My first big relationship if you will is the one that brought me here. I’m a different man because of it but I couldn’t be happier with the path in life I’ve chosen. I compete nationally in powerlifting, have been spinning plates (3 at once max or I have no time) and living a happier and better life than when I dragged my disheveled self here.

Anyway, bumped into my ex the other day completely on accident whilst both in our city centre. She complimented how good I looked blah blah and I stupidly agreed to meet again. I know relationship simply won’t be possible due to the already mega-blue pulled view she has of me and no amount of time is gonna change that. But worth escalating to turn her into a plate? Am I blind to any major pitfalls that may occur? Bad idea in general and should I just flake the date? In uncharted turf here for myself so any help appreciated