6 months started to see the light on the same issues. Obviously, you'll get there with practice and time. Give yourself a break though. Don't be tough or angry with yourself. Also, yeah I get it gf might not sound like an ideal thing right now, but concentrating o…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 02:49 PM
1

True. Yet there's something to be said about one's ability to not get effected by 'hate' from people. Way more difficult than taking 'love'.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 01:15 PM
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He wrote excellently reasoned, focused thoughts. The "posing" is projection. He wrote exact basic ideas that are repeated here ad infinitum without any infusion of his own personal understanding (which is fine he's only 17). It's pretty much definition of posing. He repeats what he read. It's obvious he doesn't 'get it' yet.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 01:06 PM
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If he is 17, it's even more scary. Op just parrots trp rhetoric as if he's having a test on it. Zero awareness of oneself, zero critical thinking. Which is fine, he's only 17. He thinks he knows better than he does. But I can already see how even the good stuff from trp can be misinterpreted by him and lead to extremely toxic mentality. He's already on his way tbh.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 01:00 PM
5

I'll reframe your question for you: Alright, guys, I've never lifted in my life. I had two training sessions in 2016 that were so so. How can I excess the strength needed to pull 500lbs deadlift? Practice, man. Practice. And to comment on why are you avoiding that practice, or rather play safe with chicks, is because you're anxious as fuck. I know the feel, man. Talking with a chick and having fun is almost easy. I've learned that much. Getting sexual, whether verbally or physically is damn diff…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 11:55 AM
1

No. Pheni is pretty much banned to sell online. It was always in a sort of grey area. You should rather look for it on gym supplements sites. It is sold as a sleeping aid. Be warned though, pheni builds tolerance real quick and there are some horror stories of people who where too weak to keep a strict dosing schedule with it. That said sleep is fucking amazing on it.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:46 PM
5

You can't not feel emotions. You can't not feel hurt. All you can do is get used to it through experience and also understand it's not what you feel but how you react to things that matter more.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:32 PM
1

You really don't make out with your plates?
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:18 PM
2

No man enjoys texting with a chick. This is a lie men tell themselves to justify doing what is essentially a service for a women. You are generalising here. There was a time when I enjoyed chatting with chicks online and text. You could argue that the reasons I enjoyed it were misguided, but you can't argue how much fun I had. And I did have a blast of good feels doing that. [...]would you enjoy texting her if you knew she was sucking another guy's while doing it? Would you enjoy approaching a c…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 07:50 AM
3

It's fear. No one wants to get hurt. It fucking sucks. Hating on females and using exploitative and manipulative tactics (I'm not saying that trp is only that by the way) are a defense mechanism. Also, there's a part of ego tripping. When you finally get the "power" back it's difficult not to slip to the dark side. It's so tempting haha
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 04:44 PM
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I think the point was that he enjoyed texting with a chick. If he did it because he though that will lead into sex. So, he did it in expense of himself, then yeah, he's being a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 04:30 PM
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Agree. If they already ended then things fucking ended, backtracking will only make things worse. This sounds like an ego thing, like "oh, I'm a better person now than I was before. I need to show how much of a better person I am and 'end it' on a better person level I am... I'm a better person."
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:15 PM
1

I believe listening is a skill one has to work on, to not only hear what a person is saying, but to actually understand (body language, tonalities and all that bs). And then when you understand what the hell that person means by his communication, one can empathise.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:09 PM
8

The scale is bs. You either feel the tingles in your dick, looking at or interacting with a chick, or you don't.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:04 PM
2

I absolutely agree. One of the most healthy and realistic views on dating I've ever found.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:02 PM
1

It's not a question of if there's something wrong, rather how much. Op won't be able to fix her, but at least he can try and become friends; to care and listen. She'll appreciate that.. fuck, any person will.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:00 PM
3

Kind of vague question, so I'll give you a vague answer. Always trust your gut. If something is feeling dodgy, chances are it is.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:51 PM
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It's pretty accurate though. Shitesting is a form of low self-esteem. A women aquivalent of "cat-calling" if you will.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:46 AM
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As far as my experience reading the book, Mark explains exactly what it means by "being vulnerable". And it's not about dumping your emotions on a chick or Being a victim to shield oneself from hurt. It's essentially an abundance mentality thing, knowing who and how you are and being okay expressing that.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:44 AM
3

I don't get op's question, the book pretty much explains this in more detail, what exactly means to be vulnerable.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:39 AM
1

Yes. Thanks for that.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:44 PM
1

That sounds like a very badass job, I'm moist. Anyways good luck.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:42 PM
2

I get that, but in my eyes it looks like you're complaining about flipping burgers when you have a job at McDonald's. Either change your job or, if you want to stay in the current system, work your ass off till you're in position of power and can take no shits from no one.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:29 PM
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Isn't the whole idea of a military to do what's asked from a commanding officer (the alpha) no questions asked. And it does make sense. In a time of conflict when you're deployed and have a exponentially higher chance of being killed, it seems absolutely unwise to try act "alpha" and shit. The system is made to keep as many soldiers alive as possible. Taking up yours is for your own benefit (sure there could be an argument made about the time of peace, but that's besides the point). I've never b…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:17 PM
1

Buy bitcoin. The end, really. That's not what I'm looking for. I want to learn about Investing first (and after about bitcoin), understand it and (maybe eventually) know what exactly I am buying and why.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 11:41 AM
2

You might be right. Yet, even though, I don't know enough about relative fields to quote anything, I think there has been done some amount of work, if not on human then definitely, on animal social behaviours and traits, to base explanation of at least some of the behaviours and/or traits you mentioned, that the proverbial alpha has to posses. Maybe not. I don't know. I get that personal experiences form the subjective reality of a person, so my comment was more of a reaction to the "harsh" and …
/r/askTRP26/02/18 01:06 PM
1

