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Can someone link the Todd video and the BBC doc aswell maybe?
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:10 PM
1

Experience
/r/seduction25/12/19 12:14 PM
5

What's so "beta" about your job?
/r/seduction25/12/19 12:14 PM
2

Yeah you keep jerking off while other dudes go on dates from Tinder.
/r/seduction24/12/19 11:24 AM
1

Are you getting enough matches? Try messaging multiple girls at the same time, you will care less and will be less desperate in text, after a while you will come up with a 'routine' that works or multiple routines that you can use on multiple girls Reply quickly and try to get a conversation going especially if they're online (=they recently replied) The match-to-date is extremely low for everyone but it's very realistic to get multiple dates out of tinder for little effort
/r/seduction24/12/19 11:22 AM
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Kind of yeah
/r/seduction23/12/19 02:33 PM
4

Post good pictures and show you leave an interesting life of abundance. DM something interesting or reply to a story but DMing girls out of the blue will still be a shot in the dark.
/r/seduction21/12/19 11:41 PM
1

I like you. How old are you? If i may ask
/r/seduction30/11/19 07:37 PM
1

Actually the girls under 25 rarely shittest by default in my opinion. After 25 they do and when they do im glad because it means she's interested and it's an easy opportunity to create attraction. The 'good set' like i told you i stayed in until i couldn't no more (would be desperate following them to the bar). But you have a point and i agree. But it can't be the root cause.
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:47 PM
1

Grow a spine and skip this girl
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:14 PM
1

Until crazy ruins your fuckin life
/r/seduction21/11/19 12:14 PM
10

Thanks for sharing take care dude
/r/seduction02/11/19 11:38 PM
3

Good job dude, let me know if she replied to the text
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:22 AM
2

of course
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:20 PM
4

Any high value woman will test you and may come off cold in the first few minutes of the interaction. Don't take it personally.
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:08 PM
2

Consider not kissing until you are at your/her place. Kissing releases sexual tension instead of building it. However you should kiss her in the neck to build the tension.
/r/seduction21/09/19 07:18 PM
4

RSD Tyler is autistic
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:26 AM
6

It's no wonder guys are finally learning to work on themselves first instead of painting their nails black and taking a deck of cards to a club to do magic trick routines. You forgot the hat lol
/r/seduction02/07/19 06:34 PM
1

Could be a million reasons. Most of those are out of your control. Move on
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:47 PM
1

What rejection? That she didnt come with you? Doesnt sound like a rejection to me
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:46 PM
1

It all sounds good i dont see any problem. It sounds like you ran out of steam a bit and that it was smarter to walk away and reapproach later to avoid coming off boring and repetitive. Looks good to me. Better than clinging onto her for attention for 4 hours straight.
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:44 PM
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Depends how receptive she is and what my plans are. Might talk to her for 10 mins, might stay with her for the night. In clubs you’ll have to come in strong and spike her emotions pretty quick.
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:27 PM
2

Are u talking about a club setting or a date? Or something else? Try to eliminate that verbal filter you have. Its tricky yes, basically getting out of your head
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:25 PM
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It all depends. But what im trying to say, girls want emotions, not some logical political debate. Spike their emotions. Say something funny, something provocative, dance with them etc
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:21 PM
10

Go with the random nonsense
/r/seduction21/04/19 05:16 PM
1

hit up the local rsd inner circle its your best bet
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:51 AM
1

Did you answer the questions? If there were any Depends what country you're from bro
/r/seduction03/02/19 04:01 PM
1

Sent PM
/r/seduction03/02/19 03:45 PM
1

Leave it be
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:02 PM
5

From what i've read, Japanese culture is very conservative so i'm not surprised
/r/seduction24/01/19 11:19 PM
4

Hire a photographer. Me and my friends do it, he follows us around for a day and takes lots of pictures. We also pay less because we're in a group. ​ You kinda have to get lucky with the photographer though. Look for an amateur one that doesn't charge too much and takes natural photos. Maybe a student who does it as a side job.
/r/seduction05/12/18 12:06 PM
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https://blog.photofeeler.com/take-attractive-online-dating-profile-pics-tinder-okcupid-at-home/
/r/seduction05/12/18 12:04 PM
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Well my opinion is that there's no reason to burn the bridges but i will be doing less effort for them if it doesn't work out. Well i want casual sex too but i have more to offer than that and i wanted to take her out on a date before i bang her. But more importantly i don't want to be a dog she calls with a whistle whenever she wants sex.
/r/seduction14/11/18 06:17 PM
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The fact is i know the truth but it annoys me that these things are (mostly) out of my control no matter how much my game improves Thank you for the reply
/r/seduction21/10/18 09:31 PM
3

