It's really important to show confidence in relationships or when meeting people and the problem for many is that we often fail to show confidence as we focus on things that a born from a lack of confidence or self esteem. So I thought it's worth sharing this video that can hopefully avoid you falling into this trap and naturally building your own confidence and self esteem. Hopefully you'll find this of value:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbAoZYy_wXE
Below is a summary of what's covered, including the main points (with timestamps):
There are certain things confident people don’t do and that sets them apart from everyone else. It’s important to understand that true confidence greatly differs from arrogance and that there are certain things that distinguish one from the other.
Learning how to be confident is an important part of self improvement and when people believe in themselves and their abilities, there are things they will not do. For example, they don’t over-focus on appearance. That’s because when someone is self confident, they have a healthy relationship with their appearance and understand that self acceptance is a vital element of self confidence.
Furthermore, self assured people get their sense of satisfaction from their own accomplishments, which can be attractive to others. They realise that success comes with continuously building their strengths. Not that they don't accept weaknesses, but instead of complaining, they put more time and effort into those things that help build success.
Video Headlines and Timestamps:
00:24 - Focus on looks
01:09 - Fail to take action
01:49 - Put others down
02:31 - Play up to expectations
03:15 - Lack self belief
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