Greetings, comrades; from Amsterdam. I was in a small city called Maastricht for 2 months, playing circle game. It was a different kind of game for me: a very improving, but as well as a boring one. We had cool parties there during the corona time. In the end, we were busted by the police and we couldn't plan any new ones. Besides, after 2 months, with similar people, life was getting slower and boring. Therefore, I felt that it was time to move on.

I've been in Amsterdam for 6 days. I hadn't been playing the london daygame modal since Belgrade- it had been 4 months. I felt that I got sensitised. Besides, a new city always requires exploration. Therefore, I'd explored the city and re-desensitized myself during this time.

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-Outline-
1- Exploration: daygame challenges of the city of Amsterdam
2- Re-desensitisation process
3- The first solid set
4- The amazing adrenaline rush & happiness
5- the importance of peacocking in daygame
6- The daygamer I met
7- the alternative daygame strategy
8- Post scriptum

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1- Exploration: daygame challenges of the city of Amsterdam

I searched on google: "the main street of Amsterdam" & "daygame spots for amsterdam". I saved some spots on my google maps, but when I checked the fields, I faced the first challenge: everywhere was empty. After a while, I realised that these spots were for the pre-covid times. Then, I approached some local people around and found out that people were in the south: at the parks.

Because of the travel restrictions, tourists are not in the center. Because of the lockdowns, shopping centers are close and the main streets which are for shopping do not attract local people. Therefore, local people just spend time in city parks. It was not only a useful exploration for daygame but also intellectually interesting information for me.

I found the biggest park in the city: Vondelpark. I also spotted and checked some different parks such as westerpark, oosterpark and beatrixpark. However, I ended up with vondelpark for my daygame spot. I started to explore the park: spotted the main entrances and tried to understand the street dynamics around and in the park. In a short period of time, I faced the second challenge: people do not walk. Instead, they cycle or fucking run. Because amsterdam is the city of bicycles, girls come to the park by using their bicycles and there is no possibility of playing daygame around the outside of the park to catch the single sheeps before they meet with their groups in the park. In the park, girls mostly run or do group exercises.

Later on, I discovered that at the main entrance, there is a bike-parking area where girls stop to get in or get off their bikes. Besides, in the park, there are single girls having some rest from their runnings. Although it's not an ideal human flow, it's enough flow for daygaming.

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2- Re-desensitisation process

I learned from my last daygame-travel (belgrade) that it's deadly crucial to start consistently play on volume as soon as possible. Therefore, on my 3rd day, after I settled properly, while I was going to the field, I idealically targeted 10 approaches. However, I immediately realised that I was not ready. Following a couple of days, I gradually desensitised myself. It was a pretty tough and painful process. I mean... literally painful. I felt a lot of psychological pain during the process of having control of my body as my conscious brain wishes. I feel like... I can be a monk soon. During this process, I always remembered Mystery's metaphor of jumping into the pool.

My gradual desensitisation process:
1- opening "my dick is big" song on my speaker while I was cycling to the field and waiting in the red traffic lights with people (many people were laughing ':)
2- asking where the red light district is (and continuing if the girls were still there)
2- portrait photography (capturing photos of people with my camera by giving a compliment)
3- if i was not gay, i'd marry you- you're so beautiful (to a woman in a group)
4- if i was gay, i'd marry you- you're very handsome (to a guy in a group) (it has been the hardest one)

After repeating those desensitisation lines for a couple of days in the park, I finally approached in the london style and had a solid set at the end of the 6th day of mine in amsterdam.

3- The first solid set

I was suffering from not being able to approach because of my anxiety. I thought that every day I had to take this thing one step further. Last day, I did my desensitisation routine properly. Today, I did it in a very fast and proper way and I needed to add something more: to approach. There was nothing left to do but to approach. I told myself that I wouldn't go back before I open one set.

I had done my desensitisation routine and I was trying not to get sensitised by doing very stupid and embarrassing things in public. After suffering +30~ minutes from my anxiety, I finally fucking jumped into the pool. brrr... when I remember it, I get goosebumps.

I was on my bike... I saw the girl walking in the same direction as me. I passed the girl with my bike and parked it. Then, I again waited for her to pass, then I approached from the front as a proper london daygamer does.

I played in a very solid way: a good & direct opening with a quarter circle, basic assumptions, conversation, connection and close.
The set was a very classic, easy and nice yes girl set. It lasted 10~ minutes on feet. She was very into me. We agreed on doing a street photography event on the weekend. She wanted me to get her phone number, but because my instagram is pretty cool and I don't like to store girl phone numbers, I wanted her to write her instagram ID on my phone. Instagram close is also good for online-social proof after you left the city- they like your Instagram posts :)
I gave her a goodbye hug, and the set finished.

The self-feedback from my set: I couldn't qualify her properly. I talked way too much even after she hooked. I have to get rid of this dancing money habit. That was also because she asked a lot of questions. I need to re-frame girls and make them invest more in such situations.

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4- The amazing adrenaline rush & happiness

Just after I left the set, I was so happy that I do not remember when I was that happy before. The following 2 hours, I just cycled around the city in a topless way while listening to music on my speaker & singing with it. People on the streets hearing me were also singing with me... even a random guy gave me a beer, lol.

The source of my happiness was not "the girl", but the challenge I won against myself.

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5- the importance of peacocking in daygame

I have a daygame suit I wear just for daygaming with a bunch of attention-grabbing accessories.

Especially when it's daygame, it's important to wear in a properly peacocked way. It creates a huge attraction together with the direct front stop.

In this set, when I wanted her to guess my age, she looked at me and told me I look like a master student. In a previous set, when I wanted the girl to guess what I do, she told me that I do something artistic.

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6- The daygamer I met

During my exploration era, I saw a guy talking to a group of girls in a very daygaming way. I waited till his set finishes, and approached him. I found out that he was selling something on the street, and also does daygame if he sees a hot girl.

He told me that they are the same thing selling and daygaming. Agreed.

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7- the alternative daygame strategy

In the future, after I get consistency with the direct daygame, I want to try the indirect group game at parks by using my camera... like... approaching groups to capture their photos in the roof of human photography.

It's a MM game. Much more difficult, but much more improving.

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8- Post scriptum

My most up-to-date desensitisation routine is that:
0- listening to the daygame-friendly musics of big-dick & bas-gaza on my speaker
1- x2/ where is the red light district? girls?
2- x2/ lemme take a portrait photo of you (m&f)
3- x2/ if I wasn't gay, I'd marry you- you're very beautiful (f)

After that point, I need consistency. My main target is to approach 10 sets per day. I'll gradually do that- as soon as possible.

I'm so passionate about that because I want to make it a lifestyle. I also perceive it as a self-disciplining self-improvement process, which had improved me a lot and has been improving me over time.