About guys who notice you: they wish they had the balls themselves to do the same. They might laugh, but it comes from insecurity About girls: they all want to be approached and find a good guy. There will come a time when they stop getting approached because of their age.
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:41 PM
1

Hi LG, What specific kind of food should one cut out to reduce that bloat? Or is a general caloric deficit needed?
/r/seduction16/09/18 08:24 PM
1

Do you own Transformation Mastery? If so, which specific videos should i focus on? Thanks
/r/seduction15/09/18 06:18 PM
1

Thank you for the answer. Do you know any videos/sites that talk about these exercises? I do meditate but i do it in a basic way.
/r/seduction15/09/18 05:47 PM
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Never thought about that, good stuff
/r/seduction18/08/18 08:06 PM
2

What i did was look at those club dance moves videos and took the moves i liked, and build upon those. Club or rave moves, little difference. Do what feels natural and what complements the music. Plus most people don't know how to dance either so it's not hard to stand out a bit
/r/seduction31/07/18 05:39 PM
1

I looked up smth like ‘club dance moves men’
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:17 PM
0

look at videos on youtube
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:08 PM
1

To be honest i'm leaning towards not taking him along but i don't know how to say it yet in a matter that won't end the friendship.
/r/seduction28/07/18 11:40 AM
1

Glad you posted in here, you seem to relate to me more. I also have friends who wing, and friends who don't wing. The friend we talked about had the position of the trusty wingman, but then his game went to 0 so naturally the friendship went downhill too, because he's a friend who i expected it of. He's always been there for me and tagged along when i had no one. So i'll feel bad if i don't take him with me. But i have to make a statement and he has to realise there are consequences if you give …
/r/seduction28/07/18 10:35 AM
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whoop dee doo thanks bro!
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:26 AM
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I don't know man, he never apologised or anything. I think he does realise it. But givers have to set limits because takers don't. I have so much to give, in terms of "game" and all that, but if people bring me down and stop me from growing i have to take distance to some degree... Plus, my old "mentor" will be there, and knowing my friend he'll try to impress him by talking how "alpha" this and that is and how "beta" this and that is... When actually he's getting caged in by his girlfriend slow…
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:25 AM
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No joke, my wingman is in a manipulative relationship and drags me down. I was forced to find new wings. I posted in the RSD Inner Circle Facebook group of my country, guess what, i now know 3 more people in the game and i’ve gone out twice already and will do again tonight.
/r/seduction21/07/18 08:43 AM
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I’ve actually done it numerous times before (asking to film) even with a gym girl but i had no intentions to game her or so
/r/seduction17/07/18 03:51 AM
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Yeah thats my style, cold and direct.. Was thinking about asking her to spot or to film me (to see my own form) and strike a conversation from there, maybe not even closing on the first encounter
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:16 PM
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"Wanna build a pillowfort and make out?" Wil je een kussenfort bouwen en kussen? lmao
/r/seduction16/07/18 05:13 PM
4

Interested in this too. All these witty lines from pickup videos are in English and are hard to translate to Dutch
/r/seduction16/07/18 01:10 PM
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Fake it till u make it
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:34 PM
1

Why not? He’s in love now. Can you explain more in detail how you would approach this?
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:40 PM
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My other friend was straight up with him and he was going to dump her but then it was his birthday and he went skiing with her and now he has his rose colored goggles back on. So i’ll confront him when it won’t be going well again, now it’s pointless, hopefully he listens
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:28 PM
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That sounds like a good idea, he'll do it half-assed anyways but his ego is probably too big for him to realise how much of a burden he is, but thanks for the suggestion i'll consider it
/r/seduction15/07/18 01:01 PM
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Don't know how i should interpret that
/r/seduction15/07/18 12:44 PM
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I don't and i shouldn't take shit, but he's my best friend and it hurts when he's feeling down.
/r/seduction15/07/18 11:33 AM
1

