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[–]UnclassyGentleman 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude, rejection is going to happen. It's inevitable. You can do everything right and it still just doesn't work out sometimes. And it's okay, alright? Not every girl you approach is going to accept you and the same goes for everyone living in this world. But some girls will like you and you won't meet them if you're scared of rejection.
So essentially, the only right thing to do is to try. If it works, we got dis and if it doesn't work, then who cares? At least you tried. That puts you above most people in the world. Don't let your ego get in the way of having some great life experiences, bro. Don't think too much about rejection and just go approach like the champ you are.
[–]CrushHazard 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The problem is that you think of it as rejection. Some people spend their entire lives attaching their worth to whether one specific person accepted or rejected them. Don't be that person!
Most of the time, rejection just means she isn't feeling it with you. This could be because you aren't seducing well enough, but in all likelihood, it just means you aren't pushing her buttons as well as the next guy. Trust me on this. I'm a pretty desirable guy with all the right boxes checked. I do well with women, and that basically means that 5-10% of hot women would go for me and the rest would reject me. Now, of course I don't get rejected much at all, but that's because I've gotten really good at identifying good opportunities and avoiding rejection before it happens. But 90-95% of hot women would reject me, and I am comfortable with that fact. That's just the way things are for any guy.
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