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Yeah. Maybe not to the same extent as you but I definitely feel that way sometimes. I wouldn't say so much that I feel like a loser as much as I just feel... lonely? That's kind of extreme but the best way to describe it. Looking at my phone after not checking it for a half a day and to see the only text I have is from a sibling or male friend I'm just like fuck I miss talking to girls. Only advice I guess is, use that as motivation to meet new girls
/r/seduction14/02/18 12:51 AM
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probably not the answer you're looking for... but i've been in your shoes plenty of times and the easiest answer is: it doesn't matter. At that point, she's already interested and just waiting for you to make a move. If you two are chatting, just hold eye contact after you stop talking for a few seconds and then go for it.
/r/seduction05/02/18 01:50 AM
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I hear you. I primarily talk to girls weekends only since i'm busy during the week. BUT, there are times when I go out for happy hour drinks with friends during the week which is a pretty popular scene if you know the right places to go.
/r/seduction22/03/17 03:00 AM
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I can see how it's an opportunity for you to show you have passion about stuff, which could be an attractive quality, but i def think it depends on the situation. If youre in a bar, I usually just say "oh I do X for company Y" and then ask them about themselves. In this situation, I firmly believe they're asking out of courtesy or not knowing what else to say and don't actually give a fuck, so I turn it around to let them talk about themselves some. If you're on a date, I think it's more applica…
/r/seduction22/03/17 02:56 AM
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If you're going out to parties like you say, how is it not natural to invite them to come to the party too? Girls want to party too bro. Just tell them early on enough for them to plan on going with yall. Like if the party is Friday night hit her up like in the morning or even thursday night. Any farther before thursday night is kind of odd from my experience, people don't plan that far ahead in college unless it's an actual organized event like a formal/function
/r/seduction20/03/17 03:42 AM
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I would say step one if I were you is to get some buddies you can go out with on weekends. It's a hell of a lot harder to put yourself out there if you're going out alone night after night, in my opinion As far as the being interrogative... that's not necessarily a bad thing, it means you actually are interested in people. That's more than a lot a people can say (a lot of the time I struggle just faking that i give a fuck about whatever the girl is saying). Just find a way to make your "interrog…
/r/seduction20/03/17 03:37 AM
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Would you rather just wonder about what could have been your whole college career or would you rather take the chance on the probability that you're not awful in bed? I just graduated college man, and I'm telling you, you WILL regret it. You need to take advantage of this time. If you have your pick of the girls, pick one you think is the sweetest/nicest and is least likely to shit talk you if you're not a rockstar. Just for the sake of keeping the option of hooking up with the others open. That…
/r/seduction20/03/17 03:32 AM
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lil Swayze from Road House: "Opinions vary"
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:30 AM
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All I can do is play it by ear and see how things go. This was all really helpful and please don't delete your posts (if you were going to) because I can reference these in the future!
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:43 PM
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Well we are committed to each other… I don't know if I would say I'm gonna marry this girl (we're only 20), but I don't think we're "placeholders" for each other, if you will.
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:29 PM
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Wait, what's the problem?
/r/seduction26/12/13 10:20 PM
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I completely agree. I have to learn to love myself so that others can too. I realized that I don't needed someone else to validate my life. This is important I think. But honestly, I do think that since I am in a relationship with this girl that she should invest time and effort to making her partner feel good just like I do. Is that wrong of me to expect that out of a relationship? I understand it's all ultimately up to me, but shouldn't a partner be appreciative/complimentary of their partner?
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:42 PM
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I'm a thinker and it works against me sometimes. Overthinking something can really blow it out of proportion and I think that's what happening here.
/r/seduction26/12/13 09:39 PM
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How can telling her that improve the situation? i'm not doubting you, it's an honest question. An article provided by Xiko hits the nail on the head. I see how this is all in MY head and MY issue. How do I proceed now to improve?
/r/seduction26/12/13 07:26 PM
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By the way, thank you for that link. It was very helpful in identifying what my issue is. Note I said MY issue, instead of HER issue. It made me realize that I cannot control what she does/says to me, and that if she is not doing what I want her to do, then there is only so much I can do. It's crazy how many symptoms I have from that bulleted list… It sucks cause now I see it's MY short-coming but at least I have identified it. Have you any advice about how to get rid of feeling/doing things fro…
/r/seduction26/12/13 07:25 PM
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You are doing way too much stuff expecting her to act like you do and that is not going to happen. Woman has a inner sense to see the intent of the actions. So the whole "lead by example" isn't a good approach? What is? I realize I am kind of seeking her approval for validation and it's unhealthy, but I also think that I shouldn't HAVE to seek her approval/affection, it should come from her naturally since we're dating. I'm not saying she's always giving me the cold shoulder, she IS affectionate…
/r/seduction26/12/13 07:11 PM
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Agreed. If you skim some of my replies to Xiko, you'll see that I'm somewhat craving some more affection from her. How do you think I can bring this up in the best manner?
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:44 PM
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We're about 9 months in. I don't know what I plan on, I plan to keep going with her unless something happens that causes us to break up. If you are doing to receive it back it is not going to work. What do you mean? I compliment her because I know she's insecure and I want to make her feel good, but also cause I do find her attractive/I'm not lying to her. But I do go out of my way to help her feel good about herself… when she doesn't reciprocate it back then I feel like I'm just transferring my…
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:41 PM
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Well the way I got her was stringing her along in a FWB situation before she confronted me and asked to date. To which I agreed. I'm very complimentary of her and try to be loving and keep the vibe between us very loving/affectionate. Sholuld I not?
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:17 PM
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I've noticed my confidence go down since I started being in a relationship. I used to be great with the whole game thing, getting girls at parties ( I'm in college), I was confident and witty. But it's declining now that I have a girlfriend. I've noticed it's probably because she doesn't verbalize her desire for me and it makes me feel like she doesn't want me or feel attracted to me like she was before we started dating. I mean shit, I know she's insecure about her looks and I regularly complim…
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:51 PM
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BEST RESPONSE, ONLY ONE YOU NEED TO KNOW: "I don't know, you have a yardstick?"
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:47 PM
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So what I'm getting from this is: hide no emotions or worries but instead state them confidently and straight-forwardly, no beating around the bush.
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:42 PM
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Oh yeah that's not an issue. I'm not saying I'm some sorry sack of shit, I work out, have friends and have a good life, but I have personal things like insecurities I want to tell my girlfriend. Shit that makes me look less masculine like "you don't seem like you want me" and things that seem traditionally like something girls say. So that's why I'm hesitant to say them
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:38 PM
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I don't quite know but I have an itch to be open and reveal my entire self while still revealing my best self. Things that I want to tell her that make me seem insecure/unattractive are like "give me compliments more" and shit like that
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:34 PM
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You're right, thanks.
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:59 AM
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See I want to but I don't know if I do if it will just bring no positives, just her seeing me in an insecure light, which isn't good.
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:53 AM
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jus sayin', drinking helps me last longer. don't drink too much tho, you'll get whiskey dick
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:31 PM
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Guilty as fuck... I actually believe that if you do it enough drunk than you believe you can do it sober and it happens easier. That's happening to me right meow.
/r/seduction30/06/12 01:25 AM
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high energy. nuff said. Be fun. Also a key is to know when to isolate, and how. spike attraction, escalate a little, and "get some fresh air" or something, ya dig?
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:09 PM
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you still have to be able to get them INTO your bed before you can show them, and by then... well, you already would have gotten laid no matter how big it was. YES! Great way to put it.
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:06 PM
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I completely agree with nearly everything you've written. I would have enjoyed it even more if it didn't read like you were yelling at me... Just a bit of constructive criticism
/r/seduction07/06/12 05:02 PM
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you never finish the sentence?
/r/seduction01/06/12 08:56 PM
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OK gonna say it, probably get flamed. Here's what you wrote: There are some secondary virtues as well and they help but they can never make up for lack of primary virtues: I. Physical Attractiveness. III. Money. Just sayin', I know a lot of people who get action solely based on looks. And cmon, we all know money can be all you need to get laid (if you're looking for a gold-digger)....
/r/seduction01/06/12 01:38 AM
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Lol i did too, it looks ridiculous. yes we screwed up
/r/seduction01/06/12 01:21 AM
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Your solution works. Also, if it feels THAT unnatural for you, you can try the less intense version that I'm actually a fan of cause it makes the girl wonder if you're doing it cause you like her or if its because it's a comfortable position: If you're sitting next to each other on the couch or on something with a backing to it (read: not a bench), put your arm around her but NOT on her, just rest it on the couch or back of the chair. You can touch her body with your arm (actually this is best) …
/r/seduction01/06/12 01:20 AM
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That last point is interesting... most girls are too rough for me to bust when they jack me off. Like, they don't respect the sensitivity of the tip and just mash that shit.
/r/seduction05/05/12 08:29 PM
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That's very true. Sometimes your technique/style just meshes better
/r/seduction28/04/12 03:32 PM
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I'll check it out, thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction27/04/12 06:10 PM
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Hahahaha you're pissed man. Just chill bro you could have saved me quite a bit of time if you could have kept your diarrhea of the mouth under control. Seddit can give you tips but you're so far, far away from being able to give Seddit tips. Where did I give tips...
/r/seduction27/04/12 12:39 AM
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When you talk to girls do you feel like you're being yourself or that you're putting on a front to succeed with them? You know, I've actually thought of this as well, and I do believe that could be the or one of the issues. But I also don't know any routines/lines or whatever. I'm only 18 so everything I do is pretty natural game at parties or social circle shit. And when I'm talking to girls, everything is (for lack of a better, or just different, term) natural, I don't feel uncomfortable or as…
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:33 PM
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What do you feel is lacking? I can't put my finger on it but my best description would be 'fulfillment'. You've been doing it wrong for 2 years dude. I respectfully disagree. The reason I posted it in seddit is because I thought of it more as a discussion point, rather than a question. Perhaps others aren't getting rewarded well enough mentally as well. I gotta say man I don't think some of the harshness in your post was necessary, but thanks for your opinion. And I've read the sidebar homie I'v…
/r/seduction26/04/12 11:28 PM
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I'd set up a date next monday at your place. Cook dinner? IDK I'm in HS but that seems like a solid plan for your situation.
/r/seduction24/04/12 12:56 AM
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I think you mean hypothermia... but good efforT!
/r/seduction18/04/12 06:14 PM
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Why is this being down voted? this is completely within the realm of possibility. and plus it's not like he's shitting on OP for being "old"
/r/seduction16/04/12 05:08 AM
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I pay on the first date just cause it's usually cheap and can't hurt you, only help really
/r/seduction16/04/12 12:21 AM
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Eh, no thanks. It appears I was already using alcohol as a crutch, don't want to throw another substance in the mix as well
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:42 AM
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I find i'm not too talkative in social situations after burning. I save the buds for quiet time
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:17 AM
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It does, thank you. I hear you with the social momentum thing, that's very true for me as well
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:00 AM
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To be honest it's everything about social interaction. I open better, energy is higher, say better shit, everything I do is so in sync and fluid. Edit: that's why it's hurting me so much now
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:50 AM
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tell that to the millions of other teenage drinkers. I know you have good intentions, but that's a kinda unrealistic request.
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:49 AM
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Well no but I'm sure he was a really insightful fella, no?
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:20 AM
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my old pal Timothy Leary old pal, really? If so that's sweet!
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:05 AM
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Jesus christ.... I was DYING a minute ago. "I stomp my feet to let you know you're in my breeding territory" .... shit had me goin!
/r/seduction04/04/12 01:52 AM
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yo don't sweat it man. Don't be overeager on the texts; you've never even met her! Kino kino kino. when you greet her, start kino up right away so it's natural later on.
/r/seduction23/03/12 01:11 AM
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It is very strange. She pulls away, looks at me and asks, "what?"... like wtf I should be saying that to you hahahaha
/r/seduction23/03/12 01:08 AM
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Where has he been? I actually posted a thread about his absence a while back and got no definitive answer.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:41 AM
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Yo if anything a limp is a topic of conversation, nothing more :)
/r/seduction23/01/12 05:12 PM
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agreed. hard to say flawless in any encounter but if there is such a thing this is it!
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:55 PM
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Instead of honestly answering without knowing how she felt about it, I would have avoided the question. Could've said: Do you? Yep actually I'm addicted to meth, crack, and heroin. <-- (joke... obv) Almost treating it like a shit test except she serious. But shit man you didn't know so I wouldn't worry about it, she's just odd.
/r/seduction05/01/12 01:50 AM
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Which head?
/r/seduction03/01/12 03:02 AM
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Banter. Jokes with sexual innuendo. Teasing. Those are what I think of... but you're right it's hard to define when I think about it...
/r/seduction02/01/12 11:00 PM
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YEAAA
/r/seduction12/12/11 07:15 PM
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What 80 tards down voted this??? Anyways, good job dude. This is only the beginning, just wait for when results actually start to come in.
/r/seduction06/12/11 11:28 PM
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I think there are 350 in my class... so I'd guess like 1400
/r/seduction30/11/11 07:17 PM
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It's just the culmination of all the previous positive experiences I think this is spot on don't do that- just focus on your own shit Hahaha I thought of that too of course but I couldn't help but raise the question here.
/r/seduction30/11/11 01:00 AM
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Well I never said that the girls are goody goody church choir girls, but they aren't your typical slut. They are open to hooking up but not to just anyone... ya know, "normal" girls hahaha I'm in HS btw so that plays a part.
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:57 AM
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Actually yeah in a lot of cases. I have never seen him walk straight up to a girl and start chatting. A lot of what he does is somewhat "behind the curtains", ya know? He doesn't necessarily game hard in person at school, but he chats girls up over text all the time.
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:55 AM
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hahaha I won't post them, but I actually had him send me them last night to see what his magic is. Not incredibly to my surprise, he is pretty mundane and though I wouldn't call it shitty game he surely isn't mr. suave
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:52 AM
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Bravo dude that's a great response. He isn't Mr. Popular or anything and I'd say i'm even more social than he is, but he's great at two things: Fearless - he'll escalate as quick as he wants Push pull - He is generally unsure of what he wants and it shows... he'll talk to a girl for a little, then forget about her for a week or two. and when he decides to jump back on, they are all over him.
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:52 AM
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Yeah you gotta keep your mind busy somehow or your oneitis is going to set in deeply/deeper
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:35 AM
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I see what you mean... The only thing I guess that is noticeable is his attitude... he truly doesn't give a shit. And though I realize that's an attractive characteristic, I don't think it's enough to produce some of the things girls say/do to him... he just told me tonight that some girl offered to finger herself in a video chat for him... given she's not the classiest of girls but still.... that's not normal IMO. Disclaimer: I'm not bashing or hating on these guys I just want to know what the …
/r/seduction29/11/11 04:53 AM
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Though I agree, the girls are not always sluts. Overall, girls are so ready to go at it with him it's insane. That's why i pose the question and my suspicions of why, which is his good looks. I know that's not what we preach here but I'm really just curious if I/many other people are just not doing it right or if it's something associated with physical attractiveness is all.
/r/seduction29/11/11 04:25 AM
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I don't see a problem with you pursuing other girls while she figures out wtf she wants. Don't waste your time because of her indecision. If she wants to be all wishy-washy with what she wants, let her do that and consume all of her time and thought... don't let that affect you.
/r/seduction29/11/11 03:34 AM
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Caribbean Pork (probably more fitting to the summer) Just get some pork, and season it with salt, pepper, pineapple (preferably grilled), little bit o ginger, thyme, garlic, onion. Throw some black beans, red/green peppers in there. IDK about cooking temps/times, just go online and search a random pork recipe and use those figures. Asian Chicken Get some chicken breast (boneless). Put them on a plate, season w/ seasoned salt, pepper, garlic, onion, ginger. Massage it in there since you're going …
/r/seduction26/11/11 04:59 AM
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Hmm. I'd say "Come see me in person then" or just push her buttons "describe exactly what you don't like about it"... then do precisely what she says, jokingly
/r/seduction26/11/11 04:37 AM
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Oh I'm not underestimating, i'm relating to it.
/r/seduction26/11/11 03:47 AM
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LOL @ "The Fear"
/r/seduction25/11/11 09:56 PM
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I'd call comcast's customer service before you
/r/seduction22/11/11 06:31 AM
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lol i can see you really care about this interaction sir. Do yourself a favor and stop responding dickhead. I see you've got a bad case of internet balls
/r/seduction22/11/11 02:15 AM
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Cause that's relevant...
/r/seduction21/11/11 09:29 PM
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I'm sorry o' godly one. I didn't realize i was in the library of Harvard. MA BAD
/r/seduction21/11/11 05:46 AM
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eye doent no wat yur tawking abowt
/r/seduction21/11/11 12:40 AM
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Fuck off. I think I spelled those right :). douche
/r/seduction21/11/11 12:30 AM
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u want what u can't have
/r/seduction18/11/11 03:10 AM
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Was really stoned at a party (first mistake) and went up to this really cute chick who I didn't know personally, but knew who she was. I said hi and made some situational comment/joke (i don't remember it but it couldn't have been that bad, or good hahah). She just turns towards me, says "you're so weird" and walks away. I was shocked. As she slowly got up and walked away, I just say "wow I wish I was as cool as you!" sarcastically. She looks back and honestly i thought i reeled her back in caus…
/r/seduction15/11/11 10:36 PM
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Fake it till you make it bro. my 2 cents
/r/seduction15/11/11 10:29 PM
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shudder
/r/seduction11/11/11 11:02 PM
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same man. are you in HS? if so check out highseddit
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:52 PM
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Not trying to be a dick but you kind of sound like a "nice guy". Of course I'm in no place to make assumptions based on reading about 3 short paragraphs about your persona. Just my opinion. However, what helped me out A LOT (used to be a textbook nice guy) was the cocky-funny approach. Fake it till you make it bro! After a while, you'll sort of reach a happy medium between nice and cocky-funny. At least that's what happened to me. Good luck man
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:47 PM
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some you used but I use: babe (baby is too personal IMO), honey, hun, sweetie, cutie
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:44 PM
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Ashy Larry And IDK if this is any good, but for Jessica I thought Dickey... cause Dickey Betts wrote the Allman Bros.' "Jessica"
/r/seduction11/11/11 10:42 PM
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Though the 2nd-3rd lines are true... i think there's something to be said for which of the two are more likely to attract more women...
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:13 AM
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UNACCEPTABLE!!!
/r/seduction03/11/11 11:31 PM
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agreed... if your reg game is good, chances are your text game will be too. i'll put it this way: if you're a confident swaggered out dude in person, you're not gonna be a little weak beta bitch over text. BUT if you're a weak beta bitch in person, it's still possible to get good text game.... so why not just work on the first so youre set on both counts
/r/seduction03/11/11 06:59 PM
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Be direct Kino don't give a fuck Be direct Kino don't give a fuck be direct kino don't give a fuck don't give a single fuck
/r/seduction03/11/11 06:49 PM
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That last girl that plays that trick... what a bitch!
/r/seduction02/11/11 09:22 PM
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It's kinda like booze. Maybe it'll help you out, but do you really want to develop a habit of it and NEED it as a crutch whenever you go out? I take Jack3d (pre-w/o supp) before I work out (obv hahaha) and when I'm on it I always feel great talking to girls in the gym and around there. (in HS)
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:00 PM
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personally don't like the idea. Unneeded and all the problems you state above WILL happen IMO
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:56 PM
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Well technically, she's already been "eaten" so she is left-overs regardless of how immoral it is to say so...
/r/seduction12/10/11 02:09 AM
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super-eskimo brothers? just a thought...
/r/seduction12/10/11 02:08 AM
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eskimo brothers
/r/seduction12/10/11 12:20 AM
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You should just go back there and say hello to him. You won't have to have something on hand to say, I'm sure he'll talk enough. Say you're just stopping by to see what he's doing after work/this weekend/whenever. Give him your number and be glad that you made this guy like 10000x happier
/r/seduction11/10/11 08:06 PM
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SIDEBAR
/r/seduction03/10/11 09:32 PM
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Well Ilike a good challenge every now and then. As I'm sure a lot of others do
/r/seduction01/10/11 11:17 PM
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So you lose hope on all girls that aren't throwing themselves at you? Pretty sure that's what game's for....
/r/seduction01/10/11 04:49 PM
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Let's hope OP was not blessed with endowment
/r/seduction30/09/11 10:05 PM
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Maybe try to understand the situation a little better and just take it slow. Don't just bang her next time you see her. If she appears OK, then I see no reason not to proceed as normal. If she appears unstable at all I'd hold off just out of common courtesy you don't want to take advantage of her nor do you want to add to her confusion. Play it by ear, she could just be having a bad week... happens to everyone. Edit: So I guess i'm saying Yay, but a conditional yay. Use good judgement; only you …
/r/seduction30/09/11 10:02 PM
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cool. like a more extensive sidebar hope it stays current
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:18 AM
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You're stating the opinion that you would expect trans women to have low standards, seeing as not most people are interested in people of that sexual orientation. Fixed for ya. anyone with a shred of dignity would know that a person who thinks they should take whatever dregs happen to hit on them, is not a person they want to associate with. Never said they should just sit with their legs wide open yelling "come get it anyone and everyone!" I did however say that I would think they would be less…
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:36 AM
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hey well sorry bud if i hit a nerve i'm just being a realist. I never said I have no respect for them... you're making the assumptions here brother I'm just stating opinion. or if you want to play personal attacks i'll be glad to but I don't see the need
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:19 AM
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good to know...... they shouldn't be picky seeing that probably less than half the opposite sex population would be interested in them.....
/r/seduction28/09/11 08:47 PM
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So why don't you tell us a little more of what you're going for? Instead of telling me what you AREN'T looking for, tell me/us what you ARE so that we can provide you with the advice that you're seeking, hopefully :)
/r/seduction28/09/11 08:46 PM
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better to go to r/sex. But I would guess transgender women aren't that picky when it comes to partners, so just make your intentions clear and treat them no differently than another person. Good luck finding one that's halfway attractive, there's only one I know of in my school of 1500+
/r/seduction28/09/11 01:13 AM
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The end of that sounds like a law of physics hahaha
/r/seduction25/09/11 10:46 PM
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sweet jesus i can't upvote this enough. one night i got multiple numbers in town, and for some reason, i all put them named as the first letter of their name..... so the next morning i had like 6 new contacts: A, J, S, Q, Z, Y or whatever they were hahahahah
/r/seduction24/09/11 03:55 PM
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No I was just making the reference that the super HBs are the ones that (for me at least) tend to give out bitchy rejections. Not gonna lie I do put the super HBs on a pedestal, but it's only about an inch or two high :). It's hard not to when we are such visually aroused creatures.
/r/seduction22/09/11 08:49 PM
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I thought I was the only one... seriously. this shit works hahahaha
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:14 AM
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they've got the world by the nutsac so true they should be dancing all day
/r/seduction22/09/11 01:54 AM
36

