Okay, so I know the title of this post is approach anxiety, but that's not exactly the problem that I have. I am perfectly able to approach any girl I want, but here's the catch. I'm only able to do it if I've given some thought into what my opener would be. But that's not what I want. I want to be able to have so much confidence that I could go up to a lady, and literally tell her that I don't have anything interesting to say, yet here I am. How the hell do I convince my brain that I'm able to do that?