Not gonna tell a sob story but life is finally on the up. I feel confident about myself, I am making more than minimum wage, I'm finally healthy, ED (probably) on the mend and am ready to date. I have been on about 20~ dates total and had 4 opportunities to get laid that I fucked up. Closest was waiting for a girl outside her house with condoms while waiting for her roommate to go to bed. Didn't end up happening. The fact that women have expressed interest in sleeping with me is reassuring.

The feeling that my life is progressing finally has rocketed my confidence. I'm 5’11” 166 lbs 22% BF. I have worked out in the past but not with the right nutrition. Extremely socially extroverted. I can talk but sometimes it is difficult to stir up attraction.

I can approach, I did three cold approaches today and got a number. My ‘record’ was 10 cold approaches in a day. I'm worried about overdoing it since I live in a city of only 300k with a smaller young population. 

I genuinely love meeting new people and love social situations and events. I have belief in myself that I can be successful dating and that it's never hopeless. 

I plan to lean out just to see how my face looks at a lower BF%  I am having a photographer friend take shots of me for the apps and I'll be paying for the apps for the first time. Continue to cold approach. I also plan to take more bold moves, I should have kissed that vietnamese girl I was on a date with earlier this year etc etc

Do any of you guys have tips on how to date and get laid. I am also wondering how to do this if you have a time consuming career. I don’t have one right now but I am in the cards for a career I have worked for years however it is really time consuming.