horrible rejections = funny stories and only funny stories not destructive situations... it's all in good fun. good post edit: some of these chicks had to be like HB12s
/r/seduction22/09/11 01:09 AM
1

sure you win
/r/seduction22/09/11 01:05 AM
1

similar... teasing is negging without the compliment sandwich
/r/seduction22/09/11 12:25 AM
1

Wow... I'm in the exact same situation right now. Mostly cause they're friends exes in my case though hahaha.
/r/seduction21/09/11 10:48 PM
2

I'm pretty much OK, but my biggest hangup is definitely isolating/closing. Picking the right time to isolate/close sometimes rattles around in my head. Assume I've got her attracted; that part usually doesn't give me any trouble.
/r/seduction21/09/11 10:47 PM
2

I mean... not every day, but it comes up every now and then. Also, some girls say "fuck me" (not in the sense we'd like) when they're frustrated; like if they can't understand their schoolwork they'll be all frustrated and say it. That works too. You can kinda feed it to them so they say "bite me" by just teasing them/negging them. I try not to use the term neg, I just look at it as teasing them like a younger sibling.
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:15 PM
2

When a girl says "bite me" I always say "where and when"
/r/seduction21/09/11 06:57 PM
1

80s rock gangsta rap Blues Saraceno: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDF-IwkfI2w&feature=related or http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0SNdhYX5-hA&feature=related Some of you may not like Blues Saraceno just cause it's not... normal music. But I play guitar and if any of you do check him out he's got crazy skills and really plays a great bluesy metal
/r/seduction20/09/11 11:39 PM
3

ya man i'd say it was a perfect opportunity and not at all too fast
/r/seduction20/09/11 11:20 PM
1

Dress well, be smiling, seem fun, make eye contact, hang out with hot chicks... Or you could just be butt naked I'm sure you'll get a lot of approaches.
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:56 PM
13

Well she brought it up...
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:14 PM
2

Any pointers in increasing confidence and sharpening my game? Do exactly what you did here :) People will give you other "mental exercises" and shit like that and it does work, but to an extent (it will only get you so far). Then you have to implement those attitudes and do exactly what you did here. Tell me, how confident and carefree were you after you #closed this cutie? There's your answer... good luck man definitely off to a great start
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:13 PM
1

aka be calibrated......
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:04 PM
1

we all fall victim to that man... in like late middleschool-early high school that must have happened to me like a good ten times hahaha. i (used to be) a big pussy when it comes to closing TBH it's not even like I pussed out here I was just way too drunk. first dose of college hit me hard hahah
/r/seduction20/09/11 06:48 PM
2

Thanks for the encouragement bud
/r/seduction20/09/11 02:26 AM
1

I agree... well it's all good shit happens. Good news is I know now that there are plenty of girls available when I go to visit my brother at college. Experience had, lesson learned; hopefully I'll bauss it up next time
/r/seduction20/09/11 01:06 AM
1

That's kinda what I was going for. I knew other girls saw me talking to all the other girls there, but I never really thought that it would hurt my chances, rather it would make them better. I wasn't being sleazy or anything, so I think it upped a little social proof. In my head I had the idea of "Here's this high school kid visiting his older brother at college just fearlessly chatting it up with all the people (girls especially) at the party. What a boss" hahahaha
/r/seduction19/09/11 08:45 PM
0

I don't remember much about what I actually say unless it's REALLY good hahaha. I do remember things I do usually because I go into a night with a goal or something that I want to focus on. I'm TERRIBLE with names. I just wrote a fuzzy FR this morning about Saturday night party where I opened a good 20-30+ sets and I can't remember more than 3 or 4 names. I was TRASHED though haha
/r/seduction19/09/11 06:32 PM
2

Yeah I'm kicking myself for not getting with her now
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:30 PM
1

Yeah I got a little too drunk but I'm still happy with how I did. I didn't really fuck up too bad with anyone, and I opened way more girls than I would've if I was sober. Little confidence boost for when I go back to hitting on HS honeys this weekend hahaha
/r/seduction19/09/11 05:29 PM
2

Whisper in her ear and our faces touch. Oops, now we're kissing in the middle of the dance floor. Boss. Nice FR man very detailed.
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:36 PM
2

Oh I did build little relationships with all/most of the girls I talked with. It's not like I would open a girl, then exchange two sentences and move on. I did spend a lot of time with each set/girl (unless they showed no interest), but I didn't linger around them all night long. Next time, focus more on isolating one girl. This is true though I didn't really work to isolate anyone.
/r/seduction19/09/11 04:26 PM
1

You should always be in game mode man! Remember, game everyone you meet (girls atleast hahaha)
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:16 PM
1

Hmm i'll try to hold eye contact when speaking now... I usually break it just because it's natural after holding it for so long while they talk. I've found that it usually doesn't matter when you break it or hold it, just that you are giving it more than normal and that you're not looking down.
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:54 PM
2

Hmm interesting. I usually do it the other way around. I was always told it's rude to not look at someone who is talking to you. When I talk though, I often break eye contact to look at other things or in the distance, as if I'm thinking. If they're not looking at me when they're talking, then I don't still look in their eyes, but I try to maintain eye contact when they talk just as common courtesy
/r/seduction15/09/11 09:53 PM
1

You can get their number and text them with fine text game, but ultimately the impression you make in person will determine whether or not she goes out with you. Try to build a little more comfort or attraction, at your discretion I've had girls give me their numbers somewhat enthusiastically only to never "be able" to come out with me.
/r/seduction15/09/11 09:32 PM
1

I love chatting/gaming w/ smart chicks. They can "play along" ya know? I can make jokes that aren't exactly laid out right on the line and they can understand and have witty comebacks and such. Not to mention they're just more fun to be around, ultimately making it easier to joke and have a GOOD time!
/r/seduction15/09/11 09:18 PM
2

FWB?
/r/seduction13/09/11 08:28 PM
1

I'm semi-thin... I'm 5' 10" at about 150 lbs. It's really not a problem because I lift 5 days out of the week and have a good physique... I used to be super skinny though before high school. Just start lifting you'll be fine
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:03 AM
3

The line from that girl is fucking GOLD.
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:04 AM
1

aka shit happens
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:48 AM
4

Not arguing, and I don't want to preach to the choir. Just throwing a viewpoint out there for you to think about. Say what you want, but as long as people keep saying they're feeling better because of it, it will continue to be rumored as a better way to live. And (no disrespect to those on r/nofap) I don't need nor want to take my "argument" there because I disagree with people making a huge deal of it like it's the best thing since sliced bread. If it's not your thing, cool that's fine, but do…
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:46 AM
0

