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| 3 | I have not posted in almost a year but I overheard this gem and thought I would share.Since I am a geologist my mind is always on rocks I guess. Gem was a natural word choice. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What does it feel like to be attractive and desired by many? - QuoraAttractive enough. Attractive is a subjective. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 08:05 AM |
| 2 | What does it feel like to be attractive and desired by many? - QuoraBeing attractive can get you free stuff. A girl bought me a free chipotle burrito once. That was cool. I have befriended a number of bartender chicks, free shots are always great. Its even better when they text you asking why they have not seen you tonight. Or maybe that means I go there too often... | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The glance, the look, the f*ck-me eyes. What do they actually look like?The look. When you see it you know; it will send a tingle down your spine. Square up to her, smirk or purse your lips, walk over, talk, and begin kino. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Shut Up And Dress WellI believe another poster already said this but I'll say it again because it is that important. Wear clothes that fit you, plain and simple. Depending on your physique you will either have to go a with clothes that are a tad bit smaller or a tad bid larger. Take me as an example, I wear clothes that are a tad too small. The jeans I wear fit very snug but my legs are also very tone. I have had women compliment me numerous times. Some women start off with pointing out how tight they are I respond w… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My most successful nightThanks. I have started to come to this realization too. I am trying to become more dominant but I still feel myself holding back sometimes. I slowly been getting better but I should make it a goal of mine next time I go out to just go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My most successful nightThanks for the advice I'll be sure to remember that next time. | /r/seduction | 18/09/11 12:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Keeping it simpleI forgot to add. Whenever she would compliment I would respond with a a neg. She seemed to laugh at everyone and then touch me on the shoulder, leg, or knee. It was great because I did not have to initiate kino, she did. | /r/seduction | 09/09/11 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is porn really affecting us?This. When I do not masturbate for a week I am more irritable and tense. I do not think women like me that way. Masturbating is one of the great pleasures in life. Do not deny yourself it because of the false impression it makes you less successful with a woman if you masturbated yesterday or a hour before. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you go out alone?I went out by myself last Thursday night for the first time. I had an awesome time. I could go where I wanted to go and talk to who ever I felt like. Being by myself also added a catalyst for me to go and talk to women so I did not look like a dude who was drinking by myself. Highly suggest it to y'all. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The biggest thing that helped my gameKeep putting on the weight but body fat percentage is what you should be targeting. I recently lost some weight and dropped my body fat percentage to 7% (thank you college study for the precise measurement). I have noticed an increase in women complimenting me on my physique. One chick could not stop grabbing my chest at a party this past weekend. I did not get to grab hers... oh well. | /r/seduction | 22/08/11 08:24 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl laughIf you laugh and the women laughs in response then you have her. No need for gimmicks. | /r/seduction | 19/08/11 09:31 AM |
| 1 | I can talk to anyone.I wrote this to show that talking to people in the most awkward of situations will most likely not end bad. So just go out there and talk to someone. Talking to people can be one of the most exciting experiences. Next time you see someone by themselves who is not making out with another person talk to them! You never now what may happen. A beginners step is to carry a conversation with a bartender. When I first go out I make sure to converse with a bartender to get myself acclimated to talking t… | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 09:07 AM |
| 4 | I can talk to anyone.I did not fuck anything up. They went back to sucking face and I went on my way. | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 11:23 PM |
| 10 | I can talk to anyone.Okay here is the follow up to what happened on Tuesday night. The little stunt seemed to work wonders. I go out with the 8 and a few of her friends on Thursday. While we are drinking at my place she is showing her friends the picture of me interrupting the couple and they are all shocked. I play it cool and shrug when they ask me how I could do that. The 8 is throwing out the IOIs and now I just have to make sure to not mess anything up. I keep the kino up throughout the night and make sure to t… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Met a cute bartender, whats my play?You should have given her your number then. It cannot hurt. | /r/seduction | 01/08/11 07:18 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Unexpected WingmenThis. Passion really can make anything interesting. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 07:12 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Unexpected WingmenYeah I was enthusiastic while about the geology but people that go hiking tend to be interested in that type of thing already. The metamorphic rocks were formed by the heat from a nearby caldera and that is interesting in it's own. I also told her how gold is deposited within the rocks, she found that interesting. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 07:10 AM |
