Lately I've become much more confident, about myself and my actions. However I have quite a bit of anxiety still in public especially with girls.

I get stared at all the time, not just by girls. But guys, old people, kids etc. I don't know why since I'm not THAT good looking. I hear girls talk about around my back giggling when I walk past. No girl will ever come up to me. Which I'm cool with now since, thanks to you guys mostly, I'm very comfortable with my life.

But I just don't know how to act in public. There are so many girls that I could approach. But I can't, not because of fear of rejection, but I feel watched all the time. Making me not do anything.

I think I know why I have these issue; I grew up a chubby kid. Only in the last few years I've "become" good looking. I think thats why I don't know how to cope.

Anyway, any sedditors here who went through the same things? I'd really like to know what mindset to adopt. Thanks in advance!