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| 1 | Cold approach is ineffectiveYour math is really silly. You're randomly assuming that sales and cold approaching would have the same rate of success. Consider that the rate of success in sales is wildly different depending on the industry and type of lead. Why don't you actually do 100 cold approaches, ask all the ones that don't reject you out, and see what the numbers are? Rather than deciding that you know the truth without any evidence and then spreading that belief to others. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 1 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”So? Are you going to live a small life and not go for what you want because someone was petty? Really? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesBeing disheartened is part of the problem. You should be excited that girls are initially interested and there's potential as soon as you figure out how to move things forward. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesAnd unless you’ve been rejected many times, you don’t really know whether it’s something outside your control (like your appearance) that’s holding you back or if you just haven’t tried enough. Would you go to the gym three times and decide that your genetics aren’t good for building muscle because you didn’t notice any change? I hope not. The same applies to dating. Keep in mind that girls will rarely make the first move—they might hint that they’re interested, but they will almost never do som… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:12 AM |
| 2 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesNo, static mindset is a term that has mountains of scientific research behind it. I'm also not using the word without explaining what it means and why it's relevant. You can look up Mindset by Carol Dweck for more about the research into static vs growth mindsets. The basic gist is that when people believe they have no control of their lives, they prove themselves correct. And when people believe they can improve, they end up far more successful in just about any endeavor. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:00 AM |
| 3 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesYikes. "You're making up all these esoteric reasons, when in reality it's." Saying "the reality is..." doesn't add any credence to your point, believing something doesn't make it true. By the way, I was diagnosed with panic disorder and social anxiety. I just didn't let it control my life by rationalizing that I have no ability to change and I'm a victim. As soon as you believe you have no agency, you stop trying and you prove yourself correct. "Also, no point in being the guy #25 of the day, es… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:49 AM |
| 3 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesWho said anything about making sexual relationships the cynosure of your life lol. Also, not sure what you're accomplishing by using a word 99% of people have never heard of. If your goal is to seem pretentious, mission accomplished. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:07 AM |
| -5 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesA lot of buzzwords without evidence or logic. I also never said looks don't matter so you're arguing against a point no one made. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 33 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesSometimes they do. But overall it's a reflection of the mindset of the community as a whole: a lot of people resonate with stuff that reinforces their current beliefs and they quickly dismiss anything that challenges those beliefs. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | How To Escape The Analysis Paralysis PhaseNo problem: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4kTcVi-b\_9qQnMCRG9WggA | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 5 | We had sooo much fun approaching women at the club but the result still made me wonder if it’s worth itSo you're deciding that you think night game is less effective than online based on going out once. Are you serious? | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Confidence, assertiveness - so hot!Hey, it's a strawman! The fact people upvote argument that is essentially, "If he was the ugiest man out of a thousand, this wouldn't have worked," says a lot about the state of this Subreddit. I knew a dude who was extremely ugly who pulled more than most guys I know, cute girls too. Was it harder for him? Yes. But he didn't complain about his situation, he did something about it. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | How to approach her?99.999999% of statistics on the internet are made up. Waiting for choosing signals is weak af. I've hooked up with many women, very few of them gave me choosing signals first. If you can't get any girls from a cold approach you should consider that maybe you're game just sucks before you share advice that's going to actively hurt other people's chances. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:41 PM |
| 16 | I opened to 8 girls tonight in a clublol what, you expect that a white guy is going to pull the first night after 8 approaches? Extremely unlikely. You need to give yourself some props for taking action and think about what you could do better, thinking in hypotheticals about what could have happened in an alternative reality is just going to make you bitter. Focus on what you can improve until you've mastered those things, then if you're still not getting results you can complain about crap like certain races having an advantage. … | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManQuality is subjective - it's not just about appearance it's about someone who has the traits you value | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Girl who rejected me WON’T STOP TOUCHING ME.That's one possible explanation, a bit of a doomer attitude to assume it's the only one worth mentioning lol | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Manworthless comment | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Is cold approaching considered to be chasing?Is working 20 hours per week to build an online business chasing money? Yes. is going to the gym 4 times per week and going on a diet chasing fitness? Yes. So what? The method you need to take to get the results you want involves actively pursuing it. Nothing good happens those who expect things to come to them: that's a recipe for being fat, broke, and alone. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManIf you want to add to the discussion, you need to explain what you mean specifically. No one can take anything from your comment here | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive Mannah man, that might happen once out of a thousand approaches. I had a really unattractive friend who almost never heard things like this. you're just writing blackpill fan fiction | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 0 | How To Be An Attractive Manyeah that would rarely happen. Most women don't get off on being cruel to strangers. They also wouldn't do that because there's the risk of backlash and the guy reacting badly. It's much easier to politely reject someone than to shame them for being short | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManI'd like to hear an audio of one of your approaches. My best guess is that either: a. you're not coming across as confident as you think you are. b. your interactions are too logical and lack any sexuality c. the girls do like you but you're not leading and going for the close | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManSo you're confident, good-looking, and you ask a lot of women out but you still completely fail? Something isn't adding up | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManThat kinda sounds like fan fiction to me man. I've seen many guys shorter than you ask girls out on my coaching programs and girls almost never say anything like that | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManThe core principles of any skillset will always be the same, so the best content will have a lot in common with each other. The difference will be in the examples, the subtleties, and the specific tactics. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManI'd recommend watching interviews with people like Russel Brand, Craig Ferguson, and Conan O'Brien. Witty TV shows are good to: Arrested Development, Community, and How I Met Your Mother come to mind | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Manlol thanks man | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManI've never seen it happen in my years of experience with pickup | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManMy bad, it's supposed to go to this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2fqMQtUv1o | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManThanks! | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive ManYeah man, all the testimonials and infield videos are fake. It's a huge psyop. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 8 | How To Be An Attractive ManI don't think you understand where most people who are learning about this stuff are coming from. The majority have either never approached a girl in their life, or have only done it a handful of times. You can give them specific lines to stay or a specific strategy, but that won't help them unless they have a mindset shift, first. If you tell someone they can lose weight by following a diet but they have a belief that their genetics make it so they can't lose weight, what do you think will happ… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManI'd need more specifics. Women generally prefer guys to be taller than them, but exceptions happen all the time. Roughly how many girls did you ask out in the last year and how many literally said you were too short | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 17 | How To Be An Attractive Manlol I'm very curious who this is. I mean if you knew me in highschool you'd probably know how socially awkward and bad with women I naturally was, makes sense that if I figured it out I'd want to help other people | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManYou've asked a lot of women out who repeatedly said you're too short? I doubt that man. 5'9 is average height and I've seen plenty of guys at that height be very successful. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Manlol I learn from criticism all the time, it's a great teacher. But I can tell the difference between someone who's being emotional and someone who's giving genuine rational feedback | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManHow many women have you asked out in the last year? If the answer is a low number, you can't blame your height | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive ManPlease show an example of repackaging the same eBook or getting butthurt on YouTube. You can also act like a badass from behind a keyboard, but there's no reason to take it seriously without evidence that you're the expert you claim to be. Anyone can make shit up | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 60 | How To Be An Attractive ManProbably 2 weeks to a month - it's over 200 pages | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Went out alone to bar. Made out with 3 women.Must be something other than your game because if it was game then I have no excuse for why I don't get any dates. What a lame mindset man. Don't assume and go off what you saw in some youtube videos, learn through experience and keep an open mind. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Asked a girl for FWB. She says friends only. Ask her to hangout, she says yesDude, you don't know that a girl has a good heart from a few cute texts. You're creating this whole narrative in your mind based on a text exchange. How do you have any idea whether she would be a good partner in a relationship? You have to know someone really well before you can make that decision (unless you want to roll the dice and hope they're not crazy) | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 06:58 AM |
| 4 | 1 year, 1000 approaches: Mindset changeslmao. This is a made up statistic based on blackpill. I get laid usually once out of 10-20 approaches, and that's if I'm being picky. I'm slightly above average looking, but not by much (I'm a good 25 pounds overweight). I also know far worse looking guys that get good results. There's a 5'4 physically unattractive dude I wing with who pulls on a weekly basis - including a threesome recently | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)Yep, they'll rearrange reality to fit their preconceived notions because that feels comfortable. Admitting you might be ignorant to the truth is hard, thinking you know everything is easy. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)That's a great point. Sadly I think you're probably right | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)lol what are you talking about. The guy is under 6'0 and he's not ugly but I'd say he's maybe slightly above average. There's plenty of infield of guys who are short and physically unattractive out there. Justin Marc, all of Simple Pickup, RSD Tyler, Jeffy, and Luke. The list goes on. Why make a ridiculous hypberolic argument instead of using logic? | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)That makes sense. I understand why people are resistant to anyone with a financial incentive, I'm the same way. There are plenty of charlatans out there. However, in my experience, anyone I've met who's really good with women but doesn't do it as a career isn't a great teacher. They instinctually know how to attract women but they have no idea how to explain it or why they're doing what they do. Now, probably about 80% of the people trying to sell something (in pickup, business, fitness, etc.). … | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)What are you basing the idea that infield are rarely ever legitimate on? I'm interested in the claim but it needs some kind of evidence. Personally, I share rejection compilations fairly often and I think more people should. But even if someone doesn't, the fact that they have clips of successes is better evidence that they know what they're talking about than the many who have no infield whatsoever. In my experience, when I think about all the coaches that helped me get success, they were ones … | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:12 AM |
| 15 | Picking Up A Hot Rave Girl (infield)When I post articles on here, they often get hundreds of upvotes. But infield almost always gets downvoted immediately. Why do you guys think that is? To me, it's pretty crazy because the majority of guys giving advice here have no evidence that they actually approach women or have any success in their own life. And even if you didn't think an infield was very good, it still seems more legit to me than an article that could have been written by a basement dweller who hasn't talked to a girl in y… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Accused of rape last year and haven't been able to recoverSorry this happened to you. This is pretty rare, but it does happen and everyone should be aware of it. The only instance of situations like this I've seen were one where the chick was crying when a guy I knew met her and it was a sketchy interaction from the beginning. The red flags were there that it wasn't a good idea to pursue anything that night. There's another one where someone I knew used "LMR" busting techniques - the girl was saying no but still making out and such and he did what RSD … | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Quick Approach - First One after reading Models by Mark MansonYou said "I don't think" which implies you never actually tried and are just theorizing | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | Quick Approach - First One after reading Models by Mark MansonGreat job but don't get upset if it flakes. Flakes are part of the game and if you get too attached to one number you'll end up pissed off and give up way too easily. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionIt's blatantly stupid. Most men are getting laid, about 30% of men between 18 and 30 didn't have sex last year, and that might sound like a high number - but it means 70% of men are attracting women. Something tells me they're not all incredibly rich and famous >.> | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:33 AM |
| -2 | Stop using cheap generalizations about women to justify your lack of actionHe never said anything about "just shoot your shot bro," or anything remotely like that. You're arguing against a straw man that doesn't exist to make it look like you're obviously correct. Try arguing against the actual points he made in good faith. It's also ironic that you're accusing him of generalizing when the entire point of his argument is not to generalize and to try to understand nuanced truths. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Approaching as a black manA great way to cut off 90% of your opportunities because women who might've been interested didn't notice you. This is also bad advice for anyone with approach anxiety because it gives you more reason to hesitate which is already the problem. Guys who are shy will misinterpret approach invitations in a negative light "she was probably looking at me because I look awkward". | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Approaching as a black manMaybe she thought you were looking for a hooker. I'm not in Atlanta, but here there are a good amount of black men who go for hookers. It's also possible that she was just weird or racist, that can happen. if you approach enough people you'll occasionally get some strange reactions. I've had a number of black wingmen and none of them did anything different to address their race. I've never seen them get into fights or confrontations. Now, if you have an intimidating appearance (you're large for … | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Don't be this guy (RANT)It's a bit different for women since if you go to a social environment guys will approach you. If guys are approaching you, but they're losing interest—that's a sign you're doing something that puts the off. If only the guys you don't like are hitting on you, then you should learn to give the guys you're interested in hints that they should approach you (eye contact). Or if you want, you could just approach yourself. Now, if you're not going to those environments and only have the option of meet… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 36 | Don't be this guy (RANT)That's probably true. Instagram models care more about appearances than pretty much anyone else, makes sense they would want a boyfriend that fits their image. However, I also think the obsession with Instagram models is misidrected. They tend to have a lot of plastic surgery and don't look nearly as good in person than in a picture. Plus, from what I've seen, Instgagram models are nightmares to be around. They don't have anything interesting going on in their head and don't develop their person… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 33 | Don't be this guy (RANT)Sadly he's not. If you look through the comment sections in r/seduction posts half of them are blackpill-esque things saying that looks are all that matter. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 10:19 PM |
| 14 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidNah, this is a grass is always greener on the other side fallacy. I've been very muscular and I've been very fat. It makes a difference, but a cheat code? Not even close. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 05:40 AM |
| 45 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidAgreed. Plenty of research has shown working out is about equally as effective for treating depression as medication. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Roommates are having loud sex and I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life. How do I cope?You're already shooting yourself in the foot by saying you can't attract women. What makes you think you can't? What have you tried? Have you done many approaches? Have you gotten professional photos and tried them on dating apps? Have you tried making a point of getting out of the house and into social situations as much as possible: joining groups on meetup.com, standup, etc? Have you maximized your appearance by hitting the gym, doing some research on fashion, and buying better clothes? Or ar… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:19 AM |
