I've read around here a lot but still don't really know what stuff to talk about with a girl on a night out (a girl that you already have some connection with, I.e same uni, both go to a club, same house party etc)

I'm a bit socially retarded and weird which is probably why.

If someone here who is a 'natural' could literally type out what they'd talk about to a girl in these situations, that would be really great. It would just help me get an idea. Thanks