Preach, brotha, preach. It's all about lack of assertiveness. The When I Say No, I Feel Guilty book is great.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 11:55 AM
2

Don't take offence, but what are the basis of these claims? Where are you pulling this from, besides it being your world view?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:47 AM
1

This here is some kid of fetish Brokeback Mountain fanfic, right? Shouldn't't there be a lesson here or something...it's just weird.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 02:51 PM
3

You have insecurities. That's a fact. Sooner or later that shit surfaces and you have to deal with them. Sure, you can prevent one instance of them, but if you don't work on them they will always bother you and cause pain in your life. So, it wasn't a mistake. It's who you are right now. And if you don't like how you are now you can changed that. You'll be fine, man.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 02:41 PM
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So the mistake here is getting oneitis? And the advice is how to not get the feels? How about you grow some balls and live through all of it. Make mistakes. Get the feels. Fuck it all up. Loose the chick. Embrace it all. Advice like this sounds like a shortcut. There're no shortcuts. Emotionally imbalanced guy gets too clingy and fucks his relationship with big tits Betty. Oh, well... that's who he is at that moment in time. And he has to lose this chick so he can gain experience and a lesson ou…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 12:08 PM
1

I don't like the whole concept of "testing" as a basis for communication between sexes. It just creates unnecessary stress and makes everything "us vs them" thing. It's unhelpful. That said, sure, people test each other. But, in my opinion, any that "shit tests" other people has issues. It's just that person's insecurities shinning through. Oh, one other thing. Mark Mansin also advocates against rating women 1-10. According to him one should really want to meet women because of personality and n…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:28 AM
1

I don't know hoe to put it in short manner, but essentially the I idea is... Only a manipulative woman shit test and play "hard to get" games. That if a women is of sound self esteem she will not do none of those things with you (assuming that you yourself are mentally healthy human being). Anyway, this all means that there's no need to learn how to deal with "shit tests" and all that crap. Cuz even if you deal with all that manipulative bullshit from a women, what's the point? She's still the s…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:05 PM
1

The advice becomes shorter and more to the point because the market has changed. Through the years the market became educated towards the "game" and so the same marketing tactics doesn't work anymore. Also, it seems that a trend of "no bullshit advice" became more popular (in all things not only manosphere) then again it might not be a trend rather market awareness morphed into a different stage.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:14 PM
2

Models (but I guess everyone on this sub already read that) I doubt it. It might be just me, but I have an impression that peps here gravitate towards more "pickupy" stuff. Models is a nice book, though. I'm enjoying it very much.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:04 PM
1

"We don't know" yes. Simple as that. The reasons why shootings happen, is quite a touchy subject that requires extensive research to draw any sort of conclusions. And even then requires precision to leave as little room for misinterpretation as possible. For everyone's sake. Anyways, this whole tone, generalised and absolutist, "THE only reason why!" is quite ignorant and, in my opinion, not helpful.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 01:25 PM
2

"Models" -- Mark Manson. Honestly, I'm only a 1/3 in, but I very dig the philosophy it's based on. No, sleazy artificial 'game' techniques and shit, but down to earth emotionally mature teachings.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:28 PM
28

Numbers game, man. You can't draw any conclusions from 2 incidents.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 02:02 PM
2

I'd say you look like 95% boyfriend material.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:10 PM
15

Always assume dtf.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:08 PM
3

"I feel guilty when I say no" the author ran an assertiveness course. There's quite a few dialogue examples if you onto things like that, you can get a better idea what's it all about. Also, there actual techniques you can implement in your communication (although it needs some practice, cuz without you can come off as rehearsed and a bit spergy). That said, the books main idea is that assertiveness is an opposite of manipulation. So, if you want to be assertive, you have to stop being even in a…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 11:14 AM
2

Not saying that there's no lerning curve to get good with women, no matter if you're good lookin or not, but still I do believe that pua industry sells nothing but air. I looked up this program, one of the RSD dudes have, The Natural. One of the dudes I know said he was going through it and I got curious what's it all abiut. Anyways, the "basic" level of that program (a bunch of online videos) go for $300. And the "platinum" version (which includes stuff like: access to a facebook group and some…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 12:45 PM
3

But see good looking ripped guys don't buy pua bullshit, because they get attention form women because of their attractiveness. And you won't hook fedora skinny indians into buying pua bullshit if you sell a workout program, instead of magic bullet in a string of words.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:39 AM
14

Better to be his own man than cover oneself with labels whether it's trp, mgtow or a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:34 AM
1

If it's your first time approaching, it means nothing.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 11:51 AM
1

True. More specifically what I ment was, instead doing things like surfing web or gaming, replace that with reading.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:00 PM
4

Don't waste your time on that. You'll only get more tacky and overcomplicated stuff than in The Book of Pook. You just rather stick with Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:32 PM
1

Also start reading. That'll be your second. And if you keep only those 2, in 5 years (college time baby!) You'll be the baddest motherfucker in town.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:24 PM
1

I'm just going expand on the first point (I do agree though with your second). Even though, yes, one can learn to be fluent in English (or any language for that matter) to a degree of sounding like a native speaker (takes loads of effort obviously), it doesn't fucking matter. There's a self esteem issues that gives those feels not your lack of proficiency in a language.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:21 PM
3

I haven't read everything on that sub but from what I read the most interesting ideas/articles for me were: Because, in a general case trp is found by men that are not psychologically/emotionally healthy (a.k.a have issues, whether it's because of being raised by a single mom, childhood abuse, getting fucked by a women, etc) and adding to that the anonymity of reddit, it's impossible to prove that what people post on trp, besides: lift, read, build an interesting life, is legit. Which basically …
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:11 PM
3

