Hello seddit. I've been browsing this subreddit for the past month. I started by reading all the inner game topics and everything under 'additional links'. I just wanted to give you my side of the story of how this worked for me. First of all, while reading the inner game section, i found myself in about 75% of the statements there. huge ego boost, right off the bat. I don't have problems when around girls and am pretty confident of myself. Thinking back on it tho, i never really picked up any chicks. It was all situational, which to me it just means it was pure chance. but I've had my share. I'm by no standards a ladykiller but, I've never had to resort to social engineering to get what i want.(Okay, sometimes.) If i just find myself not knowing what to do ,i just paced myself, took a deep breath, and had tried to apply the heck, let's just have fun, live in the moment mentality. This was hard to grasp at first. I feel like it's something you have to embrace rather than accept. It's a matter of perception. I have never,since I moved to bucharest, brought a girl home. I just, for some reason, sometimes feel embarrased that i made out with a chick in a club or whatever happened. I tried having conversations with them the next day, but it didn't feel natural. I'm thinking it's all in good time. Also, there are cases where i find a chick so fucking stunning that i can't do anything else but look at her occassionally and hope something situational happens. I am cautious of club approaches because i know how people are here, and basically going up to a chick and engaging can easily be interpreted as oh great,another guy that wants to pick me up. That's right. I still think that sometimes. Alot of contradictions.All in all, Try to have fun and be natural. There are beautiful people out there with beautiful minds, not to mention looks. All in good time.
TL:DR Seddit made me feel like a baller, and that there are other people out there without preconceptions. Thanks.