| -4 | Advanced Online DatingYeah but what kind of results do you get? Do you get dates with girls that are legitimately attractive from the apps on a regular basis? I'm not accusing you of being that way, but there are a lot of guys on here who talk about their methods but they don't have any results that anyone would want to get in the first place. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?There's too many haters to be able to ignore/block them on this subreddit right now. The comment section is truly a cesspool | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 0 | An Awkward Interaction Can Get You Laid (infield)You cracked the code | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | An Awkward Interaction Can Get You Laid (infield)My point has been made, thanks | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | An Awkward Interaction Can Get You Laid (infield)That's an interesting interpretation. Or perhaps I know the B.S. that people are going to use as excuses. Feel free to share an audio of you approaching a girl and show that you're not an absolutely cringey weirdo who know girl would want to talk to because of your personality. But you won't. Because you can't. Because you have a loser mentality. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Dating coach offered me a deal?Asking reddit for advice isn't a good idea. The vast majority of guys here have not gotten success with dating themselves and will give advice based on the mindsets that got them to be unsuccessful. I don't know if you've noticed, but about half the comments here these days are from people who follow blackpill content and take it seriously. Now, what I would be looking at is the coaches receipts/testimonials: does he have infield of some kind and client videos saying that he helped change their … | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | An Awkward Interaction Can Get You Laid (infield)Literally contradicting the description bro | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?I would reply to her text, "I disagree, it would've been weak to stay around someone who was treating me with disrespect." I wouldn't expect to see her again or even want to tbh. There's things you could've said or done differently but really the most likely issue is that the friend saw you as a pushover. She believed she could get away with acting like a bitch towards you. And it sounds like she was mostly right. It's not hard to put someone in their place when they're acting like that. She int… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestYou're starting with a strawman - that's nothing like what I'm suggesting. Polarizing someone into a fuck yes or no is the best way to get laid quickly. I guess we fundamentally disagree on that. If you don't polarize enough, you'll get a lot of polite conversations that go nowhere. This is what happens to most guys learning pickup. The average guy will fail with whatever they do, being bold will get them laid faster than playing it safe - that's why I spent my first year trying to cold approach… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 16 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?Nah, if you don't stand up for yourself it'll keep happening. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestIt's because most people on the internet are theory junkies and when they read something that goes against their beliefs, they assume it's wrong. Sadly, the old days in which people judged pickup through field experience and trying to replicate what they read are long gone. Now it's mostly the blind leading the blind | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestCool story. People who react emotionally based on what they've read without judging through experience are those who end up spinning their wheels. The red pill is about finding the truth, you're too busy feeling self-righteous to want to do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestI didn't recommend actually approaching and asking for sex - I said I did it as a social experiment. Have you ever tried anything remotely like what the post says? Or are you just arguing based on theory that you've read? Because I've done it multiple times and actually gotten laid - I even have receipts of hidden camera footage of bringing girls home. Just because something goes against your preconceived notions doesn't mean it's untrue. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 12 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestWomen also know that most guys are walking on eggshells and are terrified of rejection. I know guys who are very overt in their approach with women - extremely direct and always going for the pull. These guys do get rejected a good amount but they also consistently pull because they have the mindset of no hesitation. I've known a lot of guys who don't get laid even though they're charismatic and smooth because they half-step. More men half-step than overtly go for what they want (unless you're t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 06:36 AM |
| 7 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestI've been to Miami and most other major cities in the country. Miami has some of the most beautiful women, but I wouldn't say it's much easier to get laid than any other city. I'd say the girls in pretty much any major city are very DTF - tourist cities are easier in terms of girls being in the right mindset but local towns are easier logistically (the girls have their own place and you're more likely to see them again in the future). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestI do specify not to do it until the interaction is already clearly flirtatious. I would disagree to an extent in that what creeps women out is usually men acting like friends when they don't really want that. Being clear in your intentions might get a girl to reject you but it's quick and easy, not protracted and awkward. It's only creepy if you persist after she turned your advances down without empathy. And my problem with dating apps is 99% of guys I know who use them get like 6's at best fro… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 13 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestNever happened to anyone I know unless they didn't take no for an answer which isn't being advocated here. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 7 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestHave you tried it? You can trigger the ASD while still turning her on. You can sense the incongruence between what she says and her body language. It just means you need to take a step back and create some space afterward. Being bold is generally the better path because if a girl isn't interested, it'll be very clear and you won't waste your time. But if she is interested you'll create tension that you can work with. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestYeah, don't take my word for it, go out and test to find out. That used to be how the community operated as a whole but it's changed to be more "keyboard warriors" over the years | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Unorthodox Seduction Strategies That'll Put Some Hair On Your ChestNo - I said don't do that build up to it instead. Although if you think about it, 95% failure rate is still 5%. success and it wouldn't be that hard to approach 20 women in a night. You'd be doing better than most guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidOr maybe you just don't get it because you lack experience and are basing your opinion on preconceived notions and biases. If you think it's disrespectful you really don't get it. It's said in an ironic way, obviously. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidNot useful as feedback. Also doesn't add to the discussion. Just being negative for the sake of being negative. Makes your username ironic | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidHow is that being implied exactly? | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidNotice that the blackpill comments get upvoted consistently. That's where the mindset of people on seddit is at these days. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidNo. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidI have plenty of infield you can find. Unlike most, I have evidence that I'm doing what I talk about in the real world | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidI agree. You shouldn't assume the guy saying it is possible is correct either. But so many people assume game doesn't work when they haven't ever done it. That's sad. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidYep, that's a good explanation. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How To Set Dating Goals That Actually Get You LaidThere's plenty of room for adjustments - you're just committing to the overarching goal of approach or weightlifting or making online content etc. It's the lack of commitment that causes most failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 9 | How To Set Dating Goals That Actually Get You LaidI have receipts if you want me to shut you up. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 12:17 AM |
| 4 | How To Set Dating Goals That Actually Get You LaidThe majority of guys get no pussy atm. 28% of American men between 18-30 didn't get laid once in 2018. Keep in mind that many of the men who did get laid are in ltr's - so about 50% of single guys went that year without one lay. And that's before the pandemic. But your numbers there are very pessimistic. If you approach 50 women and only get 3 numbers that's very very low. For me it's about 40% of approaches lead to numbers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 16 | Why Ridiculous Pickup Lines Get Me LaidThat's what all the blackpiill guys believe without getting any real life evidence because they read some random guy on the internet say it's impossible. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | How To Set Pickup Goals That Actually Lead To DatesShare an audio of one of your approaches. Let's let people decide if you're not completely cringey with no game. Somehow I doubt you'll do it. Because you're in love with your excuses. You're not willing to give them up. It's weak, just like your mindset. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How To Set Pickup Goals That Actually Lead To DatesNope. That's an amateur's opinion, I've seen plenty of proof that any guy can get many dates from approaching. You're spreading your own limiting beliefs because you're stuck at a beginner level. It's the Dunning Kruger effect in action. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How To Make Girls Chase You (real life example)Yeah I see. It was in an ironic/joking tone. It was a guy I know not a random | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How To Make Girls Chase You (real life example)What comment did I make that could start a fight? | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | How To Make Girls Chase You (real life example)Only if you're a celebrity | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 09:40 PM |
| 3 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexThat's an interesting one. I've hooked up with a couple lesbians who were curious | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 5 | How To Make Girls Chase You (real life example)Yeah that is what blackpillers believe thanks to their limited understanding of psychological studies. With that said, I'm not opposed to the idea of Looksmaxing but it's not the magic people say it is. It doesn't hurt to be in good shape but I've had periods where I was technically obese in which I pulled hotter girls than when I had 10% bodyfat. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 07:37 AM |
| 2 | All The Reasons Women Have Sexlol that's actually an important one. I don't know about most common, but it does happen a lot | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | All The Reasons Women Have SexSounds like you're seeing people as logical beings who do things because it feels good but we are far more irrational than you're giving credit. We don't like to admit it, but there 's plenty of proof. You could read books like Predictably Irrational or Thinking, Fast and Slow for more about that. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 8 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexPete definitely has game. But yeah, there's a good chance your right. That's what happens when you marry a woman who became famous from a sex tape and a reality show about bickering | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think Jack Murphy has damaged the Red Pill?The more you get results in your own life (money, girls, etc.) the more you can detect the grifters. As you take action and improve you start to see through the grifters. If you're passive and just read shit without putting into action you'll never be able to tell and get preyed on like a sheep. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/22 04:23 AM |
| 4 | [FIELD REPORT] 10 minute pullThat's wildly inaccurate | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 7 | [FIELD REPORT] 10 minute pullThere's this miraculous invention known as the condom. You probably haven't heard of it because it's pretty clear you don't get laid much. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 10 | [FIELD REPORT] 10 minute pullTrue, but if you're that easily convinced that you have no chance I'd argue you shouldn't be getting laid anyway. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] 10 minute pullLove it. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:14 AM |
| 8 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexYeah, I live about a 10 minute walk from the best nightclub in vegas and that helps me for sure. One of the best things you can do with money for game is move to a good area in a city full of beautiful women (like Brickell in Miami or Scottsdale in Phoenix). But I used to live 30 minutes from the clubs in my old city and I managed to pull quite a bit regardless. It's still doable | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 6 | All The Reasons Women Have SexSounds like a mentality reinforced by ideological beliefs rather than pure logic and reason. There's exceptions to every rule and human beings are complicated-these either/or comparisons don't really do much justice to that | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 0 | All The Reasons Women Have SexThat kinda sounds manipulative. Why not just set a boundary and leave her? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 12:45 AM |
| -1 | All The Reasons Women Have SexOkay bro, have fun with that | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexA lot of them would've been manipulative when we lived in a largely monogamous society too. This generation may be worse, but those elements have always been there. There's a reason Richard Dawkins called his book, "The Selfish Gene", and in regards to sex people have personal desires that often conflict with their partners'. Best you can do is be honest as possible and act with integrity and learn to detect the warning signs that someone else isn't doing the same. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexYikes. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | All The Reasons Women Have SexThat's a very weird way to think. I've hooked up with tons of girls and very few gave me IOI's first. If you're were trying to make money would you wait for a businessperson to reach out to you first, or would you make shit happen? But based on your tone, I genuinely don't think you want to get better results and if that's the case no one can help you unless you change your mentality. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 10 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexMany people believe being Chad is entirely physical. That's pretty obvious reading the posts. However, I agree with you but it's an important distinction that many people neglect | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 18 | The Many Reasons Women Have SexI agree in that her having intense desire for you makes the best sex. But female desire isn't just about your appearance, that's only (important) factor. I know plenty of good-looking guys who struggle to make girls want them because they are empty shells with no charisma, sense of purpose, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 8 | All The Reasons Women Have SexYep. I met a girl the other night who literally tried to make out with me within 15 seconds and asked where I was staying (the most common way women will ask to go home with you). It just so happened her friends had left the club and she was in a certain mood. She was cute but not my type so I moved on, however things like that happen a lot if you talk to enough women. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | All The Reasons Women Have SexI understand the hesitation because a lot of coaches have no expertise and don't get their clients results. It's too bad there's no easy way to create standards for the industry because there are good ones out there and I benefited greatly from some of them when I was struggling back in the day. But there are other coaches who held me back because their strategy wasn't based on real results. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexDepends on your interpretation. I'm not saying all women do any of these things, you can find a woman who has sex based on the reasons you align with. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexThat's all great. And kind of proves the point I'm getting at: unless you become legitimately famous women aren't going to be coming to you very often. Which is why I'm asking how many women you've asked out— if the answer is low, then maybe that's why you're not getting any dates, not because you lack some physical characteristic. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 6 | All The Reasons Women Have SexThat's a good one. I imagine that it's kind of like sapiosexuality where anyone who knows what it means think they have it (since it makes you feel good to think you're attracted to intelligence). But, it probably is a factor for many if not most people. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | All The Reasons Women Have SexHow'd you come to that realization? Did you ask many women out? Do a lot of approaches? Try different things? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 7 | All The Reasons Women Have SexIf you're wondering what the scientific source I mentioned is, it's the book, "Why Women Have Sex," by David Buss. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | 3 Ways To Start Getting Dates Even If You're A Struggling NewbieA basic one to start with is, "Hey I like your x." Could be an item of clothing or "I like your style" or "I like your energy". You don't need to start with anything too complicated. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | 3 Ways To Start Getting Dates Even If You're A Struggling NewbieGetting wingmen helps but I started as a cringey guy with panic disorder and no wings. I still made it work over time. Getting wings did help smooth out the process though. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are many possible reasons. One of the most common is that the girl was feeling you but she was consciously thinking of hooking up with you that night and because you didn't make a move she either thought you weren't interested or you weren't confident—both will make her want to move on. Another reason is that although you were socially charming, there wasn't enough sexual tension. This is something that mostly comes down to eye contact and feeling the emotion of desire when you're around t… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | 3 Ways To Start Getting Dates Even If You're A Struggling NewbieFor what lol. For dates with women? | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Those of you that read Models and 3% man, how is your life now ?The mindset stuff is good. Not everything needs to be actionable - its a balance. I think Models could use more technique but it has a lot of useful mindsets and frameworks. It's great for going from beginner to intermediate. Just can't get you past that by itself. To be honest, I don't think Mark Manson's game was ever the best, but he was pretty good and his writing is excellent—he breaks down the key concepts for attraction in a way that's easy to understand. It also does have an action plan … | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Those of you that read Models and 3% man, how is your life now ?Models does have an action plan to follow. If you just read it and don't take the action, it doesn't fix anything but a book can't force you to get out of the house, it can only suggest it. However, a lot of books and coaches don't even give guys an action plan, it's all theory. And that isn't helpful | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 11:49 AM |
| 5 | 6 things that transformed online dating for meThe average guy thinks their appearance is what's holding them back but their photos are actually terrible. I've used photofeeler to have women rate my pictures and the difference between my worst and best ones is from a 4.7/10 to a 9.4/10. And the 4.7 is a picture I thought was really good that was taken with by a pro photographer. Plus, I know that my best pictures are not nearly as good as what I could do if I put enough effort into it. Of course, improving your appearance makes it easier to … | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Direct Game Versus Indirect Gamebecause a lot of people don't have much experience with approaching so they see things in a simplistic way that's easy to understand. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Direct Game Versus Indirect GameObviously that was a hyperbolic example... If you don't get that I don't know what to tell you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 54 | Direct Game Versus Indirect GameI've done it before without getting thrown out and it took about 20 girls before one said, "I don't know, I'd have to know you better first." (Which was essentially a yes). That was a social experiment that I don't recommend trying but that was my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 18 | The Power of Sexual Energy (and how to harness it)Do you watch porn/masturbate a lot? If you do, that basically raises your bar for what you consider sexy. You can see girls who are of your exact ideal type doing whatever sex acts you want as much as you want. That makes real women seem relatively unappealing for the most part. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/20 04:38 AM |