If it is. I don't get the point of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 04:48 PM
7

No, I haven't. An argument not based in logic or reason is a fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:59 PM
6

Yeah, you might be right about that too. Personal attack is still a logical fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:29 PM
9

You might be right. But because of a few, what seems like, attacks on a person himself, it, at least to some extent, looks like it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:11 PM
11

Go with online dating. It's low pressure and (depending where you live) you can play lots of numbers. Lift for around 6 months. Clean up your style (haircut, clothing and hygiene) Take 3 photos of yourself (even a mirror selfie will do as long as the pic quality is not shit) Sign up for 2-3 most popular in your area dating apps (free ones). Blast all chicks in you area with "Hi, how are you?" (Though be prepared mostly get answers from chicks 1-2 points lower in smv than you) Set first date as q…
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:45 AM
9

I agree with this comment wholeheartedly. Thay said, I do want to read JP's book though to fully grasp what he means with the "clean you room" thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:10 AM
1

Reality seems to be that most ECs on the sub, rather then arguing the ideas they don't agree with, will bash the person those ideas come from and use their EC status as as proof of them being right. And also use "anger" as an argument, which is just baffling. At least the way it is written seems like it. And I agree with you that this post comes of as more of attack on a person rather then argent against ideas. "Don't listen to JP because he's skinny and looks low T and is married". Maaaan... th…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 09:01 AM
25

To be honest, op did write a few adhominems aimed at JP, which takes away from his "mindless followers" point.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 08:48 AM
2

You should try reading more, if you feel that you can't learn from books. Books are like a teabag and mind is like hot water. The longer you soak the tea bag the stronger the tea.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 11:33 AM
1

There's a speech on youtube JP givesfor How To Academy about his book. Goes trough all, basically gives and extended summary. You can check it out before deciding to buy.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 11:30 AM
2

Shouldn't your plate (especially if she's potential gf) come clean instantly and spill everything that happened while you were passed out? I mean she's a bad gf if you have to force her to do so.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:57 PM
3

There's a saying: "Leaders are readers". So yeah reading is good habit to have. For me it always seems that after reading one book (even though while reading it it seems mind blowing) there's no much difference. Nothing really changed. Yet when I think in retrospect in the past 5 years or so, it's mind blowing how much my thinking changed. Anyways, if I were you I'd just do whatever is required at school and then read as much shit that interests me as I can. I might even give my self a goal of r…
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:58 PM
5

Or simply put, they have lower self-esteem.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 11:41 AM
1

Jesus, I don't even know half of the user names you listed. You defo spend too much on reddit. P.s. redpill is not my life.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 07:03 PM
2

If that's what you worry yourself with, you spent too much time on reddit.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 06:46 PM
2

If women would live moment by moment (and in the moment?) all of them would happy (as per definition of nirvana in Buddhism). Yet that is not the case. Or maybe I misunderstood the op's point.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 05:10 PM
3

Whatever you think she's doing, she seems to be successful. You lost your head for her.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:30 PM
2

(With this comment I assume you have abundance to a point that you can just walk out on her right now.) Be assertive. Tell her that she's acting like a brat and you don't like that. That expresing love is mutual and that you won't spoil her if you don't feel like it. And if she doen't find it enough as is you might not be compatible and you should end it. After you expressed yourself and she shows no change in her behaviour, there 's nothing much else to do, but walk away.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:27 PM
9

You only feeling this defensive about your lil bro because you are still shocked from your divorce. You're projecting. You are plagued by a nagging feel (might not even be conscious) that all relationships will end up as yours has. Deal with this first. Find peace with what happened. So when your little brother ends up (hopefully not) in a situation you had, then you will be able to feel for him and help him. For now, your little brother will be just fine.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:14 PM
6

A response to op that is based in real life and not just theoretical sound-good rethoric. This is not as common as one'd expect on this sub. Thanks.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 01:03 PM
1

For that to work one first has to desensitise his dopamine receptors. It's just like porn overuse. One needs some time of to start getting his dick hard with real chicks again.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:17 PM
2

Really depends what kind of credentials Rollo has. I'm not familiar that much with his work, but if he has no studies or analysis to back his claims off, JP will demolish him.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 11:52 AM
6

This seems like the most grounded and helpful response here. Other responces of "become friends", in my view, are quite silly. Friendship requires both parties to want to become friends. If only op will show the interest he'll be an orbiter nothing more, and will get even more shit from that dude. Although it's hard to tell, maybe the alpha dude wants to be friends with op and all those jabs is his way of showing that. But if op does not see that, then their not that great of a match.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:54 AM
1

Yes, you don't care about me and I'm a waste of your effort and time. Yet you still wrote a comment after you said you're "done." Your clinginess to prove that you're "alpha" is blinding your logic.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 06:12 PM
1

But see, that was my point. You assume that it's negativity but if you haven't read it you cannot know, what tone it has or what it actually says. You have a nice day. We're done here. This is a very passive agresive way of ending an argument. It clearly shows your want to gain power in our exchange and be in control and only a person who feels that he lacks those things go this way to try and obtain then. Simply put you are losing frame here. Anyways, there's no need to amog me, man. Believe it…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:38 PM
1

Why with the personal attack, man? What point to the discussion/conversation does it add? Anyways, have you went through that sub and read anything to see where it's coming from? Or are you just assuming that you know what's there? I'm not holding a position that that sub (specifically I'm talking about the exredpill sub here) is correct, rather I'm holding a position of (to repeat myself): it's wise to read both (or how many there are) sides of the narrative and make a decision that best suits …
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:17 PM
1

