I used the search function and tried to follow most of the advice I found.

There wasn't much information on what to do if it doesn't work or how much time to give. SO deets:

Met a girl at a bar. We hit it off really well. Had like an hour long conversation as my wing man talked to her friends. He seemed to be flaking a bit in, so I decided to ask for her instagram. As we were leaving, we were telling each other how we HAD to get coffee.

So next day, I DM her and mention the chat we had the night before AND flirted with a joke from the night. Was gonna wait for her response before asking for confirmation on coffee.

Anyways, no response a day later (didn't even open the DM). Wondering if I should hit her up after 2 days from the initial DM and say

"Seems like you are busy. Lmk if you are still down for that artisanal ethiopian coffee"

Some of the advice posted on this subreddit before says to just move on. I would normally do that, but we shared two of the same favorite authors and painters, so it seemed like a good catch. I should probably mention that she was hot enough that other guys in the bar were intimidated, so I can understand if she is busy.