| 1 | How should I text this girl..?I googled err and e'er before I wrote that because I did not know which one to use. Err means to go astray or be mistaken while e'er means ever or always. I chose to use e'er in this case. | /r/seduction | 16/07/11 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How should I text this girl..?I am a geology major, but I write quite a bit about rocks. | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, what are your favorite rapport building lines/questions?The best way to build rapport is to be passionate and genuine when talking. Look her in the eyes, square your body to hers, make her focus on you. Keep the conversation lively. Whether it be with humor or honesty or some profound observation. I do not want to say make her shocked, it is too strong of a word, rather make her startled. How do you do this. Become passionate about something and work it into your conversation. When she gives an opinion be honest with your reply to it, whether you agr… | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 08:41 AM |
| 5 | How should I text this girl..?My first text to a number I just received all go like this and follow three simple parts. Part One: "Hey this is (your name)." Okay, so nothing crazy. If you are texting her within 48 hours of first meeting hopefully you made enough of an impression that she remembers your name. Part Two: I e'er on the side of caution. My next sentence pertains to something she noticed about me when we first met. Here is one example from a few nights ago. I was wearing a yellow shirt and the women commented on i… | /r/seduction | 15/07/11 08:22 AM |
| 3 | [FR] NetworkingMind. Blown. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 02:32 PM |
| 2 | [FR] NetworkingThis FR happened last night. Cheapest drink on a Friday night would be a Texas tea for $3, like a long island but with tequila. I know a bartender and she makes the teas stout. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Communicate and seduce without wordsEssentially playing footsie. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 03:48 AM |
| 8 | [FR] NetworkingDefinitely easier because you already have your foot in the door. Her friends have some level of trust with you, before you have even met, because a friend of theirs is essentially vouching for your character. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 02:35 AM |
| 4 | [FR] NetworkingI would like to think I am a genuine good guy and women are attracted to me because of my geniality. I am by no means a seduction genius. Maybe one day ;) | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 02:33 AM |
| 7 | [FR] NetworkingThat was my idea. I do want to see her again so I figured I would leave it on a cliffhanger. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 01:01 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Foursome!?!? Kind of...I figured some may not believe me, fair, that is up to you. I got lucky. I just happened to be at the right place at the right time and dance with the right girl at the bar. These girls were obviously DTF, and fortunately I gave them a good enough reason to choose me. For that I thank you seddit. | /r/seduction | 11/07/11 06:46 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Foursome!?!? Kind of...I think the best part of the whole thing was when I was awoken in the morning by a pillow to the face. I raise my head, do a quick check of my surroundings, and see three women laying in bed looking at me laughing. All I could think was hell yes I was not dreaming. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:28 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Foursome!?!? Kind of...Two. Was not technically a foursome. But all three were in the room during the heated part. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 08:21 AM |
| 2 | A quick note on eye contact.I always mention a girl's eye color when I am talking to her and looking into her eyes. The reason is I want her to notice my eyes. You can talk about eye color for a while and get some good flirting in. Aside: My mom always told me I had beautiful eyes and they were unique because of the dark green circle around my blue iris color. Well I thought my mom was being nice. After being told by plenty of people how cool my eyes are I try to draw attention to them. | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Gym failure - HB9 immediately comes over after I takeout earbudsI have been going to the gym for four years and never talked to a woman at the gym until very recently. I would consider my body to be in the top 1 or 2 percentile if toneness is the criteria. I work my ass off in the gym and results followed. It was not until I happened to literally run into a girl (HB 7) while I was out drinking that I realized the value I held with some women. I had seen this HB 7 countless times at the gym but had never talked to her. After running into her she says, "I know… | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 02:12 AM |
| 2 | A very interesting interpretation on the question "What is an alpha male?" by a man who lives with a pack of wolves.I was in a fight a couple of weeks ago. One of my friends was talking to this girl at some bar. We leave the bar and go to another. As we are waiting to get in a guy starts yelling at my friend. We turn around to see four other guys with the one who is yelling at my friend. I ask him what the problem is and he says my friend was talking to his girlfriend. I laugh and then he decides to slap me. I laugh some more. By this time the bouncer comes over and tells them to get lost. Fast forward. I am … | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How I Developed Awesome Self ConfidencePassive aggressive. No, I do not think so. I am passive aggressive on occasion when my roommates won't clean their dishes, but in everyday conversation I am far from aggressive. I never tell people that I'm just joking. The only people I "talk