Hello ladies, so my problem is this.

*for a background story*

I've been through some sort depression/anxiety and addiction in my last years. My last girlfriend i had was in lates 2016. Since then i developed psoriasis esp. on my hands and feet. morale 0. im a cool looking guy, a bit chubby and a very likeable guy all in all. at the moment im OK. i wanna think im smart. not poor, a very cool job and maybe a bit well known in my neighborhood.

Today was the 3rd time this gal "approach" me with her smile and gestures and i do not know how to respond to this anymore.

She has a child, 3rd time i see her only with her child in the car, from work(she has a car from his job; with ads on it and etc)

I always liked older women but im afraid to do the first step this time.. we had some cool eye connection everytime but i always choke when i need to talk to her.. Maybe its because of my insecurities about my weight ( i gained around 20 kilos in the last 1.5 year)

Today was so cool i was just thinking to go back and talk to her but like i said i choked up again. I was thinking to write my number to a paper and put it into her ("windshield wiper?") because im not sure into my talk game anymore..

  • My english is bad
  • Im stupid
  • Need advice
  • x