To make a long thing short, a woman that I have an interest in bedding has lost interest in me I assume due to being needy and overinvesting in her. She has expressed fucking me and showed signs of wanting me but is cold at the moment and probably has gone ghost.

When she reinitiates contact I plan on texting her

“Hey i’d be nice to catch up with you but only under one of these conditions A) An Outing at Battery Park B) Netflix & BDSM (Safe phrase: Papi No Mas) C) You cooking us ribeye steaks at my apartment in a g-string and one of my t shirts for dinner”

What do you guys think the likelihood of this working is? And do you maybe suggest a different alternative. Thanks

Edit: the title needs to be eddited. I am not establishing a boundary.