Well he's my best friend, so i go out with him a lot. Best thing i can think of is wandering off alone and approaching alone.
/r/seduction15/07/18 11:26 AM
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As i said, met her in a club, couldn't have gone better. On the first date at my place i was nervous when escalating and kept pushing for sex after a hard no, in a desperate/nervous/uncalibrated way. Well indeed that's over and i'm no longer that person. Guess i'll have to start from scratch. But i don't know if she or her friends will bring it up or remember it and what to do about it.
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:18 PM
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That's exactly what i did when we first met. If i did it then, i can do it again. BUT this is a special case i haven't experienced before as i already have been rejected by her (on the date, not on the approach) so i don't know if i should be doing something special or idk.
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:12 PM
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Might have luck asking in an RSD inner circle group on FB fam
/r/seduction09/07/18 08:59 PM
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I'm not a person who cares about local fame. I just want to use it as a 'DHV' tool on Tinder and for my cold approaches. Also to pull off IG / have an instream off IG.
/r/seduction09/07/18 08:44 PM
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I don't know but 1k seems very possible if you drive tons of traffic through your page with a bot. I just saw some girl off tinder with 10k followers but bad like/followers ratio.
/r/seduction09/07/18 07:59 AM
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Wouldn't it help to start up with people who don't know me? The bots can geo target too i think so
/r/seduction08/07/18 09:29 PM
1

Nightgame chicks aren’t enough to build a halfdecent following though
/r/seduction08/07/18 09:18 PM
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Man he once talked about his past how he was straight up afraid of people. So if he can do it, anyone can
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:18 AM
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Sure thing pal
/r/seduction21/06/18 09:59 PM
2

(in general) Which i’d be meeting more high self esteem women
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:34 AM
28

She is probably disappointed at you that you didn’t take her home
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:11 PM
2

Simple way would be grabbing her hand and spin her around, learn that kind of dancing. Then you can put your hand on her hip, if she reacts positively, you can go for the kiss. Let me know if you need further help
/r/seduction08/06/18 11:41 AM
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Yes the mindset works. Not only for girls but for your wellbeing in general. Just keep in mind that you still have to approach them.
/r/seduction06/06/18 11:25 AM
1

Update: guess what, she replied. Bonus: another girl from tinder i knew, came back out of nowhere and we now have a date set up
/r/seduction21/05/18 11:18 AM
1

Yes most likely that's the case, i didn't even think of that as a possibility. If she really wanted it, she would have let me escalate further. Now that i think of it, not that she didn't enjoy being undressed, but she probably did it to feel wanted. Good stuff, thanks.
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:45 AM
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I was expecting sex too because i was once invited at 21:30 by a girl on tinder and we straight up had sex after i went in. Though she was wearing a jogging and no bra. The girl in the OP was all dressed up with earrings on and dropped some hints early on that she wouldn't give her self up easily. She was waiting for her group to finish the assignment so she decided to invite over a guy from tinder, for sex or not idk. She also told me she wouldn't feel good about herself if she had done it with…
/r/seduction20/05/18 09:07 AM
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Awkwardly? I wouldn’t say so. She was very comfortable with me. Too slowly? Maybe. I also had a very short timeframe to do so, going from zeeo to sex. Plus that school project blocked me. It’s probably something out of my control unfortunately.
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:56 AM
1

lol PS: you look good don’t worry about it
/r/seduction20/05/18 08:54 AM
1

I find it strange that she changed her mind, but yeah women and their emotions. From my limited post, do you think i did something wrong? Probably hard to tell as you weren't there Fun fact: another girl from tinder messaged me on FB out of nowhere after i hadn't replied for a month
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:27 PM
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I'd say kino is the easiest way. Escalate in a calibrated matter and see what happens.
/r/seduction19/05/18 10:05 PM
3

Well let me explain my situation briefly. I'm eastern european, and wear my long hair slicked back. I kind of give off a sleazy vibe, eventhough my personality is not like that. Girls are quick to judge and categorise me as a fuckboy/player very often, because of my appearance and confidence. But i'm confident and comfortable in my own skin. I know very well who i am. Is it a matter of giving enough value? Should i change how i present myself in some way (not necessarily appearance)? Also it mig…
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:16 PM
3

How do you know what her expectations are? In other words, how do you know if you should present yourself as a seducer or a lover or something else?
/r/seduction26/04/18 01:37 PM
1

Look at Putin
/r/seduction26/04/18 11:47 AM
1

Backfire if you did have sex or didn't? A friend of mine who i consider very good at game also usually had sex around the 3rd date. He also told me women will never have sex on the first, so my naive self believed him. Went on a date, escalated to the point she was good to go, and i didn't go for it...
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:46 PM
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When girls categorise you as a player like that they see you as someone who will manipulate them for sex. It's something very dangerous for them, someone who can play their emotions to get them to do what they might not want to. You'll be avoided like the plague. Tone down your game and make them feel comfortable first. Don't do too much flashy stuff. Escalate slower. I don't know what's up in these comments claiming it's a shittest. Not everything is a damn shittest.
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:01 PM
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Someone who gets it
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:50 PM
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Also the problem is that she may get buyer's remorse if shes a particularly romantic type cause fucking on the first date is not what most women logically do. I find it interesting. From what i read here people are split about if you should push for sex on the first date, if you're looking to date further. Some say you should push for sex as fast as possible. After the sex you've already won. And she will rationalise your shortcomings in order to not feel like a slut. The opposite say that she w…
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:20 PM
3