Damn that's tough. My guess is you didn't build enough comfort. I wish I could give advice as to how to proceed but I really don't know. Honestly I'd just forget about her. You're in college so I assume there are plenty of horny chicks around.
/r/seduction06/09/11 11:40 PM
2

She likes you. Say what you want; I like rscats's idea. Personally I would leave out the 'never' and change would to wouldn't just because the original sounds very serious.
/r/seduction06/09/11 11:37 PM
2

Slow clap Terrific, sir. Terrific.
/r/seduction06/09/11 11:34 PM
1

Hit me up in 3-4 years we'll tear shit up.
/r/seduction06/09/11 11:20 PM
5

If you have a unique name, introduce yourself and when they say "what?" or whatever just play around with them: "I bet you a drink that you can't spell it correctly" something like that
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:39 PM
2

Fake it till you make it. And by then you won't have to worry about faking it anymore, cause it'll be there/come with success.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:36 PM
1

I can't go to bars being underage, but when I go "out" to parties and shit, I always try to be one of the best dressed people around. It's a subtle peacock but doesn't look ridiculous, it looks good! I usually fit into the preppy type wear - polo with khakis or button down with jeans/khakis. Sometimes I like to wear a t-shirt that fits me well and goes well with a pair of shorts. I have a white t-shirt that is pretty plain except for a "FCIAC Team of the Week: my town Wrestling" in blue letterin…
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:33 PM
2

I love bringing up threesomes when girls talk about other girls with me. Fun subject and easy transition to turning things sexual - a barrier that many face, including myself at times.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:29 PM
2

I'm in CT........... but I'm also 17 hahahahah highseddit is my domain
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:25 PM
5

Not trying to be a dick, but have you tried it for a two week period? I enjoy porn and spanking the monkey but when I stopped, I have to say I noticed great increases in mood and drive/confidence. And I didn't stop cause I was in dire need of a game-changer, just for shits and gigs really. If people are doing it (not fapping) and seeing results and feeling better, how can you say it's not a better way to live? What are you going to do if you run into a great girl, and you just had sex yesterday?…
/r/seduction06/09/11 09:14 PM
6

People say placebo but everyone I know that has stopped jerkin it (and I know your question is about porn; I'll get to that) has felt 1000x better and more energetic. I'm on week 2 of not spanking the monkey and I feel like a new man. Now, porn. Even though I haven't jerked it, I've still watched porn every now and then. Not really on the internet, just on TV like cinemax if nothing else is on at like midnight hahaha. I think it ups my sexual drive just cause it gets me horny but I can't bust a …
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:59 PM
2

I only really do it alone when I need to do something boring (organize folders, cook food, etc.) or when I'm with male buddies. I've smoked with females a good amount of times and each ends up with me being too introspective and analyzing. I pretty much turn into a major AFC when I burn. I've noticed it and completely cut it out from my "social" life that is partying on weekends and shit.
/r/seduction06/09/11 06:54 PM
1

Bam droppin the bomb. This is pretty much exactly what I was gonnasay
/r/seduction06/09/11 01:44 AM
2

Perhaps it was the weed, but kino became such a natural thing at this point. Lucky man. I find weed makes me uncomfortable around girls especially if I'm gaming. I'd have a three minute inner monologue before I touch a bitch hahahahaha.
/r/seduction06/09/11 01:41 AM
1

I hear you on this.... and I do think it fits my personality. good insight thanks
/r/seduction05/09/11 08:13 PM
2

Something in here that I also do is I address groups of girls with "ladies". No one else I hang with does this, what do you guys think? Is this good/bad/neutral or what
/r/seduction05/09/11 07:01 PM
0

why was this downvoted this is sound advice
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:50 PM
2

terribly sorry i really must have fucked up your day :)
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:49 PM
8

Yeah and I find this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honey_badger Thanks for the link tho
/r/seduction02/09/11 10:45 PM
6

what's a honey badger
/r/seduction02/09/11 10:11 PM
1

Didn't say I believed it just heard a rumor is all. Pretty common rumor though
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:33 AM
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not trying to be a dick but what else does seduction do for you in life other than that. sure you can say "gives me confidence" or whatever but ultimately everything you gain here is in pursuit of the pussy
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:49 AM
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damn are college girls really that easy? can't fuckin wait baby hahahah
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:40 AM
2

Dude I changed schools during middle school and when I came to the new school I wasn't sure on how to go about meeting people just like you are, and honestly man it just falls into place. Since you're the new kid, people are going to be wondering who you are and shit so it will really come naturally. Just be outgoing and be smiling throughout the day (not like a jackass, just like you're a happy guy). I find it best in these situations to get started talking to people right away because then it'…
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:37 AM
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isn't that why we're all here............
/r/seduction28/08/11 03:25 AM
0

hmm interesting. I've also heard that they're ugly as sin... what would you say about that?
/r/seduction28/08/11 01:52 AM
1

I'm gonna have to disagree with nausicaaa... I think what Tortured Sole said was spot on: Wouldn't worry about her blocking the kiss - she probably doesn't want to be known as the one who makes out on the sofa at parties I'm 17 as well man and I'm confident that was the problem. Also, check out highseddit; seddit for high schoolers. It's somehwere on the sidebar
/r/seduction27/08/11 04:57 PM
1

Are Europe's girls any easier than US? Or areyou from Europe...
/r/seduction27/08/11 04:51 PM
3

shit that's smooth as hell hahahaha Don't worry about it man shit happens - there was not much you could do, he and his wing were already two steps ahead of you planning wise so you were always playing catch-up, ya know?
/r/seduction27/08/11 12:27 AM
1

girl getting ridiculously frustrated Note this: a girl has to be pretty off-put/frustrated to make an unusual decision, ya dig? If one does get frustrated, they're going to endup competing for you probably which just feeds your plan lol. Also, just a thought that popped up... you can test their willingness by giving them SCTs (sexual compliance tests). This is where throughout the night (pick your moments well obviously) you test them with things like "kiss me on the cheek" or whatever suits you…
/r/seduction26/08/11 06:45 PM
1

Hmmm.... Honestly I don't see a virgin losing the v card in a threesome. That doesn't mean don't go for it though man. I think if you go about it perfectly there's no reason you don't have a shot. Since I'm 17 as well I can tell you that these girls (if you say are both attracted to you) will discuss who 'gets' you before the party or mid-party isolated from you/anyone else. So they'll probably be planning for ONE of them to get with you - maybe this is way too out-there but what I'm thinking is…
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:38 PM
1

It could be those negative reactions, or those reactions could be the girls loving all the possible money you have. Might as well play to your strengths, right?
/r/seduction25/08/11 10:46 PM
6

gonna have to agree... This is good... if you want to be a robot when talking to girls. robot's voice: "Attraction built. Initiating Comfort Phase." Seduction is learning how you can bring out your best self to women you meet, not learning to interact with women like you're following lab project instructions.
/r/seduction25/08/11 05:54 PM
1

just put it out there. If she says no, you don't have to lose any time on her anymore, and you can go for new girls. If yes, then good!
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:39 AM
5

good advice, but what if it's "oh god i'm so horny" hahahahahah
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:32 AM
1

Hmm didn't know that. interesting
/r/seduction19/08/11 04:58 AM
3

must be a lot of asians reading this hahah. That's a bit harsh, though to be quite honest I have noticed asian women being particularly uncoordinated drivers.
/r/seduction18/08/11 06:17 AM
1

will do, i'll reply to one of your posts here after i get back next week. And yeah man highseddit is kinda dead so any small little thangs you are willing to contribute are helpful to the community. good luck with your girl
/r/seduction18/08/11 05:37 AM
1

Cool man thanks for the insight. I plan to swing for the fences and if it doesn't happen no biggie my bro's the one that has to go to school with them hahah. Check out highschool seddit man, it's on the sidebar here... we could use a little more activity.
/r/seduction18/08/11 05:24 AM
4

Good deal man. I wouldn't say I've done anything for you but to be honest, seddit's only a small part of your change up. You're the one that makes the change, seddit just gave you the idea. That's my 2cents. Props to you to having the motivation and balls to get it done brother!
/r/seduction17/08/11 05:50 AM
1

When I get in funks I have to say the best way to get going is to just get really pumped up and psyched to go get some women. I find when I get these good mindstates, I plan to go out THAT night, not "oh ill do it this weekend". You gotta carry that excitement into the night. So when I'm pumped up at say 4 o clock, spend the next hour to two just showering and making sure i'm dressed well and looking presentable... I find it's good to keep music playing that keeps the excitement up. Then go out …
/r/seduction15/08/11 07:57 PM
1

I'm sorry but I have to: "You probably think strippers like you too"
/r/seduction15/08/11 06:24 PM
1

clarify por favor and i'll do what I can to help Oh and Rlight is right this is askseddit material technically, though I don't really care for the distinction
/r/seduction15/08/11 06:00 PM
1

Thanks bud
/r/seduction07/08/11 05:07 AM
2

*She might be a great girl and you might get married and have babies and live happily ever after, but she might also be a total vapid bitch with a fetish for pooing in your face and stealing all your money. Hilarious yet true. Don't give her credit she hasn't earned, she could be a terrible person. Not saying treat her like shit but let her earn your respect not just have it because she has a vagina. Edit: I've been here for a while and I still don't know how to quote, bold, italicize etc. Can a…
/r/seduction06/08/11 05:00 AM
1

I don't even think you should actively pursue her. If you guys are good friends/hang out a lot then it should just happen naturally at one point. Probably when you're both drunk would be my guess.
/r/seduction02/06/11 01:34 AM
2

*Thought you should know I totally blasted my pecs today. *Let's have a frank discussion about our favorite sexual positions. *I'm glad we stay mildly interested in each other's lives. *Hey, the cops are looking for a sexy person and a retard ... they already got me, but you still have time ! Now grab your crayons and hockey helmet and get the fuck out ! IMO these are the only ones that are mildly good/entertaining. Most seem try-hard to me
/r/seduction01/06/11 10:35 PM
2

If I had brass balls/a little drunk, I woulda just went for the kiss for a few seconds, then pulled away, smiled, and said "Well at least now the tension is released a little". But in reality I would not have done that hahahaha, I think you handled it well. The fact that she said "I know. I do" when you said you're going to "end up together at some point" means you'll both go at it sometime later in life. Get with some other women and you'll probably end up getting with her later on.
/r/seduction01/06/11 10:24 PM
1

Yup. Personally, I kinda like waiting to send them manually. Part of the reason I do it is to implant the idea in my mind that OTHER things are more important, not just acting like it.
/r/seduction01/06/11 10:15 PM
1

Quicktip: Fake confidence ;)
/r/seduction01/06/11 07:43 PM
1

I'm in HS, and I had intense one-itis for a girl last year. She's still one of the top girls in my book. Not drop dead sexy but very cute and nice/innocent. After one night where I had her over alone (don't know how in the hell I couldn't close if she came over alone), I gave her the "look" where she's not looking at you, but you look directly at her so she faces you so you can go in for it, and she didn't look my way. Maybe she didn't see me, I think she did but was too nervous (like I said, in…
/r/seduction01/06/11 07:37 PM
2

Seduction can be made whatever you want it to be. I apply it to pretty much all areas of my life, and obviously many of those are non-sexual.
/r/seduction15/05/11 09:21 PM
1

Success --> Confidence --> More success --> More confidence --> Even MORE success
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:21 PM
4

Good deal man that's quick progress. Busting through those "barriers" that you speak of feels so good doesn't it?
/r/seduction15/05/11 03:39 AM
-1

xD... Gnocchi got clogged somewhere in my sinuses from this.
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:46 AM
2

Actually, though I agree it's usually better to not take it seriously, sometimes you can make it into a joke by being OVERLY serious where she can tell you're just screwing around. But I guess in the end you're still joking around so whatever
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:42 AM
1

Let the girl ask you out? Hmm... don't know how much I like that. I think if I sat around waiting for a girl to ask me out over text I would have already broken rule 1, lol. You got shit to do, so make it quick and set up a time. End of story.
/r/seduction12/05/11 03:05 AM
1

:)
/r/seduction12/05/11 03:02 AM
2

I don't give a shit about your negative opinion (if you had decided to express it). Only thing I'm giving here is a few laughs. That's all. Sorry world. lol
/r/seduction12/05/11 01:06 AM
1

Make no apologies for your sexuality and You won't know unless you try! Two most important quotes of the FR. Great job btw, i'm jealous
/r/seduction12/05/11 01:06 AM
2

I agree, but I'll continue to wipe drool from my chin from staring at her rack all day.
/r/seduction11/05/11 01:52 AM
1

And being alpha has nothing to do with being popular or a poonhound, or sleeping with a bar slut. Though it can if you want it to. That's the wonder of it.
/r/seduction10/05/11 11:04 PM
1

Extremely competitive. Oh wait, I'm in high school.
/r/seduction10/05/11 09:43 PM
2

Damn I thought that was the general term for that. What did you call it? hahah
/r/seduction10/05/11 09:41 PM
6

Well scratch both of our ideas. According to the description she's literally the girl next door.
/r/seduction10/05/11 12:05 AM
0

Unless they're brother/sister
/r/seduction09/05/11 09:23 PM
5

Who gives a shit? Kiss her so you either: stop worrying or stop wasting your time Assume attraction and confidently go in for it.
/r/seduction08/05/11 11:19 PM
3

This is very interesting... Are you supposed to fit the mold of one of those 4 personality types because I have to say I'm either none of them or a mix.
/r/seduction07/05/11 05:00 PM
1

Well I bet you got an A in English class. Very well written
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:51 PM
1

The weekdays are for building interesting life experience and the weekends are for using those experiences to attract women. Best quote I've read all week. I am active during the week, I lift every day as well as play the guitar, but I still find the "afterglow" effect from a killer weekend going down throughout the school week.
/r/seduction04/05/11 11:19 PM
1

Well tbh, it's both. Sometimes I feel like I'm losing momentum with a girl I'm in contact with. But mostly it's the one you discussed. After a good weekend sometimes, I'll be DYING to go out and party during the week, but since I have to wait for the weekends, the feeling somewhat subsides during the wait, and though I'm still motivated, I'm not in that crazy, amped up frame of mind that I was in on, say Monday or Tuesday.
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:15 PM
1