| 51 | Asked a beautiful girl out at my gymThis is good advice, but since it's an exact copy of RSD Tyler's six steps you should give credit where it's due. | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 03:02 AM |
| 6 | 10s vs 7s ❤️❤️❤️I don't think youtube tags work on Reddit - it also looks pretty bad. | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have Julien Youtube videos, his channel has been deletedIt does look like you can still purchase his products (and I'm sure you can find them for free if you're so inclined). | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have Julien Youtube videos, his channel has been deletedThat's so sad. Honestly, of the RSD crew I'd say he had the most inspirational, hardcore game content. There was definitely some dark stuff in there, but overall it was very powerful. But he's gone off to be a trauma healer who dresses like a human Christmas tree. Guess someone else will have to make even better stuff to fill that void. | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How To 10x Your Confidence With Women By Entering A Flow Stateever heard of a typo? | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Confident With WomenThanks man! | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 06:56 PM |
| 67 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?I approached a woman at a club and made small talk for a few minutes. She told me she had a girlfriend and she wasn't interested. I said, "That's fine, I was just making conversation." She stared me dead in the eye and said, "You have the body of a 12 year old and a woman will never love you. Now go away." | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Jokes - Step 1 to start “Talking Sex” with a Woman (with Examples).I don't think the examples are nearly bad as everyone's saying - so long as your delivery is good and the vibe is right between you and the girl, these jokes could work well. However, OP sets this up as if it's an essential component of good game by saying that to sleep with a woman you need her to think about you and sex at the same time. You don't have to talk about sex to make a girl think about having sex with you. I'd argue that the idea of sex is much more powerful when it's in the subtext… | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Friend brings me down, ruins setsSounds like you're putting the responsibility on your friend rather than yourself. If you really think he holds you back, drop him as a friend - it will improve your results and might act as a wake up call for him. Regardless, whether or not you're doing well with game is on you not your wings - if you want to succeed in anything you have to take an absurd amount of responsibility for what happens. As soon as you start telling yourself x person or y thing is holding back, you've started to fight… | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | AUSTRALIAN GIRL INFIELD BREAKDOWN (Student Daygame) | BRIAN BLACKGreat breakdown my man. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 10:01 PM |
| 68 | Women need to ask men out moreThat would be cool. To be completely honest, the few times an attractive girl made the moves on me, it was really hot. However, that's only happened a few times. If I relied on women making the first move, I'd get laid about once a year - so I'm going to do what I need to do to get actual results. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How To Arouse A Girl (While You're Still In Public)I get what you're saying. There are certainly more advanced aspects to creating arousal (compliance ladders, push pull, creating an investment vacuum, etc.) But in my experience, strong eye contact and dominance are enough to create arousal - the more advanced stuff is like icing on the cake. Most guys I've gone out with don't make great use of eye-contact with women and they're not great at using dominance, either. For anyone in that category, learning how important those two things are, and ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 07:25 AM |
| 7 | How to Bring Girls Home | The PULLING Guide (+Actual Examples)Quality content, very nice. | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 04:55 AM |
| 39 | [FR] "Are you single?"I like this. If a girl does find you attractive, you can just get straight to the point and avoid wasting any time. You might miss out on fence-sitters by being so direct, but you also won't invest your time in a girl who isn't interested. You also have to be confident enough to own this frame, but I like it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Chode's Manifesto (By Tyler Durden)This is an old post by Tyler Durden AKA Owen Cook. And although I think it might be too hardcore to resonate with the modern seduction forums, it has some really good points that are worth listening to. The first section is especially valuable, it's about having a results oriented mindset that I think is far too rare in the "PUA" community these days. | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 01:25 AM |
| 4 | How to be a Fucking WizardAlso, knowing that women like emotion, and knowing how to make them feel specific emotions are two different things. This would be a lot more useful if you gave specific examples, strategies, etc. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How to be a Fucking WizardHey, RSD Julien is doing pickup again. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Anyone try direct approaches for daygame?I wouldn't say your approach is direct. Direct means to show sexual interest, E.G. "Hi, I thought you were cute." That's not to say it's a bad opener, it's a solid way to open, but if you're goal is to do direct game you want to show your intent clearly. (there's pros and cons to direct game, but it can be a really good thing to practice if you're less experienced with women) | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Anyone try direct approaches for daygame?This is a good suggestion. | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 06:26 AM |
| 2 | How To Be Charming To A Girl (4 Powerful Tips)Right? | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 19 | Fear and anxiety is not something to be scared of. It is your mind's indicator of what you should overcome next. It shows you your current limitations and gives you a chance to grow beyond them. That feeling you get before you approach? It's not a bad sign...If anything Kevin Spacey would have done better to feel more "approach anxiety" A good motivational post regardless. | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 04:57 AM |
| 23 | Fear and anxiety is not something to be scared of. It is your mind's indicator of what you should overcome next. It shows you your current limitations and gives you a chance to grow beyond them. That feeling you get before you approach? It's not a bad sign...LOL | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 04:46 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Here's a good video that has some examples: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8k | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.It was more like an hour and a half before pulling - I didn't write out all the conversation because a. I don't remember most of it and b. most of it didn't matter much. Being skeptical is healthy and necessary - but being cynical is toxic because it makes the world a very negative place - it's important to know the difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 11:03 PM |
| 4 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.That happened the next weekend. Stay tuned ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Thanks man. I think the movie you're referring to is "Spread" which is actually a good movie to watch for game - in it he uses game to live with rich women in L.A., pretty interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:35 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Because a guy brought a girl home - is that hard for you to believe? If it is, that says more about you then it does about me. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Agreed. I did this when I was only 21 and interacting with a girl I considered to be a 10. I can't say for sure what would have happened if I didn't tell her, "we're not having sex tonight," but I did say it, and she brought me to her house, walked straight into her room, pulled her clothes off and got on the bed on all fours. It was hot. Actually, this makes me think I'll start using that line again haha | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.I'm only 6'1, so.... JK, my friend who's a 3/10 in looks has pulled several girls in the last couple months - and this dude is so ugly that one of my friends said, "He's the worst looking guy I've ever met." He's 5'3. Balding. Fat. Has very bad acne. Huge nose. Pretty much all the physical qualities you don't want to have. The dude isn't even charming, his game is pretty bad, but he took action so much that eventually he got results. Of course, he would do much better if he actually to be more c… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:29 AM |
| 10 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.This happened to me recently (she was engaged). I knew she was into me because she came back to my place to drink without any of her friends - but she started talking about the relationship and second-guessing herself. I basically said that obviously a part of her isn't sure about her relationship and wants to meet other guys, and if she doesn't hook up with me, that desire of hers won't just go away. But if she does hook up with me, she'll have scratched the itch and she'll know whether she rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:25 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.The conversation was in the upstairs outdoor area which is relatively quiet. But you can still have conversations in the main area, it's an excuse to be physical/get close. Did I say it was a special accomplishment anywhere, or are you just projecting your own insecurities? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Thanks man, it was a cool experience. The thing about Vegas is that most of the girls are only there for a weekend - so it's not a good place for finding an LTR. One of my friends started dating a girl he met in Vegas and he literally flew out to see her every week, not worth it IMO | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:35 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Yeah man, I agree. The solution, either way, is to not make a big deal of it or get reactive. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:33 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.The couch was in the living room, maybe that wasn't clear. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:27 AM |
| -10 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.It depends on the girl, some identify as party girls who are DTF any night. It would be more accurate to say this particular girl was one who I got the sense wanted to feel sex was meaningful because she identified with her intellect a lot and wasn't overtly sexual. But yeah, plausible deniability is what I'm going for really. Maybe I'm wrong about the distinction between comfort tests, and shittests, idk, in this particular case it didn't matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:26 AM |
| 5 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.She didn't open with that, I just didn't write out the entire dialogue, just the parts I thought were important - like her qualifying. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:21 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.If the logistics suck I'd say it's a collection of cues, it's something you get a feel for. It's like how if you've never kissed a girl, you might miss the signal when a girl wants to be kissed, but if you've kissed hundreds of girls, you can tell with almost perfect accuracy when a girl wants you to make a move. If you're not experienced enough to tell when a girl is DTF even if she has bad logistics, you're going to have to make the call if you like her enough to risk spending your time on her… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Yeah, I wanted to change it to, "I couldn't believe what happened next," but alas, you can't change a title once it's posted. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 05:57 AM |
| 3 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.The Meridian is a high-quality gated community 4 minutes from the Strip and it's 700 each for two people - if you go 10 minutes from the strip it's much cheaper for a decent place. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 04:04 AM |
| 5 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Thanks man. Sometimes pulls are pretty complicated, but a lot of my best pulls have been just about the fundamentals - strong frame, strong eye contact, lead, and close. I think the majority of guys would be better off mastering the fundamentals instead of looking for some new concept that's going to take their game to the next level. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 04:03 AM |
| 4 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.It doesn't count unless you get her pregnant! Jk, yeah, I used a condom. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Thanks man. I wasn't sure about using this style of storytelling, I'll probably do more of it in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Idk, it genuinely was shocking to me that she said, "are you going to fuck me now, or what?" after having said we weren't going to have sex 3 times. What would you call it that would be less clickbaity? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 03:42 AM |
| 38 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Lol - two compliments is cringey in your opinion? You seem to think that a man almost never fucks a girl after saying a couple nice things to her, which is ridiculous. Also, there's a big difference in complimenting a girl you just met and complimenting a girl who's alone in a room with you and you're about to fuck. In the second scenario, a compliments can help pass comfort tests like "We're not going to have sex" because part of her is worried that you just want to have meaningless sex - women… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 03:40 AM |
| 12 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Visiting. I'm probably going to move there soon for a year or so - it is a great city for game. It's cheap and there's a virtually limitless supply of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 360 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Saying, "we're not going to have sex," during a conversation is very different from saying, "No," while you're making a physical advance. If someone can't tell the difference, something is wrong with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 10:49 PM |
| 4 | How to Flirt With Girls | In-field and BreakdownThis is some of the worst advice I've heard - and I've heard a lot of bad advice. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 9 | Making it clear that you like someone is more sexually attractive than hiding your feelings, new research finds.Not really anything to be jealous about, being attractive to women isn't that exciting when you're gay. | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 06:47 AM |
| 13 | Does RSD(Real Social Dynamics) really work?When it comes to self-improvement, it's not easy to say whether one particular thing really made the difference, there's so many factors at play. After I went to my first hotseat my game did get substantially better, but I don't know if that's because of what I learned in the seminar, because the seminar motivated me to take more action, or if it was something completely unrelated. Truth is, most guys who watch RSD videos don't get much out of it - just like most guys who buy a treadmill don't g… | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How To Increase Confidence In Yourself: 8 Killer Tricks TestedHere's another nugget from the article: Making sure of your strengths and strengths will work well before interviews. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 09:28 PM |
| 8 | How To Increase Confidence In Yourself: 8 Killer Tricks TestedEither a. people just up-vote articles based on the title or b. this post has fake upvotes. I mean, seriously, this article is written MAYBE at a middle-school level, the second point is literally, LET US BE COMPLIMENTS. | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | ABC NEWS ARTICLE- Inside Facebook groups where nude images of women are shared in 'lay reports'Gotta say, it's a pretty well-written article. Does a good job making all members of the seduction community look like borderline rapists while still sounding journalistic. The article is clearly biased, but it does make some good points. Sharing images of the girls you sleep with is pretty creepy, and really, the reason guys do it is to get validation for their conquest. IMO the Facebook groups should ban that particular practice. On the other hand, pictures of girls a guy slept with could be s… | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceBy self-awareness, I mean the ability to analyze what you're doing wrong and correct course, that is how you develop situational awareness. I don't disagree that approaching is setting the right frame, I'm simply saying that approaching isn't the only factor that goes into having a stronger frame than the girl, which is patently true. Yes, having too many rules to keep track of can backfire, but so can having an oversimplified understanding of how game works - it's a balance. I've seen so many g… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceYou stated those things here, " Lazy faggot retards want to view things as being more complicated than they are, so they can rationalize their passiveness and failure away. " Better than being a dumbass | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceViewing things as complicated isn't the same as viewing things as too difficult to take action on, you can see that game is complicated and still take massive action. You're using equivocation to argue against a strawman. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 04:02 PM |
| -1 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceBut it's also giving them false expectations and a wrong-headed perspective. If you think that just approaching is enough to establish frame control, then it's going to be hard to understand why none of your approaches lead anywhere and you won't learn anything or improve. Other than not taking action, the biggest reasons guys fail in game is a lack of self-awareness, they don't understand what they're doing wrong and they just keep beating their heads against a wall by making the same mistakes … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 03:58 PM |
| 9 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceThe fact that it got upvoted is troubling. Nuanced thinking is hard, people like things to be simple so they upvote it because to agree with a simple theory of game creates less cognitive dissonance than trying to understand all the subtleties of game - that's my theory, at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceThis is really oversimplified. Having a strong frame is indeed important, but just walking up to a girl isn't enough to make a girl fall into your frame. You're right in saying that most guys don't approach, but women screen a guy for more than just his ability to approach. Sometimes approaching is enough, but most of the time you have to be able to lead the conversation, show assertiveness, be unreactive etc. Game wouldn't be any fun if it was as simple as you're making it sound. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:06 AM |
| 2 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceLike masturbating and watching 5 hours of Netflix per day. That's what the average American does... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 6 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceWhen you have no social skills and you read stories of other people interacting with women you project yourself into the situations and imagine what it would be like if you did it. If these kind of stories read like someone socially awkward did it, it's likely because you are socially awkward. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 5 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceDude, the line is often said that way, Google are you from Tennessee and you'll get plenty of hits. Just because you haven't heard it that way, doesn't mean it's wrong. Either you're trolling, or you've got a serious problem with close-mindedness. Plus, you're completely ignoring the greater context to nitpick at something that really doesn't matter. Like, I'm not suggesting you use that line, it's just an example that you can say anything for your opener and make it work - I've said tons of unu… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | How To Approach Women With Confidencewhat exactly is pissing you off? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 05:26 AM |
| 2 | How To Approach Women With ConfidenceAre you serious? Come on dude, try to keep up. . . | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayYeah man, that's where everyone should want to get. Personally, I didn't start there, my mindset was pretty fucked up when I was younger and I just saw the negative. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayWell said. Sometimes your ego serves your best interests, sometimes it doesn't - blindly doing what gratifies your ego will lead you to make terrible mistakes, but so will ignoring the value of your ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayUnless you're working 100 hours or more a week (which is .001% of the population), you have time to do a solid 4-6 hours of game per week. Most people spend nearly all their free time watching tv, playing video games, etc. etc. - I used to go to school full-time, work full-time, and I went to the gym 5 days a week, and I still had plenty of time to do game. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 04:36 AM |
