So, I really don't know how to tell this whole story without writing 3 walls of text, so I'll try to summarize.

Met a girl 5 months ago, hit it off pretty well. Things went downhill when I showed too much eagerness on 3 separate occasions. She probably lost attraction, found me weak and needy, and became highly manipulative afterwards.

The thing is, I already went NC on her for a month because I got so fucking tired of her games. She came crawling, playing the good girl card and said she cares about me. I accepted her back (big mistake). Later, she accuses me of giving her number to randoms on the street to spam her, even though we stayed together at my place during that time, so she always knew who I kept in touch with.

Another 2 months, she becomes distant, doesn't text like before, and I see her less. When I ask her what's wrong 2 weeks later, she says: 'I don't think we should have gone this far.' I ask her whether she wants to end things (stupid I know). She says she doesn't know and leaves.

Now, she only texts me on occasion, says she misses me and hates how I cold I act, not asking how she is (even though she was the one who left). Our fallout happened when she randomly accused me (again) of spying on her while she was going back home (her house is close to mine). I told her I don't play these stupid games, and she better have evidence next time before she throws a tantrum. Now, we only talk once a week to catch up.

I don't know much about this kind of behavior, but I feel she basically wants me to submit to her every whim. Is it all manipulation? Should I watch out for more accusations? Go NC and forget about her? Play her game and beat her at it?

Would really appreciate some advice.