Oh stop, I'm blushing
/r/seduction04/05/11 03:44 AM
1

While I agree with that, I think what glirk was trying to say (which I agree with) is that you tell yourself (almost subconsciously) that you're better at gaming when high, so when you are sober you end up not being the witty person that you are when you're baked. Of course the calm isn't a placebo effect, but I do believe what you're telling yourself could be a sort of mental placebo effect.
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:11 AM
1

LOL, I have to say... when I was reading that last paragraph there about what you should do (observing) and I couldn't help but think "That would be fun as shit to to while high" hahahaha
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:08 AM
2

I absolutely LOVE pounding a few brewskies or shots just to get a steady buzz and the not give a fuck attitude, then smoking to calm me down and be able to laugh at a lot of shit and say some funny shit --> be fun to be around.
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:05 AM
1

Oh shit... I looked in his posts a few days ago and didn't see anything like that. Must have overlooked it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 01:40 AM
1

Is he okay?
/r/seduction04/05/11 01:30 AM
1

Are you in HS? if so check out /r/highseddit
/r/seduction04/05/11 01:29 AM
1

I would say that I'm starting to learn more from writing and going through the night again, but back when I was a beginner, there were times I would post up where I thought I did well, and could only find a few mistakes here and there, but people were able to fire off multiple things I could have reworded/done better. It's sort of ironic, what I'm saying here; the more experienced you are, the more you learn from writing
/r/seduction03/05/11 04:01 AM
1

I see. Well I'm still a rookie so I don't know how much I would be able to contribute, but I'll keep it in mind. If you were to start it up again, I'd... enroll. Lol Edit: Well, actually I had an idea just now. How about you pick a few FR's from the weekend at your discretion and tell the "students" to analyze problems/positives about them. A sort of "What would you do?" thing... similar to your in-field youtube video deal, just more of a constant source. Soon enough you'll run out of PUA videos…
/r/seduction03/05/11 03:54 AM
2

Yeah all of a sudden he just stopped posting. I thought a lot of his stuff was pretty good. It's a shame.
/r/seduction03/05/11 03:50 AM
1

Definitely noticed a bit of lack of discussion in the comments for each FR. As OP said, most comments are just words of encouragement. Of course positive feedback is good, but constructive criticism is also needed.
/r/seduction02/05/11 09:58 PM
2

I'm curious as to what Seddit University is all about. Anyone care to add some details?
/r/seduction02/05/11 09:56 PM
3

Act gay and kino like a madman (since you're allowed to - you're gay remember?). Then kiss/fuck that girl
/r/seduction02/05/11 09:40 PM
2

Forget her. She lost attraction for you because you either didn't escalate properly or promptly. Next time just push your boundaries with the girl.
/r/seduction02/05/11 08:48 PM
1

Also it should be noted that saying "we should make out" could spur on either ASD or her just playing hard to get. So why not skip those possible roadblocks and just hit the switch?
/r/seduction02/05/11 08:31 PM
2

Honestly I don't see much that you did wrong unless you're leaving some parts out that turned her off. Just from reading she was acting a little weird... she makes me pinky-swear that I'm not going to try to have sex with her and she suggests we watch a movie(?) I had to read that line over a few times. Talk about an oxymoron. I would personally move on just because in my mind you're going to put more thought and effort into salvaging this job than you would by going out and meeting a new girl. …
/r/seduction02/05/11 02:42 AM
2

I don't think it's a goal worth dwelling on. It will come naturally after you force it the first time.
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:52 AM
3

I mean you can use it... but honestly it's much easier and more direct to just go for it. If she's having second thoughts, asking or saying something at all gives her an out. Just going for it, most likely she'll be accepting. If she's really not feelin it, she'll just cut it short.
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:50 AM
2

essentially that's what he's saying
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:22 AM
12

Wonderful. Absolutely boss is the only way I can describe this. It's funny, I was going to make a post solely to emphasize the usefulness of heavy kino, but this sums it up. I think some of the beginners are unaware of its power, hhaha.
/r/seduction02/05/11 12:21 AM
1

Yeah I was pretty happy with my text game... She must have not been serious though because when I saw her later that night I didn't see barely any IOIs... I was pretty hammered though I very well could have been missing them. Oh well.
/r/seduction01/05/11 09:34 PM
3

Haha!! I always forget girls names when they introduce themselves too. I think everything you did was pretty solid. Magicroot has some good advice. You could have gotten her number pretty easily I think. The line you suggested, is alright, but I don't think it needs to be that long. Just hand her your phone and be like "Put your number in so we CAN meet up soon". I don't see you getting rejected.
/r/seduction01/05/11 01:58 PM
1

Haven't thought of that yet. Possibly something like "I didn't think you could handle it"... since I did tell her to try not to get too excited.
/r/seduction30/04/11 08:29 PM
1

Ah... well I guess I'm sort of the culprit in this all... Sorry to have stirred the pot too much. The reason I used it is just because even though it's a meme, I feel some people think whatever comes after it is somewhat more credible or factual than just saying "Girls really like when you do X". As a mod of course it's up to you to do what you feel's right. Again, I'm sorry, I should have realized it can be misconstrued by those outside of the community. I do respect women, as I think the vast …
/r/seduction30/04/11 08:25 PM
2

Well I'm in high school so it's hard for me to do so in school... but HELL. YES. I always do this when I'm on vacation if I meet a girl that's a little older or even the same age I'll sometimes say I'm older for shits n gigs.
/r/seduction30/04/11 03:59 AM
4

That's not the case at all. I will continue to refer to them however I please. Hey, tomorrow they might be slabs of ham.
/r/seduction30/04/11 03:58 AM
2

Ah! Didn't read the last sentence. But the middle part I don't think he was hitting on them, just trying to find his girl.
/r/seduction29/04/11 11:50 PM
1

Am I missing something? Where did he hit on the coworkers?
/r/seduction29/04/11 11:33 PM
0

I'd probably say after the "this dress makes me look fat" comment: Eh... for lack of a better word. Dealt with a curious lil smirk
/r/seduction29/04/11 01:38 AM
1

That's hilarious. I watched the next one about the worm and it was pretty funny too
/r/seduction28/04/11 08:22 PM
2

Would you mind sharing how long you lasted? I think that's a major sticking point for people here.
/r/seduction28/04/11 07:02 PM
5

Of course it was. GJ. Now "use [your] fucking balls" and seal the deal! ...then post a FR ;)
/r/seduction28/04/11 04:09 AM
1

Hmm... interesting. Because of the outcome-dependence? I don't know. When I go out with the goal of getting some ass I usually get all amped up, and that leads to good things. Sometimes ya gotta hype yourself up with mindsets like that IMO.
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:06 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:04 AM
4

I agree, however there are exceptions. If they are blunt questions with a concrete answer, then yes. But there are questions out there that spark discussion of different methods and such, and that's what Seddit's about.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:24 AM
1

I think it's a little more personal than you project. If you're practicing seduction for the thrill of the hunt sort of thing, and actually perfecting your game, then I can see your point. But if you're just trying to get laid... I have to say this is pretty backwards. I practice my game solely to get with women. So however that may happen/end up doesn't really matter to me. If I get some action, then good, my goals are accomplished. My response to this is that the question is irrelevant. Who ca…
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:21 AM
1

Bummer dude. I think (even though you probably know this by now) the better route to take would be to be more direct with him. Have you spoken with him about it?
/r/seduction26/04/11 02:55 AM
10

I love this lil newsletter you give every week. One thing I'd like to add, however. On the second post about spontaneity, learning to "live in the moment" is something a lot of people struggle with for many reasons. One that I feel could be the most common is: They're thinking about other parts of their game while talking (which is not recommended, though people do it), so they are stuck when the opportunity presents itself. Also similarly, they could be a little slap-happy that they just got ov…
/r/seduction25/04/11 04:03 AM
1

I may never push myself out of my shell if I don't try this Would like to go out more and be more social More than enough of a reason to join. Fuck it! Try new things man!!
/r/seduction24/04/11 02:45 AM
1

Seddit's the only subreddit I visit, so I dunno.
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:38 PM
-6

Open a girl who is clearly with her boyfriend/husband/whatever using a really canned opener where the guy can see what you're doing.
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:34 PM
6

Could be one of those "purely FB" bf's, ya know? Don't take that as an immediate buzzkill
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:05 PM
1

No one reads the sidebar before posting.... Is there a way to make a sort of "Sticky" thread that stays at the top with all the sidebar info? I think that would probably be more effective.
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:54 PM
2

Word. I understand your point about the advice thread, but sometimes it gets a little annoying to provide nearly the same advice day in and day out with a little variation for each specific case.
/r/seduction16/04/11 10:53 PM
3

That's a great FR. Where's the one for when you went out with this other girl afterwards?
/r/seduction16/04/11 06:41 PM
1

When it's relevant, what's the problem? I'd rather see this than some thread titled "Terrible with women. Need advice" or "Sit next to HB8 in Calculus 101, what to do?"
/r/seduction16/04/11 03:49 AM
1

It's not whiskey dick?
/r/seduction16/04/11 12:10 AM
5

She's CLEARLY uninterested......... Honestly though, I'm sure a lot of it is just an act; that being said, I wouldn't doubt she's a freak and would be down.
/r/seduction14/04/11 08:57 PM
6

If your goal is only to lose your virginity, don't tell her. Why risk her being immature and reacting in an unfavorable manner? Fuck it, tell her afterwards, lol.
/r/seduction14/04/11 01:44 AM
1

IE Ferris Bueller describes this same thing about his friend.
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:44 PM
1

Ahh so it was one of those things you realized looking back. Well then, disregard my suggestion lol.
/r/seduction13/04/11 09:41 PM
14

I don't know if I would have just straight up called him out on it, but I think I would try to let him know that I'm clued in without letting your wife know. Just say things that he should make the connection with... I think it'd be funny as hell if the both of you are having a sort of sub-conscious conversation right in front of your wife while she's... basically being gamed.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:02 AM
24

"Since I've seen you naked it's probably fair for you to see me naked." Then proceed to unzip. Hahaah NAW, I'm kidding. I'd just go up to her AFTER (as others have said) your class and maybe jokingly ask her something like "So I gotta know, what do you do when you have an itch when you're posing?" It doesn't really matter what you say, just try to make it funny and ORIGINAL, I'm sure she's heard all the pathetic pickup attempts before. Make her laugh a little bit, and then ask her out.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:42 AM
3

Not trying to promote myself here, but I really think this is a good quote: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gfv75/those_who_wait_until_everything_is_perfect_rarely/
/r/seduction11/04/11 11:14 PM
1

As my Dad says... "People will love and follow someone with confidence... just look at Hitler" and proceeded to tell me it doesn't matter if it's fake or not, all that matters is if you hide its superficial nature well enough. I find it helpful to have someone in your head at all times to remind you "confidence is key, just look at x".
/r/seduction11/04/11 11:12 PM
2

lawlcats
/r/seduction11/04/11 11:07 PM
3

Both of your possibilities seem very... possible. lol I actually think the period thing is what happened... The fact that she was deepthroating your finger and was "massively turned on" but didn't want ANYTHING to do with you and her snatch.... gets ya thinking. EDIT: Could also just be a case of ASD. However, even if that was the case, possibility number two is true (based on what I have here). You barely were fully finished with the attraction phase when you started, so wanting to f-close with…
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:21 PM
2

When you're with a huge group like that, it's sometimes good to pick targets like you did, but if I were you, I'd try to game pretty much everyone and see who hooks the best and then make your pick rather than being dead set on one (if that one doesn't work out, what are you left with?) <--Which is what happened to you. Still good to go out have a good night though as always.
/r/seduction11/04/11 10:13 PM
2

I was gonna upvote, but OP is using the word 'sexy'... Your mom tells you you're SEXY? If she said handsome or cute this would be great.
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:50 PM
2

They do, of course, because they are having fun. Most important line of this FR. Sounds like a good night. It's always a confidence booster when you can have shit like this happen when you've got a monster zit on your face.
/r/seduction09/04/11 02:31 PM
2

Classic Brennaman.
/r/seduction04/04/11 11:14 PM
1

pull back multiple times just as I lean in Anyone else think of the scene with Patrick Swayze from Road House?
/r/seduction04/04/11 11:13 PM
1

Nice to see a female point of view every once in a while. Though I don't quite understand how the context worked out of the "we're doing it right now" when you clearly weren't, I see what you're getting at. I personally feel like a better response would be something like "Yeah I love it; actually we were doing it last night" Would make a little more sense. Not trying to be condescending but I think what you may have seen in his eyes was a mix of the "power shift" you talked about and confusion.
/r/seduction04/04/11 10:44 PM
1

That's reasonable. My social circle is very consistent as far as guys go, but usually we'll just hang out with a girl who one of us is talking to and her friends... and that changes all the time, so it's pretty unreliable.
/r/seduction03/04/11 09:35 PM
7

Why, because he was being an asshole in the first place? Just because you would let someone walk all over you doesn't mean everyone else should.
/r/seduction03/04/11 09:31 PM
1

Can't wait man. I figured even though most of this is for bars and shit I may as well lay a foundation. Either way though, thanks for the insight. Keep an eye out for a possible FR tonight, should be having people over and I'm gonna try to get a nice jam sesh going.
/r/seduction02/04/11 08:51 PM
1

No matter what you say, he's doing something right. The results speak for themselves. I can't disagree with you here hahaha... but I think his looks are a huge factor. Cause he's just a very awkward person socially, but girls always tell me that he's really good-looking... Seems to make sense, cause he always has random girls talk to HIM, not him approaching them. He does have balls/confidence though, I'll give him that. You didn't mention she was texting you back, and you didn't mention her fri…
/r/seduction02/04/11 05:36 PM
1

No, it's not THAT BAD, because he's hooking up with girls. Who gives a shit if he's not using 'correct game'? Fuck technique, it's all about results. Trust me. It's BAD. I'm not saying bad because it's not "correct game", I'm saying it's bad because he actually makes himself look like a complete idiot. It's not just me, all my buddies that sit near me always laugh at him with me when he just makes an ass of himself. With this girl, you were way too eager. You texted her, and then texted her, and…
/r/seduction02/04/11 04:42 PM
1

Usually it's pretty solid... till the weekend when every girl I've been talking to flakes. I've read some inner game stuff and most of it centers around self-confidence; how can I have good inner game when I have so little to be confident about? Honestly, before I joined seddit, it was rare that girls would flake. I'd call them even the night of, and they'd come over like 90% of the time. Now my flake rate is like 90%. The reason I joined seddit mostly was because I couldn't close... Now I can't…
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:32 PM
1

Oh no I do act normal when I'm around girls. I may have painted the wrong picture but I'm not saying I try to be some really sly PUA... Usually I forget about all that shit in the moment and I'm just myself.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:29 PM
1