It's always wise to learn about both sides of the story. Then after you can choose what works for oneself. It's your life, you do you. That said, endorsed contributors here bashing the pov of that sub kind of prove it's point (at least about TRP being like a cult). It's super hypocritical of people here in general, claim tjat they are "better men" then "they" (blue pill boys) and yet lash out hate on them. Express what fucking idiots all of them are for not believing what trp believes. I guess i…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:35 PM
8

I guess, she's not that great if she's a feminist.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 01:01 PM
1

That's a fallacy my man. Just because "pick up community" says something doesn't mean it's correct. For a dtf chick your vocation will never be a problem. Never. Unless, that chick is looking for a provider of course...
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:10 AM
7

No, it's not an important topic. No chick will say no to your dick and ripped body if you tell her that you work at Walmart. Unless she wants to pin you down for a ring. But that's not the game we play here.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:41 AM
6

Also when you fap to porn you train yourself to cum in a specific way (in my case sitting down) which makes it difficult to keep an erection and cum when I change positions (which happens while having sex).
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:39 PM
4

Mystery. Fucking hell... you reminded me how overcomplicated his shit was. As a kid who did not knew any better I though that it's magic, but damn the whole style (the peacocking) they propagated and the inflexible "7 hours to fuck" rule was ridiculous. Also, the absolute blind eye they had for "looks"/"lifting" just to convince skinny fat indian dudes to buy their overpriced bootcamps... very slwazy stuff.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 10:15 PM
13

It sounds like you believe that puas invented these concepts of communication. No they did not. Puas got all of those concepts from books that people like JP wrote. Puas invent nothing. They merely put a catchy name, packaged them into "programs"/"bootcamps" and sold to frustrated dudes as quick solution to all of there problems.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 09:58 PM
4

Sociopathy -- antisocial personality disorder. That seems to be the main difference between the two. Just because a person has trait that could be interpreted by a layman as Sociopathic or Psychopathic does not mean that that person is a (clinical definition of) Sociopath or Psychopath. Anyways, my point is both of these are clinical disorders (a.k.a sick people). It makes no sense, for a person who strives to have a healthy mindset, to model his life/behaviours according to what sick people do.…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 02:40 PM
3

Psychopaths/Sociopaths do not have relationships with a healthy human beings. A chick (or a dude) must be all sort of fuck up to go into relationship with an unstable person. Which for me means that it doesn't matter for how long or what quality of relatioship they hold. It's like taking advice on lifting from an obese person. The whole premise is flawed.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:51 PM
1

Yeah, man, sounds like an issues of practice. Go all in with online dating. You being in great shape will give you a lot of possibilities to practice with women (talking with them, escalating and eye contact). For me eye contact is related to my mood. If I feel great it's much easier to look people in the eye. That said, this sort of sound like a mental crutch you made for yourself. If you really have that self esteem and you don't have anxiety, who cares if you can't hold eye contact. Approach …
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:31 PM
7

Do whatever you want, man. It's your grandmother, it's your grief (grieve?).
/r/askTRP18/01/18 10:07 PM
1

Your only question should be here: Do I want to fuck her? If yes: You ask her out (to do some extra work after work or some shit). If not: You ignore her (but remain polite).
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:43 PM
3

She might be raised that way and genuinely values family and being a mom etc. Or it could be a stage. She 's obviously getting tons of validation from people (being fit, having fit bf and being pregnant). She basically has a jackpot of being a chick: looks good, has commitment from a sexy dude and all the validation she can take.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:33 PM
2

"Nice guy" will sacrifice his well being, needs, wants etc to try to manipulate women (people) to get sex or intimacy. "Nice guy" says: " Oh, I'm such a great person. I did this thing, that I didn't want to, so now you have to repay me with pussy! Bitch!" A genuinely good person might do things that are labaled as "beta" here, but the difference is that he'll do it because he wants to, there's no alterior motive to weasel some pussy time out of it. So yeah, don't be "nice" (do nice things) to a …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 09:23 PM
4

Dude, just ask her out. What the fuck are you trying to accomplish with these stupid "mind games."
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:08 PM
2

This post is the definition of answering with: "Read the sidebar."
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:05 PM
2

When you start getting more eye contact. And when chicks (the one you work with) will start being nice to you and give you more attention. Remember, women don't have to talk to you. If they stay around and talk to you it's either their job or they like you.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:44 AM
2

Don't be an idiot and don't accumulate debt. Live frugally and you'll be one happy motherfucker even without big money.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:28 AM
2

Soner or later it will get better. In spots like these having faith is good. Whether it's gods or whatever (me personally, I believe in "everything's going to be ok"). Just remind yourself that it will pass, that it's only emotions, it's not you.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:26 PM
1

Positive thinking, putting myself first, not engaging in any drama, fitness. (In that order).
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:16 PM
1

No, it was not an IOI.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:13 PM
2

Find a place you could hang alone (preferably your home or hers) and make out for hours.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:25 PM
3

Invite her to your (or her) place for a movie.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:23 PM
5

On okc there's a rule: the more different orientations chicks put there the crazier they are.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:22 PM
1

If you eat lower your matanance you will lose weight. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:13 PM
14

Find other chicks and fuck them.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:11 PM
1

I see your point. Still could be a trap. That said, there's one guy that comes to mind who does pull that shit off Chris Ramsey on youtube. He has a style and chops and attitude. And I think he started quite late too.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:22 PM
3

The better you look the worse pictures you can have and still see good results. If you look like a GQ model, selfies will be fine.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:17 PM
1

Ones ripness has a reverse proportion to pic quality.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 07:00 PM
2

Short answers: Go on a few dates. Long answer: Either approach, ask a chick out from your social circle or blast online. Go on a few dates. Try to enjoy them. Try to fuck the girl you like. P.s. the shitty feels you have right now will pass (and will reaper again, and will disappear again and...)
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:56 PM
3

Did I handle this right? You'll find out on Wednesday.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:48 PM
2