They aren't stupid, but they don't like feeling like a slut, so they want to pretend like "it just happened". That's the job of the guy.
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:15 PM
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Don't worry, your emotional brain (the one you actually use) will do the opposite.
/r/seduction09/04/18 07:11 PM
1

Tell me about this hack.
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:50 PM
1

As a man your social value increases overtime. Opposite to women, whose value drastically increases after their 20s.
/r/seduction04/04/18 07:01 AM
1

yeah, full on cold approaching
/r/seduction28/03/18 10:20 PM
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My friends also gave advice from their own experience (which they have a ton of), they had good intentions. But their advice was completely wrong. Now, my friends act stubborn for the first time, completely convinced of their methods, yet confused as fuck why i'm friendzoned now (which shows that they were WRONG and DON'T UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION). See, /u/Kenic_In_MD , my internet friend, i think you should try to see things from /u/sever27 's point of view, don't be like my stubborn friends. R…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:47 PM
1

Well the situation is very clear to me now. I should have had sex. She was giving me LMR shit tests, but was okay with us having sex that night. Because i didn't go for it, i'm now friendzoned, for the first time in my life. I texted her a few times but she's trying to kill the vibe, to not feel like a slut. If she wants my friendship she will reach out herself. Plus, the more i send her, the more i fall in the seller role, in which im already fucking deeply in. My friend also told me i'd raise …
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:39 PM
1

Let's say you try to escalate towards sex in a calibrated matter on a first date, and she gives you a hard no. Wouldn't she think something in the sense of: "Is he just trying to fuck me? I wanted to date, and see if there might be something more." Well friend 1 doesn't like sex outside a relationship. Which we should respect, but he has strange beliefs about when sex should happen and when it should not happen. Like sex shouldn't happen on a first date, like that's some unholy shit or idk. He b…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:35 PM
3

Realise that you have the skills to set this up a x10000 times over and you shouldn't feel bad about one missed opportunity, abundance mindset it's what has helped me
/r/seduction28/03/18 04:00 PM
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Ever seen RSD Julien PIMP course? Julien simply says, even if you want her as a girlfriend, fuck her as soon as possible. She will backwards rationalise why that was a good idea, and will rationalise your shortcomings. Which makes a lot more sense to me than what you and my friends claim, that she will come up with reasons why we shouldn't date anymore. I imagine she would push for a relationship herself, because if a girl has sex outside a relationship, she's a slut. After sex you have all the …
/r/seduction28/03/18 03:55 PM
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Thanks for replying, glad there's someone who gets me. Yeah you got that right. They're emotionally attracted as fuck, yet back off in fear of getting used. We do everything right, and they get scared. I was thinking of "toning down" my game but fuck that doesn't make any sense. Hahahah it's like being a player or whatever but inside you're a nice guy (nice in the good way, not in the beta male way) and they never find out.
/r/seduction28/03/18 03:32 PM
1

After watching a bunch of mobster movies i'll feel like "whacking" her on that boat instead of having sex.
/r/seduction28/03/18 03:24 PM
2

Do you remember your first blowjob?
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:42 PM
1

I don't worry about my image, i'm comfortable in my own skin. I just thought there might be something i can do about this matter.
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:23 PM
1

Well, how do you explain getting labeled as a fuckboy then? Even when the set goes well up until that point?
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:17 PM
2

I recognise your username, thanks for answering another question earlier. Nice guys do finish last. But i'm getting the idea that in the 'bracket' of young girls, it might be a better approach to be nice, but still be man-to-woman. But i'm no nice guy (by the usual definition) and i don't want to change who i am. I'm starting to think there's nothing to change here... That "everything is a shit-test" is a joke me and my friends tell lol. But when a girl says "you're a fuckboy!" and pushes me awa…
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:06 PM
1