shit" to are my good friends and they always return the favor. When I say things that put me on the spot it usually involves me saying something contrary to known fact. People who know me realize I'm doing this. Those who do not are asking themselves, "not… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, motivation from /fit/, crossposted from /r/Fitness: "To become God or die trying"Good question. With regards to being an ectomorph or mesomorph I believe I share characteristics of both. When I weighed 120 pounds it would be safe to say I was 100% ectomorph. Now at 180 pounds I appear to be more mesomorph. I have broad shoulders, defined chest (might be getting to large for my frame :/), appear athletic, and from what the women tell me, a "hard body" ;). One thing that has not changed is I still put on weight slowly, whether it be muscle or fat. Therefore, I would have to co… | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 04:38 PM |
| 3 | IAMA PUA who works for Neil Strauss.I usually use body language when it comes to kissing, looking at the triangle of her eyes and lips, then grabbing her hips to pull her closer (if she smiles and tilts her head down then looks back at you this is a 100% sign she is ready to kiss. If she smiles or gets her chest or face closer this is also a 100% sign she is ready to kiss), holding the back of her neck and going in Body language is legit, it does not lie. | /r/seduction | 07/06/11 03:51 PM |
| 4 | How I Developed Awesome Self ConfidenceTalk to people and intentionally sabotage yourself from time to time. Just to get used to the feeling and the rush of being put on the spot. I like this. People generally find me funny and my humor is mostly sarcasm. I will say things that put me on the spot to see how people will react. Some laugh because they know I'm not being serious and the ones who are shocked make the comment even funnier for everyone. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 10:41 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Two nights, two K-close, one in my bed.She found me on facebook. You are right, I should have got her number then. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 10:39 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Two nights, two K-close, one in my bed.Sometimes it does seem that way. There will be days when I tell myself the next time I have a chance with a woman I'm going to do it, but when I have the opportunity, I bail. Probably need to figure that out. | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, motivation from /fit/, crossposted from /r/Fitness: "To become God or die trying"So frikin spot on. During senior year of high school I become extremely sensitive of my weight. Instead of being fat, I was a twig. I was almost 6 feet tall and weighed 120 pounds. One day I said fuck being skinny and fuck having no feeling of personal worth whatsoever. The next day I got my dad to pay for my gym membership. In return, I had to quit playing World of Warcraft. Best decision of my life. Four years later I am a senior in college. I am now 6 feet tall and I weigh 176-180 pounds. I a… | /r/seduction | 06/06/11 05:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I regressedI do not really know if I could have. Well that is not true. I could have got one on one time in another room or outside of the restaurant but then everyone would have noticed our absence. I do not think our mutual friend would have been appreciative. I was frustrated because I noticed the IOIs and was too concerned about failure. Also what TangoA said. | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Quick PSA about threesomes and bed sizeI've slept with 3 women in my queen bed and it was fine. | /r/seduction | 02/06/11 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Give me your go to topic when conversation begins to fail.When a conversation begins to fail it is a great time to build tension. Let the convo die and look at her. She will probably get uncomfortable. Now you can reach in, touch her on the shoulder, and ask, "what, you do not like silence?" (or something similar) She will most likely laugh or say something involuntarily. I usually then make some joke to get her to laugh again and kick start a new conversation with the first thought that pops in my head. I believe I read this here. Someone wrote, if yo… | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 11:12 PM |
| 7 | A Little Perspective On Picking Up Drunk WomenIn the words of Justice Potter Stewart - "I know it when I see it..." Same applies for how drunk a women is. You know when they are too gone. | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Men, what do you wear when you go out on Friday nights?Jeans, cowboy boots, and either a nice t-shirt (patagonia, or something from threadless) or a casual button down shirt (ralph lauren or tommy hilfiger). | /r/seduction | 31/05/11 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Grooming body hair (chest, back)Chest hair is boss. Do not shave it. If you do then as rudiegonewild said, maintain, maintain, maintain. | /r/seduction | 30/05/11 04:15 AM |
| 1 | [FRs] Fails good, man.I do not understand the fail. It seems to me you just needed to push further and you could have her. She pecked your cheek! Keep it up though, you are doing well. | /r/seduction | 30/05/11 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I need help!Does she know she is being set up with you? I assume she does. Based off this assumption both of you will probably be feeling awkward when you first meet, I know when I was set up with someone it was. It is up to you to make her feel comfortable. How do you do this? Talk with a purpose. Be relaxed, do not fidget. As reverendchuggs said talking about English class, something y'all both share in common, is an easy route to go. Or, talk about something else at your school. You mentioned that this g… | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 06:36 AM |
