So one of the big topics on this sub reddit revolves around flaking, girls do it all the time. So I thought I would give a little insight or perhaps tip that might work for some of you.

I actually made my first totally anonymous day game approach today and it felt great but after the number close there is a lot of room for failure between the digits and actually going on a date. Here's what I do.

First: text the girl right away (just give her your number and name, make her think about you)

Second: (where most people flake out) hint at a date but I have found that suggesting a simple hang out/casual get together works a lot better. Most girls are a little nervous about going on a date with a guy right away and you can make them feel more comfortable by expressing that you want to test them out just as much as they want to with you. THEY HAVEN'T EARNED YOU YET.

Third: make plans for the meeting. If you suggest something casual and stress free, she (in my experience) will be much more inclined to accept. I really like cooking dinner with her at her house (she can be with her roommates or whatever) I like walking around downtown, think of stuff... its not too hard. Even if it basically is a date, don't label it that way and the success rate goes way up.

TLDR: Ask girls to hang out with you just to get more comfortable with each other, then from there ask them on an official date.

(I am in college and this may not pertain to other ages) -Riley