Yeah, I would say the better word I should have used is frustrated. Waiting for something positive to happen and it seems impossible after all of these problems.
/r/seduction02/04/11 03:26 PM
1

To have it in my power to get (almost) any girl I want in the room. When that time comes, I'm sure I'll feel great. Not to mention the journey is sorta fun too ;).
/r/seduction01/04/11 11:44 PM
1

I am not worthy!! Sweet Jesus.
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:15 PM
2

Happy to help.
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:05 PM
2

I waited for perfection for so long and it never came As did I
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:04 PM
1

I'm also trying to perfect (if that's even possible) my text game. I'll stick with improve. Anyways, what I've found that my problem most of the time, even when I'm making sure to do pretty much everything right is sounding try-hard. It's hard NOT to sound try-hard through texting sometimes. You have to sound as indifferent to her response as possible, and I know that it's hard/awkward sounding sometimes.
/r/seduction01/04/11 12:49 AM
1

Interesting... I'm a rather paranoid person so I wouldn't do this out of fear of possible regret if I actually DO friendzone myself when I could've been gaming, but I am curious to see how it pans out.
/r/seduction31/03/11 11:37 PM
4

Exactly... This quote is for life in general, I just thought it applied well to pickup
/r/seduction31/03/11 11:34 PM
0

Synonym for weird? wtf are you talking about? Just as a sidenote, everyone in my age group grew up using the word "gay" to mean "stupid" or "disagreeable." And you agree with frogma but not me? You're just being ridiculous and, might I say, emotional in a most feminine manner because you got butthurt by my first statement. Edit: Might I add, I'm not going to stop speaking my mind simply because I'm being downvoted. Fine, people here may not like my statements about this, that's fine, but tbh I c…
/r/seduction31/03/11 10:32 PM
1

Do you really think 10 year old kids calling each other "fag" over Xbox Live are pushing some sort of anti-homosexual agenda? No, it's just a word they're using. This proves my point EXACTLY
/r/seduction31/03/11 09:01 PM
1

What bmore said. I just think the term is odd (happy?)
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:58 PM
1

I see what you're saying... but frogma just elaborated on my exact feelings. He just made what I said clearer, that everyone in my age group grew up using the word "gay" to mean "stupid" or "disagreeable."
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:57 PM
0

Didn't realize you'd get butthurt so bad
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:55 PM
0

Completely irrelevant? You've never heard someone say "That's really gay dude!" when someone does something odd? They're not saying that's really homosexual, they're saying that's odd!!
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:55 PM
1

I don't know what you're getting at to be honest hahaha
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:53 PM
-1

W/e guy... just pisses me off when people think they're the defenders of an entire demographic is all...
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:29 AM
-4

Wait.. who are you talking to? Mr. Victim or me? lol
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:19 AM
-1

only thing that bothers me is when people can't realize that gay is a synonym for weird. Doesn't mean I'm a homophobe or am speaking ill of gays. I have no problem with the gay community, but I DO have a problem with those who are overly sensitive to the point where you turn yourself into the victim in every situation possible. Lighten up for god sake, take a joke.
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:52 AM
-3

Only one that bothers me is kino. Don't know why I just think it's gay
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:27 AM
7

It's a state of being, not a way of acting. This is a great answer in and of itself. BE confident KNOW you're awesome - don't superficially psych yourself into thinking you are for the 5 hours you go out... it shows. It should be something you know to be true, like the sky is blue.
/r/seduction30/03/11 12:59 AM
3

I'd make an attempt to take her back! I would not let some dude walk all over me without a little resistance! If he gets all serious and violent, and I know I can't beat em down, I'd just walk like it's nothing... What I liken your situation and what you did to is: You're talking in a group, and another person just cuts you off mid-sentence and starts talking. You don't say anything to him and don't even finish your thought after the d-bag is done.
/r/seduction29/03/11 09:44 PM
1

She's a 9, you gotta set yourself apart! Play with her, cause let's face it, guys probably don't have the balls to play with someone as good-looking as she is.
/r/seduction29/03/11 02:05 AM
3

I like! I'm a fan of joking around with the girls, so I really liked your burlap sack line.
/r/seduction29/03/11 01:24 AM
1

I think she just wants to tease me. There you go! I have a feeling she's playing around with you with a bit of interest... I'd say play along and make sure to tease HER and play around with HER; I see this as one huge shit test.
/r/seduction28/03/11 09:38 PM
2

She tells me to drive safe, I tell her you too. Hahahahahha I can't tell you how many times I've done this. Not this exact thing (drive safe), but you know, assuming people say things they don't and replying to that, or saying something dumb like that.
/r/seduction27/03/11 05:59 PM
1

I'd love to know why 3 people are so disgusted with my post.
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:45 PM
-3

tell them you're in a frat and use letters of one of the bigger ones on campus. That's not smart. Brothers take that shit seriously (people who aren't in the fraternity saying they are). You will literally get your shit rocked by multiple frat bro's if they find out you did this. Just tell the truth, there's no need to "DHV" here...
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:18 AM
3

Jam out to some ac/dc to pull you out of your funk. Sounds weird, but do it. Guarantee you'll stop feeling sorry for yourself, sittin with your thumb up your ass (no offense)
/r/seduction27/03/11 01:11 AM
31

Oh MAN! How can you say this could be your last FR when you lay down a gem like this!? No exaggeration, I think this is now my favorite FR I've read. Good tips, techniques, and actually contains some passion/emotion (something that is lacking at times with other FRs). It's a shame you didn't get laid, but it seems that wasn't as much of a concern; props for not being outcome-dependent. Looking forward to another, if you do in fact write one.
/r/seduction26/03/11 11:00 PM
1

16 out of 20. Usually I looked in their eyes and also if they went back to super serious after smiling... If you laugh at something, you have a cheery look on after for a little bit. I don't know if they switch them up, but I got 4, 5, 10, and 16 wrong
/r/seduction26/03/11 06:35 PM
1

HELL yeah, that's a good idea. No offense, but asking a girl you've never spoken to before out over facebook chat... I mean... cmon! It wouldn't be SO bad if you had previously spoken with her/built attraction. But damn, random guy asking someone out over facebook... shit man
/r/seduction26/03/11 12:06 AM
2

I accept.
/r/seduction24/03/11 10:45 PM
1

I actually did this once, and got a surprisingly positive result. I was expecting a pretty bad response.
/r/seduction24/03/11 10:45 PM
0

Don't worry, we're got the same plague ;)
/r/seduction24/03/11 10:39 PM
8

I think the content of what you said was golden, but maybe try to keep it a little shorter? Only thing I could really point out; be brief. (but I can see here that some of your jokes required the extra wording... so it's okay) Sounds like she's really into you tbh, get out with her and escalate as soon as possible!
/r/seduction24/03/11 08:47 PM
1

Well. I'm not going to beat it for 4 weeks (yes you read that correctly). We'll see how I do. I'm starting a new diet and supplementation, so I figured 'to hell with it, why not?'
/r/seduction23/03/11 02:08 AM
1

Actually, it's better if you just stick a plug up there with a weightlifting chain attached to the end. This way, you have to clench your ass REALLY hard to keep it from falling out. I heard it gives you the ability to take bitches clothes off at the snap of your fingers.
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:54 AM
2

Sure thing. In light of the new edit: Good job! hahaha
/r/seduction23/03/11 01:49 AM
3

I never broke eye contact I could be picturing it wrong, but it's good to break eye contact every now and then. Not for no reason, but almost act as if something more important caught your attention. Just limits the creepiness factor. Staring at someone for 5 minutes straight can be a little odd.
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:05 AM
16

A little unrelated, but just FYI: Squatting at the gym is the exercise that releases the most testosterone in your body. I don't know if you squat, but if you don't, you should start! I bet it'd up the urges you're feeling
/r/seduction22/03/11 01:55 AM
1

I always thought "hell yeah socialize with everyone". HOWEVER, I have got a clinger right now because I laid solid game on her, without really being interested... and well, this shit sucks! The girl is like a 5-6 and not terribly unattractive, but she just won't stop talking to me (text, fb chat, etc). So I guess you can, but be prepared for some poor girl who really falls victim easily to your seduction, hahaha.
/r/seduction20/03/11 05:39 PM
4

I'm in high school and I find it's all very applicable, either however it's usually presented/done, or with my slight modifications to fit the immaturity of a lot of HS girls. Ex: Well thought out, intelligent negs turn into playful criticism (in my experience, at least). Whenever I give a neg that seddit would love, it elicits less of a response than if I just give an outright insult with a jokey tone or smirk. Kino is fine. Disqualification is MORE than fine from what I've seen; I've found a l…
/r/seduction17/03/11 02:38 AM
1

I have no problem making and holding eye contact with people, but are there any surefire ways to make it less serious and creepy? I guess the word would be how to soften your gaze from STARE to casual eye contact Sometimes I feel like my eye contact is too severe and comes off as a little extreme.
/r/seduction15/03/11 09:27 PM
1

I'm sure you're right about people growing, but I feel like if you actually have a very close friend, simply changing yourself won't turn them away. All I'm saying is that a connection with someone doesn't disappear when you change yourself into a more confident, social person. If they don't like to be around you anymore, there was no real comradery. I'm sure people have lost many superficial "acquaintance-type" friends.
/r/seduction15/03/11 08:59 PM
1

I see. That makes sense
/r/seduction15/03/11 08:56 PM
1

I haven't lost friends by changing myself, but I have definitely gotten jealous of my buddy who went from being a somewhat chubby kid to a more lean, but still big kid who is great with girls, gets 10x more action than me. It's not only the 'changing of the social circle dynamic' (which I 100% agree with), but you gotta realize they're gonna get jealous at some point if you really have changed for the better, even if they are good friends. This kid I was talking about still is my best friend and…
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:17 AM
6

Disagree. Your friends aren't friends if they can't stick by you as you improve yourself
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:16 AM
2

I agree with all of this except for the last part. I feel like if her name is super hard to pronounce, it can be made into a joke after you fail to pronounce it once or twice: "Alright I'm cutting my losses, I'm going to call you _____!"
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:12 AM
2

usually unless I'm setting up plans, not one of my texts are 100% serious. I just joke around so they think/believe I'm fun to be around. That's when I get around them. :)
/r/seduction09/03/11 03:00 AM
2

Though somewhat unimportant, it's good to point out that her friends/group will always be more receptive to you if you're a "nice guy", too.
/r/seduction08/03/11 12:56 AM
1

Alright well I wasn't talking about being alpha, I was talking about trying to convince oneself that drinking soda makes you a little bitch. Belief. The ongoing discussion of the matrix continues.
/r/seduction07/03/11 05:18 AM
1

Well clearly I'm somewhat joking because you can't "placebo effect" yourself if you know the supposedly convincing info to be wrong. But I agree, if you were to do it, do it about something bad for you.
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:50 AM
1

Indeed, why not?
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:38 AM
1

Agree. But why not tell yourself that you'll be the man if you just stop chokin the chicken? If it works why the hell not
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:32 AM
2

I think a lot of the reason the seduction community promotes these "methods" and "techniques" is because it is the only way that people with poor self-esteem can feel they "have an edge" (bring them back up to level playing field). I am by no means an experienced PUA, but I feel that after more experience in the field (even if you go out with the most planned, canned routine out of the books) ups your confidence so that, hopefully, after a while you won't have to rely on these techniques that I …
/r/seduction04/03/11 09:50 PM
1

Okay that'll be tough for me since I'm in hs, but hell I like a challenge.
/r/seduction04/03/11 09:38 PM
1

Does it count if you previously knew the girl, but just (got her #, k-closed her, f-closed her)?
/r/seduction04/03/11 02:03 AM
3

While I'm very happy with my progress, the whole thing felt a little "professional." I think this could possibly be because the conversation you had was the sort of typical "interview questions". Spice it up, joke around, don't be serious all the time. Also, I could be reading the situation wrong, but since she said "Have a good wknd", I read that as not wanting to get together over the weekend. (you work, so that's fine) I'd try to seem as least needy as possible (not saying you are acting need…
/r/seduction04/03/11 01:59 AM
3

WELL fucking DONE! golf clap
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:08 AM
2

I wouldn't say I'm trying to gain acceptance from women. Just seeing what works because I know what doesn't.
/r/seduction20/02/11 11:29 PM
2

Yeah, I've seen his stuff. I do like it I'm not going to say I feel 100% natural when I'm doing this, but I do see it as something that can not only get rid of mr.nice-guy, but also I've found that my confidence goes up; I see myself in a better light with this I do agree, though, people should note that not everyone can enjoy being an asshole.
/r/seduction20/02/11 11:28 PM
1

I hear you; my default setting is nice guy too. But it's starting to become asshole when I'm dealing with girls, and I'd always RATHER be an asshole when I deal with girls. It's more fun :)
/r/seduction20/02/11 09:02 PM
-1

Very true, lol. I was having a great time poking fun and being a cocky dick with these girls
/r/seduction20/02/11 09:01 PM
3

I don't know about others, but personally I don't feel that the problem is that women don't know what they want, it's that they can't tell others what a guy did to change their subconscious opinion of him. I feel that some PU material thrives on changing the target's subconscious perception of the PUA, and the "receiver" of the PU material sometimes can't express those things because they don't realize what has been done. Instead, the guy can tell others exactly what he did to make it work. And …
/r/seduction18/02/11 05:14 AM
0

Usually I like to send a blank text right after she gives it to avoid this situation. But I remember last year this happened to me, and I decided to screw with her a bit just saying "Hi" and when she responded "who is this?" I replied "Don't worry about that. I'm watching you, though..." and dragged that on for like a text or two more, then broke it off and told her who I was, etc. hahaha I like to joke, though.
/r/seduction18/02/11 02:53 AM
3

all my boys have the same haircut
/r/seduction08/02/11 11:24 PM
13

Bring your buddies.
/r/seduction07/02/11 11:46 PM
2

Hahaha, I was just thinking of that the other day. (the title)
/r/seduction07/02/11 11:39 PM
2

ha! this guy gets it
/r/seduction06/02/11 06:38 PM
1

It depends on the situation. I usually look for something to push on, first. Don't wanna throw 'em a bone before taking them down a notch, ya know? That's the way I look at it. But I'm sure there are times when a pull/push scenario would work out.
/r/seduction06/02/11 01:37 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction05/02/11 11:41 PM
13

You know, I like the technique you presented here, but something about the way you explain it bores me.
/r/seduction05/02/11 03:06 AM
3

I'm not going to search for a link right now, I'll give you a quick description. It's where you do/say something to your target that implies you're not interested, or disqualifies her, but then "pull" her back in by saying something that shows your attraction/interest. Ex: You have just met this girl and she is not saying much, but just holding a conversation. You say "Wow, you're shy as hell! (push) I kinda like that (pull)". I mean, it's not the greatest example but something I thought of offh…
/r/seduction04/02/11 11:15 PM
1

