This post is for the ones who have just begun their journey and those who are still too scared to approach. I am no expert in this subject (yet) but I am still working to improve on many things and I learn quickly. Reading is important to get started but it is imperative to remember that there must be balance, between learning and practice. To get you started I recommend five books in this specific order: Models by Mark Manson, No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover, The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson, The Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, and How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.

Models is a book that completely changed my perspective on this whole area. It is a read that will change your perspective, not only on women, but on life in general. No More Mr. Nice Guy is a book about...well, not being a "nice guy" The third book is an important foundation for the journey you are about to embark on. Let me make this clear, you WILL face rejection, you WILL feel frustration, you WILL face challenges through your journey, but remember, as the saying goes, "there's no honey without bees." The Meditations will also change your mindset because you will learn to embrace failure, not to hate it. Finally the fifth book will teach you some social skills. It doesn't matter if you think your social skills are good enough, it is always good to improve. Just go and read the damn book.

Now. How do we apply this into our lives? First, if you are putting getting girls as your first objective, then change it, because girls should NEVER be a man's objective in life. Start socializing, talk to everyone just for the sake of talking. It doesn't matter who it is (as long as it doesn't get you killed.) When talking to a woman it is important to never run out of interesting things to say, now do not talk too much. Learn the dynamics of conversation with both genders, it will help you through your course, we will go over this in part 3.

To apply this in the seduction front one must start losing the fear to approach. I know it is difficult and I understand there are some experiences that can hold you back, but let this go. A simple way of doing this is to do activities and put yourself in situations that place you outside your comfort zone. Then before you approach change your mentality. Do not worry, they are not super natural creatures, some are just pretty. Before you go out I advice you to do something that relaxes you. I practice meditation and I listen to music that I enjoy. Find whatever helps and perform it. One last thing, girls, especially the prettier ones have flaws too because believe it or not they are humans too! WOW I know right!? Fucking surprising. Treat them as such and they will feel you are especial because everyone praises them, but you are different, rare, therefore entertaining and intriguing. Finally, make sure you are genuine, women feel when you are a being fake and this is a huge turn off. I am not saying be totally strange and talk about your video games, no, I am saying do not pretend to be something you are not and if you are simply not that interesting, well, we'll discuss that in Pt. 2 of this journey.

In part two, we will discuss how to get over some fears or feelings that keep us away from women. We will also talk about how to meet women, ways to aproach, and how to talk properly to a girl. If you need further help, PM me. If you are looking for some coaching, I am doing it for free as of now.