| 2 | How to Win at Day Game – 3 Keys for Attracting Women During the DayDepends on how you define gaming. If gaming means putting on a show and using try-hard tactics to get a girl to like you - then yes, it's at odds with not giving a fuck. If gaming means going out and putting yourself out there, then there's no contradiction. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some other action based books like Avery Hayden's 'the Trial'?The only similar book I'm aware of is Rules of The Game by Neil Strauss - Strauss is a great writer, but the book falls flat in my opinion, you might want to check out the free preview on Amazon to see if it resonates. Models by Mark Manson is an overall a great book, and it has an action-plan section in the end - but it's not really a system. Todd Valentine has a video course: https://toddwinnergame.com/get/ that's completely free and it has some really cool videos about mindsets, it has infiel… | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Wasted timeRegret can either be depressing or frustrating - depression doesn't help you, it just gets you into a cycle of self-pity. Frustration can help you, it's the fire under your ass that pushes you to go harder so you don't repeat the mistakes of the past. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 05:06 AM |
| 91 | I turned down a girl who wanted to fuck meElon Musk isn't the epitome of being alpha when it comes to women lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl I hooked up with behaves weird when she sees me with another girl. What does she want?It shouldn't be surprising that a girl you hooked up with started acting weird after you forgot who she was. She told you she has finals because she's not interested - that's how women get out of dealing with confrontations with aggressive men who won't take no for an answer. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 05:02 AM |
| 5 | "Oh my God, standing next to you makes me feel like I'm drunk!"You didn't pull her because your home was untidy? What a silly excuse. Would've been a cool story if you didn't rationalize and give up because of the smallest obstacle. | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 03:34 AM |
| 2 | The Unexpected Cause of All Your InsecuritiesWell said | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 09:08 PM |
| 5 | How To Be More Confident In Social Situations? 10 Killer WaysThis was posted five days ago - hope a mod deletes it, doesn't need to be here again. Was garbage then, is still garbage now. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Is Simple Pickup Fake? (did Jason have game?)This is true, but it's unfortunate that lying is the status quo in internet marketing. My impression is that simple pickup has always been more about getting money than it is helping guys. Sadly, the same is true for many coaches, but not all - and it can be hard to separate the wheat from the chaff, especially when you're new to game. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 05:30 AM |
| 2 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedhttps://youtu.be/mXWb9H9Fbx8?t=2m36s That scandal really messed with Julien. Afterwards he completely left pickup and became a self-help guru saying more agreeable stuff. It was interesting to watch. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedYou may be right, I'll keep this in mind. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 05:10 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedHe said in an interview it wasn't really how he approached the women, he said they were his friends - thus implying consent. Either way, though, it was an example of what happens when you lose touch with your sense of empathy. As much as I enjoyed his content back in the day, it was pretty fucked up and was basically teaching men to be sociopathic to get laid. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 05:02 AM |
| 3 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedWell, the goal of such an argument is to make the person look like they don't know what they're talking about so that anyone who reads their opinion is less likely to take it seriously lol. Really, the reason I react to people this way is because when I first learned about the game I was a super insecure guy who saw a lot of advice out there and took it seriously. But that advice was mostly terrible, and it just made me come across as even more insecure. Some of the most popular dating coaches s… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedPickup doesn't have to be direct - honestly, I think direct game is usually bad game - it can be done well, but most guys who try to be direct do it pretty badly. I think the last sentence is important there, "it isn't always easy with brute force." To me, wanting it to be easy is a huge mistake. It's not going to be easy, and if you try to make it easy, you're just setting yourself up for dissapointment and frustration. Learning success with women is hard, but it's also very rewarding. Trying t… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedWell, Julien wasn't actually sexually assaulting women, he wasn't doing the "choke open" to strangers, it was women he knew, he was just doing it to get a shock reaction. It wasn't coming from a good place, but it wasn't sexual assault, it was just an inflated ego trying to get attention. Right, that's what I meant. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:32 AM |
| 2 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedI had severe panic disorder when I started to learn about game, yeah it sucked to go out with that, but avoiding a problem can only make it worse - so I stopped using my feelings as an excuse, and started taking action. Passivity is the main reason guys don't get laid. Truth is, when a guy waits for girls' to give him signs to approach, he's going to spend a lot of time waiting. Girls give me approach invitations when I go out, but when I was inexperienced I didn't notice them - I was insecure a… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:24 AM |
| 6 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedIt does matter who an idea comes from, a lot of people talk very authoritatively about game even though they have very little real-life experience with women. When someone says that it makes you look bad to approach multiple women if you're not good looking or "alpha" - to me that's the kind of thinking that shouldn't go unchecked, someone could read that and use it as an excuse to not go out and meet women. But hey, I can call out the idea instead of the person. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 04:12 AM |
| -1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedThat's cool - so the women approached you? | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 03:48 AM |
| 5 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approached"OPs is best suited for beginners as this way they would have more positive interactions to start with giving them the confidence to continue doing more." Disagree. If you rely on positive reactions for confidence, you'll never become confident. Becoming confident is really all about getting to a point where you're indifferent to the way women react to you, whether positive or negative. You can't control the way people react to you, and trying too hard to make sure you only get positive reaction… | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 03:20 AM |
| 0 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedSelux, when's the last time you went out and approached women? | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 03:10 AM |
| 0 | The Best Five Nonverbal Signs Of Attraction (and supposed signs of attraction that are NOT linked to attraction)Misleading title- the article literally says that these are not necessarily signs of sexual attraction but any form of human liking. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | This guy's got game. Learn from itI never said it was only confidence - I'm just pointing out that people tend to overlook that confidence plays a major role. And if you and a friend go for the same girls often enough that you've noticed a pattern, that sounds like some poor wingmanship/communication skills between the two of you lol. Maybe they go for you because your friend realizes competing with his friend for girls is a bad idea, and he just lets you have them because then at least someone wins. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 06:53 AM |
| 2 | This guy's got game. Learn from itSure, it's much easier to be confident if you've always been good-looking - but you still can develop confidence without that, it's just more difficult. If you think of yourself as attractive, whenever you get rejected you'll probably assume it's the girl's problem - she has a boyfriend or she's a lesbian etc. If you think of yourself as unattractive, whenever you get rejected you'll probably assume it's because of your looks. Both become self-fulfilling prophecies to an extent - but if you do c… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 3 | This guy's got game. Learn from itMost guys would've crumbled from the pressure she put on him at the beginning, he didn't even flinch. I have a friend who's just as good looking as that guy but he rarely gets laid from dates because he just doesn't have the confidence to make things sexual and to lead the date forward. But you can believe what you want. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:15 AM |
| 3 | This guy's got game. Learn from itThis is what "Models" Mark Manson style game looks like done well. Direct, confident, and cuts right through the bullshit. Probably hard for a lot of guys to learn from this though, they're gonna think it's just because he's good-looking. Don't get me wrong, his game is probably so good largely because his looks have made dating easy for him his whole life - so he naturally became extremely confident in himself. But his game is still really good - better than most of the pua infield guys you'll … | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | How To Improve Self Confidence In Life? 10 Ways To Boost ConfidenceI bet you feel more confident in your English abilities now. See, the article works ;) | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How To Improve Self Confidence In Life? 10 Ways To Boost ConfidenceWhy are people up-voting this drivel? I guess people really like lists, lol. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | The truth about learning game and improvingI mean, if you've hooked up with 100+ girls many of whom are hot, you're game doesn't suck. Sure, if you're comparing yourself to what's possible, you could be a lot better, but so could anyone. If you compare yourself to the population at large you're probably in the top 1% - so, even though you make mistakes, you do a lot more things right than more guys. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 01:33 AM |
| 50 | Non Neediness -- Literally the Simplest Thing Ever -- Examples Included for You :-)There's some good examples in here. However, your definition of neediness misses the mark. Complimenting a girl, or being nice isn't intrinsically needy, it's only needy if you're complimenting her because you think it'll make her like you more. Also, teasing can be needy if you're doing it to get a reaction. Neediness isn't a question of whether you're being challenging or qualifying, it's a question of whether you're trying to get a reaction. Neediness means you care about her opinion of you m… | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in a college with 40k+ peopleThe rest of the post is good, but the idea of not going for the number/social media close is kinda silly imo. Unless you go to a very small college, you're not going to see most of the girls you approach on a regular basis - if you're not getting the number, you're not really getting leads, you're just approaching for the sake of approaching at that point. | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice: if you want to get good at social skills, practice with a receptive audienceThis is kinda like saying, "if you want to learn how to play basketball, practice with a 7ft hoop." Talking with a girl who's paid to be nice to you just isn't the same as talking to a random girl at a bar. This seems to be strategy about getting a boost in self-esteem from getting good reactions - but the reactions aren't real and you know it. Beyond that, this strategy presumes that going up to strangers and getting rejected is a bad thing, that's only true if you define rejection that way in … | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 03:18 AM |
| 5 | Cold approaching in a college with 40k+ peopleDon't listen to people who say something can't be done unless they put a serious effort into trying it themselves. The guys saying don't cold approach in college either have never cold approached or have done like 60 approaches before convincing themselves it was impossible. One of my closest friends met his last girlfriend from a college daygame session. I've gone on numerous dates from cold approaching at my previous university. It's only creepy if you're creepy. Don't be overtly forward, and … | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)First - 60 approaches really isn't much. This is roughly the equivalent of saying, "I went to the gym for two weeks and I'm still not ripped, maybe I just can't ever get in shape." Based on your writing, your mindset is very focused on the negative. Your first priority should be to give yourself props. Once you get home after going out, write a field report in which you write out three things you did well. Example: FR: Three Things I did well: 1. I approached 5 women while sober in the middle of… | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The only thing going on dates has taught me is that prostitution is worth an investmentSure, it's annoying that women are flakey, but getting bitter about that doesn't help. Instead of focusing on what's out side of your control, focus on getting your game better so that women are less likely to flake you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The only thing going on dates has taught me is that prostitution is worth an investmentAre you seriously bitching about "having to make the first move"? What a hard life, you have to lean into kiss a girl and invite her to your place - must be traumatizing. Women mostly flake because they didn't like you but they didn't want a confrontation by rejecting you for their number. Your whole perception seems to be filtered through your own bitterness - just get better game and these problems will go away. Getting butthurt just makes you lose power. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Study: No Compelling Evidence That Preferences for Facial Masculinity Track Changes in Women’s Hormonal StatusWell, bonobos don't understand English, so of course you don't ask them about their mate preferences. Also, humans don't live in captivity, so you can't measure their preferences by watching who women choose to have intercourse with (as interesting a study as that would be). They use correlative research like ratings because that's the best they can do. If you want to come up with an idea for a better way to do it, be my guest. Scientific studies like this aren't claiming to prove something, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Study: No Compelling Evidence That Preferences for Facial Masculinity Track Changes in Women’s Hormonal StatusI boost my SMV by having self-esteem based on my kick-ass personality and not relying on external crutches to feel like I'm good enough. But whatever works for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Study: No Compelling Evidence That Preferences for Facial Masculinity Track Changes in Women’s Hormonal StatusGood analysis, makes sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 03:22 AM |
| 122 | Make Her Drip --- Indomitable Eye Contact --- Installed In YouSo... much.... BOOOOOOOLLLLD | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson is great, but we need to be honest about the success of his approach.A bit harsh imo, but some good points. Some of his ideas definitely do sound like ACT, and it may be more useful to read the book by the found of ACT, Steven Hayes, "Get out of your mind and into your life," because the book not only explains the philosophy of acceptance, but also gives practical step-by-step exercises to get there. To be fair, I think The Subtle Art is very well written (although some may find his style pretentious), and it does have a lot of unique ideas that go against the gr… | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 10:31 PM |
| 30 | Mark Manson is great, but we need to be honest about the success of his approach.Interesting insights man. I too, think Manson's books are great, but have some problems. To me, his books are too focused on mindset to the exclusion of having much practical applicability. Mindsets are helpful, but they're only half the battle. I know people who read the 4 Hour Workweek who changed their lives very clearly from applying it's concepts - they started online businesses and made a living thanks to that book. I can't say the same for people who read Models or the Subtle Art of Not G… | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.You're probably just projecting your own insecurities onto the women. You see yourself as unattractive, so you see the women as looking at you with disgust, when the looks are really neutral. Additionally, your beliefs about being unattractive can also make you look uncomfortable and awkward, which would also make women respond to you less positively. Anyway, if you're going to let your opinion about your appearance make you give up on the idea of approaching women, maybe it would be best not to… | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 5 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.I'd rather inauthentically get laid than authentically be a virgin. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:40 PM |
| 5 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.Um, yes. I thought she was pranking me or something. I was paranoid that girls just didn't find me attractive. I've known lots of guys who've been just as oblivious. One friend of mine has never had sex with a girl for the first time sober. When he's sober, he gets paralyzed and even if a girl is all over him in his bedroom, he still fucks it up. Another friend had his crush in his bed, hinting time and again that she wanted to sleep with him, but he just watched tv with her. Not all men are tha… | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:35 PM |
| 3 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Congratulations to you when you were 15. You're using a huge strawman fallacy, I didn't spend 2 years chasing the girl of my dreams, I spent two years doing game and banging tons of chicks. If you've been banging tens left and right either your entire life a. your definition of a 10 is very loose or b. you live in the Playboy mansion. If anyone sounds mad, it's you - I mean you're having an argument with yourself lol - I wasn't defending my actions in the article, I was specifically saying I mad… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleGood luck man. It'll take the guy some practice to do it reasonably well. And you'll want to use a phone camera that has decent image stabilization like the new iphone or the s9 | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 04:43 AM |
| 21 | If you’re inexperienced, read this! Something I failed to realize early on that would’ve saved lots of headaches.This is good advice, but you have to be careful how you interpret it. Girls will give you signs they're into you, but they are easy for us guys to miss. Women tend to like to keep plausible deniability, so they rarely do things like make the first move or make an explicit sexual comment. That happens occasionally, but if you only were to hook up with girls who did that, you'd be missing the vast majority of your opportunities. What girls will do, is make themselves available. If they like you, t… | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 02:35 AM |