Nothing is black or white my man. Also, I can't believe you don't see how hypocritical you sound wishing ill on someone while pretending to be redpill. From your comments you sound like a bitter and stubborn person
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:24 PM
1

Are trying to moralize me now? Just, calm down, man.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 04:01 PM
5

It's work, man. Be prepared to take shit from your superiors. From the pov of your boss, It's not personal it's about the business and making money first. I think it's silly to try and "destroy" shit tests that come from anyone above you. That's seems like a recipe to get on a bad aide of people who can make your work unnecessary difficult. Also, you can always quit, if things get too shitty.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:15 PM
1

It doesn't matter if the first one is good or witty or whatever. It matters if she answers "yes" to the second one. Unless you are trying to be a comedian it doesn't matter how funny you are in real life as long as you have the idgaf attitude.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:07 PM
3

No disrespect and too each it's own. But magic is the dorkiest hobbies you could have. Unless you get into it in middle school and ride it out and by your mid 20's you have the chops to balance the dorkines it's fine. But grow ass man getting into magic is kind of cringe. But then again, if you like it, who gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:59 PM
1

K, dad.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:46 PM
1

Come on, man. Dude's working in some shitty pizza place and is very obviously inexperienced with chicks. It's not a big loss.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:33 PM
1

Ask him out. Are you seriously live 20cmin of each other and haven't hung out for 2 years? Ask him out go for a beer or juice or whatever.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:06 PM
1

Are you a pro? I mean are you making money of your music at the moment and you have deadlines? Or is it a hobby at the moment? If it just a hobby you could just quit your pc for a few months. The passions to make music if it's there won't disappear. After a few months when you "reboot" your pc using habit you can come back and use it again (or not). I'm not into making music but that's what I'm planning to do right now (as a new years resolution, I guess lol).
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 02:06 PM
1

If you get hangovers, you drink too much.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:06 PM
0

Sarcamsm is a the lowest form of wit. Requires no though or skill. And for some reason all chicks think it's the shit and they like to brag about it: "omg, I'm, like totally fluent in sarcams!"
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:04 PM
1

Concentrate on losing your V. That'll eleviate a lot of bad feels you have about being a virgin. And you'll come to realisation that sex is not as amazing (at first) as you think currently.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:56 PM
10

It's like "helping" means punching that women in the face and ripping her luggage out of the luggage compartment, rather then... You know, starting with "Excuse me, would you like some help with that?"
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:09 PM
18

Did you just quote yourself?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 03:31 PM
236

Her behaviour was ludacris
/r/PussyPassDenied14/11/17 11:29 AM
1

I had in mind strippers only. Strippers are not emotionally/mentally healthy people. I mean we all have issues but you defo have to have bigger issues than normal to strip as a carer choice.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 02:14 PM
1

They have nothing other to offer besides their pussies and have no other skills besides fucking.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 06:10 PM
1

And smoking, and buzz, and maybe singing.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:53 AM
1

Semantics.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:27 PM
1

So how long do you think until it bursts?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:38 PM
9

Damn, you escalated into full black gangsta real quick lol
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 02:37 PM
2

But is not that the trend, for the past years, is that bc goes up? I don't follow these things, so I could very well be wrong, but I have this picture in my mind I made from bits and pieces of info seen on reddit, that bc grew from being worth a few hundred bucks to being worth a few thousand. Is that right? I know there was a big crash of bt a few years back which seemed like the bt bubble finally burst, but since then it seems to rose back (and past) the highs it was before. Again, chances are…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:16 PM
2

You're bad at sex. It's that simple. You just need more practice and you'll condition yourself to enjoy it, and cum. I'm in a similar spot. I can cum to porn (or just jerking of by myself) easily, yet railling pussy feels like nothings happening. After 20 min I'm exhausted and it becomes boring lol. But everytime I fuck a chick I'm seeing right now, I can feel getting more and more into having sex. It's similar to the "mind muscle connection" in the gym. The first workout you don't feel shit, bu…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 02:05 PM
1

Why not now?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:49 PM
1

You could try making affirmations out of that list and doing 100 reps each morning and evening for at least a month. Will it help? Well, it will eleviete the symptoms. P.s. actually look up what an effective affirmation is, rather than just repeating shit that won't stick.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 11:56 AM
1

What exactly goes into the salad? Just greens (kale, spinnach, etc) or also things like tomatoes, carrots, etc?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:12 PM
2

Could you give an example what does your average diet looks like (for example, what did you eat yesterday)?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 01:46 PM
4

Unless you arrived before you hit 11 years old, or you had some professional vocal couching classes, you do have an accent (might not be thick as fresh fob, but it's there).
/r/askTRP18/10/17 01:06 PM
1

If you want to have fun do whatever is more fun for you. If you want to escalate with a chick do the "netflixxx & chill" thing. If the chick is into you sexually she'll be down for that. If not, there's no date idea that can save you. P.s. I completely blanked on "it's a first date" thing. Anyways, point is if the chick is into you she'll be down with a simple walk in a park as a date. No need to do anything "fun" or "special" if you don't feel like it.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 11:51 AM
2

Could it be that you don't fuck that good? She gave you 2 tries and you did not impress her, so there was no third.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:09 PM
2

You're right, it doesn't count when it's in the ass.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 02:00 PM
1

Yeah, I get. It's a joke.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:45 PM
4

Netflixxx & Chill
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:44 AM
1

It makes them feel special in a 2edgy4me type of way
/r/askTRP17/10/17 10:41 AM
2

Yes, it's called asktrp Aaaayyyyoooo..
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:32 AM
2

You haven't seen Rick and Morty, have you? It's quite an over hyped adult cartoon show on Adult Swim. Anyways, there's an episode where a Butter Passing Robot realises his purpose.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:04 PM
5

