this is probably more a dating post, but I feel like sedditors have more insight and I'd like to learn from this situation from you guys.

so this girl essentially rejected me months ago (we went on 2 dates) for another dude. she was 'sorry' for it and for whatever reason I stayed in touch. a while later I asked her to hang/jam and she seemed receptive. we couldn't meet up but like 2 weeks later, she hit me up out of the blue to go to a concert with her and 2 days later to talk life and drink wine. so I'm a bit confused, but I'm down.

I don't have any expectation cause hell I don't even know if she's single. I just didn't give a shit and we have an awesome time. after a while, we're obviously flirting and holding hands. she comes back to my place and I make a move and we make out and mess around. she sleeps over. no sex or anything though. I wasn't trying to push it. *was this a mistake?

she peaces out in the morning when I'm passed out and says she had to leave and that she'll see me soon! we do some light texting that week. she was tied up with an exam. I call her and she doesn't pick up. haha naturally an unpleasant feeling. I text her two days later just saying what's up and a funny thing that happened that night. she responds positively enough. but doesn't respond to my next text. I ask her the next day to hang and jam/drink wine the weekend. she sends a long ass text back.

she said she'd like to chill but... she feels like a jerk and she didn't really mean to do more than hang and asked me to the concert when she was with someone. she said she's not looking to start anything else soon and is sorry to be so confused and confusing. shitty text, right? I wasn't sure what to say so I probably incorrectly texted like 2 days later just saying it's chill and I'm looking to just hang and that her breakup sounds rough and I'm sorry to hear that. not exactly how I feel, but I think I'd prefer to be friends than nothing at all.

but it's also bullshit in my opinion. I mean maybe I was a rebound. but there was great vibe that night. she can't have just totally used me. she seems slightly too kind for that. it makes me doubt the time and myself I suppose but I guess that's life. having issues with being hung up (oneitis) and I think it's affecting my inner game. just don't have great experience with girls. what do you guys think?

tl;dr: girl slept over, no positive vibes now, possible oneitis now. confused