Seddit gave me a wake-up call, unfortunately some were friendlier than others so i deleted it. I might make a new post for others to learn from.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:04 AM
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Hi, thank you for replying. I feel like banging my head against the wall for not have gone for it. The reason i didn't is because i blindly followed my friends advice to keep sex for a next date. They know their shit in terms of game, BUT they are not people who enjoy sex without a connection. Your theory makes 90000x more sense than my friends'. They claim i'd be fuckboy-zoned if i had gone for it, especially with the higher tier women.
/r/seduction26/03/18 10:17 PM
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Where exactly did she signal me to back off? I escalated in a calibrated matter. So, what now?
/r/seduction25/03/18 09:21 PM
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Just answer his message????????????????????????
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:49 PM
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1) Society says if you have sex with someone outside of a relationship then you are a slut. She will even rationalise your shortcomings like "eh, he's not that bad" and probably push for a serious relationship. 2) After sex, you have basically won. Sex is the biggest form of investment a woman can give you. 3) From an evolutionary standpoint the woman had to cling on to the man for providing food and shelter (prehistoric times) for her and the upcoming baby.
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:23 PM
1

What the fuck? I’m being downvoted? Is this seddit?
/r/seduction11/03/18 05:13 PM
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Older women value the alpha male more. Basically be a man. While girls might value looks and popularity more
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:05 PM
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Keep us up to date
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:35 AM
3

Did you delete that long reply you wrote? what happened?
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:16 PM
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What do u even DM? don't leave us edit: if you reply to yourself, i won't get a notification
/r/seduction10/03/18 08:05 PM
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I like RSD, especially Julien (his older content like PIMP) and Max. But what happened to Owen? And who is this Luke guy? You can't claim this fat guy pulls often, right? Right? RSD? I didn't like Owen personally but he had lots of informative videos back in the day. Nowadays him and Luke upload 20min - 2hr video brabbling about random shit. See the videos below. Good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM Bad: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5BhD-yme5E&t
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:59 PM
1

If i were to filter like you do i'd end up with 0 leads from online dating.
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:57 PM
1

Can you give an example?
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:22 PM
0

If beta males would stop flooding every woman in masses then those women wouldn't get as much attention as they are. It's like a pack of flies storming a trashcan. Remove the ability to PM strangers on social media and the problem would be partially solved. Remove Tinder too and it's fully solved. But i don't see that happening any soon.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:09 PM
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Tell that to younger guys. Girl turns 18, she's at her peak, will get all the shit for free if she's even remotely attractive. Guy turns 18? He'll be the lowest value possible.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:02 PM
1

Ask for facebook or snapchat or something
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:36 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:19 PM
3

What about 20-22 y/o guys?
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:16 PM
1

Because you hurt their female ego and they want to prove to you that you should want them.
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:34 PM
5

No.
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:33 PM
2

You have to stop taking rejection so personally. The girl instantly flipped you off, did she even get to know you? No. Could have been a thousand reasons why she said that. Also, try to learn something from every rejection. I don’t think you pulled off your line in the right way. Next time try approaching with just “hi” and asking their name. I go out where there are a lot of young girls and a good chunk of them flip me off too for no reason. But, i don’t take it personally and move on, approach…
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:05 PM
1

How do i create those things?
/r/seduction18/02/18 01:21 AM
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Oh look it’s our man LingeringGnome again, motivating us with exceptional results. Remember me? We exchanged some comments. I’m the 22 year old. When going out i saw a dude making out with 3 girls at the same time. Sure as heck didn’t score them from cold approach. Probably from his social circle (popular kid). But i guess improving yourself and being a genuine person will get you further in life than playing the popular kid through college.
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:44 PM
1

He sure as fk didn’t get them from cold approach
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:33 PM
2

Accepting others (number 4) remains a problem for me
/r/seduction14/02/18 09:36 PM
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I do
/r/seduction11/02/18 09:32 AM
2

Don’t say hi or some basic shit. Personally i’d be honest why i dm her on insta and add some funny twist to it like your hormones demanded it or somethinf
/r/seduction01/02/18 06:19 AM
1