Dude, get of reddit. Take a break and do something fun instead. This is over-thinking at it's finest.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:59 PM
2

You fell for a joke, my man.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:55 PM
5

First thing you need to do is stop with this "I'm so dramatic" nonsense. Find yourself a hobby and stop going to r/incels
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:38 PM
8

You sound like a stereotypical incel. I bet you study the blade in your spare time. Theraphy, is the best thing you can do for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 02:09 PM
5

You said you're not exclusive, so what's the problem? Stop being Sherlock Homo and just have fun times with her while you have your turn.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:51 AM
1

When you spreg like that, nothing feels natural.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:35 AM
1

Basic idea is what people already said, but if you have phobias or some deep fears it's not that simple to get rid of them. Look up Systematic Desensitisation.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:55 AM
1

This all sounds nice and good, but it's not practical (as in you can't apply this practically). Meditation and Mindfulness practice is much better.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:52 AM
3

It was a shitty motel room with bordered windows. Dude, had no money at the time.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:57 PM
4

Btw Stallone got famous after he closed himslef in a room for 2 weeks and wrote Rocky script, sold it for 100k+ and pushed himself into the lead role.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:53 PM
1

Come on dude. I get it, ego hurts, but try to keep it real for your pwnn sake. You're not smooth. You're inexperienced and the nerves got better of you. Shit happens. Try to set up a date again, but this time, instead of yapping your mouth, trying to be casanova and shit, go for a kiss, physically touch her. If you can't set up a date or she's a no show, forget her.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:34 AM
1

Oh, you're definitely overthinking this shit. Instead of that passive text "say hi to me next time" (which made her think that you're not into her) you should've texted "we should meet and catch up, when are you free/are you free on x?" It's quite simple really, if a woman reaches out to you she's absolutely interested in your dick (sure, context is kind yada yada, but im this case it's clear).
/r/askTRP15/10/17 11:24 AM
3

Yeah, and the effort required is something that most people will not put in and won't get the result like dudes on pegym. You have to keep in mind dudes their take that shit very serious, it's their hobby, their thing.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:50 AM
12

I don't know, this all looks quite ok, even emotionally healthy. You lost someone you cared about. So, yeah, there'll be some emotional distress about it, it's normal. Give yourself time. Emotional strength is not about feeling no emotions, it's about knowing that you can survive all your emotions and be just fine and the end.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 10:45 AM
1

It's not the girls that are shy, but you are shy.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:11 AM
1

Now you'll never know. This whole post is just your resolanisation for the regret you feel. It's fine though. That's life. Make mistakes, regret and shit. If your goal is to have sex, then drop this "don't want to be a pushover" nonsense. In this case your fantasy of being "alpha" cost you to fulfill a goal you had (get that sweet pussy juice).
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:08 AM
1

First 3 points stand on an unwise belief of "I'm not good enough". Seek some info on that and how to overwrite it. The 4th point you have to work on abelief that "no matter what happens, I am going to be ok" actually make this your default state (takes time). And for point 5. There's no such thing as "text game". If you're attractive enough and a chick is loose enough she'll send you all sort of kinky shit. But keep in mind, you can't fuck pictures.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:01 AM
1

Yeah, who could've though... she's having fun at the party, being busy, and doesn't have much time writing you a wall of text like she did pre-party when she had more time. You're creating something that doesn't exist. She's as into you as she was before the party, but if you keep being passive sje quickly won't be. You could've went to the party and had a makeout sesh with her, fingered her, sucked her titties etc, you know, have fun, but anxiety overwhelmed you. Which is fine but don't kid you…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 11:31 PM
10

This is beyond retarded. You're acting like a spoiled brat. She genuinely could not make it a day before, but now she wants to meet, but you go all "Bohoohoho bu I wanted yesterday bohooho" Is your want to be "macho" (in your mind) stronger than want to fuck some pussy?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:17 PM
3

Don't get cocky. It's not a win for you. You're just able to save some face in her eyes.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:13 PM
2

Go and fuck her. If she's not totally disappointed after the first encounter she'll keep in touch with you. If you pass her threshold for looks, she'll give you a second chance no matter what happens. If you really above her smv she'll even guve you a 3 chance.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:09 PM
4

You want to spare your ego? Lie. But have a believable excuse.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 10:02 PM
1

Do whatever you want to do. But be real with yourself. You want to approach because you really don't care or because you're anxious?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:42 PM
4