| 3 | So I've been trying to collect all the helpful advices in 3% man and many other books:This has to be one of the worst pieces of advice that is commonly given in the seduction community. If a girl is giving you indicators of interest, yes that's a sign that approaching her will go well. But just because a girl isn't giving you an indicator of interest, doesn't mean you shuldn't approach her. Waiting for signs that a girl wants you to approach only leads to navel-gazing and self-doubt. You can learn from approaching a girl and getting rejected, but you learn nothing from waiting fo… | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleThat sounds satisfying. As long as you live in a decent sized city you should be able to get a wing who can record your daygame sets from the local inner-circle. The footage will be passable from a good phone camera and a 20 dollar lapel mic for the audio. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 2 | 🕵️♀️If Dating Gurus Were Honest🕵️♀️Yeah, you don't want to attach too much of your value to external success/women/etc. because that's like pouring water into a cup with holes in it. Every time you reach a milestone, you'll be disappointing to realize that real happiness lies at the next milestone - and this will just go on indefinitely. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How To Improve Self Esteem And Self Worth: 9 Powerful WaysSounds about right, although I've been paid $50 for that kind of shit before, it's sad, a lot of popular websites care nothing about making good content, it's just about getting those clicks | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Noticing a girl has good skin is putting her on a pedestal? Sounds like someone is obsessed with not putting women on a pedestal, which ironically, is a form of putting women on a pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | 🕵️♀️If Dating Gurus Were Honest🕵️♀️Evolutionary psychology would like to have a word with you. As far as the evidence I've seen suggests, our natural state is to be discontented because that makes us take action. It's kind of like how being hungry makes us eat. Or being horny makes us fuck. Feeling a baseline level of dissatisfaction with our lives makes us pursue our greater goals. | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleAlso, your channel is growing way too slowly. Start posting some quality infield and your videos will get distributed more by Youtube (because infield get better engagement) If you can't record infield because you don't actually have game, well, then your channel probably shouldn't grow lol | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 07:05 AM |
| 4 | The 6 steps to asking out a co-worker or classmate and not getting in troubleGood stuff, although I do think step 1 is a recipe for disaster. It's hard to tell if someone likes you just by observing them, chances are you're going to find what you're looking for. If you aren't confident in your attractiveness, you'll see signs that she doesn't like you, if you are confident you'll see signs that she does like you - but they could be the same signs in both cases. I've seen a lot of guys miss opportunities with girls because they thought a girl wasn't given them green light… | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Counter-intuitive Advice: Know when to step away from the gameI know it's counterintuitive, but counterintuitive is actually one word in American English. The intention behind the post is good, but it seems to lack a nuanced understanding of what game is and isn't. You're right that sometimes you should just be social and you shouldn't try to fuck every girl you talk to. But, if you think doing game means you're trying to fuck every girl you talk to, you're not doing game right. It's important to balance not having an agenda when talking with girls while s… | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Could you send me some of whatever drugs you're on? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)There should be a sexual vibe without the kiss. Strong eye contact and a confident vibe are enough to create sexual tension. I rarely kiss a girl until we get into a bedroom. I like to leave a little doubt in her mind whether I'm really interested in her, kissing on the date takes that mystery away. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Look, having a wing makes things easier because you don't feel like you're alone and doing something weird. But do you need a wing? Fuck no. Hell, in day game, it's probably better to go without a wing (because most of the girls are alone) It'll be useful to find a wing at some point, but you can find wings when you go out solo. If you go to a club there will be other guys approaching girls, introduce yourself, do some approaches with them, and if you click, you can start winging with them. But … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Thanks man. I've known a good number of guys who do this, the funny thing is most of them don't even know they're doing it. It's some kind of weird ego thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:59 AM |
| 2 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)I feel you, man. When I started I had panic disorder and agoraphobia, just going to the mall made me feel like I was going to have a heart attack. The truth is, at first you probably won't enjoy yourself and you probably will bring a somewhat negative vibe. That's true with any self-improvement journey, it's just part of the process. Your first month of going to the gym is going to suck. Your first year starting your business is going to suck. Your first attempts at approaching women are going t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)I'm not going to say looks don't matter, but even if you're below average you can do well with enough confidence and good execution. Asking whether you can do it is coming from the wrong mindset. Don't ask for permission, decide what you want for yourself and do whatever it takes to get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:50 AM |
| 2 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Thanks, glad you liked it. More to come :) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:48 AM |
| 3 | How To Get Out Of Intermediate Purgatory (So You Can Start Dating Beautiful Women)Thanks man, appreciate it. This is exactly what I was trying to accomplish, glad it came through. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Getting her horny with this trickPretty sure this is from the movie Don Juan DeMarco. How many times have you used this trick successfully? | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet womenNot sure if srs lol - I hope this is trolling. I like that it's Payless shoes specifically, not a mall in general, but payless shoes lol These aren't the worst suggestions ever, they're just all pretty bad compared to clubs/universities/malls/concerts/events/etc. If you spend a substantial amount of time looking for girls at food trucks, you're doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Manuel: What women want how to give it to them vs Mystery MethodOkay, well the best way to learn at first is through practice. Try specific parts of each method that resonate with you and see what works and what doesn't work. As a general rule, you should spend 80% of your time in the field and only 20% of your time consuming content. Most of your learning is going to come from actual experience, the methods you learn just give you some context to understand what's happening and to help you figure out what you should do differently when you fuck up. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:50 PM |
| 10 | How To Improve Self Esteem And Self Worth: 9 Powerful WaysYeah, dropping toxic friends is good advice, although I think it would be much more helpful if it went more in depth. How do you identify toxic friends, specifically? How do you go about finding better friends to replace them with? You know, stuff like that. Like, I can tell you if you want to to lose weight, eat less calories and exercise. Technically that's true advice, but without going into depth it's virtually meaningless. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 07:41 PM |
| 25 | How To Improve Self Esteem And Self Worth: 9 Powerful WaysCool, another article that gives feel-good advice that we can mentally masturbate to! Articles like this are so lacking in depth or understanding of the greater context that reading it can give us a nice dopamine hit before we go back to our normal lives without making any real change to our behavior or mindset. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Manuel: What women want how to give it to them vs Mystery MethodWhat has your experience of the two methods been when practicing them in the field? | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 03:12 PM |
| 11 | I approached a girl for the first time ever today. It was awkward. How do I not mess up next time?It's gonna be awkward at first. Don't expect it to go from awkward to James Bond smooth overnight, it's going to take a while. You can structure the start of your conversations with basic getting to know you questions and then associate off those topics to make it more interesting. Getting to know you questions: -Are you from here? -What do you do for a living? -What do you do for fun? -What are your hobbies? -What are you up to today? Once she answers these questions, you can talk about her ans… | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️To be fair, you have done quite a bit of explaining in the comments, but I don't see why you couldn't have just made the post less vague in the first place. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️Quite the equivocation. You don't actually say in the article that not approaching is submissive, and to say it's implied is quite the stretch. The main issue with this post is that it's too ambiguous, it tells you what not to do but without giving many useful examples or explaining how to avoid the mistakes. | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 25 | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️0) You don't even approach women. 90% of guys in the seduction community either don't approach at all, or don't approach nearly enough. A list of deadly sins that doesn't mention this is incomplete. Also, thinking spending money helps you get laid is so off-base. Being in an environment that only high-status people can get into will help you get laid, but that's very different than buying a girl drinks or dinner etc.. The author seems to have a limited understanding of the evolutionary psycholog… | /r/seduction | 30/04/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | 22 years old and never been with a girl. Desperate for help.The website you linked may have good ideas, but I was pretty quickly turned off by it for a couple reasons: 1. The design is unprofessional (the background is jarring, the header image is a light blue flower which makes no sense for a pickup site, and the site in general is visually uninteresting). 2. The writing could be improved. For example, one article opens with this sentence, "Okay, we know the standard alpha male protestations from the PUA community." It's not clear what the author is tal… | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Went clubbing for the first timelol - it's all about how you frame it | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...Do you get good results from that opener? Commenting on a girl's ass on the open sounds a bit abrasive - I'd imagine it works some of the time, but mostly just gets instant rejections. To be fair, although I've used a lot of direct openers, I've never field tested a remark like the example you gave, so maybe it's not as bad as I imagine. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...I mean to say you could do that many approaches in as little as 2 weeks, if you want to make fast progress you gotta take a lot of action. I used to do a good 50 approaches a night over the course of 5 hours in Vegas (except when I pulled). And I learned more in a couple weeks of that then I would have learned over months of going out 3 times a week and doing like 5 approaches a night. The more action you take, the more references you'll get that some girls did like you - even if a girl laughs o… | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...Both sounds pretty dumb lol The first one sounds like a paperboy from the 50s and the second sounds like a construction worker catcall. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...I know multiple guys who've approached 300 girls in a single week(myself included). This post is the equivalent of complaining that you're not making gains in the gym after 2 weeks of lifting. Get to 3000 approaches, then you're talking. It sounds like your mindset is rather negative - your expectation that girls won't like you permeates through your body language, tonality, etc.. You can successfully get dates by going direct with girls, if every girl you say that too is getting immediately tur… | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerStatus isn't static. You can get status by being famous or being in a position of authority, but you can also get status through your behavior. If you're the center of attention, you have a strong frame, and you are a leader, women will perceive you to be of high status. Remember, we didn't evolve to show status with job titles or fancy cars, we evolved to respond to behavior - alpha behavior is an honest signal for high-status. That's what women respond to on the deepest level. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerJust going somewhere with the express purpose of meeting women. If you get to a point where you can do approaches during your day-to-day life, great - but most guys need to start with dedicated "practice sessions". And, yeah I do it alone when I do daygame (because wings aren't that useful in daygame) For nightgame, I usually go with wingmen, but you can go solo if necessary - I've pulled from nightgame a number of times solo. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 09:15 PM |
| 3 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerWhile school is in session you can do daygame at your university (unless it's a particularly small school). Just don't be too aggressive and you won't get a bad reputation. You say bars are out of your league meaning you're not of legal age or meaning you don't feel comfortable with bars? If you're of legal age, clubs are generally the best options for meeting attractive women, any thought that they're out of your league is silly. Otherwise you've got malls, grocery stores, busy streets, busy pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerThe best options, depending on your city are usually: -Clubs -Popular bars -College Campus -Malls -Streets with a lot of foot traffic I'm not really into nightclubs either, but a good nightclub has an extremely high volume of attractive women. It's a great place to develop your assertiveness, and if you're interested in one night stands, the easiest way to get them is from clubs. If you don't have friends to go out with, make friends when you go out. If you see guys approaching girls, befriend t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerThanks, appreciate the comment! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The Five Stages of Learning The Game: Part 1, The Over-AnalyzerYeah man, Rogan's podcast is cool because he interviews such a diverse group of people - you get a sample of every different ideology. Anything that is going to lead you to your goals is going to also make you uncomfortable. But not chasing your goals is also going to cause you a different kind of discomfort: the discomfort of feeling that you're not accomplishing what you could be. There's no way to avoid discomfort, but you can choose discomfort that is meaningful and leads to progress or you … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What To Do If You're Afraid to Approach a GirlGirls won't regularly horribly reject you unless you do something terribly wrong. | /r/seduction | 20/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First time in the field, unlucky first day.Still, it takes many guys a long time to do a sober approach during the day - let alone get an attractive girls' number. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First time in the field, unlucky first day.Dude, your first time daygaming and you got a perfect 10s number - that's fucking amazing. You know what happened the first time I went daygaming? I walked around for four hours paralyzed by approach anxiety and didn't talk to a single girl. You're off to a fantastic start, yes that was bad luck, it's not something that will happen regularly. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Guy in a wheelchair gets a girl's number at the mall (7:47 mark)That first number probably didn't lead to anything - it was a solid interaction, but unless you really make a strong impression most numbers from short daygame interactions like that end up flaking. I'd say about 90% of numbers like that end up flaking. The number gets much lower if your game was particularly good or if you had a more substantial interaction or went on an instant date. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:28 AM |
| 0 | Guy in a wheelchair gets a girl's number at the mall (7:47 mark)What makes you think it's made up? He could be smoother, that's for sure - but I don't see any reason to think it's fake. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:19 AM |
| 5 | 3 Attraction Skills That Get 90% Of The Results (And Why Most Men Fail To Learn Them)He should be posting infield to prove he's not talking out of his ass. | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:15 AM |
| 2 | How to find (not get) yourself a girlfriendThere's some good ideas here but they're hidden in a jumbled mess. Sure, you should create your own style, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't learn from those who came before you. Look at the best comedians, they all create their own material, but they do so using lessons from those who came before them. It's the ego that thinks the best way to go about learning is just to figure it out on your own. Yes, you should try things and learn from real life experience, but you should also get a broade… | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 04:30 AM |
| 3 | She... she asked ME on a date!Yeah, but you still have to actually do the initial approach in most cases - I've heard people make it sound like you can just be awesome and you'll bring women to you like bees to honey, but that doesn't happen reliably. I get approached a decent amount when I go out and so do some of my friends, but it's very rarely the most attractive women. You'll miss like 95% of your opportunities if you don't make a habit of going up to and talking to women you find attractive. But I agree that when it co… | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 03:35 AM |
| 13 | She... she asked ME on a date!I like the positivity in this message, but you have to be careful with this thinking too. It's true that when you have fun and just kill it in life that you'll get more freebies and opportunities, but you can't use that as a substitute for taking action, i.e.: "well I'll just have fun in my life and the women will come to me!" If you think that, you're probably going to end up disappointed, cool things happen occasionally, but for the most part you gotta be proactive and make shit happen. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsThanks. Not sure why you'd want to know that haha but I'm 27 | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who finds todds teachings useless?There are other ways to show value besides saying you have an impressive job and you travel a lot. This is only as limited as your creativity. Furthermore, value isn't only shown verbally, it's also shown by your body language, eye contact, tonality, etc. Narrative. This is a really cool concept, but I'd also say it's fairly advanced. I wouldn't worry about narrative unless you've got the fundamentals down. Here's a practical example of how you can use narrative: Imagine you meet a really beauti… | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Some of the members of this forum needs to watch thisMost of them are fakes? That's a pretty strong statement that you're backing up with 1 anecdotal example. Filming yourself getting a girl's number (which is what most infield ultimately is) is super easy - there's no reason to pay an actress for this. This guy was filming full close infield which wouldn't be easy to get footage of naturally - so that's his motivation for paying actresses. Pretty fucked up dude, but just because one guy cheated doesn't mean every guy does. I mean, if you learned … | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 06:26 AM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsIt was just an example of an opener I used in the past. I don't use that particular line anymore. I would argue that her being cute is the justification. If you reword it, "I had to say hi because I thought you were cute" you can see how that works. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsSex isn't the most important thing in life, but for most people, it's up there. Besides, being the most attractive version of yourself is not just about sex, it's also about the quality of woman you can have a family with too. Imagine how different your life will be if you end up having kids with an average woman versus having kids with your ideal. No one is saying this should be the main focus of your life, but it's an important part of any man's life and is therefore worth improving (unless he… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:41 PM |
| 3 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsIt depends on your personal values. If to you what matters is fucking a hot girl - and you genuinely don't care about who she is as a person, that's fine. For you, the red flags would probably be about her appearance more than her personality. If you don't have any standards, then you're probably going to end up hooking up with the least attractive girls (because it's easy to do so). Have some standards, but what those standards are specifically depends on what you're looking for from women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsA lot of awkward practice. The fastest way to improve would be to do daygame and record the audio. You can do this without risking getting caught by plugging headphones into your phone that have a mic and laying them over your shirt (like people do after working out) Approach some women, have awkward conversations, and then listen to the audio and analyze what you could do differently. Another thing that can help is just watching 1hr comedy specials, it'll help you understand the nuances of humo… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsIt's in /r seduction as well | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | How To Be An Attractive Man - 4 Key TipsAlthough most people would disagree with me, a lot of this is the same. I know most people say for women it's all about looks, but I've seen plenty of average looking girls end up with much better looking guys. If a woman is confident, fun to be around, etc. she can attract high quality guys. At the same time, working on your appearance helps (a lot) obviously, but it's not everything. Besides, a lot of physical appearance is under your control, the girls you see at the clubs who are "10s" are r… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:28 PM |