did u dm her?
/r/seduction30/01/18 10:28 PM
1

I experience the same. How old are you?
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:01 AM
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Wel i'd argue i'm at the lowest point of value as a young man. At 22, i rarely meet mature enough girls in the 18-22 category. For the older ones (22+), i directly compete with men like you. You've been working on yourself for a way longer time than I. I won't use it as an excuse though. Age gives us social status, look at George Clooney, Michael Buffer.. What i realised today is that i shouldn't chase pussy so much as i do now, it gets in the way of other things sometimes. As men we have infini…
/r/seduction27/01/18 08:16 PM
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Believe me, i do approach tons when going out. But as you said, it might be a waste of energy
/r/seduction24/01/18 10:58 AM
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That's also the way i am. Direct and confident. But i feel like it's not paying off (yet). Girls don't respond to that behavior. As they get older their priorities change and they seek the alpha male. Right now, they value popularity and looks. That's what my older friends tell me. How old are you? How well do you do on Tinder?
/r/seduction22/01/18 10:38 PM
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Funny thing is, those socially valuable women go apeshit when they get a taste of their own medicine, labeling the guy who refused her as a fuckboy or something similar to protect their ego. I never thought of them as needy, those girls. I just thought they were immature. How do you filter them out? I spend too much time on them. How do you find the DTF girls? My lays on Tinder always started with pretty obvious hints coming from the girl.
/r/seduction22/01/18 07:12 PM
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You should try "don't worry, you can wear heels" or "you can wear heels". That would avoid confusion. Yeah, not much brain power at all.
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:12 AM
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I fully agree with your approach, but most girls i meet are girls, not women. I'm almost 22. On tinder i match with 18-21 and in real life i meet the same age group usually. I've had the pleasure of meeting some women and i know they respond very well to direct/confident behavior. I can't wait to meet more women. But these girls.... they want to chitchat and shit and take a 1st date way too seriously, like it's a marriage proposal.
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:11 AM
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From my experience that doesn’t work where i live. They all want like 10-20 messages before numberclosing which is stupid
/r/seduction21/01/18 07:54 AM
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I moved on after she flaked on the date with some shitty excuse. I'm trying to argue with you, like i'm supposed to give them the approval they want.
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:58 PM
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Yes i am offended by this honestly. What do you mean by trying to be more analytical/patient? It’s just like talking to a wall. I once had a girl using tinder to get over her ex, so she’d use me for attention and flaked out on our date last minute. Am i supposed to be spoonfeeding them in return for probably nothing? These are ‘tinderellas’, they’re not girlfriends
/r/seduction20/01/18 07:35 PM
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That's what i've experienced too. Do they give their snap more easily than FB? Because i usually ask for FB.
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:26 PM
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How do you filter out the ones that are looking for attention? My lays start with the girl dropping hints that we're fucking
/r/seduction20/01/18 06:01 PM
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Well don't you find it disrespectful to waste someones time? These girls keep answering but don't add anything to the conversation, and i don't send things that are hard to reply to. They want guys to chase a carrot on a stick to get some ego inflation, answering anything i say with "haha" "okay" "yes" "maybe", so i would invest even more
/r/seduction20/01/18 04:54 PM
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The sole purpose of my post was to rant. Those stats are probably true. I consider myself very attractive but nothing model level. I've had success on Tinder and i use it as a side 'income' of women. I approach every night i go out.
/r/seduction20/01/18 02:47 PM
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I want to use this line so badly but it's hard to translate it in my language FUCKKKKKKKK
/r/seduction13/01/18 11:18 AM
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Once she shows enough interest, you date close or whatever. With experience you will know when it's the right time. Pay attention to how much she invests in you
/r/seduction13/01/18 11:01 AM
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How old are you? How old is she?
/r/seduction27/12/17 11:00 PM
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When is the book coming out?
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:07 PM
7

How come RSD has a bad reputation?
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:01 PM
13

Dana, 60 G's baby hahaaa
/r/seduction21/09/17 10:16 PM
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I find quite interesting why he does that. I'm sure there's a reason, Conor McGregor is a master at the psychological game. He understands that if you act confident, people will percieve you as a confident man, and you will become confident. Plus, it's good show.
/r/seduction21/09/17 10:15 PM
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https://imgur.com/tRLt7sz
/r/seduction21/09/17 11:48 AM
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Great explanation, saved it. Yes, women under 22 aren't as comfortable (or not comfortable at all) with their sexuality, so i don't imagine it happening as often. Why i asked you if you know any.
/r/seduction26/08/17 07:26 PM
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Even under 21/22? in the guy who f__s them department
/r/seduction26/08/17 05:56 PM
1

Good post. How old are those girls you know?
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:28 PM
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Wouldn't do that though
/r/seduction26/08/17 09:29 AM
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Hint: don't wait for someone you love before losing it
/r/seduction26/08/17 07:12 AM
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They want to show interest but they don't want to show too much interest (would make them seem easy by their thinking) so they tone it down with some haha shit.
/r/seduction14/08/17 11:23 AM
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She's telling the truth, like it or not.
/r/seduction13/08/17 11:39 AM
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