Thanks to a throwaway comment on post I read recently, I’ve begun consciously practicing shifting a particular viewpoint and it’s been a game changer for me. The problem I’ve had most of my adult life is assuming that women are taken. This thought immediately disqualifies them to me, limiting my dating pool options to nearly zero.

The shift: assume the opposite. Let her prove she’s in a relationship. Maybe 1/4 of the time she is, but just by shifting this I’ve multiplied my options immensely.

My question to you is this: what other seemingly simple shifts have helped you in your journey? Any aha moments?