| 1 | This is fascinating. I am a AFM turned RAFM as of now.I have been busy and did not have a chance to respond but I do want to tell you, I appreciate your advice. This is something I have been dealing with the last couple of years and I do need to figure out what I'm going to do. I have turned down advances from women I do not know for fear we would escalate too far and I would lose control of the situation. It has become frustrating because I do not know how truly far I can get with a woman I've just met. The only women I have messed around with are… | /r/seduction | 18/05/11 06:26 AM |
| 1 | This is fascinating. I am a AFM turned RAFM as of now.First, look at how you spend your time. I bet you spend a couple of hours watching TV or reading reddit every week that is not time spent toward school. Use those hours for going out! Second, I grew up in a Christian household and consider myself a Christian. I would say the majority of Christians do not have a distorted view of sex/relationships but rather a different one. As a kid I remember being taught the significance of having sex with someone and that it should be with your wife. Is that … | /r/seduction | 13/05/11 06:59 AM |
| 5 | Flirting over phoneI cannot remember the last time I talked on the phone with a woman that was not my mom, sister, or a really good friend. I leave phone conversations to simple texts. I am facetious by nature and sarcasm does not translate well over the phone, especially in text messages, so I limit my exposure to screwing something up over the phone. | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 08:58 PM |
| 3 | A brief glimpse to the workings of a woman's mind.I'm busy with school and work. I could have gone out with her last Friday but a better opportunity came up. If I had met this girl 4 months ago when I focused on the last woman to show me attention then I know I would have already gone out with her, assuming she did not flake. I've learned from seddit. There are too many women out there to get so caught up with one that you are worrying about them and changing your schedule to accommodate them. I did that before and it is miserable. My opener wa… | /r/seduction | 12/05/11 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How many Sedditors here are unemployed?I regularly bring a flask filled with scotch when I go out. I dislike mixed drinks and buying scotch or cognac at a bar/club is expensive. Make sure one is not seen. As Cirmi said bars frown upon this practice. | /r/seduction | 11/05/11 07:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I owned the partyIn my case she said I smelled bad and she had a bathroom connected to her room. I didn't think I smelled but when she shut the door with both of us in there I connected the dots. I'm not really sure there is anything else to it. Have an extra towel and soapy bubbles, to make it more fun. | /r/seduction | 09/05/11 03:53 AM |
| 4 | At what point do you stop and say to yourself with complete objectivity "this is the best I'll ever do"?I think you just know. One important thing seddit promotes/teaches is how to talk to a lot of women. The more interactions you have with women will help you believe yourself when you say, "Damn, this is the 'best' one." | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 06:28 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I owned the partyThe skinny jeans and boots have got me quite a number of comments. Some positive and some negative. In my opinion, any publicity is good publicity. Also, it gives the woman something to talk to you about. The jeans have a similar affect that wearing suspenders do. Women love suspenders. | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 05:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] AA improvement (phone close) + entourageBut do understand you are in a nightclub and the girl is there to have fun and possibly dance. So try and be high energy :) This. In the FR I wrote a few hours ago I think part of the reason for the success I had was my energy level. During your conversations with women try not to be a stick in the mud. Be animated, move your hands and your body. That way when you start kino with the woman it looks and feel natural. | /r/seduction | 08/05/11 05:20 AM |
| 3 | A change in perspective makes all the difference..Very good perspective to have. You are not going to get everything you think you want or need out of every women you have an emotional or physical attraction/encounter with. Just as you said, instead of thinking about what could have been, enjoy what was, and learn from what you did and did not do. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 04:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Kino, it works.Haha, thanks. I never realized that I no longer use contractions while writing. I have not stopped using y'all though, in text or speech. | /r/seduction | 04/05/11 07:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Kino, it works.I do not know. The HB 8 birthday girl was the one that told me to come inside, she was drunk. I follow, thinking could it be, am I about to go at it with multiple women? As soon as the thought hit my head the security guard asks what I'm doing and escorts me outside. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Kino, it works.Interesting, definitely something I will try to think about next time I'm talking to a woman. Even though we were by ourselves and it was quiet outside we talked in a whisper. We were on a large bench but she was right up against me with her head at my shoulder level, sometimes resting on my shoulder. When I would talk to her I would lean my head down and talk into her ear. I wonder if that was driving her crazy. Most likely was ;) Now that I think of it I don't know why I was whispering. I thin… | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Kino, it works.I'm glad most of y'all enjoyed the FR and approve of my decisions. Nice to know people agree with what you did. I will definitely post a follow up FR after I see her again. I'm also thinking of posting a summary of my experience since I joined the seddit community back in the fall. Should probably start working on that soon. