I’ve been on a dry spell for a VERY long time. I’ve been contemplating to experience being with a sex worker for a while now, but could never justify the cost or the fact that what I really crave is unbounded intimacy—which I am not going to find with an escort.

On top of that, practicing nofap just makes me have less urges. Recently feeling confident in myself again, and I just want to have some fun with a girl without necessarily the intimacy need. I’m here wondering if being with a sex worker would add on to the confidence or break it. Thoughts? What would you do if you were in my shoes?