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Any up to date routine methods?

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November 26, 2017

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Title	Any up to date routine methods?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	November 26, 2017 2:03 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]brianbria 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Routines don't get results though that's the problem. It's the person using the routine. Routines have every chance of failing as saying whatever is on your mind does. Actually I argue if you say what's really on your mind constantly, you will be 10x more interesting and attractive than a guy using routines, and you will be honest too which means you keep girls around better.

The question you gotta ask is "Why do you need a routine?" Is it a crutch? because you're too scared to trust yourself? Do you think of yourself as boring? Or do you think you will go blank ? Why? Maybe you're nervous? If so breathe, and try talking from a calm place. But yeah most routines just come across as corny to girls, and if girls laugh, you'll have to keep up that facade for the whole relationship, why bother??? That's so much unnecessary effort. When you could just take a deep breath and say what's on your mind.

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[–]brianbria 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Whats on my mind is normally the boring stuff which of course is not attractive.

Like what? If you're going up to a girl I am betting there's some interesting things your mind produces and you filterr them out.

E.g my mind may say "damn she's hot my god look at her."

If I say that to a girl it sounds like, "I'm thinking damn you're hot, my god! Look at you."

Or if you are nervous and you see a girl you may be thinking "oh man she's so pretty, there's no way she'd get with a guy like me, I'd have to come up with something cool to say, what can I say? hmm"

And if you said this to a girl it would sound like:

"hey! I'm thinking 'oh man you're so pretty, there's no way you'd get with a guy like me, I'd have to come up with something cool to say'"

This would probably cause most girls to laugh and you'd be very vulnerable in doing this, and I bet after admitting this your nerves would reduce a bit too. You don't need to be cocky and funny to be attractive, just being plain vulnerable is very attractive to most girls.

So try saying what's on your mind, I doubt it's boring.

Your mind is actually the one saying "my mind is normally boring stuff which of course is not attractive." and it's limiting you from expressing yourself with that belief. Just realise it's only a thought, and you can act in spite of it.