Shooting from the hip here.... Possibly text them when you find it and jokingly ask who they are cause you can't remember. Seems ridiculous, but idk, I thought maybe it'd make you look badass/DHV
/r/seduction04/02/11 04:19 AM
1

Get her to wing(wo)man for you. She'll want to.
/r/seduction02/02/11 01:42 AM
2

Everyone was learning at one point, most still are. You can't expect the newbies to NOT ask questions... How are they supposed to better themselves? Believe it or not, the sidebar does not have ALL the answers...
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:59 PM
3

Should I get my act together and pursue this? Or how do I get out of this rut in general?? Answer to your first question: HELL NO, drop it!! Answer to your second question: Don't be depressed (if that means no drinking, that's what it means) and go fuck other girls.
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:55 PM
3

Well don't rain on his parade. At least he's making progress...
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:51 PM
4

Well don't rain on his parade. At least he's making progress...
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:50 PM
1

Or maybe you do.......... You won't come off as a douche if you're smiling anyway. Just be smiling all the time (unless you have a reason not to, then you just look like an idiot), you want to look like the most friendly and approachable person in the world. Nobody thinks that guy is a douche.
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:30 PM
5

I laughed at the rape dungeon comment. Does that make me weird? Anyways, get it done. As asm and you both said, she is dtf, just make sure you start escalating right away. She ain't gonna let you slip your dick in if you haven't touched her all night. the "kitchen kino" is going to be your best friend; don't overdo it though, know your limits.
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:28 PM
2

You're too badass to give a shit if she's offended or not, remember?
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:14 AM
5

I think the title of this should be "What bio_informatix thinks is wrong with seddit" rather than "what is wrong with seddit". Maybe I disagree with your points. Maybe a lot of people disagree with your points. In fact, I bet a lot of people DO disagree with your points. How about you better the community that should be "more FR and mindset focused" by posting an FR or possibly a more constructive post than complaining about a flaw or two that you personally feel the need to express.
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:09 AM
2

Not at all. They want you to :). Stop overthinking it and go be friendly
/r/seduction01/02/11 12:31 AM
1

Didn't realize this was a repost. Didn't even bother to check cause it's such an odd video.
/r/seduction31/01/11 03:17 AM
7

Good. So they're into you, and they don't know if you're into them or not. Advantage - pibbman EDIT: Also, think about this. It would be more weird to NOT sit with them after they clearly invited you to (you would look like a huge bitch), than it would if you just sat down and said hello.
/r/seduction31/01/11 02:07 AM
6

Don't overthink it. Some sexy girl is interested, so go spit some game. You don't need some super-cool intro line for when you sit at their table, THEY invited YOU. I'd just sit down, say hello and be friendly. Clearly the whole table knows that one of the girls is interested in you, so if they don't already know what the two other girls did, they will just be shocked that you randomly just sat down with them. Good luck, and why were you sitting alone?
/r/seduction31/01/11 01:58 AM
1

Everything I was thinking was written here. Good reflection, here. One thing I would like to add, though. Intjpua briefly touched on playing the "I'm a nerd" card a bit too much, and I agree, but I think the less you play that card the better. If you show the girl that despite your disability, you are still confident, and don't say things like that at all, I think that would be a very attractive quality. Being deaf yet still having more self-confidence than the vast majority of guys? I think gir…
/r/seduction30/01/11 05:04 AM
1

If you already know each other (meaning talk/have talked a few times) and she knows your personality, it would be odd to just switch to suave mr. pickup all of a sudden. But if you've just exchanged a few words here and there, and she doesn't KNOW you, then just run it normally. If the first situation is what it is, just keep being yourself, and try to throw in little things here and there from PU. And as stroppy said, you are the prize, don't be a submissive lil bitch with her, make her work. T…
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:43 AM
1

I don't think spilling out like 4 lines would be better... Keep it short and sweet. Remember, you don't care enough to acknowledge four points referring to her statement.
/r/seduction29/01/11 04:48 AM
4

I think it isn't.
/r/seduction28/01/11 02:16 AM
2

Nothing that hasn't been said before, she was trying to avoid the "fuck and chuck"/"pump and dump", IMO. She probably feels a little ashamed and is texting you for, like you said, validation. I'd assume you'll get farther next time if you play it like you aren't looking for a "fuck and chuck"/"pump and dump".... lol, I love those terms.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:57 PM
1

Well start hittin on that girl!
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:36 PM
2

Computer lab, where are you? School?
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:27 PM
0

"Well SOMEONE's looking for attention...." Makes her look stupid.
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:25 PM
5

I legitimately laughed out loud
/r/seduction27/01/11 05:18 PM
1

Good ideas here. Thanks
/r/seduction27/01/11 02:04 AM
1

Ok, I see. This isn't until late February but I'll check back after I get home then and hopefully have some stuff to post up!
/r/seduction26/01/11 08:53 PM
1

All inclusive, baby!
/r/seduction26/01/11 03:18 AM
1

I'm with you, to an extent. I don't see myself as a pussy in the least, but there ARE definitely parts of the game where I can be much more daring and aggressive. Good luck to you, get out there and get to it!!
/r/seduction26/01/11 02:05 AM
1

Sounds good.
/r/seduction24/01/11 01:07 AM
1

Ah I see what you mean; you're saying the best way to deal with these HBs that the OP thinks are "superior" is to fully believe you're superior to them, rather than just employing a simple pick-up technique to attract them even though you still feel inferior on the inside. Gotcha
/r/seduction23/01/11 10:48 PM
1

Yeah, I was gonna say to just say you're busy but don't go out of your way to hide the fact you were with another girl. Just play it cool.
/r/seduction23/01/11 10:44 PM
3

Heh, I think you're making the connection of Steve Carell in both flicks.
/r/seduction23/01/11 10:40 PM
1

How do you mean? Just that it's the generic way to deal with it?
/r/seduction23/01/11 10:39 PM
2

Damn brotha, I'm jealous! That is a great FR, you're definitely makin some good progress. I like how you opened sets and didn't linger around, you ejected like you had better things to do/people to talk to. Keep it up, don't get caught up chasing after this 9, it can happen easily. Keep the abundance mentality, and she'll be interested. Someone said this on another thread, but girls are hardwired for telling how much you have emotionally invested in them. The less the better.
/r/seduction23/01/11 09:56 PM
1

I'm pretty sure you give a neg to those types of girls to take them down a notch.
/r/seduction23/01/11 09:07 PM
10

Step outside of your comfort zone. You need to realize there is nothing to lose by being perceived as awkward, cause really that's what you're afraid of. You are most likely never going to see these people again, just sack up and go for it!
/r/seduction23/01/11 01:26 AM
1

Yeah I think there's been an abundance of those AFC posts where most comments are just "read the sidebar". I think those topics are pretty much inevitable.
/r/seduction23/01/11 01:25 AM
1

Yeah, and seddit is for seduction. You know a common definition for the verb "to seduce" is "to lead astray", right? Lying isn't outlawed here; not saying it is encouraged, either, but this is for seducing women, not being the ethically perfect human being. benevanswalker, upvoted just to get you back to even; IMO, you should not have been downvoted.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:42 AM
3

Honestly though it may not be the best option, I highly doubt it will make or break you... Using a gift card doesn't automatically disqualify you from any chance of getting with this girl, and vice versa.
/r/seduction22/01/11 09:28 PM
2

I think as long as you portray yourself as the prize because of your age, rather than looking at it as a disadvantage, you're golden. It's probably clear to the women that you're ashamed of how old you are, or something along those lines that turns them off. Think about it, if you were in college, there are still high school girls that you would LOVE to bang, and I could even go as far as to say that they are more appealing because they're outside of your demographic. That's my theory for the da…
/r/seduction22/01/11 07:40 PM
1

I think this comment really applies to the question about the age thing. I feel that after you've been through it all and getting laid is not the novelty it used to be, the challenge definitely starts to be more appealing than the result. upvoted, even though I still love an easy girl, I can definitely see your point.
/r/seduction22/01/11 07:37 PM
5

I'd probably just be like "take advantage of me now cause in the years to come you'll be wishing you could get an 18 year old!" Of course dealt with a smile.
/r/seduction22/01/11 07:29 PM
1

the "would you? "yeah, sure" thing really doesn't need much more description as it really was just those words. The one girl asked me if I would hook up w/ the 8, and I was like, "yeah, sure. why, is she down?" and she replies yes. As for the hug moment, it definitely occurred to me that it was a possibility, but I went into excuse mode to be honest (she's too drunk, I hate kissing at the very end for a few seconds, etc). Pussy shit, yes, but that's not the problem; I should have been getting wi…
/r/seduction22/01/11 06:13 AM
2

Well if the other people are a couple, I don't see the problem. It's like a double-date. At least she's not inviting a bunch of her own friends. I've had that happen, and it's fucking TOUGH to have to cancel plans with a super HB because she is with multiple friends and you want to stand your ground and say no.
/r/seduction21/01/11 11:41 PM
1

This is true
/r/seduction21/01/11 04:54 PM
3

Pshh these are lacking that special something... this is what it's all about: Get over here now to have your way with me, and then I will make you BACON! you see, guys can't resist some fresh hot bacon
/r/seduction21/01/11 03:30 AM
2

Moderation.
/r/seduction21/01/11 03:28 AM
1

I see. Thanks for clearin' that up
/r/seduction21/01/11 01:53 AM
1

Hmm... italics is stars on each side for me. scratches head - see?
/r/seduction21/01/11 01:40 AM
3

it's definitely not way too long. I'd MUCH MUCH MUCH rather a long FR with lots of good detail, like this one, than one that is a few lines "I saw this girl, talked to her, got her number, kissed her, then left".
/r/seduction21/01/11 12:46 AM
3

From the way you talk, someone uneducated would think you're the guru of pickup. You do realize you're talking down to a member who puts up some of the most wild FRs seddit has?
/r/seduction21/01/11 12:42 AM
1

"What I'm saying is its sedating to the human mind doing it the same way every night." Going out on a limb here... what makes you think everyone has the same responses to this theory that is "95% shit"? Contrary to what you might think, humans are not all robots with planned responses to PU... everyone reacts differently and I don't see how talking to people and having to adjust to different people's attitude/response is sedating at all. EDIT: also, how the hell do I quote someone with that blue…
/r/seduction21/01/11 12:37 AM
2

Jesus, I can't believe the negative vibes on the comments!! Reminds of when male A asks female B "whats the problem??" and she responds "well... sometimes, when you talk to me, I feel downgraded and you are very condescending. And this makes me feel x bad emotion because of your y tone. And then when I feel x emotion I start to do z action and that makes me feel w emotion. And I don't like w emotion" It's pathetic. Some points I can see are true, but I don't see how they warrant downvotes. Thing…
/r/seduction21/01/11 12:23 AM
4

Well he probably just remembered that he wrote that on his post, and when this popped up, he made the connection b/t names
/r/seduction20/01/11 04:13 PM
1

I lol'd hard
/r/seduction20/01/11 04:07 PM
1

As I said to someone else yesterday, in starting to put these theories and methods to work, I've tried to get a few of my closest friends to be good wings, without telling them what I'm into. And I've discovered that people who you, and others, consider to be a genuinely nice guy, that positive vibe they give off is good for a wing to have. It's very inviting to girls, people who are friendly and show it attract female attention, even if it's not sexual. Then it's your job, to MAKE it sexual thr…
/r/seduction19/01/11 03:20 AM
14

I think you did the right thing. You have to show your buddies that talking to the HBs is not an impossible feat, and it's something that should be done.
/r/seduction18/01/11 10:22 PM
1

Okay, well go whatever route you want to as for setting up a date/meeting with her. When you meet up with her, you should be escalating a LOT. You don't want to lose her attraction even more, you want her to see that you are capable of acting on what you say, and confident in doing so.
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:59 PM
2

What a bitch! If I were you, next time I saw her, I would have playfully demanded 9 BP's back!
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:48 PM
1

My brother told me a story about how he was talking with these two girls, both seemed interested in him, and then they started making out. All he had to do was say "Hey now, don't be selfish, I want in!". And upstairs the three of them went. This also takes place during a party at his fraternity house, where he has his own room, so it's not completely applicable in your situation. I've never had this happen to me, but I assume I'd do something similar to my brother, probably just be like "Well l…
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:41 PM
1

Second to last sentence is right. You're losing her attraction by being overly available (texting her/calling her). You need to look as if you have better things to do, it's a DLV to be available to do whatever whenever with this girl. It's sort of like a mystery, you're interested when you know less about it, but once you figure it out and know it well, it's not really that interesting anymore. Edit: Also, how long are you going to wait to get with her? It's possible she thinks you're not sexua…
/r/seduction18/01/11 04:06 AM
2

Not too experienced here, only have had one of these types. But everything I can think of has been said here for the most part, except this: It might help to not have a model type in the movie. So no Matthew McConeghey's (sp) shit, it just makes you look worse. But, on the flipside, it could make her a little horny. Hmmm, thoughts anyone?
/r/seduction18/01/11 12:01 AM
1

Or perhaps Ass Masters 7: The Final Chapter
/r/seduction17/01/11 11:56 PM
3

Seems like she's still interested. Play it as you would anything else. For that info, hit up ma boy sidebar
/r/seduction17/01/11 11:52 PM
1

I don't think you did anything wrong. It's all based on your tone and how you delivered it. Remember, you're too occupied with other things to take time out of your day to "chit-chat", you have more important things to tend to.
/r/seduction17/01/11 11:50 PM
1

I would imagine someone that gives off such a powerful vibe to you does the same to everyone else; if he learns a little game and learns to apply it, I'm sure he'll make a great wing.
/r/seduction17/01/11 10:54 PM
1

OHHH I got you. hahahaha
/r/seduction17/01/11 06:34 PM
1

Nicely done! You managed to get a date with this girl even though you were with two dudes that did nothing but bring you down! I think you did the right thing, no matter how dickish it was, in leaving those two guys. BTW, how was the second wing? Was he just as bad as the first?
/r/seduction17/01/11 06:24 PM
1

It would if you deal it with a normal tone, but if you were to deal it with a joking attitude, where she can tell you're not completely serious it wouldn't.
/r/seduction17/01/11 06:14 PM
1

Ok I have to say I have absolutely no idea what is going on.
/r/seduction17/01/11 06:11 PM
1

I'm not familiar with him, no. Are you asking me what I was drinking? lol
/r/seduction17/01/11 05:10 PM
1

