Long story short my friend got in a manipulative relationship and his girlfriend is slowly "betanising" him. There's little life in him left. Past half year my results have been less and less because he's my wingman, or supposed to be. Now he blatantly ruins sets by just standing there and saying nothing.

So i confronted him about it and was honest about it all, didn't hold anything back. I told him he will keep pushing away people out of his life if he continues being together with her.

Luckily enough i had to find new wingmen and i found them. Went out with them for a week and got exceptional results, because they didn't hold me back.

Now i'm going out with them again in 2 weeks, but my friend (who holds me back) wants to come along. I think he understood well what he's been doing to me, but i really don't want him to come along to the party. How do i tell him? Do i even tell him? He's a very good friend but i feel like i have to take distance...