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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
There is no such thing as how do I show her I’m ready ? Just do it. Overthinking kills the game. Heck think you’re in the body of James Bond, look her deeply in the eyes will approaching her. Dive into the deep ocean of confidence and pleasure.
[–]leddituser123 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's exactly what i did when we first met. If i did it then, i can do it again.
BUT this is a special case i haven't experienced before as i already have been rejected by her (on the date, not on the approach) so i don't know if i should be doing something special or idk.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean you got rejected ?
Btw if she calls you out on losing your shit last time just tell her in an aloof way : yeah im not perfect, i need to show you my soft side too sometimes or something funny about yourself. It doesn’t matter how embarrassing shit is, self deprecating jokes said in a idgaf way makes people more comfortable around you from experience most of the time. Fuck what happened, shits over anyways.
[–]leddituser123 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As i said, met her in a club, couldn't have gone better. On the first date at my place i was nervous when escalating and kept pushing for sex after a hard no, in a desperate/nervous/uncalibrated way.
Well indeed that's over and i'm no longer that person. Guess i'll have to start from scratch. But i don't know if she or her friends will bring it up or remember it and what to do about it.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Generally, it sounds crazy but I say things people might think in an exaggerated way like : shit this guy is a pretty fucking weirdo, got all nervous with a hot chick, totally got no respect for the man + big smile.
Don’t justify yourself. You’re an alpha.
Remember this too : oneitis. You got options even if you don’t see them yet. If that girl rejects you fuck it. Love is like a butterfly. Grab it and you will hurt it. Chase it, and it will fly away. Leave it alone and it might softly land on your hand.
Show you’re attracted but don’t be the type of dude who overtly shows he’s down to fuck. Put yourself into her mind : how does she see you ? A needy dickhead ?
Be friendly and don’t try unless SHE gives you clear hints that she is open for it. Period. If not, move on. Don’t insist.
[–]SeanDon999 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
play yo game right. just act like you dont know wtf happened. be like oh How you doin, i havent seen you in a long ass time what you been up to. make sure she dont have a guy or in a relationship. if you goin to give her a hug make sure shell receive it. make eye contact, if she lookin away then its not a good look for u cuzzo
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