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Kino, it works.I agree. I did not want her to drive and was going to make the 15 minute walk back to my place. She insisted on driving me so I let her. I honestly was not thinking about the logistics at all when I walked them back. I also did not know there was a security guard posted at the entrance to the sorority house who would deny me entrance. I was kind of assuming I would be staying at her place. | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 02:33 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Kino, it works.Update of sorts. Found out I share a mutual friend with this girl. I guess she talked about me since the mutual friend texted me asking if I met HB 9 on Thursday. Mutual friend then tells me the girl has been going on a couple of dates with someone else but she doesn't think their too serious. Could explain her reluctance toward an intimate kiss. Anyway, thanks for comments. Tuesday night should be fun. I need to maintain the tension I built and kept from Thursday night. I want her yearning for … | /r/seduction | 02/05/11 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Should I lie about my age? [first time mini-FR]It is a judgement call. If the girl is obviously older then you it may not hurt to add a few years to your age. Why did she ask how old you were in the first place? Do you look your age, or do you look older/younger. I cannot really grow facial hair and people tell me I look younger then 22. When I go to bars frequented by young professionals out of college for a couple years I say I'm 24. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 05:50 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Fail, dammitOne more thing. You are probably right about old romanticism being dead which is a bummer. I watch too much mad men. Feel like I should have been 22 during the 60s. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 05:46 AM |
| -1 | [FR] Fail, dammitI would not call texting a picture of myself an emotional breakdown. I got dressed up and I wanted to make sure she saw what I looked like. I just sent the picture, no text, nothing angry. I will agree getting drunk was probably not a good idea. I'm still in college so I'm not an alcoholic yet... ;) | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 05:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Fail, dammitI didn't know who that was until I heard her name today. I wish I had asked her out to dinner. | /r/seduction | 30/04/11 05:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Fail, dammitShe texted me apologizing. I told her no worries. She said she wants to make it up to me and she thought the picture was adorable. No reason for why she didn't show but I'm not going to ask. I will see this women when I go to the gym. Ive cooled down a lot from last night so I'm not going to freak out at her or anything, though it will be awkward. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 09:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Fail, dammitThanks for the advice. I definitely made the first date too formal, should have been more low key. I have not dated in quite sometime and I need to ease myself back into it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 09:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fail, dammitShit. Not my best night or post at all. Today is a new day and I feel like being successful. Hopefully I'll have a good FR to post. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A quick reminder...I've only done the stretching routine because it is really good. For my lifts I use all free weights and body weight. When you have lifted for over four years you know what your body responds best to and what gets results. | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 09:38 PM |
| 2 | I hope what I did was classified as good.Props. I know I would have kept on walking the other way. Now make good use of that number. | /r/seduction | 28/04/11 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [FR] A quick reminder...That is what I am learning. I still don't even come close to approaching every girl that I make eye contact with, especially during the day, but I am getting better. | /r/seduction | 27/04/11 11:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A quick reminder...Well actually you can. Better core and back strength helps you maintain proper poster which will make you taller. What I was saying was I weighed 115 pounds four years ago. From then to now I grew an inch which added some weight and I put on muscle which also added weight. Taller people usually weigh more then shorter people and I wanted to make it clear that I did not put on 67 pounds of muscle. | /r/seduction | 27/04/11 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A quick reminder...I was 18 when I started lifting. | /r/seduction | 27/04/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Do (A), but do not let your roommate do (B).Some of my roommates are awkward as shit and I would never let them be with me if I was pursuing a girl. They also read reddit so... nevermind. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 06:33 AM |
