• be outcome independent. meaning whatever happens; f, k, #, eject, reject, etc. it won't affect you and appear needy. check this link out for more

  • kino the shit out of that HB-X. if you don't kino a girl, how in the HELL do you expect to sleep with her, or just go anywhere with her?! read the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder for more tips. Personally, my favorite locations to kino a girl are her upper arm/tricep area, and her lower back. I've found that these locations can be used anywhere (opening, closeing etc.)

  • attractiveness is irrelevant, appearance is. know the difference. you don't have to be model status hot to get a girl, BUT you have to at least look presentable or at least look like you give a shit. go to r/malefashionadvice to fix that.

  • oneitis. make it stahhhp. ive been there more than once, and trust me, it sucks. a girl isn't into you? move onto another one AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. this might sound like typical advice, but in my experience, it works.

  • have confidence: most guys are too nervous or anxious to approach a woman they see at the mall/bar/store etc. don't be: go up to her and talk to her. it's probably the last time you'll see her again if you dont. don't be shy in public environments even if you're not trying to pickup. talk to strangers but don't be obnoxious. they might help you down the road. ive chatted up a guy about the girls around the fashion square mall. turned out he was the manager of the local True Foods restaurant. Told me if i came into True Foods with a girl, dinner was on him: he followed up with his promise as i came the next weekend.