After the events of Thursday night I needed to redeem myself and get my confidence back. I left the house with the goal of making out with a HB 8+, and I told myself I had to do it, there was no other alternative.

I go to 6th street with my roommate and we start scouting. After five minutes my eyes see a group of three women. The blonde one, HB 8, is wearing a tiara and I assume it is her 21st birthday. The brunette is gorgeous, a HB 9, and the last girl is a HB 8 as well. I decide the HB 9 is who I'm going for.

I like to make eye contact before I move in to open so I wait till the HB 9 looks my way and her eyes are looking into mine. Instead of looking down or away she keeps the eye contact. My heart starts to race, this is extremely attractive. I struggle to keep eye contact and raise my eyebrows, she raises hers, and the bites her lip. The interaction basically looked like this, link, except the eyebrow raise first, then the biting of the lip, and the fact that it was not nearly as hot.

After observing this I immediately walk over to the group. My roommate takes the two HB 8s and I focus on the HB 9. We talk about meaningless stuff for five minutes and then the strap to her dress falls off her shoulder. I reach in and pull it back up over her shoulder making sure to leave my hand there for an extra second. She then dips her shoulder letting the strap fall off again and I make it known that I found that very sexy. We have now firmly entrenched ourselves as part of the group and go with them from bar to bar.

The three decide they want to dance, I tell them I need a drink first and go to the bar and buy a gin and tonic. I rejoin the group sipping on my drink. She asks what I'm drinking, approves of my taste, and takes a sip. She then grabs the lime out of the cup and bites into while keeping eye contact with me. I think she might be seducing me at this point. We dance. I keep my hand on her shoulder and the other on her waist. I rub her shoulder and tell her I'm going to keep that strap there. After a few minutes I move my hand off her waist and further down. I need to escalate this. She places one of her hands on my outer thigh and then grabs my ass. I have this.

At two in the morning we head back North. I get off the bus and walk them back to the sorority house where they live. The other girls go inside and the HB 9 tells me to wait right there, she will be back. After 10 minutes she comes out with more comfortable shoes on. We sit down on a bench and I start the kino again. I go in for a kiss but she says I have to work harder for that. I place my hand on her thigh and begin to lightly caress her.

She then asks, "what do you find attractive in a woman?"

I respond, "Shoulders."

"Really", she says.

(Quick aside: I have found one way to turn a woman on is pick a certain part of her body and tell her why you find it attractive in detail as you touch that area.)

I remove the strap from her shoulder and began telling her why I like her shoulders. I trace the outline of her shoulder and then I follow her collar bone to her sternum. I do a play by play for her while I'm doing this.

She whispers something along the lines of, "that is very sexy but you still need to try harder."

Damn, she is playing very difficult. I start to kiss her shoulder with little pecks and slowly make my way to her neck. She moans and cocks her neck to the side. I kiss her up her neck but when I get to her lips she puts a finger on mine. At this point I'm like, damn, what do I have to do. All this time my hand has stayed on her thigh. I now focus there and move my hand slowly under her dress. She has her hand on my thigh and remarks, "I like your jeans, kind of tight but they show off your form."

I say, "You mean my ass."

"Well they definitely do that," she responds.

It is now 3 am and I'm wondering if I'm going to make out with her or not. Guys are not allowed in the sorority house so I tell her I need to go to bed I have class in the morning. She offers to drive me. I tell her we have been drinking and it is not a good idea. She insists she is sober and she drives me back. We get to my house and I know she is thinking I'm going to try to kiss her. I get out of the car look at her and say, "I do not think I'm going to let you make out with me." She laughs. I reach in pull the strap off her shoulder and say, "keep that down on the ride back so you will remember me."

She asks, "You really aren't going to kiss me?"

I say, "No, you will have to let your imagination do that."

She puts on a sad face asks, "When will I see you again?"

I texted her today and we are going out on Tuesday. She told me she cannot wait to see me. I definitely think I screwed up now that I have had time think about it. She drove me to my house I should have told her driving back is too dangerous or something and brought her inside. Hopefully Tuesday goes well.

What definitely worked was Kino. Kino. Kino. It worked wonders. I could see her getting more and more aroused as I touched her. The shoulder maneuver was all kinds of awesome that I just came up with on the spot. I did kiss her but not on the lips. I guess it was a really long shit test but I think I did a good job of turning it back on her. As I mentioned before I think I should have gone in for the kiss or invited her back inside. Hopefully I didn’t mess stuff up by turning it around on her.

Update: I had made plans to see the HB 9 tonight. With school and projects looming I texted her on Monday to tell her I could not make it. She texted back with, "how about Thursday." I told her that I have an important assignment due on Friday but Friday afternoon/night works. She texted, ":( okay, fine." I kind of lied to her. Not about tonight, but Thursday. I have plans to go out with my group of friends and do not want to bring a woman along. I hope I do not see her while I'm out. Would definitely be awkward.