| 3 | I am a genuinely nice guy. How do you deal with female friend that wants something more, but not be a dick and not get fucked over yourself?I hooked up with a good friend after she dumped her boyfriend. I guess she liked it enough that she never told me she got back with her boyfriend and we hooked up two more times. In my opinion, can't speak for her, our relationship really isn't that different. Although, she did make the first move and I went along for the ride. Made it a lot easier and also spoiled me. | /r/seduction | 26/04/11 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you say when you approach a girl?Someone on seddit posted a youtube link that was about body language displayed by world leaders. One way to display dominance over someone is to grab their elbow when giving them a handshake. I just remembered this a week ago and started doing it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when you approach a girl?haha I like that. | /r/seduction | 24/04/11 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when you approach a girl?Yeah that response could make it awkward but you're right, it is part of the game. Living in a smallish town would be a problem. I live in Austin, TX so there is never a lack of new faces. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 10:44 PM |
| 6 | What do you say when you approach a girl?I'll be awesome like SnarkyMcChode and answers as well. I just recently started doing this. I begin by making eye contact with the woman and then walking over. She knows we had a moment and now she sees me heading toward her (sometimes as a cruel joke I'll be getting close to her but then quickly change direction to fake her out; not sure why I do this but it's fun). I put out my right hand for a handshake and place my left hand on her right elbow. I don't remember where I read this but the auth… | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 09:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Musings about cologne, scotch, and giving off confidence.Red label is great but to each there own. Flask because there was not suppose to be booze at the event. I like to break the rules. | /r/seduction | 23/04/11 05:51 AM |
| 1 | 'Nice guys aren't really nice' GIVE IT UP.I prefer chaotic good. | /r/seduction | 19/04/11 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Attracting girls, but I'm not closing them. Why am I not trying? Help.I have the same problem. For me it started when I had an amazing stretch where three girls basically did all the work. They escalated and I went along for the ride. Ever since then I expect girls to escalate which results in me doing not a lot. It's been difficult but I have been trying to get out of this mentality. Good luck to you. | /r/seduction | 18/04/11 05:41 AM |
| 12 | Guys, how would you react to a girl being "alpha?"Girls that act alpha are a major turn on for me. I mentioned in a previous FR of mine that a girl took my hand and led me to the dance floor. We made eye contact right before and I thought it was awesome how she just went for it. Makes me realize I should just do the same. | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 06:35 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Reflections on a failed nightI've never started the night out solo so props to you. | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 06:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Making ProgressWent out again last night. Waitress at bar was extremely attractive. I wasn't at a table so she wasn't serving me. She walked by and I got her attention. We talked for probably 5 minutes and then she continued her job. Later in the night around 1:30 she was done with her shift and talking to a bouncer. I am by myself now, lost my friend going to another bar, and look over at her and we make eye contact. I raise my eyebrows for seem reason and she raises hers. I walk over and talk to her. Turns o… | /r/seduction | 10/04/11 12:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Making ProgressMaybe, hopefully. Last night was not the norm though. I hope I can get a streak going. I'm definitely done going out and not talking to women. | /r/seduction | 08/04/11 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Regret is no funI decided to call her and were going out Friday with a mutual friend and the HB 5. I'll post if anything exciting happens or if I fail miserably. | /r/seduction | 07/04/11 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls just don't seem to be attracted to me. How can i change that? Tips on dressing better and sending out positive vibes?This. Every girl that I knew in which I was 99.9% certain she was attracted to me I was not attracted to them. I gave one girl a chance and it ended up being a "friends with benefits" deal for a little over a year. Eventually she started to go crazy and I stopped talking to her. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Shit, I don't know all the terminology, but I gotta tell this story.I return with the beer and a drink for my friend, and ignore everyone but my him and his girlfriend. (girls read as: Friends are important to me) I make sure to have a loud and funny conversation with my friend's girlfriend (girls read as: comfortable and friendly around women in platonic situations) I always like hanging out with my one of my best friends and his girlfriend for this reason. I make sure to pay most of my attention at first to them and then shift my attention to the other women. … | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Awesome Indicator of Alpha - Being told you look like a celebrity/actor!I've been told I look like Steve Mcqueen, Gene Kelly, and Christoph Waltz from Inglorious Basterds. I think people need glasses. One girl I met loved Gene Kelly and could not get over how I looked like him. She told me she thought it was very hot a number of times. I still somehow managed to mess things up with her. | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 02:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Archer quotes (the TV show) and womenDidn't use danger zone but I did use small miracles. She was like, "what did you say?" I replied, "small miracles, I look for them everyday" She thought it was cute. | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 06:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close with a friend's girlfriend.I was concerned about this for a while but this happened over three years ago. I've gone to parties and bars with her since the incident and I've never see her do anything suspect. I am looking forward to the wedding. She has some very fine cousins. | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 10:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close with a friend's girlfriend.Alcohol can do crazy things. I made out with my best friend's gf. Fortunately before it could escalate anymore he called me. She freaked out and we agreed to never talk about it again. They are getting married soon. | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Share your best flirting tipsIf you tease the girl and she teases you back then you know you are making good progress. Her teasing you indicates she is comfortable around you and it is time to escalate. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 06:49 AM |