Disagree.
/r/seduction17/01/11 05:14 AM
2

Yeah, just take the rape case, no biggie. Haha no I'm joking, but yeah this is solid advice. If you really need to, do a "freeze-out", which is where when she says/gives the LMR, you just completely stop all activity with her and go do something, like make a sandwich, or check your email, or some shit.
/r/seduction17/01/11 05:01 AM
2

Are you trying to seduce me?
/r/seduction17/01/11 04:52 AM
3

Hahahahaha that's funny
/r/seduction17/01/11 04:46 AM
4

I agree with flatcap here, I think that a basic census with age/height and that stuff is pointless. What does one sedditor's ethnicity or height tell new and experienced sedditors about pickup? The sticking points question is a good idea, though.
/r/seduction17/01/11 04:42 AM
3

I like this
/r/seduction17/01/11 04:40 AM
1

Okay so to follow up on this... I invited her over again tonight over the phone, but she had plans to go to a movie w/ friends. So I invited her to bring her friends along (I was planning to have my buddies over to hopefully occupy the rest of her friends). Turns out she was going with like 6 friends, so I decided not to bitch out and told her pretty firmly that she could bring like 2-3 friends, I didn't want that many people in my house. I told her I'd call her after my shower. So I showered, c…
/r/seduction16/01/11 11:31 PM
1

I agree with the slut mode idea... Just for the record, you don't have to give me a TL;DR, I assure you I read every comment in its entirety :)
/r/seduction16/01/11 11:18 PM
3

I'd even say that they are MORE nervous about what you think of them. They are much more emotional and, at least I think, more worried about how people perceive THEM.
/r/seduction16/01/11 09:53 PM
1

Gonna do it tonight, I'll let you know how that goes hahaha (not sarcasm)
/r/seduction16/01/11 09:50 PM
2

"You have to realize that we're all connected and that if you develop a reputation for lying, that could also ruin your chances with other girls, who might otherwise not give a shit that you're older than they are." Definitely agree with this. I'd say that it's your call on whether or not you want to go that route morally.
/r/seduction16/01/11 12:37 AM
1

I'd have a hard time accurately rating myself, but I like to think I'm about a 7-8. Not unattractive, but nothing special. Still, unless you have god-awful looks, attitude is more important IMO.
/r/seduction16/01/11 12:03 AM
2

I'd have a hard time accurately rating myself, but I like to think I'm about a 7-8. Not unattractive, but nothing special. Still, unless you have god-awful looks, attitude is more important IMO.
/r/seduction16/01/11 12:02 AM
3

Good work, man, you started off very strong, and finished less strong but still in a good spot what with dealing with those guys and all. My question is what happened to head-scarf girl?
/r/seduction15/01/11 11:58 PM
1

I sorta had the same situation last yr. Just keep cool, invite her to do cool shit, but less frequently so that she will jump at the opportunity since it is more rare. Good luck, keep us updated. P.S. Try not to sound needy or desperate, that will kill you (especially with a 9)
/r/seduction15/01/11 10:55 PM
1

Yes, as others have said that is Lance Mason. I don't know, his stuff doesn't rub me the right way. Probably because most of those videos in that x/10 series are for things like club pickup, and I'm only in HS... But still, I sort of feel that his canned openers' success is relying on the inebriation of the target, lol
/r/seduction15/01/11 10:12 PM
1

HAHAHA, you know I was thinking the SAME thing when I wrote it... but hey at least I'm getting all the beta out here on seddit! I'll update with what happens asap... thanks for the continued help, brotha
/r/seduction15/01/11 10:09 PM
1

Ok, I'm thinking. Something that comes to mind for me is to just invite her to come along with me to the party I plan to go to... that wouldn't be beta, would it? Because the way I'm thinking about it, I'm not changing my plans FOR her, and I guess it can be seen as a DHV that I'm going to a party she doesn't know about, and she should feel lucky that I asked her.
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:33 PM
1

You don't think it would be beta to try to set something up for tonight or tomorrow night? That's the only thing that's holding me back.
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:27 PM
1

Well how important is it for you to sit next to her? Can't you just converse with her after class ends and you are both leaving?
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:22 PM
1

Well I wasn't implying that she purely come over for sex, I wouldn't have gotten laid even if she did come over last night. I was implying that we were partying at my house (which we were)
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:08 PM
1

Damnit, you're right.
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:06 PM
1

That'd probably be the better/best way to go And I invited other girls to hang out because... well what the hell else was I gonna do with my night? Lol. I'm not dating this one girl or anything, and if I got with another girl, I think that would only make me appear more valuable (I'm already a year older).
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:05 PM
1

As for the repetitive part, I was somewhat trying to make it a joke. I didn't expect her to whirl around and agree all of a sudden to last night, just kind of bein' a dick, but in a good way, ya know? Idk, that's the way I was thinking of it. And FWIW, I've only recently started asking girls out on the same day. I was tired of making shaky plans, with the conclusion of "I should be free to hang out", then her flaking. Not this girl personally, but you know what I mean. Nothing makes me feel wors…
/r/seduction15/01/11 08:48 PM
1

You're right, I am afraid of failing too hard (I mean, just like any other high schooler who has to be around the same people for a few more years), but I don't think high school sucks. So many opportunities to meet new girls. Everyone likes to think it's gonna be easier when they're "older", but I find it pretty straightforward during high school
/r/seduction15/01/11 08:42 PM
1

No harm in having an advantage/getting a head start ;)
/r/seduction15/01/11 01:05 PM
1

As my dad says, "it doesn't matter if it's fake or not, people like other people with confidence; just look at Hitler" Nothing wrong with faking it. Soon you won't have to if you do it enough.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:30 AM
1

I do think I'm generally good at talking with women. I can get them laughing and shit, but a lot of the time, even though I may not look nervous to the people around me (which is good), I get VERY nervous when the time to close comes, and that REALLY impacts my game. Other than that, I'm pretty confident with how I operate. Closing really is my weakest link, and when I say weakest link, I mean it really is a horrific part of my game.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:26 AM
1

agree completely. shit
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:23 AM
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I don't know how acceptable this is in the community, but booze always helps ;) Edit: You have nobody to ask to go with you? Well assuming you don't, that's a cool event you can invite a newly met girl to. Meet a girl, chat her up, get her number, and text her asking if she wants to go. Seems like you don't have AA, so should work fine. Keep it simple, just by going out and giving it a whirl, you're on track to getting better exponentially.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:20 AM
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Hey man, you gotta start somewhere. Not only are you getting out of the house, you're approaching people (and seem to be comfortable doing so). Don't get discouraged by failed sets, keep truckin'!
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:12 AM
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Well I think it was more of #7... It's hard to convey emotion through text, but #9 was the more laid-back text IMO, was meant to be a joke to her, and she knew it. I hope (I mean she responded in a joking manner too, so I'd assume so)
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:09 AM
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Oh well, tis all good... I appreciate the input, definitely helps a novice out. I'll try to update this thread after the weekend if there is anything to add, which is about a 50-50 shot I'd say.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:06 AM
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I agree, I don't think I lost anything, but I do think I gained a little bit of... what's the term I'm looking for, unavailability? That sounds odd but I think you know what I mean. There's always a part of an interaction that I miss, and seddit always hooks it up; I appreciate the input.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:04 AM
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Damn brotha I'm kicking myself in my seat about how she offered me two times to meet... shit. As I said to frogma, I'm thinking of texting her sometime this weekend saying that I have plans to go to a party (which I do), but she could tag along. Do you think it's a little odd that she said SHE couldn't do anything the following day after I said I couldn't before? lines 4-6.
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:47 AM
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Well honestly this is like the 3rd time she's flaked on me... but they've all been legitimate scheduling conflicts where she just cannot chill... So I hate seeming like I'm "chasing" her, but I don't want to let this 9 go because I think she's not interested when she simply can't chill. So me rejecting her rescheduling was more of a "hey I won't always be around, so take the chance while you can" sort of thing. I'm thinking of texting her sometime this weekend saying that I have plans to go to a…
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:43 AM
1

If I didn't have it, I wouldn't have turned down her offers for the rest of the weekend ;). But I see your point. Thanks for the response
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:22 AM
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If you have girls laughing "within a few minutes of conversation", then you should be able to ask them out no problem. Simply throw it in after your conversation
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:00 AM
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What came to mind for me is "Really? Three? Wow, I don't know what the hell the other two were thinking, I'm really just asking you out of pity, sort of like a mercy-date." Of course dealt with a smile/chuckle
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:12 AM
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I would say to back off and let her think that you don't need her, because in the end, you don't. You have many options, and she's just lucky enough to be in contact with you. Only problem is... sometimes they don't come back. But if you think about it, that's probably for the better in the long run anyways. Good luck
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:03 AM
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Well my thought on the guitar thing is, definitely try to at least get your bearings with playing the guitar. Learn some chords: G, D, A, E, C. But just not knowing how to play guitar that well is not beta. Just say to her, if she asks: "I'm still learning to play, I just bought this the other day". Most likely, if she's interested, she'll offer to teach you a little bit. If not, ask her ;). I think your interest in the guitar just makes you seem like a more well-rounded person who has many inte…
/r/seduction13/01/11 04:48 AM
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Yes you've got the strategy and the mentality. Now go execute and let us know what happens :). Good luck
/r/seduction13/01/11 04:39 AM
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Last sentence here is so important. DO NOT bitch out, this will feel absolutely terrible. No joke, I missed roughly 4-5 opportunities early in high school because I didn't go in for it when I should have. Trust me, you feel like SHIT immediately after and for the next day or so. It is absolutely disgusting. You just become disgusted with yourself and that is the worse thing that can happen to PUAs. Even if you're "not sure" if the time is right, do it anyways. Most of the time, it is right. Let …
/r/seduction13/01/11 04:34 AM
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x2
/r/seduction13/01/11 04:27 AM
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Was thinking the same thing.
/r/seduction12/01/11 10:54 PM
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The way I look at it is: 10s will be as rare as an Irish black girl. I'm in HS, and there are about 2-3 10s in my entire school. 8-9s are similar in my book. 8s look very very good, 9s look nearly the same, but have something else. Could be social status or even just one little characteristic that the 8 doesn't have. 7s are girls you would not think twice about. Most definitely you would get with them, but there's not much SPECIAL about them as far as looks. 6s are girls you'd need a few beers o…
/r/seduction12/01/11 10:51 PM
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One that I was made aware of by that Bill Clinton thread, and another sedditor posting this: Making eye contact that is WAY too intense: Eyes locked on, following hers as if I was in a trance. Solution: Fairly simple, just ease off the intensity of my stare, and don't keep eyes locked on hers 100% of the time. Look away briefly every now and then as if something more important catches your attention for a second. Persistently chasing girls who very well may not be interested: I have the bad habi…
/r/seduction12/01/11 10:20 PM
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Holy shit I was doing that today with a girl in the library. (smacks head)
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:30 AM
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hahaha that's great
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:27 AM
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I mean, I'm IN HS, but I guess that's actually good cause I can maybe give some more "up-to-date" advice. Nobody will give you as much shit as you think they will if you screw up with a girl. Let's say you go in for a kiss or something with a girl. Two things can happen: a. You get it, and you can tell all your buddies how badass you are. b. You get denied, and you can turn it into a hilarious story. NOBODY will think less of you! Have targetS, not a target! I especially had a problem with this …
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:21 AM
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holy shit this
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:12 AM
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"When he was really into it, he would make direct eye contact with you, but it was WAY too intense, it felt like he was staring into your soul, even when he was just asking you how your day was. Now i know why: He'd face you head on. His face would be generally unsmiling, certainly not 'soft'. His eyes locked on yours, and following them like he was in a trance. Not a very comfortable feeling." I think I do that... thanks for pointing that out.
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:09 AM
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lul at the inclusion of a tl;dr
/r/seduction12/01/11 05:07 AM
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I'm not sure. Something about moans, it seems... I'd venture to say that "after a few moans from the girl seal the deal" was the advice given, roughly. Then again, I could be completely wrong; OP?
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:11 AM
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I think mainly you just need to stay confident with who you are and it will show. Remind yourself often that these other guys have already failed with the girls, and use that thought to keep in mind that you are superior. This post is probably useless now that it's almost 8 o clock, but what the hell
/r/seduction10/01/11 12:39 AM
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hahaha, TofuTofu is a member/moderator on this subreddit. He was just thanking him for a helpful tip/hint
/r/seduction10/01/11 12:29 AM
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I think some of you guys are reading too far into this... who gives a shit if he's hitting on taken women? I do that shit all the time. I don't see why it can't be seen as practice and not him "having one-itis" or "not having anyone else to hit on". I think the main benefit to taken girls is the fact that you really CAN'T go TOO far... If you get it through your head that you don't plan on getting with her, you don't have to worry about offending her or anything...
/r/seduction09/01/11 05:28 AM
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Damn this is rough... No matter how you go about this, I feel like she'll end up being pissed/jealous when you actually start dating her friends, even if you did tell her you're not interested in her. She will realize you just used her to get to her friends. Gonna take some slick maneuvering
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:33 PM
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Well I like the second part, but this girl is sleeping in your bed uninvited. Don't reward her for being ridiculous and taking your sleeping quarters for the night by "cooking her breakfast". Cook yourself breakfast, make coffee for both of you would be what I would do. Odd situation, let us know what happens
/r/seduction07/01/11 04:11 AM
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If she already ate, why not ask her to go out for drinks? EDIT: Something that comes to mind for me is "Why don't you show me your prowess of this area and take me out for drinks?"
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:15 PM
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Yeah that's a good idea. I think the next text you send should be getting to the point. What came to mind for me is after she says "no way!" or "I don't believe you" say something along the lines of "See it for yourself! Let's meet up (insert day/time) for lunch/drinks/whatever and I'll show you the wreckage"
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:13 PM
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It's good that you realize these things you're unhappy with. Include how you intend to change them or these resolutions will soon fizzle with the whole "New Year's Joy".
/r/seduction03/01/11 04:25 AM
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I don't think that you fully understood the meaning of this thread. My experience was just an example I used to better illustrate my point. I didn't put my experience out there as the main thing people should concentrate on. I was hoping the people who are just starting out (like myself) would pay more attention to the last 2-3 paragraphs, not my story. Everything that you just advised to me was what I was trying to tell the people this thread was directed at. And no, I most definitely do NOT ha…
/r/seduction24/12/10 06:09 PM
1