| 3 | THE ATTRACTION TRINITY: Looks, Money and Status – A Complete Guide"Also, without money, how are you gonna afford gas?" LOL, yeah if you don't have enough money to afford gas, you have a problem. "What about dates?" Expensive dates are generally inferior to cheap dates. I almost always go to either a coffee shop or a park. Expensive dates like a fancy dinner put too much pressure on the girl and can easily put you in the provider frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game?Hitting the social hook point has very little to do with physical preference. If you're gregarious enough, almost all girls will reach the social hook point. I know this because every night that I'm in a particularly good mood, 95% of my sets socially hook. They're happy to have me around, even if they're unavailable/uninterested. And on nights where I'm in a shit mood, there's times when I have trouble socially hooking any set. It's the vibe. Do people regularly give you compliments like, "You'… | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game?If you live in a city that doesn't have a good venue every night, a university campus is your best bet (so long as you're not way too old). Otherwise, on off nights either just go out for about an hour to the place with the most people because it's better than nothing, or go out in the day to the mall or even a Target. If there's any cheat code in game, it's momentum, I've done a couple 30 day challenges and both times I ended up getting insane results - I made more progress in those 30 days tha… | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit what's the weakest part of your game?Just means you gotta try more. Go out 7 days a row for an hour each day, and by the 7th day you'll be frustrated enough at yourself for not approaching that you'll finally do it. Then, if you keep going out, you'll approach more and more, and the momentum will eventually make it easy to approach. (obviously, it might take less than 7 days, it might take more) The key is the persistence, it's tough to keep going out time and again when you have a lot of approach anxiety, but it's the only way tha… | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Are most girls at the bar/club going home with guys they just met?If they meet a guy that knows what he's doing, then yes. You just gotta become that guy. Also, don't go to Tempe, go to Old Town Scottsdale, girls are way hotter. | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Are most girls at the bar/club going home with guys they just met?Good thing I'm a 13 then | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | There is some value in nofap. Here's my experience.I laughed. Goes on a bit too long, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | 10 attractive traits assholes have and how to have them without being oneThat's not my book, lol - it's a well known book written many years ago. | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 10 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouI suppose it would send a mixed message if you don't have a good understanding of the English language. Sure, it was a bit lazy to use the same word in different contexts, but it's not contradictory. | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 08:34 PM |
| 28 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At YouHe said don't stand around in the corner trying to look mysterious, then he said that breaking eye contact for a second adds a certain mystery to the encounter. There's no contradiction there. There's something called nuanced thinking, you should try it some time. That said, I disagree with the videos message. If a girl looks at you, you should approach her immediately. This video suggests you do this whole song and dance to find out if she likes you before approaching, but the best way to find … | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | The best source of material on seduction ITTSCB is garbage. It's mostly random free tour clips in which Luke vaguely talks about social circle - it's the worst product rsd has ever released. Julien's game products are all good, but they're expensive. His longer youtube videos are gold and a good way to find out if the products are for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZyYFpYdIxrw Unfortunately, his new self-help content is hippy trash, so if you're looking for new stuff rsd Max or Todd V woul… | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me, or is this sub saturated with questions and motivational advice? Let's share actual openers, negs, techniques, etc.You can't just "be alpha", it requires that you change your inner beliefs. This advice sounds good, but it's fundamentally incorrect. It's true that being natural has a lot of value, but you still have to learn to expand your personality by getting out of your comfort zone. To become more alpha, you have to take social risks. To become funnier, you have to risk your humor falling flat. These things don't happen by telling yourself, "Just do it," it involves real effort. If it were that simple, e… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 06:45 AM |
| – | 10 attractive traits assholes have and how to have them without being oneThis gives 0 actual value to anyone- it's just a list of positive traits. Also, the writing is sub-par at best, I recommend reading a guide: https://www.amazon.com/Writing-Tools-Essential-Strategies-Writer/dp/0316014990/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1522185432&sr=8-3&keywords=writing | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they are pretty or not?If being man-to-woman is something you struggle with, then using direct compliments can help you get over that sticking point. But if you're comfortable with being man-to-woman, there's no need to use direct compliments, they put on a lot of pressure which can lead a girl to look for an excuse to get out of the interaction. Plus, direct compliments can get you categorized as "thirsty guy who's trying to get in my pants" which isn't ideal. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 10:29 PM |
| 9 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleCold showers are cool, but nothing magical is going to happen because of them. Stopping masturbation can be helpful because if you know the only way you're going to get off is from a real person, you're going to be motivated to do game. Obviously, the most useful daily habit you can develop is to replace the time you spent on those apps with time approaching women. | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 09:17 PM |
| 9 | I’m deleting tinder, instagram, bumble etc off my phone for good and learning how to actually socialize with peopleIt depends if you're addicted to those apps. I played WOW, I would try to tell myself just to play an hour a day, but I would always come up with excuses to go around that. Most other games, I could control myself, but not with WOW so I had to delete my characters. Same thing with apps, it depends on how addicted you are to them. | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)I didn't come up with hot and cold either, I don't claim to have invented the term. I'm sure the hyper-confident girls you meet are immune to a desire to validation because they're enlightened. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 08:56 PM |
| 6 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)It's healthy to have discussion and debate about the merit of the ideas. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)I try so hard to point out the nuances lol, but people see something that's a tactic and they instantly get triggered because it's not natural. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:06 AM |
| 4 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)You only notice game when it's done poorly. It's like plastic surgery in that way. You notice guys who use techniques but do it without confidence or finesse. If done well, hot and cold does work, so do a lot of the other techniques that PUA's use, but they have to be coming from the a place of playfulness. I tried to make that clear in the article, maybe I didn't do a good enough job of that. Look at famous comedians or actors everything they say is specifically crafted to get a specific emotio… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)I don't say anything about this particular post in the edit, just the idea of needing to be natural in general. And I've met hundreds of guys from the community, very very few get results that are in any way impressive. That's just a fact, a sad fact, but a fact. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:46 AM |
| 22 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)Ah, that explains it. We all have a idea of what we think we want, but that has little to do with what we actually respond to. Most people wouldn't admit to it, but they are attracted to someone who knows how to play the game and doesn't make themselves too available. We all have a politically correct notion of how attraction should work, but that has very little do with how it actually does work. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)because of any reason in particular? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)When's the last time you had a one night stand with a beautiful woman? How often do you go out and approach women? Are you coming from a place of genuine authority, or are you just white knighting because it's much easier to do that than to actually put effort in and get real life results? | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What Women Really WantThat's definitely part of it. The only problem is that guys use this as an excuse not to even try with women. "I'm focused on my goals, I'm not gonna approach women." It's attractive to have goals so long as you understand that you can have goals and still proactively go for the women you want. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:13 AM |
| 2 | What Women Really WantThere's lots of good stuff about serotonin and social status. Here's one example: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/article-abstract/493316?redirect=true There have been studies that have shown that serotonin in men increases after getting a promotion in their Fraternity (and some other examples), but I'm having trouble finding that one. But most psychology studies are questionable- they don't really prove anything because human behavior is too complex to pin down the cause and eff… | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What Women Want In A Man - 5 Factors That Hook Women Like CrackThis dude is so far up his own ass. He talks about interesting topics but he uses so much pseudo-scientific drivel to make his points that it's impossible to take him seriously. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Part 1)Instead of complaining like a little bitch, why not offer some constructive criticism that actually contributes something of value. What points do you disagree with, what is is that's so fundamentally flawed about this piece? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)Thanks for the feedback :) | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 05:04 AM |
| 2 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)Thanks man As an aside, I've found journalism to be one of the most helpful self-improvement habits. It can really help you become more self-aware and to get a better perspective on things. | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)I wouldn't go that far, there are definitely PUAS's who are mechanical and slimy, but pickup isn't inherently creepy, it depends on how you go about it. Is love something that just happens? Sometimes, but it's rare. Learning pickup will give you access to more options, which means you'll have a better chance at dating that kind of woman you really want instead of settling for someone who you meet through your friends or at work, which is pretty limiting. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 07:23 AM |
| 1 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players (Pt. 1)Well said. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 07:18 AM |
| 6 | RSD and Models by mark mansonOr, maybe models came from rsd? RSD was part of the community before Manson, and they came out with similar stuff well before 2011. RSD was probably a major influence on Models, but it does have some good concepts that RSD doesnt talk about like vulnerability. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 06:43 AM |
| 2 | You are losing the game by playing hard.This is what you miss."Of course it is,but let's be honest.It's by far the shittiest and creepiest road to take." -You don't substantiate this point with any evidence. "Approaching strange women that you don't have any kind of connection it's not how you win "the game",it's how you lose it."- Are you suggesting there's an alternative where you don't have to meet women at all? You realize that at some point any woman you end up sleeping with was a stranger, this literally makes no sense. You sound like you're pretty f… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | First Date Tips For Men- How I Consistently Lead First Dates To SexIf I'm full of STD's, wouldn't that mean I know what I'm talking about? | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 02:55 PM |
| 2 | How to develop your archetypal dangerous male persona."Generally speaking, very few – if any – 'pickup artist' types successfully exist in this state."- Back in 2013, Julien Blanc definitely embodied the archetypal dangerous male persona. I didn't used to embody that archetype at all a few years ago, but based on the way women react to me, and what they tell me, I believe I do now. My best guess is that when I had slept with enough attractive girls to stop caring if I slept with another attractive girl I started to get the archetypal dangerous male… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 04:11 AM |
| 2 | The steps I took to fix my game."This meant no longer being conscious of what I was saying with the hope that those things said would get me a little “closer” to my goal (pussy, validation, etc.)" Fantastic way to explain a very nuanced concept. Don't think RSD is a great example to illustrate your point. For the most part their content is about learning not to try so hard, it's "natural game," if you will. | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Top 5 Reasons PUA Advice Doesn’t Work For Most MenWell, if you're learning game in the sense that you're learning how to do routines and put on a persona and shit, then yeah, there's going to be the consequences you're talking about. But a lot of game advice in the last 10 years or so has been focused on your mindset, learning from your mistakes, and taking massive action- you don't have to put on a mask or use game to sustain a relationship in that case. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Top 5 Reasons PUA Advice Doesn’t Work For Most MenI don't mean to say you can't do online dating, but for online dating to work you still have to meet the girl in person. I know guys who use Tinder and get matches, have conversations etc. but never meet the girls in person- that's a mistake. Online or in person isn't the most important point, it's getting out of your house and talking to girls at some point. At the same time, in my experience, it's pretty rare to meet particularly attractive girls online- the hottest girls get hundreds of messa… | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?If you're in abundance there's a good chance you will, if you're in scarcity it's not likely lol. As for your second point, it depends on how girls categorize you. I'd recommend this article: http://www.girlschase.com/content/sexual-economics-lover-and-provider Not a huge fan of that site in general, but that particular article has a good amount of value. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?Glad you liked it. More coming soon ;) | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?Yeah, but that's certainly a better problem to have than what most men face. Some of the stuff I see in my clients man, it's ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?Thanks man, glad you enjoyed it. I'll be posting more stuff like this in the near future ;) | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?It's common that in self-improvement things get worse before they get better. You have to give up your fantasies and face reality instead, in dating you may find that you actually are fairly incompetent with women at first, and that sucks for a while. But it's better than the alternative of never changing, never improving, staying stagnant... You can improve both your inner game and outer game simultaneously. You go out, approach, go home, analyze what happened in a field report, and then watch … | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?I would argue that in many cases the emotional investment is a lot less valuable than it feels. Yes, you're losing an investment, but it's a very bad investment- if you're spending a lot of time with one girl and you're not already sleeping with her, you probably never will have a sexual relationship with her- so all that time you're investing is wasted and that investment becomes progressively worse the more time you put in. Also, because you invested in her so much you've convinced yourself sh… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | The numbers game mythExtremely misleading title. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Is the Scarcity Mindset Sabotaging Your Dating Life?You're always going to have problems, but the problems that come with abundance are much better problems to have than those that come with scarcity. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 02:32 AM |
| 7 | Guys dont forget it is a numbers gameThe way you learn something about them is by approaching them lol. You don't have to ask every girl out you approach, many of them you'll just have a few minute conversation (if you don't have chemistry) and move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 05:17 PM |
| 10 | Guys dont forget it is a numbers gameQuantity leads to quality. If you approach 5 girls in a week, there's not a great likelihood that one of those girls will be amazing. Approach 50 girls in a week, and you're bound to meet some really cool girls. | /r/seduction | 30/10/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who finds quality girls to be so damn rare?I've done it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 11:56 PM |
| -7 | Am I the only one who finds quality girls to be so damn rare?A girl doesn't need to be marriage material to be able to have a fun night with her. If you can't have fun with hot girls you might be gay. It sounds like you are looking for a greater purpose in game, you have an end goal you want to meet- a perfect woman- and because you're focused on that goal you're not enjoying the process of getting there. Look, there might not be that girl who meets your standards, even if that's the case you can have fun meeting and connecting with new girls indefinitely… | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a break from this?It sounds like you just got hurt and now you want to avoid feeling that again. Pickup isn't for everyone, if you can't handle some harsh rejections and uncomfortable situations, maybe you should just find a 6 on tinder and settle with her. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How to Develop A Rock-Solid Frame Women Can't ResistGlad you got value from it, thanks for the comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/17 09:23 PM |
| 5 | I kept seeing my friend looking at meThis | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 04:22 AM |
| -1 | A thought exercise that will help you get real with yourself very quickly.Do you think she ideally wants a guy who" Who gives a fuck what she ideally wants, it's what she actually responds to that matters. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 04:21 AM |
| 0 | The Four Fundamentals Of Game Part 2: Emotional CalibrationAre you being so reactive because you're jealous that my writing is better than yours? Would you like some help proofreading? I'd be happy to assist you. Look man, I'd love to have a real discussion about this stuff, but so far your comments have been very emotionally charged, so there's no point in engaging with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 03:58 AM |
| 0 | The Four Fundamentals Of Game Part 2: Emotional CalibrationNo one said to say to love or hate everything, it's a tool, that doesn't mean you should use it constantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 03:55 AM |
