After 2 dates she dumps me by text

thedudesmashes · 2019-09-30T00:02:00+00:00

I'm not gonna waste your time like she is:

For one reason or another Shes no longer interested in you. Just forget about her completely

Dont pick every little detail about your interactions you'll never really know why she isn't interested anymore

Spoiler alert: you will get dumped again in your life, it's not a reflection on you at all, you just gotta keep trying until you find the one that sticks

Now don't just sit down and wallow, get back out there and start getting with someone else!!!

drdavidbanner20 · 2019-09-30T00:05:03+00:00

Generally speaking, people aren't so busy that they can't spare an hour or two a week to date. So yes, she's not that interested to prioritize you over other things in her life. But don't beat yourself up over it, you just met her at a busy time in her life. Focus on other girls and move on.

I would respond "No worries. Take care 🙂" and then I would delete her number so I wouldn't be tempted to text her again.

recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-30T01:10:42+00:00

I went out with this girl (24, I’m 25) for two dates. Drinks and dinner. After the 2nd date, we kissed, everything went perfect.

We already know that she's not interested, and you processing that is one of the main things. However, we should also make sure that there wasn't a mistake made that could be avoided next time.

How exactly did the kiss go down?

Where were you guys?
What was happening right before you went in for it?
How did she react during and after? What were her actions and words?

She’s pretty much using the busy excuse to justify a lack of interest, isn’t she?

Yeah, like thedudemashes said. You had this pegged right.

....what you would answer.......

Keep it civil. If you're ending on good terms, any woman could be in a position later on to put in a good word for you with a different woman. There's no reason to burn bridges.

Title	After 2 dates she dumps me by text
Author	nbennb [recovered]
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	September 29, 2019 11:56 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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