Why can't she be sure about it... XMas isn't until Saturday... Not Wednesday. Why did you tell her that you weren't sure if you would be free? I thought YOU asked HER to YOUR place? Sounds like that scene from Along Came Polly when Jennifer Aniston says: "Hey Ruben, I'm free tomorrow if you want to take me out" Ruben: "Yeah, sure do you want to go to [restaurant name]?" Aniston: "Well let me get back to you on that because I'll have to check my schedule to see if I can even do it"
/r/seduction21/12/10 02:01 AM
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Well it's Monday, and Christmas is this Saturday. It's up to you if you feel like you can pull a plan off like that during a weekday. I personally would ask her out to lunch or some shit one day before Christmas, hook up with her, and tell her you'll see her after Christmas sometime. Hopefully you're going to a New Years Eve party that you can invite her to ;) Edit: When I said "one day before Christmas" I meant any day before Christmas, not 1 day before.
/r/seduction21/12/10 01:38 AM
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Well give the guy a break. He knows/understands his situation more than you do. There's definitely more to it than just them being his ex and FB. Clearly they don't have him in the palm of their hand if he's going around opening lots of different girls (they had to notice at some point). And hey, if you feel that playing it safe and not leaving with the girl was the smart choice, that's all that counts. You now have her number, and there will be no excuse for NOT leaving with her NEXT time. Prop…
/r/seduction21/12/10 01:34 AM
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Exactly... The reason I wasn't dying this morning is because I chugged 2-3 bottles of water before hitting the sack. I've had nights that I don't drink water before going to bed cause I wasn't that drunk, but still end up with a hangover. And I've had nights (like last night) where I drink a lot, get pretty smashed, but drink a ton of water before bed and wake up nearly 100%
/r/seduction20/12/10 12:14 AM
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"If anyone has any experience with hooking up during a dry spell and then pivoting off onto a better target, please share." Happens all the time. If you look like you have the ability to get with women when you please, you're naturally more appealing. Especially if there's another specific girl you're talking to, but still have to build attraction. If she sees you/finds out you're getting with this new girl, she'll be more attracted to you. My 2 cents
/r/seduction19/12/10 11:14 PM
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Was thinking the same thing... So there is a 3:1 ratio of dudes-honeys, just makes it a little tougher. By not trying at all, "your social proof got damaged".
/r/seduction19/12/10 10:50 PM
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Not trying to be condescending, but are you sure it's not just you?
/r/seduction19/12/10 10:49 PM
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Ooh, ski bunnies... When my buddies and I go skiing in Vermont, we have actually had success picking honeys up. It's easy to start conversation, because you're all doing the same thing. That's an easy opener. (If I could do it before knowing of PU at all, you can do with with some knowledge easily) If you're not old enough for the bar, don't sweat it, girls that aren't old enough (AKA your age) will be chillin in the lodge around lunchtime. Tear it up, brotha!
/r/seduction19/12/10 08:57 PM
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Ooh, ski bunnies... When my buddies and I go skiing in Vermont, we have actually had success picking honeys up. It's easy to start conversation, because you're all doing the same thing. That's an easy opener. (If I could do it before knowing of PU at all, you can do with with some knowledge easily) If you're not old enough for the bar, don't sweat it, girls that aren't old enough (AKA your age) will be chillin in the lodge around lunchtime. Tear it up, brotha!
/r/seduction19/12/10 08:57 PM
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Word. Telling stories is a good time to initiate kino too... use her as your "example" or "dummy" if you will. Edit: Obviously when I say "her" I mean whoever it is you're going for/asked you about the cast. Ex: (hockey story) So I was skating downrink, and right as I was about to take a shot, my buddy X comes along and checks me mid-shot. My wrist got caught in between his stick and his body, like this (put her arm in between your extended arm and torso, or some shit), and just twisted as I fel…
/r/seduction17/12/10 11:26 PM
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"You can use those in non-endearing or even condescending ways, too." 100% agree with this... One of my buddies will call women "sweetheart" when they don't respond well to him (if he feels they're being bitchy about it) just to take em down a notch. I personally never use these terms just because different people take it different ways. I'd rather just use their name.
/r/seduction17/12/10 04:06 AM
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I agree with the blessing in disguise thing... Don't worry about it, just hang out with her if you know you have a good time with her. At least know you know something you can think of when you're nailin her LOL... Good luck, keep us posted
/r/seduction17/12/10 12:59 AM
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I found him to be pretty odd... I'm not gonna stand here and act like I get much more action than he does, but still... I just thought his lines were sort of odd and would come off a little creeper-ish. Some parts were good, though. Worth watching, I'd say.
/r/seduction13/12/10 03:43 AM
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I like how you laid out key parts of the text game... I feel like people neglect text-game advice. I realize it's inferior to other methods, but you're still gonna have to use it every once in a while. The younger you are the more, IMO.
/r/seduction10/12/10 02:30 AM
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I have no idea. Fuck it, tell her top 5 and maybe get another sesh out of it? lol
/r/seduction09/12/10 04:08 AM
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I'm still young, but I can't see myself doing it. I agree it seems to me that only the desperate do it. But I HAVE been forced to learn that's not always true based on the number of people here who are successful with women but still do online dating. Not my thing, personally. Had enough dealing with annoying drawn out text/IM/e-mail pick up attempts that rarely went anywhere in middle school.
/r/seduction09/12/10 01:32 AM
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^ the way to do it. good job
/r/seduction09/12/10 01:27 AM
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Sweet Jesus. Have some confidence man. "But she is much more hesitant than I am" Is that a joke?? She just proposed sex almost immediately, claming she "need[s] to have it", and you shut her down "in reality I'm not sure if I could". Why not? Do you have a penis? Check. Does she have a vagina? Check. Does she want your penis in her vagina? Check. Seems to me like a perfect fit. Have some CONFIDENCE. Read up on being the alpha male, you need to tell her the deal, not she basically ask you to tell…
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:48 AM
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Just get it done. Keep your objective in mind. Escalate. How sure are you that she'll put out the first time around? Watch her body language, all that shit. You should know. Honestly, though, who starts a thread on last minute reminders? lol I'd think you should have made a list for yourself of things you think are most important, already. Mentally, at least.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:27 AM
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I agree, but wouldn't you say that there are certain places you don't go with women? Especially ones you've just met and are trying to spit game on. Like their weight and shit like that... I thought foot size was included in that list.
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:19 AM
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I agree if they're people you see often or will start to see more. If the company is a little foreign to me, I like to close and be done with it that night :)
/r/seduction08/12/10 12:12 AM
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Hopefully you built enough rapport with some ladies so you at least have an easy open next time you see them at a party. Well done.
/r/seduction07/12/10 11:38 PM
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I see the purpose of it, but all girls I've ever known well enough to know their insecurities, most are insecure about the size of their feet, even if they're not that big. If they ARE big, that's a big no-zone I would think. Maybe if you can say it with a friendly enough tone, I guess. But from my experience a woman's feet are a point of insecurity. Anyone else feel this way? Maybe it's just me...
/r/seduction07/12/10 11:37 PM
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Good FR. I mean, not realizing you guys were isolated definitely hurt the vibes and led to that job interview, but there's no point beating yourself up about it. At least you realize your mistake and will hopefully be more aware of it next time. When you were "bouncing around, talking to everyone", there weren't any girls worth a go? Maybe I'm picturing it incorrectly, but there had to be potential crawling out of the walls at the place, no?
/r/seduction07/12/10 03:43 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction07/12/10 02:44 AM
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. I don't really see a problem with it, other than maybe the fact that N is not in control of HER house.
/r/seduction07/12/10 01:58 AM
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I think it's pretty much any sort of music that you're passionate about. If Mozart really hits a sweet spot with you, that's what it is. For me it's classics that really have "punchlines" (as I like to call them) where you can really get with it. I like "Ophelia" by The Band
/r/seduction07/12/10 01:46 AM
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As everyone here should know and believe, women LOVE to talk. Letting her "open up" to you in conversation will make her happier to have you, I would think. Pretty much the only thing I can contribute, but glad everything is working out for you. Keep at it
/r/seduction07/12/10 01:40 AM
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I'm a little confused on who your target was, and if it switched throughout the night, why was that? If you just felt like gettin with two girls, right on. Maybe I missed something that made you make out with J for 5 minutes, then proceed to game her friend? Seems like a pretty positive night though. As TofuTofu said, should be easy next time now. Keep us updated
/r/seduction07/12/10 01:33 AM
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I agree with this. At the very least, put it off till you transfer. IMO a 5 is not enough to risk your livelihood (if it goes that far)
/r/seduction07/12/10 12:33 AM
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Well we're not all Brad Pitts, lol. I've only had 1 girl ask me out in my life.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:47 AM
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I sorta had a similar issue early in HS. Luckily for me, I was friends with a kid (and still am) who was ALWAYS around girls with hot friends, so when he would get with his girl, I'd sorta be forced into doing it too. For me, at least, and I'd assume most others too, the ONLY way to overcome your self-esteem issues is to step far out of your comfort zone. I'll give a scenario: You're at a party, and you're chatting in a group of 4, 2 girls 2 guys (yourself included). You guys are all laughing an…
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:40 AM
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Honestly I've never had to deal with any situations like this, but I imagine if I did encounter a douche like that, I'd do something along the lines of: Be friendly at first, and hope he can sort of snap out of his AMOG state and just be chill. If he's just an asshole back, I'd still be friendly, but poke fun at him, but not in the way you would a girl. I'd say something witty and rather aggressive, but put a friendly tone on it. If he STILL doesn't take the hint to either ease up or gtfo, I'd h…
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:23 AM
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I agree. Don't just bring it up out of the blue. I would LET the girl either ask you or just figure it out by herself
/r/seduction05/12/10 04:41 PM
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Will do. Thanks for the ideas yall
/r/seduction05/12/10 03:40 PM
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I like this idea more than asking for her number again. I feel like it'd be hard for me to ask for her number AGAIN after she rejected me. Getting a bite to eat is a good idea. This way, if she accepts, you should not only feel better about asking for her number after the date, but she should definitely feel more comfortable with it.
/r/seduction05/12/10 03:36 PM
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Well the way I was thinking about it was that hopefully the OP has developed enough of a comfort zone with this girl that he would be able to "present the idea" with no negative consequences if she rejects him. I'd think if he were misreading the signs and just assumed attraction and went in for it, that could create some awkward moments. This is a tough situation because of the friendship level of you and the girl... I think the wingman idea is worth a shot. If she's really a friend, she'll wan…
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:19 AM
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Shit brotha props on the foot massage idea. I would never think of that, and even if I did, would never have the berries to actually carry it out. Sounds like a good night man, hope your gettin it done as I type right now!
/r/seduction05/12/10 05:13 AM
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Well that's the thing... I'm not trying to hide the fact that I'm getting, or attempting to get, with the other from whichever girl it may be. I know that they will find out eventually, because as I said, they are acquaintances. I like the idea of hooking up with the 7 not only to get action but to possibly add to the 9s interest... Like I said before, I have NOT gotten with the 9 yet, so there's no reason I should make myself exclusive to her. And if she recognizes this, which she will, I think…
/r/seduction05/12/10 04:50 AM
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"the reason you are frustrated is because you want everything (and you want it now)" <---You're right. I guess a better question to ask would be along the lines of "Does getting with other girls affect your chances with HBs who you have yet to get with?"
/r/seduction04/12/10 10:54 PM
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I'd say there are two things that I'd point out. If you're slapping her ass to get her attention, and she responds somewhat positively, or anything but negatively, I'd say you're in the clear. I'm assuming you mean sophomore in college... who the fuck has a boyfriend in college? If you mean high school and you're at a boarding school or some shit... I mean I'd say be more cautious than if it were college
/r/seduction04/12/10 10:46 PM
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As for the first thing you quoted and replied to, she didn't just send my friend a text saying "Hey will (me) get with (her friend)". She just noted that her friend was interested... I see that I misspoke. Edited. I realize you're just trying to be helpful, but don't mock the way I said it. This girl wants to get with me, I'll take that as a positive, I don't see how you can spin that to be unattractive just because it seems "middle school"ish... And the "dilemma" part that you replied to: What …
/r/seduction04/12/10 10:34 PM
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This. Though you may not have been to the annoying drunk level, you being drunk serves as a perfect reason for your friend to try to get you out of his more sober and articulated plans to get with one of these girls.
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:50 PM
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I think if you were able to find a way to present the idea without the chance of it destroying your friendship with her, hell yeah I'd say go for it. OR, this is just a thought, but I can see it working I guess.. Try to get her to be your wing(wo)man. Not only will it help you get other girls, but she may get more attracted to you after seeing you get with others? No guarantees hahahaha
/r/seduction04/12/10 09:29 PM
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I agree. I think that a text kind of sends the message you're too shy to call. Though that may not be HER thinking, it is possible, so why not just call and avoid having to deal with waiting for a response/text game? Plus it's quicker to just call her up, chat briefly, ask her out, and be done. Much easier to conduct, and definitely get a better feel for her attitude, IMO. More "straight to the point" if you ask me
/r/seduction23/11/10 02:10 AM
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I see. Well you very well could be right. I actually do that often when I know the girl will be comfortable with it (I don't just start rubbing her leg 30 minutes after meeting her). Though no girl has ever straight up told me their opinion of it, they SEEM to like it, or at least not NOT like it. Always had only positive responses to it, from what I can remember.
/r/seduction23/11/10 01:38 AM
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Throwaway, I realize I worded that oddly, but just trying to put the best picture in the reader's head. I mean, it seems to work well, so hell, even if it is creepy so be it hahaha. Matter of fact, I'll edit out the father/son part hah. does sound fucked up
/r/seduction23/11/10 01:16 AM
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I don't really see the huge problem with this. I mean obviously having a movie night is not good for establishing foundations with the ladies, but if you already have a foundation laid, already had some kino goin on, why not take the time to seal the deal. Not saying bang the broad on the couch with everyone watching the movie right next to you, but if she's interested enough, after you're hooking up and shit, I'm sure she'd be down for going "somewhere". If it wasn't that type of situation, whe…
/r/seduction22/11/10 02:46 AM
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The way I like to do it, is usually: If you're spending a hefty amount of time with the girl, like a solid block of 2-3 hrs, start the contact as soon as the time begins. If you don't do that right away, for me it becomes tougher and tougher to do as time goes by. But if you get the initial touch out early, that just gives way to so much more. I'm not saying touch the shit out of this girl without it being warranted, but if she says something, or something happens where you feel that both yourse…
/r/seduction22/11/10 02:21 AM
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If what you say about having the ability to go up to random girls and start conversations is true, IMO you've got over half the battle fought. If you have a positive vibe (good posture, confidence CAN be seen), the girl will most likely just be happy to have this extra attention. If you can start a conversation and MAINTAIN it without fuckin it up, you're golden. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but you sound like you haven't actually given an honest effort that much with the girls you "meet" randomly. …
/r/seduction22/11/10 02:07 AM
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