I'm still new at this and as such have some afc tendencies. I've been feeling a bit down about a girl who I thought things were going great with, but who just disappeared after a while. But then I realized that I had met an awesome girl, spent some time with her, hooked up, and had an overall enjoyable experience. This is something to be grateful and happy for, regardless of whether shes now with some other dude or that I may never see her again. I instantly went from feeling like shit to feeling joyful and optimistic. It's strange how a slight change in persective will make you feel worlds better.