Well if you read r/nofap it's pretty great thing. You get superpowers like flying, ability to make any woman orgasm just by staring at her, almost perfect invulnerability, super-genius levels intellect and mastery of every know method of communication (people, animals, robots), to name a few. For real, besides of a way to practice disciple, there's no point in doing it.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:39 PM
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Well, first thing you need to do is take full responsibility of your life (I'm talking about attitude here). I give you that it's not full on "woe is me" post, but it does feel that you hold yourself a victim of circumstance in your life. That's the main thing to change. You must feel responsible for everything that happens (your or out of your control) in your life. Not blame yourself, but know that you can change your life how you please (obviously hard work and time needed, yada yada).
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:43 PM
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To answer the question in the title: Yes. There's a good rule of thumb that I figured out reflecting on my past interactions with women: If you don't talk (escalate) with a chick she assumes you are not interested in her. P.s. that whole "I hold frame by being cool" thing is just you being anxious to be direct with her and ask her out (make a move). It's ok though, it's ok to feel anxious/overwhelmed, but keep it real dude. It's not swag.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 07:35 PM
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Ok. Makes sense. Well, first off my username checks out. I'm not a virgin but far from experienced (had p in v sex only with 2 chicks) so don't expect me to give you mind-blowing advice. That said, talking from experience, I have to say there's no easy way out. I had to directly work on my insecurities. Sure some insecurities dissolved with general life experience, but others persist. I had to put (still do) conscious effort and work on those insecurities (i.e. work on my beliefs). A simple prac…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 05:39 PM
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No. Definately not soap smell. I'm talking about natural smell of a women (sweat, skin, hair). Sure, I'm talking about a clean chick, but not about cosmetics.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/17 04:26 PM
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No. I have done enough texting to get that there's no such thing like "text game"
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:05 PM
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Honestly, there's nothing to practice. It's quite a time waste.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:58 PM
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But for real, have you had sex with a tgirl? I read somewhere that even if tgirl is feminine enough so you look at her as a women, the smell is the last thing that fucks with your perception. I wonder if that's true (no I'm not curious enough to bag a tchick).
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/17 03:40 PM
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What? ONS has a pretty clear definition. You have sex with a women on your first meet and never see her again -- a.k.a. One Night Stand.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:22 PM
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This is way too much overanalyzing for my taste. Also, all that banter is so lame (not judging tho, I've done that myself). Anyways, stop with all this "game," and "pua" bullshit, you're just playing yourself at this point. Text her "let's watch a movie at my place" there's no way for her weasel out of this. And if she comes to yours and still is against having sex, well... you send her home after the movie ends and never text/talk to her again (minus the formalities at uni).
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:17 PM
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Yes, you making it a big deal when it isn't. It's a compliment, take say thanks and ask her out.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:06 PM
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This is fucking hilarious. Fucking dudes to save your marriage. Now that's dedication.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/17 02:40 PM
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What about the smell? Chicks smell like chicks (you know, rainbows and unicorn farts), but dudes smell like dudes.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/17 02:38 PM
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You don't actually become friends with chicks (at least it looks nothing like friendship between dudes). With chicks you just hang out. You might fuck, you might not, depends on the "friendship." Chicks are for relaxing, talking about nothing, joking around, teasing her, fucking. You don't brainstorm ideas when you chill with a chick, you don't try to solve problems or engage in mind tingling debates. I mean you can, but if you want to maintain (what I would call) a healthy dynamic between you (…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:30 PM
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For a new gym goer there's no such thing as "focusing on a body part" (unless we talking about rehabilitation work). Do full body work outs 3x / week. Al exercises with barbells or body weight (for example pull ups/chin ups). There's really nothing special about you nor routine you should use (unless you have some medical issues). Eat good and learn good form on all exercises. That should keep you busy for at least 6 months.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:54 PM
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r/iamverysmart
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:48 PM
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Why not just tell her that you can't meet her, if you can't meet her? What is this passive aggressive bullshit? Oh wait, you actually wanted to meet her the time and day she suggested you should meet? But because you she was eager to set-up plans while you did not answer her you want to punish her? Do you even see how ridiculous your frame of mind is here? Plus it's really cringy.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 02:45 PM
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Stand up does nothing for your conversational skills. By studying standup you'll become a good comedian, not a good conversationalist. I'm talking from (limited stand up, but still) personal experience.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:43 AM
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Go and talk with people. Do you even hear how silly it sounds to read a book to learn how to talk? You're not running for a managerial position or something, you don't need to learn psychological dynamics in groups to optimise productivity or some shit... Just get more practice. Engage in more small talk about whether and mundane bullshit.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:39 AM
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What is this, high-school? Stop playing games and just ask her out. You can't build attraction through text.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:31 AM
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Support groups are for weak people. Well, yeah. That's the point, is it not? I mean, if you're a strong person you don't have issues with substance abuse or addictions. Can't you see how that takes the pressure off the individual to take agency for his own decisions and actions? The problem is , you're giving a person with addictive predilections a very seductive "way out" of actually finding the discipline and drive INTERNALLY to fix the issue Again, isn't that the point? (To some extent). xA m…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:52 PM
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I'm just trying to understand what you're saying.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:44 PM
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So you saying that for this particular chick, her porn preferences definitely show that she wants to live that (e.i she wants a black dude)?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:56 PM
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A goddamn legend!
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:03 PM
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If she truly wanted black dick, why didn't she left op earlier? Or for that matter why even get into a relationship with white dude if you are more attracted to black dudes?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:56 AM
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Yeah it tells something about your psyche, but it doesn't mean that you will act on that even if you have a chance. One of the top fetishes in porn is "taboo"(moms/sons, siblings, dads/daughters). People love to get of to that in private. But noone actually seeks out ( in general) sex with their family. Same goes with other fetishes bbc, rape etc. That said, sure some fetishes would be easier to act on in real life and some are not that taboo, especially in our "you go girl" society, but still i…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:41 AM
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I was with you at the start but then you lost me... I mean AA is clearly effective as a support group. People do stop drinking and confront their reasons whay they started. And people tend to come back to AA (and other such support groups) after they overcome their vise... well, for support. It's on the same level as if you would go for advice/support to your dad/mentor etc. Talking, specifically about nofapers, yeah I do agree it's not the best place to hang around. They view is a bit too dogma…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:45 PM
