Well my only source of social interaction is at work. My social sills isn't my best attribute but lately I have been trying to improve by forcing myself to converse with women at work (co workers) and my approach isn't even flirtatious, just friendly intentions and for the same of my own benefit of improving, if it ends up in something more than that well cool. But I noticed I am the only one putting the effort, like I will ask thinks such as "what do you have going lately" etc you know a. All I get as response is "nothing " etc. Like really ? Is your life that boring or just their lack of interest or perhaps they are disgusted by me. Sure I am a little bit on the skinny side but I am definitely not ugly looking besides being somewhat thin, I know that plays a disadvantage for me. Or they just already have partners and fill guilty if someone approachs them with conversation? I dont know.

And this is very common, so difficult to make a women engage in good conversstio, sometimes I feel I am the problem, I am doing something wrong. And when I do find someone to make some "chemistry" they already have a partner an know can't going beyond a friendly conversation because I respect that.

It's exhausting. Just wanted to share and get some advice . Thank you all.

(This only with women my age or younger 25y. Older women I can easily form bonds with or even flirt and goes pretty well) Older women I find more relaxed and easy to talk to, I feel like they aren't afraid to share their thoughts