Hi guys,

I need help with interpreting a friend and an classmate told me.

BACKGROUND:

I'm 16 years old and finishing primary school. In the next month we will be writing exams for high school. Pretty much typical teenager environment. After being raised by a single feminist mother for 9 years I became a nice guy. Read up some books and currently trying to improve myself and getting out of the mindset.

I've noticed after reading and swallowing the red pill and going through the toxic TRP phase that many of my classmates started throwing shit tests in an immense amount. I managed some of them with grace, others less so and some of them were total failures. Also I really want to fuck and with a cloudy mind I asked an "experienced" classmate about getting a plate (biggest fucking mistake I currently made).

PROBLEM:

I've been talking to a classmate (friend and an asshole - but in a good way). He told me if I want to ever get a girlfriend, I'd need to stop being so "above everything".

Does he mean that I think about myself as "the big catch"? Was he trying to bash me and show his superiority? Was it his PC programming?

Also sorry for any mistakes. Still learning English.