So..I'm just gonna throw this out there cuz I don't exactly know how to start this ..I was asked to go to the courthouse and marry from my guy. So we got up,got ready and he insisted we go to a open court and sign marriage papers. Shocked as well as overwhelmed I drove. We signed, we did it. He just got home from prison.he was gone 2 yrs. so we marry, he tells his family and the end. We stay in a extended stay, I'm laid off for the pandemic and he gets a job. I take him to and from.every fri I would drop him off and he would venture to his moms every wkend.spending time w family, I get it. So then it became a habit, he would go to work, get paid and run the entire weekend in another town, his phone died , couldn't call, didn't invite me, no text,nothing. I spoke up about it,eventually I'd get pissed and complain,we would fight and do it all over again every week. He would come home broke,he said he pd his mom, pd phone bills of hers an his,bla bla. Well then he moved out, came back an repeated the pattern. But he says I love u cuz I don't near as much since I'm left out on his days off, then he would find a way to get to the extended stay and call in Monday.sleeping the entire dam day to where I'd have to sit around to watch his bs so he didn't run off w anything. Then got to be every dam mon,then tues. then about 3 wks he lost his job.so he spends a day w me out of all this,we fight. Then he calls someone an he leaves. Now he tells me he's on his way, I love u baby and never shows, I'm so fed up w the crap.to me marriage is suppose to work no matter what. But there's no communication, he shuts the phone off, blocked me on his fb. Has not made it known he is married so I got upset about it and have made it clear many times to fix this. An nothing, so I say f it, I turn my phone off an he can't get in touch,he hates it,he lives w me 2 days out the wk,uses me for rides or whatever and live at his dads now, I tell him,how many married men live separate from their wife's and don't include her to go anywhere w you, to the every wkend Hispanic family cook out thing he says they have onFriday's . I told his mom awhile back hey your son I think is on drugs and he comes here to sober up I can't do this, her response to me was ..if you wasn't so insecure of yourself he wouldn't leave and your loco because he isn't doing drugs.(he went to prison for drugs) anyhow. We never got the Marriage license notarized,it ends second wk of sept but I am pretty sure it is still valid as us being married. Then I put his checks into my account and because I wasn't aware he had to be added to do that my bank froze my account and said it was fraud. An to clear that up I had to open another checking and a saving w his name and my name yet my original account is still froze.(since June) and it has 3,000$ in it. This is such a mess but what's fuckt up is he is seeing I'm not caring as much anymore an he keeps trying to bond.and he does but he goes back to doing whatever and staying wherever every wkend.im fed up with it.but yet he loves me he tells me. I need some advice..