Hey seddit! I just want to lay a few ground rules about texting game that have worked well for me in the past and see what you all think and hopefully help some people out. I know texting is often times considered a no no but I've found a lot of people do it still to establish a rapport.

Rule #1: don't use texting to get to know someone too well. This can lead to awkward interactions when you do eventually meet up. Instead, use texting to establish a frame. Be extremely confident, don't text back immediately, and NEVER complain about her not texting back quick enough. Even being blatantly cocky can sometimes benefit you. One of the biggest mistakes I see people make is asking questions or makeing statements for reassurance. "you seem busy, I'll let you go" screams that you want her to beg you not to. Reserve your right to just stop texting at any time and use it..... Liberally.... Instead of fishing for reassurance. After all, you couldn't care less right?

Rule #2: apply the push pull technique with nearly every message. Running variations of mystery method is cake over texts. You can make her jump through hoops, or punish her by not texting back for hours or even days if you get a bad response, or even a less than great response. Remember to be flirty and assertive, then scale it back if she responds positively.

The most important rule! Rule #3: always, and I repeat, ALWAYS make her ask you out. You can even tell her you're waiting for her to ask you out if she hints around at it, which she will. See when you number closed her, she expected you to text or call to ask her out. Now that you've already got attraction and built a frame through text game, I find that the girl will be expecting it and anticipating it so much that they drop hints (some as obvious as "I'm really hungry and bored right now..." true story) which you should follow up by acting oblivious. If they are persistent, just say "so why don't you ask me out to dinner?"

I hope this helps someone in the community out! It was developed over mass trial and error, but these three rules when applied correctly have had a 99% success rate for me! Any thoughts or additions are welcome!