This isn't really going to be an FR because it'd end up being too long, but I just thought I'd post a little about my weekend and get a little constructive criticism.

Friday

I went out to a party area with the intention of meeting friends briefly (I had to be up early in the morning to catch a bus). Ended up not meeting them which pissed me off, because it was a friend's farewell party and they knew my situation, but I decided to stick around out of boredom. A girl actually opened me and we got along well enough and decided to hit up a bar and go dancing for awhile.

Outcome Independence -- I took the girl to a place nearby and when the conversation started to struggle, we just started dancing. We were two of only 4-5 people dancing in the bar, but I just shrugged it off, when I usually would've been extremely self-conscious. It helped some other girl on the dance floor was being completely ridiculous with her dancing, so it took a lot of my tension away. Even when the girl who came up to me stopped dancing, I kept going because I was having more fun dancing than talking to her.

Abundance Mentality -- It was getting late and I said I would be leaving after I finished my beer. She immediately ejected and opened another guy (perhaps a female PUA?). I ignored it outwardly, but I was wondering about how to leave the bar. Should I bother saying goodbye? Get her number? I didn't want to be intimidated by the fact she was talking to another guy, but in the end, I realized my interest just wasn't there. She wasn't all that attractive, and I have two other girls I'm currently seeing that are absolutely beautiful. I decided to just approach and say it was nice to meet her, then leave. You don't need to get every girl's number.

Saturday

I went on a day trip to go whitewater rafting and bungee jumping (which was fucking amazing), and on the bus ride back home, I texted an HB8 I've made out with a couple times, asking if she had plans that night. She didn't, so I told her I'd take her to a fire show -- kind of juggling show at a bar that includes fire -- since she'd never seen one. I got immediate compliance. That's a huge IOI. I usually try to schedule our next date a day or two in advance, but this girl was ready to go out the same day.

We got to the bar early, so it was rather slow and my friends weren't there yet. I decided to play a game with the girl. I'm in Korea, so I often use the language barrier to my advantage and have them teach me Korean/teach them English. It's fucking fantastic. I always use body parts. I focused mainly on her hands and face asking "What's this in Korean/English?" Lots of kino, and I actually did learn some shit and she learned something, so it was fun. Also taught her how to play pool, missing enough shots to keep it interesting. She almost beat me.

The bar was boring, so we bounced and went to a second place to kill time until the show started. Played another game there. We made a bet that if I won, she'd have to kiss me (she's a very "shy" girl, so I'm trying to break her out of it), and if she won, I'd have to take two shots (fairly weak alcohol). We played twice and both one once, so I got a kiss in the bar. Went back to the first place, saw the show and stuck around for a drink (she gave me a few more unsolicited kisses, which I took as a very positive sign), then we left. We live just a couple blocks away from each other, so I told the taxi driver to go to my place.

LMR

Outside my place, I asked if she wanted to come up, but she said, "I can't this time... Next time." This section is all about how I handled the LMR. I've run into LMR before, but this was completely different. Before, the body language was all wrong, it felt awkward, and I knew it wouldn't be a good idea to push forward with it because the situation was all wrong. This time, the girl was hanging all over me, making out with me, so I said that was okay and I'd just walk her home. Now this is where I'd like some input.

She asked me why I don't need a girlfriend. I was wearing a T-shirt that said "I need a girlfriend call random number", but when she asked about it, I just said it was a joke and that I don't need one. We also have a little running joke of "what am I to you?" Just friend, acquaintance, something more, etc... At this point, I was a little drunk, so my Korean was lacking, and I tried to keep the English simple for her. I wanted to be completely honest (I honestly don't want to do something to hurt this girl -- she's really sweet), so I told her that I just want to have fun and I don't want a serious relationship because the emotions get complicated. I'm not sure how well she understood this. Advice on how to handle this in the future?

Anyway, I continued walking her home and when we arrived, I asked to use the bathroom. It wasn't bullshit, I really had to. I also knew from earlier in the night that her friend was out of town, so after I was in, I used the bathroom and just sat on the couch and relaxed. She came to sit with me and we ended up making out. There was some more LMR. She said she was embarrassed and shy, so I just dialed it back to making out, which I knew she was comfortable with. Eventually, I found her button -- she got super turned on by neck play, so I used it to my advantage. Got the shirt and bra off, but the final LMR was unavoidable. As I was going for the skirt, she stopped me and said something I didn't understand in Korean, then "Do you know 'mense'?" I said I did and just went back to making out. I knew I wasn't going to get any, and I didn't particularly want to, haha.

Eventually, she just relaxed and sat with me and said aloud to herself "It'd be nice if you slept (actual sleep) together with me." So I said sure. She was surprised I even understood what she said, and I re-assured her I was just trying to sleep, no funny stuff. Initially she wanted me to sleep in her roommate's bed, but I just jumped in bed with her and cuddled until we slept. I left about 7 AM and set up a date for Wednesday.