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7 Tinder Mistakes to avoid

jbokla

September 9, 2014

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http://thetindercode.com/5-tinder-sins/

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Title	7 Tinder Mistakes to avoid
Author	jbokla
Upvotes	0
Comments	1
Date	September 9, 2014 3:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2fvfnd/7_tinder_mistakes_to_avoid/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/7-tinder-mistakes-to-avoid.1376243 https://theredarchive.com/post/1376243

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

1: Partially true. The message examples are indeed boring, but the thing about being entertained isn't. We guys ain't their entertainers.

2/#3: True

4: Totally wrong. If you try to get her interest by choosing topics that might interest her, it makes you a "nice guy".

5: Partially true. Quick approach doesn't always work. Although you have ten seconds to show you are somebody, you can still build attraction by showing her disinterest when she shows you disinterest. If she indeed changes too quickly, it means she doesn't know what she is looking for, thus making her a waste of time for guys.

6: A regular picture should be adequate. Or none at all.

7: Totally stupid. In 90% of the cases, she will never ever call that number. As a guy, we get her number and call her soon while the iron is hot. And asking her out should also be initiated by us. If she rejects to give her number/meet you, then you should show her a corresponding disinterest. Here is what I did to my second cousin: She agreed to meet but refused to give her number. Later, when she asked me to say her good-night, I said "No", adding that I only do that via SMS. She still didn't give me her number, but I was consistent and she ended up giving her number to me next day. We dated two consecutive days, both K-close with intense touching and makeouts.

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