| 1 | The Importance of ConfidenceSuspenders are a good, unique item that women love from me experience. I was not wearing suspenders that night though. | /r/seduction | 10/11/10 07:03 PM |
| 2 | The Importance of ConfidenceI started out with a group of friends but they left after I had been talking with the girl for 20 or 30 minutes. | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 08:01 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle that, Seddit?Two months ago I wrote about a girl who decided to give me the cold shoulder after I asked her out on a date. I stopped communication with her unless I saw her on campus or at a party and then I would make small talk. Saturday night she was over at my house for a party my roommate was throwing and she was buzzed and I was no longer receiving the cold shoulder. I was receiving a lot of attention from her throughout the night. She tried to dance with me, and like you, I brushed it off for whatever… | /r/seduction | 08/11/10 07:15 AM |
| 2 | She's Either Interested, or she isn't....but what the hell is this?!Let's do it. I would love to figure this out as well. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 02:03 AM |
| 2 | She's Either Interested, or she isn't....but what the hell is this?!First of all you seem to have the exact problem I have. Talking to women, no problem. Getting them to go on a date, problem. I am beginning to really, really dislike text messaging. I would try calling or asking her in person because she seems to like you. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 01:27 AM |
| 4 | Hey seddit! So this girl is visiting me this weekend...This and this. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 11:23 PM |
| 1 | The best reason to "hit the gym" isn't gaining strength or losing weight...Exact reason why I'm about to go lift. | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 11:19 PM |
| 1 | About to meet a girl I met online....That's good. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Secrets Of Body Language (2008), History Channel (From Documentaries)Very interesting. Thanks for posting. | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 10:00 PM |
| 2 | every one of these damn 'get a girl' help pages states 'build up you self confidence' but not one tells you how.Okay well then you should set about to accomplish this goal. When you accomplish it confidence will follow. Gaining weight was difficult for me while losing weight would just happen. I reason the opposite holds for you but this does not matter. Instead of focusing on lifting, focus on running X miles a day. You will have to watch what you eat. Easiest way to cut calories is drink nothing but water and milk. Cut the soda and other drinks completely. I like to drink to alcohol in a social setting … | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 06:16 AM |
| 14 | every one of these damn 'get a girl' help pages states 'build up you self confidence' but not one tells you how.I made a post early today regarding my woman issues and the responses were great so I will give back. In high school I had no confidence. I did not play a sport. I weighed a 115 pounds. I would look in the mirror and be so embarrassed by how skinny I was. My father noticed this and canceled my World of Warcraft membership and said try crew for a semester and if you don't like it go back to WoW. I tried crew and ended up staying with it all through high school. I gained muscle and placed in a few… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 05:48 AM |
| 4 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?The consensus seems to be she was looking for sex or at least physical contact. There is one problem. I am a virgin by choice. Some of you may laugh but it truly is by choice. I have had the opportunity a few times to have sex with a woman and somehow managed to say no. Don't get me wrong, I do want to have sex but as I have become older, I'm 21, I do not want to have sex with just any random girl. I would like to be in a ltr first before I even think about doing so. Being a virgin puts me in a … | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 01:18 AM |
| 2 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?Thanks for all the advice, I really appreciate it. I'm kicking myself in the head at the moment but I should get over it by tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 09:43 PM |
| 10 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?When she invited herself over I didn't really think anything of it. I guess my thought process at the time was play it safe. I never would have thought by doing so I would ruin my chances. With hindsight being 20/20 I should have realized she wanted me to make a move and done so. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 07:41 PM |
| 10 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?She was wearing heels. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 07:31 PM |
| 4 | From hot to cold, what did I do wrong?Considering everything went down hill after that night then no kino was most likely my downfall. I'll keep this in mind for the next time I have a woman invite herself over. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 05:21 PM |
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