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[–]jimbojones187 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
5'1 asian reporting in. I felt hopeless a lot in life in my earlier years (now I'm 31), have had 2 serious girlfriends and fucked a lot of other girls.
If I were to pinpoint what worked, I think it's about self-respect, confidence, and charm. Don't take things too seriously, laugh at her shit tests when she starts picking your height, and show you desire (not need) and CAN handle her.
[–]qwertyavaj 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Do you consider the girls you had ons with attractive? I am not a pessimist, just want to make sure its possible for me to pull this off. I might as well hire an escort if its not an at least 7 hot cake.
[–]jimbojones187 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
your lack of esteem reeks, i'm sorry to say. this is even coming from a dude that's way shorter than you.
[–]qwertyavaj 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sorry. I think I really need to build myself up focusing on the goals.
[–]jimbojones187 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
one suggestion to start building your body. a lot of confidence can be gained when you are getting in great shape and pushing your limits physically. (un)surprisingly a lot of this is mental and can really help your mental clarity on a lot of things. best of luck out there!
[–]qwertyavaj 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do you prefer me a beginner hiring a trainer? I never went to a gym before and would certainly need help from professionals.
[–]jimbojones187 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i'd suggest getting into crossfit and go to a crossfit gym to get in the routine. very supportive ciommunity/culture in general. though it is quite expensive. overall worth it though. look it up!
[–]nendhdjddjdjdjdjdj 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
its impossible you can fuck ugly girls
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
this post/comment has been removed because it involves the assumption of the over-importance of physical form over and above internal qualities, or arguing that seduction is limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other qualities that one is born with.
This is an answered question. There have been many posts on this subject over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]pinkmoscato2 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, you still think its about you and that's the problem. Stop speculating and go out looking... who knows what you will find.
[–]FillYouToTheBrim1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I’m 5’ 6” Asian and yes, it’s completely possible once you get inner confidence and are fun to be around.
It’s funny/sad because you start to get comments like “You’re the first Asian/shorter guy I’ve ever been attracted to.”
Hell, even men look at me differently. There was a coworker who started 4 months ago, we see each other every day. We were talking about height randomly yesterday, and he was shocked to realize I was only 5’ 6” because I’m such a boss 😂.
Tl, dr; the bias you run into is real, but the skills (and especially inner game) can move you to overcome it. Not for everyone (and why would you want someone who doesn’t like you?), but enough for you to attract hot women that are great to you.
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