You're a failed Asian.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-12-05T21:34:03+00:00

half jokingly? Racist remarks kinda need to be completely on the funny spectrum in order to be non-racist. I can only guess that she had no care in the world for you. She felt she had nothing to lose by interacting with you. Ironically you should be the same way.

You did drop the ball several times on this. Lesson learned. Completely ignore and move on. You need to reflect on your own actions and come up with fixes for the next girl. Practice social interactions more as it seems she had total control over your frame.

Whisper · 2016-12-05T22:44:46+00:00

This was the gentlest of shit tests.

You teased her, she teased back, both with appropriate intensity.

You should have agreed and amplified by faking a ludicrously exaggerated Japanese accent and saying that you had "broughtu greato shame on famiry".

Instead, you froze, probably bristled, and revealed your insecurities.

blackedoutfast · 2016-12-06T00:38:02+00:00

don't worry too much about it. you basically lost when she flaked on the first date. when she invited you to her concert that was probably an attempt to give you one last shot to prove that you are a sexy player type OR to let you slide into the friendzone, possibly a candidate to be a lame BB boyfriend that her family would approve.

a bluepill/beta type guy would have gladly accepted her invitation to the concert. you said no and started teasing her (which was a good response) and that told her you were not interested in being in the friendzone or going through all the bullshit required to become her good little boyfriend. it kinda fell apart after that because she wasn't interested in you as a potential fuckbuddy or ONS or whatever. maybe you need to work on your game, maybe you need to lift more, maybe she only hooks up with white dudes named chad. who knows.

deadwoodcylon · 2016-12-05T22:26:07+00:00

Being called a failure is not something you agree and amplify, it's disrespectful. Your response of ignoring her was correct. NEVER tolerate disrespect. Cut her off completely and move on.

thor_away92 · 2016-12-06T02:27:24+00:00

"You're right I can't even do math"

Title	You're a failed Asian.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	December 5, 2016 9:19 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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