Am I doing this wrong?

04915 · 2018-10-16T23:01:42+00:00

jesus i'd be frustrated as shit and would have stopped messaging halfway through. but really the problem was being a little too pushy with meeting up

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2018-10-16T21:42:29+00:00

Yeah. Just ask her clearly. You suggested meeting but it came off as more a joke.

Provide the place and time for her. The only things she should need to do is say yes and show up.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-10-17T03:08:19+00:00

The issue is that Tinder doesn't really constitute "seduction." It's a meeting broker. It's online marketing for yourself.

It's supplementary to real world interactions where real seduction takes place.

Text "game" is not really about "game." You have a little back and forth and get a feel for someone, show you're a human, etc. Then you ask for a meet. The logistics part is the point. Not analyzing or over-analyzing all the texts.

That said, you're doing fine with it, but she basically shot it down. Possibly because, as someone else said, you didn't spit it out. Just ask in a specific way, about a specific time and place. And she'll either say no or she will say yes.

atomtom65 · 2018-10-16T22:49:04+00:00

Yeah I would be more specific, set an activity and a time and ask. You asking her means she has to make more of a decision than just yes or no. Sadly its a gender role but some women don't want to be the one making the decision and want the man to. Again just my experience.

Livininthafog · 2018-10-16T23:55:25+00:00

Not gonna lie to you my dude.

from what I can see, she isn't interested at all. She literally said she's going to clean your toilet with your pillow and not tell you, and then suggested you lick it clean.

She's openly insulting you.

You blew it with the "clean my toilet" bit. She was interested in hearing your hopes, and once you said she should clean your toilet...I mean, maybe you're into licking piss off toilets, so it's possible you interpreted that as a sexual advance. It sounds like she's mocking you, to me.

I'd move on. Try not to instantly put her into a role of servitude....I mean, it's much more fun when they willingly step into those roles, don't you think?

Title	Am I doing this wrong?
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Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	October 16, 2018 9:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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