Approach issue

jsbach123 · 2026-04-27T16:50:22+00:00

A lot of guys have a general fear of women.

I suggest you start small and practice. Start by talking to women employees in places you go such as a waitress, the person at the cash register at a supermarket or at McDonalds. Just make small chat. "Wow, is it always this busy on Thursday?"

Start with women you're not attracted to. Then move up to those you find attractive.

There is no other way than practicing. You'll soon realize it's not weird to talk to strangers and that most people welcome it as long as you don't come across as aggressive or creepy.

Beneficial_Drink988 · 2026-04-27T16:46:25+00:00

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epimpstyle · 2026-04-27T17:09:52+00:00

If you fear rejection, don't give them the opportunity to reject you. Instead, you need to start with a simple 2-second question:

- "Excuse me, is the XYZ that way? OK, thanks!" Repeat this 5-10-20 times until you are comfortable with a 2-second question.....If you can't ask a question... well... that's not good.

- next day say a longer sentence by inserting a deliberatly mistake: "Excuse me, is XYZ that way?... So, it’s to the right? (deliberately mistake) Oh, you said left? Got it, thanks!"

- on the next day add other words to your initial sentence: "Excuse me, is XYZ that way?... So, it’s to the right? Oh, left? Okay... I know is near a bar I will find it.....Thanks!"

- next time you can add a question: " Excuse me, is XYZ that way?... So, it’s to the right? Oh left, okay... my bad.... I know is near a cool bar, have you been there?"

- next time even longer: "Excuse me, is XYZ that way?... So, it’s to the right? Oh left, okay... my bad.... I know is near a cool bar, have you been there? .. [it doesn't matter what she says you continue with a story].... .. my friend was there last month and he told me .... [insert a short funny story]. ....

See what happened? In 2-3 days, you’ll be able to tell a girl a funny story. But guess what? That story won't just appear out of nowhere at the perfect moment. You need to look for a funny story on YouTube and weave the punchline into your own. The idea is to stay in the conversation longer than 2-3 minutes, after that, everything becomes easier.

Title	Approach issue
Author	UsedLiterature9161
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	April 27, 2026 4:43 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sx96sr/approach_issue/
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