So I am doing Formhandles 16 week bootcamp and on week 2 it says to get rid of traces of your oneitis. Now mine - we hooked up during winter break but then she got a boyfriend second semester, broke up with him, and got back together with him. Anyways we stopped talking since she got him but she messaged to let me know that she tried weed for the first time last night and just thought I should know (i guess i am one of her only weed smoking friends). Anyways, I was just getting over her. I just want to know if there is some classy way to say like "Hey, I mean I like you as a person, but please don't contact me again unless your single." Because it just kinda hurts.