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How do i improve as quickly as possible?

June 6, 2022

Hello guys, i’m 16 and a massive loser. I have few friends, kissless virgin, bullied, and subpar grades. Nobody respects or likes me and i’m sick of it. First i want to ace all my final exams and Summer is coming up and i want to come back a brand new me and fuck my bullies girlfriends.

I read the much of the sidebar but i don’t retain much of it

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Title How do i improve as quickly as possible?
Author Valuable_Act_130
Upvotes 4
Comments 8
Date June 6, 2022 6:57 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
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[–]PaleoPimp 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Start lifting. Start eating big. Start doing MMA/Jiu Jitsu/Muay Thai. I'm in my mid 20s and I was like you. If you know how to defend yourself than a bullies words don't mean anything cause you know you can kick their ass. You'll have a whole new confidence. Good luck buddy and you made a good choice to seek advice. Just follow what we tell you to do. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, it it is what it is. Girls will always be there, don't worry. Work on yourself first and gain some confidence. You'll make friends on your journey.

[–]Valuable_Act_130[S] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I do taiquando and i want to win competitions is that good enough?

Also how do i meet girls outside of school?

[–]Tsar_97 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

TKD isn't as effective as MMA/Jiu Jitsu/Muay Thai. I started jiu-jitsu at 19 (now 25) and I'm a completely different person now due to gaining a lot of confidence knowing I can defend myself. Like you, I was bullied and it fucked with me a lot. I discovered this side of reality around a year ago and I've taken their advice - doubling down on martial arts training, started lifting weights, eating clean, started a skincare routine, getting haircuts & shaves more often (I pay 3x more than I used to, but damn is it worth it), making sure I wear good clothes that fit well, and more.

On meeting girls, I wouldn't recommend you focus on women since you're still 16 and have a lot of time ahead of you to meet women. You should work on yourself and start building up from today, via your confidence, body, knowledge & resilience.

Start combat training, lifting, eating clean, studying & working, and take care of yourself.

Good luck!

[–]Nearby_Ad_5684 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Tai kwon doe * is fuckin useless in a real fight. Do boxing or BJJ or Judo or muythai.

Don’t worry about girls. They’ll come easier and easier as you get older. Ik how you feel I found red pill when I was 14-15 and I’m 19 now. I dont wanna say girls throw themselves at me, but I’m at a point where I just want success bc I’m used to attention and I’m addicted to the results (corny as a mothefucker I know). You’re attention starved bc no one bats an eye at you rn but stay on your grind for a minimum 6 months and you’ll reap rewards. Doesn’t mean to get comfortable, “hard times create strong men”

Loose weight and build a physique that speaks for itself when you walk into a room. It commands respect because not everyone has the discipline, consistency, and hard work to build one.

Pick up a habits like reading, meditating, and journaling. Seriously. Meditating has too many benefits to list do research. Journaling allows you find find inner problems instead of living day to day passively with them; self reflection and having humility to see your faults/ gratitude to praise your successes is key your improvement. Reading is important to gain knowledge. Think about it, you have the life work and purpose of a man at the palm of your hands waiting to be learned and implemented by you. On top of that, there are practical benefits. I recommend “think and grow rich” 48 laws of power” “rich man poor man” “way of the superior man” “rational male” “king warrior magician and lover” for must reads. Asap.

Get responsibilities. That’s what it means to improve and be a man. Go to your school and get a work permit asap and get a part time job. And of course, keep the studies up. Again, gym is your new home.

It sounds like a big changes but it’s really not. Just a change in life style. You want a new you, you become a new you TODAY. Good luck bro.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Motivational as fuck

[–]YungMattro 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude your upset about being a virgin at 16? I'm 22 and dealing with the same problems. I should smack you right now. Quit worrying about it. You have time. Focus on you and the girls will come.

[–]319Skew 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

What do you struggle to retain?

[–]blackhammer57 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As a 28year who i have failed let me tell you where i went wrong. Keep a screenshot of this and by 28 you will be a beast. If not you will be end up by me while running out of time. Id do anything to have my 16again.

Start a sport, if in school or private dont care just start a sport like Mma, muay thai or at least boxing. Dont care whether you are not good at it just go and dont give up. Show up daily and sweat. You dont need to be pro but all i need you to show up and sweat.

Go to gym. Get fit and at the same time and have a good posture. Also learn to talk loud practice eye contact. Just talk with gym persons. You will learn what and what not to talk later untill talk and talk loud. It will make your shyness go away also keep your energy up.

You are 16 so dont focus on women right now. Get good grades. I know its hard just somehow dont get failed. Just keep hanging until you have enough grades to get a job. And if you have not enough grades to go to uni dont wait start with the best job you can get with your current grades. So by 22 you will financially independent.

At 22 learn what game and redpill is. Learn what women like and women behavior. By 22 you will have good posture good voice good personality also a dangerous vibe. Also you are financially ok so go out have fun with friends and post them pics on social media. Meantime you will have a good personality and approach any girl you like and try to rapport.

Whatever happens do not discourage when you dont shine at the school. Do not even bother . Just silently build yourself out the school so by the time you are out of your school you will have an awesome life while others failing. Its the begin of your life. By 25 try to have Gf or stable relationship caus the more you get age its hardder to find a decent women when you focused on career and also othe life problems. By 27-30 get marry. And keep hustling.

I wish someone tell me those when im 16. Im 28and I regret everything now i could have a good life by now. But i never had someone to tell me these. So start now. 16is the best age

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