Me and this girl were supposed to go out a day or two ago. She flaked and said that she forgot that she made plans prior (I calls bullshits!). Anyways, that night, me and a bunch of friends hungout around town. All of a sudden, my Woman Senser 9000<sup>TM</sup> started to tingle, and I saw Snowflake (Let's call her Snowflake since she is quite flake-a-licious). I text her saying I thought I saw her later that night. She asks me specific details like what she was doing. Me, being the observant person that I am, said I had no clue. She was all like "you are stupid" in a joking manner. Then she randomly calls me out of the blue. First time shes ever called me. I couldn't hear her to save my life since all of her annoying, squeaky friends were squeaking and laughing at such a high pitch that could make a baby cry. So, I kinda made an ass out of myself and didn't even try to attempt to talk over them and she hangs up.Did I mention that I made an ass out of myself? Well, I did. I just laughed and said shit like "Wut" and "I cant fucking hear you!" Then Snowflake calls again. We talk for awhile, not exactly the best conversation since once again the background noise is loud as shit.Then, just randomly she says bye. I text her something, she texts me something and I just stopped texting her cause I was tired and sick . Then I just went to bed frustrated.
At this point, I dont know what to do. Im not sure if I should just keep pursuing Snowflake or not. She seems interested at times. Would those phone calls be considered a IOI? She was with a bunch of friends and we didn't really talk about anything that important, they were just acting like retards haha. Would it be un-wise to keep trying to get with her? How do you know when enough is enough, and that you are pushing too hard? I seem to never push hard enough, but it feels like I'm putting in more input and receiving less output.
TL;DR: Just a story about me getting flaked on and making an ass of myself over the phone. What I want to know is when should I stop pushing for interaction even if the girl is giving me some IOI's here and there?
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