| 0 | The Four Fundamentals Of Game Part 2: Emotional CalibrationI have years of experience doing game, thousands of approaches tons of results, but you can think what you want. I can't really take what you're saying here seriously, the amount of smugness in your writing is actually funny. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Maximize your appearance before trying to become the Gandalf of social skillsI understand what you're saying, I've had the same thoughts myself. Here's my question though, how do you know you're not attractive to woman? What is your objective measure for that? As far as I can tell, the only decent measure for that would be to approach a bunch of girls, ask them out, and get rejected. If you asked out several hundred girls and they all said no, well, you aren't attractive to them (although it could be your personality more than your looks), but otherwise how do you know? … | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistGlad you liked it :) | /r/seduction | 26/09/17 02:00 AM |
| 31 | Maximize your appearance before trying to become the Gandalf of social skills"much anticipated video"- Lol. Nice attempt at marketing I guess? This is the kind of advice that becomes a rationalization for someone to not approach women yet. Well, once I've got my looks down, I'll start... 5 years later, still hasn't approached a girl. Good job potentially giving some guy an excuse to avoid going out and improving their social skills. Sure, you should improve your looks, but never use that as an excuse to put off game, otherwise you'll put off game forever. Please stop mak… | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 03:07 PM |
| 6 | How to get to approach a girl who to me is the best of the best.DUDE- Massive scarcity. She's hot, that's cool, but you're deifying her. Truth is, everything about this mindset will repel her. Get 20 other girl's number, then if you still want to, you can talk to her. This is why not doing game is creepy. Approach other girls, get into a mindset of abundance, and then you will be much more attractive to her and every other girl. Here's some resources you might look into: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6zbumo/the_five_most_useful_resources_for_le… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 02:13 AM |
| 2 | How to Attract Women With Dominance (Pt 1)Just published it: https://redpilltheory.com/2017/09/20/attract-women-dominance-pt-2-conversational-leading/ | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 01:52 AM |
| 6 | How to Attract Women With Dominance (Pt 1)Sure, it comes down to self-awareness; are you the guy who gives zero fucks and makes women uncomfortable because you're so aggressive, or are you the guy that has long interactions with women that end in a handshake or a hug? If you're the ladder, you're probably not at risk of being too aggressive anytime soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Attract Women With Dominance (Pt 1)It's a good book, lots of interesting stuff in there. Definitely worth the read. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/17 01:49 AM |
| 5 | How to Attract Women With Dominance (Pt 1)There's examples in parts 2,3, and 4. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/17 01:04 AM |
| 2 | No more click bait vids pleaseHard to quantify that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to Kiss a Girl and Build Massive Sexual TensionMost redditors just comment on the title of the post without reading it lol. | /r/seduction | 09/09/17 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Had a girl call me "safe" the other nightSpoken like someone who stays in the house afraid of rejection. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do people say confidence helps?There's a book called mindset I recommend you read. It seems you've created a worldview in which there is no reason for you to try to succeed with women (unless you get to be rich). I wonder if this is because you've stumbled upon objective reality or if it 's because it would be much easier to tell yourself this story than to face your crippling fear of rejection (something we all have). I follow a rule, the more certain I am I know something, the more skeptical I am of a belief. -it's a good r… | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouBy get I mean sleep with. Most are attracted to me to some degree but that doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with them. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHow many times have you actually been directly rejected by attractive women? You can't really get an empirical measurement of this reality that you claim to have an objective awareness of without true experience-based evidence. So, go approach hundreds of women, move things forward with each one until they reject you and come back when you have some data to work with. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 07:13 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouWell over 5000 in the last five years. And no, I don't get 90-100% of females I approach. It's more like 1 in 20. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 4 | How to Make Any Girl Want Youyou believe the hundreds of hours of infield available on youtube are all staged? How many women have you approached? Any? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouOne is to speak with authority, to 'hold your frame' and show no doubt when you talk. Another is being playful/humorous believe it or not. Saying something that's intended to be funny is high status because unconfident people are unlikely to take that risk. Leading, i.e. saying, "Let's go inside/to the bar/to the dance floor etc" Disagreeing is another high-status behavior as long as you do it with an even composure. Low status men are people pleasers who say whatever they think will avoid rocki… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHave you seen videos of men who are below average to average looking getting rejected despite displaying confidence? There's plenty of them- THere's also plenty of below average looking guys pulling hot girls. Just because something happens some of the time doesn't mean that it will always happen. Anyway, high-status behaviors isn't a simple trick, it's something that takes time and a lot of work to develop. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:59 PM |
| 6 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHigh status behavior is high status, that's how the brain measures it. And who the fuck is going to put you in your place? Do you actually go out and talk to girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouSaying something is delusional without a logical reason is in itself delusional. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouAnything that makes her life better than it would have been without that thing. Good emotions are the easiest example, humor, passion, engagement, make her feel good emotions around you and she will see you as a source of value. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHow's that working out for you buddy? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouI'm by far the best writer on the subject who's active. I know game because I actually do it, people who dismiss the content are those with a negative mindset that tells them they can't change. Within the next five years or so, I'll be a NYTimes best seller and you will eat your words. I'll make sure to send you a free copy of the book that gets me there. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 08:53 PM |
| 5 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouNo one said there wasn't such a think as the halo effect. You do realize that human behavior is a nuanced, complicated interplay between a variety of different conscious and unconscious motivations, right? Yes, if you're good looking, women will be more attracted to you. But they will also be more attracted to you if your behaviors indicate high-status. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 02:20 AM |
| 11 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouIf you feel attraction for someone, it simply means you unconsciously think that reproducing with them would be a good decision. For men, this takes little because they invest little by having sex. For women, choosing to have sex with a man is taking a large risk (having to take care of a child). You probably already know this, so I"ll skip to a point that people usually don't consider. There are numerous traits that you can have that indicate to a woman that you are a good choice to reproduce w… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 02:17 AM |
| 0 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHigh-status is largely an emotional perception, if your behaviors signal that you have high status, women will be attracted to you because they feel like you're high-status. Regardless of the objective reality. The human mind isn't as logical or binary as you seem to think it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 02:09 AM |
| 5 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHigh-status is largely an emotional perception, if your behaviors signal that you have high status, women will be attracted to you because they feel like you're high-status. Regardless of the objective reality. The human mind isn't as logical or binary as you seem to think it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 02:09 AM |
| 4 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouRight, he's stuck in black and white thinking. He's probably terrified of the reality that he has to face rejection to improve his skillset and so has constructed a view of reality that allows him to avoid doing so. If he can't possibly get hot girls, then why even try? The brain is brilliant at rationalizing emotions (fear of rejection) into what seems like logic (girls need status and looks, period) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 0 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouYou seem to have a very tenuous grasp on what attraction is and how it works. But if your theory induced blindness allows you to avoid learning how to attract women from actually approaching them, facing rejection, and learning fro your experiences, good for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 01:56 AM |
| 4 | How to Make Any Girl Want YouHow said anything about 'negotiating' attraction. Seduction advice fails when people have a negative mindset and don't believe they can change. If you don't realize that attraction is an emotional response and some of the triggers for that emotional response are under you're control- then you have a self-defeating mindset that gives you a license to fail with women instead of going through numerous rejections (and adjusting your approach over time) to learn how to create attraction in most women… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/17 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanI agree. Ironically, I don't really think the dude is particularly charismatic. I mean, if I were to 'rate' his charisma it would be just average. Maybe that's just me though, the advice is still intriguing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanIt seems like a scam when you haven't put in the work to make it a reality. It's easier to think it's all fake then to put in the hours and endure the rejections necessary to get the results you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanI think disaster is a strong word here, rejection isn't a disaster. You might come off as a bit creepy now and then, but you can't always be pleasing to everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanGlad you liked it. Thanks for the comment man. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanI can certainly relate. Fortunately, it's the most frustrating mistakes we make that lead us to the best discoveries. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Never Land in The Friend Zone Again: How to Be Man To WomanI named it that because I'm a big fan of the Matrix and like the idea of learning the harsh truths about how the word actually works. Harsh truths that often contradict common thought. Of course, I'm going to have to change it. I learned about the red pill community and don't want to be associated with it. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the overarching premise, but a lot of the community is very 'culty' they take things in very unrealistic, black and white terms. Also, there's a clear scapegoa… | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is It Possible To Avoid Rejection Entirely?You either didn't read it or have difficulty with English comprehension. I reject your rejection. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenGood attitude, something that isn't super common here. | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Forget What You Think You know About Women, Dating, and AttractionExperienced the same thing myself for years man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The Field Report Manifesto (Deconstructing The Most Powerful Tool That Very Few Men Use Well)This is much more insightful. The funny thing is I pretty much agree with what youre saying. I agree with your three categories, and in the example i provided there were numerous examples in which I analyzed how the girls felt and why and several examples of me noticing emotional patterns (wanting to go home, hesitating between interactions) For whatever reason my style of analyzing emotions doesnt resonate with you, but I'm aiming to accomplish the exact ends that you specified. So I don't know… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The Field Report Manifesto (Deconstructing The Most Powerful Tool That Very Few Men Use Well)"Don't talk about feelings or emotions or state. These are random variables. You can't rely on them because they are random, so it makes no sense to include them in your FR."- I think this is the focal point of our disagreement. Emotions are not random variables, they have specific external causes. Here's one reference you can check out explaining this: http://www.humanillnesses.com/Behavioral-Health-Br-Fe/Emotions.html Pretty much any psychology text will say that emotions have specific externa… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | The Field Report Manifesto (Deconstructing The Most Powerful Tool That Very Few Men Use Well)"Sorry, but why does it seem like every post here has something to do with women? Is that all a man has to look forward to in life is being attractive to women?" No, but relationships with the opposite sex are going to be a substantial part of your life (in terms of time/investment/etc) and putting effort into getting the most out of that area is warranted, obviously. This seems very black and white thinking, no one said all a man has to look forward to in life is being attractive to women, you … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Forget What You Think You know About Women, Dating, and AttractionI read about it in a book recently by someone else. But I wouldn't be surprised if it started with Robbins, he's everywhere. Hell I used a quote by him in my new book, "Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThanks, glad you liked it! | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 11:53 PM |
| 3 | One night standI don't know of a book that is genuinely good and goes into nightclub dynamics. However, the video product, Pimp by RSD Julien goes into nighclub dynamics extensively and is a good product. You can torrent it and there's an audio-only version available to torrent. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | One night standThe Game is a fantastic book, but not a useful how-to guide by any means. Everyone's favorite book about getting laid here is Models by Mark Manson and it's not a bad start. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistThanks for taking the time to write this feedback, means a lot. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistThanks for the constructive criticism, it's rare on reddit. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t Resistthanks! | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistCouldn't have said it better myself. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop A Rock-Solid Frame That Women Can’t ResistCouldn't have said it better myself. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenIf that's what you want to do then you would have no reason to click on articles that are clearly not aimed at someone who just wants to buy hookers. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 08:23 PM |
| 4 | How to Develop A Rock-Solid Frame Women Can't ResistThat's cool. You could provide a reason so this is useful feedback instead of meaningless complaint. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to Develop A Rock-Solid Frame Women Can't ResistSomeone in a position of power can still ask questions. Think of the difference between when a boss asks their employee questions and vice versa. It's about the place it's coming from more than the content itself. You can ask questions and still have a strong frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenBeing good looking definitely makes this process easier because you already somewhat believe women are attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenBet the red pill community wouldn't be what it is if the book were called, "The rationale male" or "The rational mail." | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenYeah, keep doing it. The fact that you're starting to see the difference shows that it's working because it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once you geniunely believe girls are getting wet in your presence you will start to behave more confidently and sexually and they actually will get wet in your presence. It's a beautiful thing. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts Womenyeah, it was on the main page of reddit and some mod deleted it so I had to repost. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenI disagree. Women can seem fickle but if you understand the underlying psychological principles guiding their behaviors you can use your understanding of what they want to get what you want from them. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenMathematically something else will probably destroy the earth long before the sun blows up. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenAbsolutely. The only thing to be careful here is a lot of people get perfectionist about this and tell themselves, "Once I"m at 7% bodyfat I'll start doing game." As long as you don't fall into that trap, improving your physique is very helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 03:49 AM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenIt can be hard, but if you can find the humor in rejection then it won't get in your way. When I get rejected I usually say something to make it over the top ridiculous like, "I make a lot of money if that helps." This helps reframe rejection as something to laugh at. Once you make rejection lighthearted it's easier to build that mindset. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:47 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenIt takes time, but it starts with going out regularly and slowly mindfucking yourself to have different beliefs through what I mentioned in the article and through field reports. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThanks! Yeah that happens to all of us. Part of it is just putting yourself out there enough that fear isn't as frustrating as another self-rejection. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 10:34 PM |
| 4 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenYou probably have missed 100s of chances. When I started I couldn't approach or escalate at all and I didn't think I'd ever be able to. But through persistence I was able to change that, the same'll happen for you man. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:18 PM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts Womene Whenever you interact with a woman, interpret everything she does as, "Damn she wants me." If a girl makes eye contact tell yourself it's because she's attracted to you, if she doesn't make eye contact tell yourself it's because she's too nervous to make eye contact with you because she's so attracted to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThanks man, glad you liked it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenYeah, the fact that it happens outside of conscious awareness is incredibly important. Tricky to really grasp, but once you do there's a lot of power in that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenThis article was inspired by Julien Blanc's old Youtube content (2012-2014) so you could check that out. The channel name is Julienfreetour https://redpilltheory.com/product/become-confident/ This book, Zero Fucks Given, goes into mindset and self-belief in depth. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenAwesome, man. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenThere is a lot of victim mentality in TRP which is a shame because there's a lot of potential here. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenThanks, there's more to come ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenGlad you liked it! | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenAll women want both, it's not black and white. I could title it "What women really want within the context of their short-term mating strategies" but that wouldn't have the same punch to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:06 PM |
| 16 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenWow, thanks, I appreciate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 06:53 AM |