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Gratitude practice Changing your belief system Changing your thinking patterns Affirmations / Meditation / Relaxation exercises / Prayers (in non religious sense of the word) And you'll need some time and persistence to study and do all of the above. A good resource of all this is lifemanagementallience.com Seems like old shitty website, but has all the info. Obviously, adding to all that keeping yourself in good health (diet, lifting) helps too.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:00 PM
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Are you talking from experience? If so how do you manage that with your day work?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:36 AM
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I'm curious. How do you reconcile the fact of men being inherently worthless with the overwhelming pride (nowadays and especially in the past) that fathers feel in having a son (and in the context of the past, shame in having a daughter)?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 05:30 PM
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It comes from distinct set of beliefs his life is based around. Those beliefs come from experience and/or parents (which essentially is also experience).
/r/askTRP05/10/17 01:35 PM
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Should one act like an overcompensating know-it-all asshole who still doesn't know how to do said activity? Why not just be a curious person who wants to experience new said activity, free from all the "acting"?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 09:09 AM
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I think what OP means is "Be Ok With Yourself". P.s. implying that you as a person want to be a better person (overall) and works towards that (a.k.a. self-improves).
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 09:02 AM
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This suppose to be like a meditation/prayer sort of thing, amiright? Overall nice idea. That said, it's impossible not to feel fear. It's a mechanical reaction almost. Fear is "chemicals" that your body secrets to prep your body for dealing with danger. And you can't change that by shear power of will. So, I think, a better way of putting this would be not "you don't feel fear", but rather "you overcome any fear". Cuz, that's how you over come fears, by conditioning and desensitisation.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 08:54 AM
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It does sound contradicting, but it is the step. And I mean that changing your beliefs is the step and not just a step. You can't just out lift or out dress your fucked up beliefs lol
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:52 AM
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Just because you call out yourself on making contridictions in your post it doesn't make your idea more understandable or valid. One other thing. Believe it not or not, but people like to care about other people and they do. It makes us feel good to help and care about our kind, it gives our lives meaning and shit. You talked about a choice in response to my comment about "fake it till you make it". Well, I believe, that there's a choice how look at the world too. You can have a viewpoint that e…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:46 AM
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I assume by "he" you mean my original comment? If yes. I did not meant to say that it's impossible to change your mindset of things (or one's beliefs). I wanted to make point that it's not as quick nor easy to do so than people here tens to express. In other words, confidence/self-esteem has to be based on something (skill, experience, wisdom) and not just nothing (which for me "fake it till u make it" implies). That said it is possible that my understanding of "fake till u make it" is different…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 11:18 PM
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Yeah, not really. In theory this should work as you say, but it doesn't. At least progression like that (result/confidence) is not liner and it flatlines. But, yeah, I do agree the result/confidence way of being you mention is the more sound way of looking at this "fake it till you make it" idea.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 11:05 PM
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Funny you said that. For me The Power of Now was the most pretentious book I've read at that time. Granted it was way back and I haven't read Manson's books.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:26 PM
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Yeah we do follow advice of other's until we reach the point of wisdom. And of course who says where that "point" is, right? It comes different times times, for different things, for different people. That said, I believe that "point of wisdom" is something that a person can practice. You know, you make decision, see result, live with qoncequancies (spelling?). To comment on your second paragraph. I was making more of a defence of that Manson's quote you made. That the idgaf comes from what you …
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:21 PM
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In the "skinny or fat" case, you go to the gym because you want to, not because you "need" to. Not because you read on trp that gym is something you must do, but because you decided that it's the best way to spend your time, rather doing anything else. P.s. I haven't read the book.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:08 AM
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Yeah, I agree. If the term would be phrased in a positive way it might not irk me as much and, honestly, it would be wiser. Reapeting to yourself constantly that you're "faking it" is bound to make you fell that you're a faker even when you objectively reached your goal. I don't think it's healthy.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 08:19 AM
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Why do you think the "beta" traits you listed are bad? A person you describe is like a stereotypical "tough dude" that is completely oblivious to his inner (emotional) workings.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:04 PM
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Let go, man. For some it works great. And it will for many more. Just take what's, you feel, is of worth and leave the rest.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:47 PM
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Yes, one should not live "in the shadow of something someone did to him", but as I said it ain't a switch. You can't just hop out of "negative beliefs" and fucked up psyche" into "healthy rational mind." You can get there, of course, (healthy psyche, I mean), but it takes time. It's not as quick nor effortless as people here like to portray.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:04 PM
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I fully agree. That feel good stuff, might sound stupid (and it truly does, when you're in a certain mind set), but it is valuable. This whole "rah rah pain good rah rah 100% all day everyday" even though might work for some (1% or something) is not a healthy way, not a long term way, to happiness and peace of mind. At least it wasn't for me so far.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 03:52 PM
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You mean fetishes? Sure, abstinence will take the edge of the "depravity", but if you really have loads of shit inside, some deep self-work will be needed.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:01 PM
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Permanent solution is to move out, obviously.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:48 PM
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"They" did not instill nothing in you you didn't have. "They" let you free. You're gay. It's ok. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:45 PM
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That's normal. It's called editing.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:23 PM
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The meaning of life seems to be: to survive, to be comfortable. At least from the "continuation of the species" pov. If we shift the pov inwards it sort of gets this (quite general) "to be happy" idea. There's no "grand plan" or meaning to life in a divine sense of way. And everyone is motivated by that. Everyone wants to be happy (whatever that means to them) everyone wants just to be comfortable (again, whatever that means to them). That said, I truly believe that in an ideal society, where ev…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 12:05 PM
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Thanks. I did/do all of them. The initial "magic" disappated after few years (lifting), but yeah, it still works. Same with other things you mentioned. And see, that was my point. You say "Make yourself proud of your life" which is a way of sound self-esteem, I believe. But, what I'm saying, in response to OP, is that it's neither quick nor easy to build your self-esteem when you are "damaged" (single mom, abuse, etc.) and, honestly, you can't "fake it till you make it." I mean, yes, "fake it ti…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 11:43 AM
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I truly get the sentiment of the "irrational confidence", but it's silly. In a sense that you can just flip from seeing yourself as a loser for all your life to seeing yourself a The Man. Self-esteem is not a switch. Unless you are one of the lucky ones that was raised by healthy, confident and well adjusted parents, building self-esteem towards sound and unshakable level is quite a slow process, demanding effort and full focus. And in general "fake it till you make it", I feel, is just a meme, …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 10:54 AM
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