Advice on this Bumble interaction?

alpha-zach · 2019-05-30T11:20:12+00:00

A) You started talking about your boring stuff too much at the end. I have a few favorite places... is boring. Oh you have bars that serve cocktails? Thanks that’s pretty much any bar.

B) you double texted. Then triple. Always. Always. Say less than necessary.

C) then you texted her after she’d already been online without responding. They see through this and see your needy-ness

D) you said “only if you like banter with cute boys” that’s not the sort of thing an alpha male says. It’s a common beta thing to say. Hard to describe why, but big turn off. You’re sort of trying to convince her to go out by telling her what you are rather than being it.

E) your early interaction was spot on. Witty, playful, etc.

F) ignore her from here on out. It’s prob there only way to recover, but I doubt you will. Move on to the next one.

G) you can make another stab in about two weeks. But it’s not likely.

vymrr · 2019-05-30T11:25:04+00:00

Well I’m going to ask the obvious. Why did you wait 6hrs to reply?

ItsMilton · 2019-05-30T15:25:33+00:00

You started with something cute and then dropped it.

"Come challenge me at 7 at this place if you dare"

LynuSBell · 2019-05-30T17:56:05+00:00

You appeared as needy in the last 3 messages. You clearly could have used the last message only. If she was not available that day but interested in you, she would have rescheduled. When you asked what was her availability, you showed that you couldn't make plans, that you were not able to make decisions. I've done that mistake many times. You can ask for opinion but show what you want. Don't let her choose and if she doesn't pick what you want, well... Just punish her in a funny way: "oh... Great... Then first cocktail's on you!"

2019-05-31T00:55:27+00:00

Too much talking about aimless stuff from you

Title	Advice on this Bumble interaction?
Author	sedditthrowawayxyz
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	May 30, 2019 11:12 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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