| 5 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenYeah, definitely applies to anything. A lot of it has to do with entitlement, when you have a positive filter for yourself it enables you to feel entitled to take the risks that will lead you to succeed in any area of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 06:53 AM |
| 52 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenAgreed, some of the posts I've seen recently have me thinking WTF | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 06:52 AM |
| 4 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenPerception is everything man. The more you believe you're an Adonis the more people will see you as one. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract Womenthanks! | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:49 AM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThe chicks that aren't having it are just too overwhelmed by how attractive you are that they get shoved in their head ;) | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract Womenhaha | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:47 AM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract Womenuseful Exactly. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:47 AM |
| 10 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenDefinitely man. Promoting your book through comments doesn't bother me, but I doubt it will be a very effective strategy. It would be much more effective to post your own work and link your blog at the bottom of your text posts, then you can have your book featured on your site. Also, the title is inconsistent. It should either be Secrets to Modern Women's hearts or Secrets to a Modern Woman's Heart. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThanks man, I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenAbsolutely! And on some level, it's true that they all are, even moreso if you believe it to be so ;) | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:42 AM |
| 13 | How To Develop The Mindset That Will Magnetically Attract WomenThey assume Glad you liked it. Changing your mindset is a process that takes some effort, but the results are well worth it. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:41 AM |
| 3 | How To Develop The Mindset That Magnetically Attracts WomenConstructive criticism on reddit? Unusual, but I appreciate it. I'll definitely analyze how and why those speeches speak to the unconscious, it's a good idea. Do you have any examples of (non-speech)writing that really speaks to the soul? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to Embrace Your FlawsIs it possible that someone else with skinny calves wouldn't be any less of a man for not getting pissed about getting 'called out on it'? What's your value there? I won't be disrespected? Are your calves so central to your identity that they can't be made fun of without you getting butthurt and reactive? | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 06:54 AM |
| 3 | But What If You're Genuinely Unattractive?Money doesn't make you directly more attractive, that's a weird belief people don't think through. However, money will give you access to status, and being at a VIP table or exclusive party does help a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessThe first person who commented saw the name Tai Lopez and got super triggered (without understanding the context or reading more than a paragraph of the post). A lot of people just read the comments and based their decisions on that. It's interesting psychology. Great book, you'll get incredible value from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessSure, women will react very differently to different people. It's extremely arrogant to think this is such a strong effect that women's personality's are completely irrelevant. That'll lead you to think you're completely unaffected by the people around you, unless you're a genuine sociopath, that just isn't true. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessRight, and those people are idiots. I'm not gonna fuck a girl who's extremely toxic just because she's hot. (unless it's like a bathroom pull or I"m wasted) Your general tone here gives me the impression you might take this stuff too seriously, it seems emotionally heavy. Now, if you don't like hearing that, then I'm probably right. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessIt's a nuanced point. Yes, you need to be the prize, but you also need to offer value. You know the archetype of the hot girl who's so self-absorbed and narcissistic that she is super toxic and impossible to be around? That's the risk if you see yourself as the prize without offering value. There's a difference between healthy entitlement and toxic entitlement, Mark Manson writes about it well in the Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck. In that anecdote, I knew I was the prize, and that's why I pers… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 05:50 PM |
| 0 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessThat's a good idea, I'll probably give it a try. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessI use the language if you don't want to miss them. The connotation being that they're not released. However, I think that's far too subtle and easily misinterpreted, so I'll change it. Second, I don't disagree with what you're saying, but the popup was trying something new. It only triggers if you visit the site specifically from this page, so if you clicked the link to get part two and three when they're released it makes sense. If you clicked it expecting part two and three to already be relea… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 04:47 AM |
| 2 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessIt said upon release, but that wasn't clear enough so I made sure to change the text just now. Sorry about that. Part 2 should be completed tomorrow and part 2 one or two days after that. I'll send them as soon as they're done. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessI haven't finished part two or three, the popup isn't an ad, it's a popup so you can opt in to get parts two and three via email when they're released via automation. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 03:53 AM |
| 2 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessKey word, "probably". There are 0 ads. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 02:59 AM |
| 10 | How to Use Influence Psychology For Dating SuccessHow do you know I"m full of ego-stroking manipulative bullshit if you didn't read past the first paragraph? Um, I never said Tai Lopez wasn't a scam artist, I said that he uses the psychology of influence to make money. You know that someone can be a scam artist and still be doing something effectively, even if they're not making quality products, right? I actually don't like Tai Lopez at all (I would NEVER buy a product of his), but that doesn't mean I can't learn from what he does well. Everyo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/17 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Fuck Your ReputationAnd arguing that I implied reputation only means "being a boring fuck who doesn't stand out" is not only an obvious strawman but also a fallacy of composition. I never said reputation only existed in one highly specific context. However, it is true that men don't approach women because they're afraid of damaging their reputation. It's not a rational fear, but it exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Your ReputationMany guys go out with friends watching them, and although they wouldn't admit it (even to themselves), they hold back because they don't want to get rejected in front of their friends. They're protecting their reputation. But in reality, even if they got rejected, their friends wouldn't care, if anything, they'd be a little jealous that someone was taking action. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Actively Seek Out Social Tension/DiscomfortPersonally, I think most self-improvement is more than half bullshit, but the nugget of gold makes the read worthwhile. If this article was that for you, that's fine by me :) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Your Reputation (If You Want To Succeed With Women)Unless the college is small, probably not. In say a workplace, you could easily develop a reputation if you just tried to bang every girl, sure. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How Your Self-Concept Kills Your Results With WomenYeah, several years ago. Good book. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Your ReputationI'm saying that even if they did care a little bit for some reason, it's still not a big deal; and can easily be addressed. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Fuck Your Reputation (If You Want To Succeed With Women)No one said status isn't attractive. But it's binary thinking to think that you need status. A self-fulfilling prophecy because people use it as a license to never even really try. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Exactly 25 numbers in 3 months and every single one of them failed.You can frame it as negative if you so choose, or you can look at the merit of the point I'm making. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Exactly 25 numbers in 3 months and every single one of them failed.I've gotten more numbers than that in a day before. This is the equivalent of lifting for a total of 7 hours in 3 months and being surprised you haven't made gains. Get better, not bitter. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Actively Seek Out Socially Tensionta Teacher assistant. Grad student who helps out the professor with grading etc. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Actively Seek Out Social Tension/DiscomfortThat's a great idea. Best of luck. Also, you might consider toastmasters/open mic night standup | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/17 06:06 PM |
| 4 | Aggressively seduced by a woman on spring breakSomething like this happened to me with a ten. It was awesome, but it was way too emotionally overwhelming and I got super neurotic about it afterwards. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | The Charisma BlueprintIt's the part of your brain that gets activated when you're in a state of curiosity. The part that's judging is defensive and self-protecting. The part that is curious is open to experience and fluid. It's about learning to get into a state that has more social benefits for you. Most of us default to a judgmental/defensive state (especially around people we don't know well, i.e. game) and that state makes what we want to accomplish much harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 02:24 AM |
| 1 | The Charisma BlueprintThanks for the kind words. I genuinely appreciate it. Glad you found it helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The Charisma BlueprintAnything that makes you anxious and isn't harassment or assault. You could sing in public. Wear an eccentric outfit (like a pimp suit). Ask how attractive strangers think you are on a scale of 1/10. There's a few examples. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | The Fundamental Assumption That Helps You Succeed With WomenI get what you're saying, CBT is partly based on the relationship between thoughts and emotions- in my experience I haven't found them to be as effective as say meditation because I think your unconscious mind knows the affirmations aren't really true. But maybe I'll try 'em again out of curiosity. 30 day challenge of going out every single day. An immersion program is like a pickup bootcamp but it lasts for much longer. I used to room with a coach for an immersion program and guys do get result… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | The Fundamental Assumption That Helps You Succeed With WomenI've tried affirmations numerous times, I don't think they really work tbh. It's about discipline, do a 30 day challenge and trust that through all the frustration you'll end up with results. The negative emotions are part of the process, they're symptoms that you're changing. If you can afford it and are mobile, you might consider doing an immersion program for a month, those definitely can be effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Unleash The Perviness Within: How to Bring Raw Sexuality Into Your GameWhat is it specifically you don't like about the website? I'm always interested in constructive criticism. | /r/seduction | 28/05/17 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Unleash The Perviness Within: How to Bring Raw Sexuality Into Your GameI am always interested in constructive criticism so that I can improve my content. What is it in particular that you do not like about the post or the website? Or are you just an inflammatory troll who's so lonely in life that instead of going out and meeting women, you get your kicks from meaningless, baseless criticism online on /rseduction? | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Unleash The Perviness Within: How to Bring Raw Sexuality Into Your GameYou don't need to sleep with every girl you talk to. You can talk to a girl and just make friends. | /r/seduction | 27/05/17 10:01 AM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyCongratulations | /r/seduction | 26/05/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyHere's a compilation of the world's best example (that I know of) of showing genuine confident desire, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zR2Pk2SqQzg But, to get to a point where you feel comfortable saying these kinds of things, you may have to be vulnerable as I su | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 09:48 PM |
| 2 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It Effectivelyfor me, I start by statements of intent, if all I can think of is bluntly telling a girl I find her attractive, I"ll do it, not because it's the best thing to say, but because it helps me get into a state of intent, and then it starts to happen naturally, I just find myself showing more intent in all my interactions verbally and nonverbally. if you want great examples look up "Russel Brand Flirting" on youtube. He manages to show extreme sexual intent without coming off as needy or aggressive. H… | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyI agree with everything you're saying here 100%. That's why I'm just saying the best thing to say, and instead something vulnerable to say that forces you to deal with your insecurities head on. There's a lot more to it, but that's what I'll be focusing on in future posts. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyTrue, but that can be so easily misinterpreted into a rationalization that leads you never to take action. Some women will find you attractive and what's attractive is based on a lot of factors. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyIt's both, I've said this myself numerous times. I want to be clear that I'm not saying this is the best way to show intent, this is how I get myself over my feelings of insecurity so I'm better able to show the next girl intent. I was surprised to find that sometimes this actually works in a given interaction, I thought I was sacrificing the lamb, but oftentimes it leads to a good interaction. In fact, I'm going to argue that you're theorycrafting, have you actually tried something like this? M… | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyThe most powerful way to show intent is directly, I agree. The problem is many guys have trouble doing this. Maybe you 've never had a problem showing intent, maybe it's easy for you. I know many guys though, that have trouble with it. If that's you, letting one girl feel powerful by saying something self-deprecating helps you get over that difficulty so that you can show intent coming from a more powerful place to the next girl. Also, if you have high SMV to a girl, and you say something like t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyBasically, it means that giving her a very strong sense that you desire her actually makes her feel like she has power over you in a way. She feels that she is making you lose yourself in your passion. In reality, you are taking control, this just means that the more you give her the impression you want her, the more desirable she feels, and therefore the more power she feels she has. That feeling of having sexual power is the turn on for her. (to be fair, if you have value in her eyes only) | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyNP | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 05:54 PM |
| 4 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyIt doesn't matter what real rape is, it just matters what the fantasy is in a woman's mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 03:11 PM |
| -1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyI've read some of the sidebar. But if you take theory as doctrine you get theory induced blindness and all nuanced thinking goes out the window. Then, suddenly, you start to believe that something as robustly complex as human sexuality can be pinned down by these theories and anything outside of those theories seems like heresy. I think you're missing the point here, that's not the best way to show desire, when you're not able to show intent, a vulnerable statement "cringey statement" helps you … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyJust saying you think she's attractive, pretty, etc is enough. Then you can calibrate from there and if necessary, pull back. | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 03:04 PM |
| 5 | What Sexual Intent Really Is, Why It's So Powerful, and How To Use It EffectivelyI changed the first sentence because although it's not technically untrue, it's psychologists' interpretations of the research that is most relevant. Psychologist Marta Meana: "For women, being desired is the orgasm." http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-007-9208-x Meston, Cindy M.; Buss, David M.. Why Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to Revenge (and Everything in Between) (pp. 20… | /r/seduction | 25/05/17 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutMust be a tough day, having to downvote content you don't like. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:22 PM |
| 2 | The Real Reason Hot Girls Make You Nervous (Not What You Think)I love criticism. Unfortunately about 80% of it on trp is useless. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:57 AM |
| -1 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutCooler? Hopefully not. But more effective with women? Fuck yes he is. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutCool story bro. Try harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:52 AM |
| 2 | The Real Reason Hot Girls Make You Nervous (Not What You Think)Like I said, they're totally different posts. It's pretty clear that this isn't primarily about approach anxiety, in fact, I specifically avoid the terminology. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutYou don't know shit about me. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 03:12 AM |
| 3 | The Real Reason Hot Girls Make You Nervous (Not What You Think)I 100% agree with what Frakken said, I even wrote about it in a book. This post literally doesn't contradict that at all. There's more than one source of anxiety with women. General sexual anxiety is very different from putting beautiful women on a pedestal, and both can happily coexist. It's called nuance, you should try it some time. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutIt wouldn't be a fantasy if every woman got to live it out. So, maybe I didn't overlook the factoid, maybe you overlooked basic reading skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 02:25 AM |
| -1 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutSex god method is fantastic. Before reading that I was a bad enough lay that some girls wouldn't wants a round two, afterwards.... Also, squirting mastery, by a pornstar with live demonstrations, you can fap to hot chicks while being educated! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/17 01:31 AM |
| 15 | Women's Secret Fantasy No Men Know AboutIs the red pill about blindly following dogma or about thinking that goes against the norm? This isn't about buying a woman roses, it's about creating the illusion that she's having an emotional impact on you to trigger attraction because of her innate, evolution-based needs. It sells copies because it fulfills a psychological need, obviously. Women don't say they want what Romance Novels present, but they respond to it. Also, this argument is based on evolution, which you didn't even address in… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 11:03 PM |
| 2 | The Real Reason Hot Girls Make You Nervous (Not What You Think)Shame about sexual urges is definitely a part of the problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Why Women Think Pickup is Creepy (and Why they're Wrong)Good point. But she won't necessarily be upset, I tell women I date that I write pickup and they don't have a problem with it when I give them a proper explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Why Women Think Pickup is Creepy (and Why they are Wrong)You're right in saying it doesn't mean you consciously want to get fucked or even necessarily mean you want to get approached. Yet, imagine you're a woman and you knew your ideal man was going go the same place you were that night, you don't think you'd dress up extra sexy to get their attention? Women want to be approached by a guy if he's high value enough, and they want to look sexy for those guys. Sure, they also want to feel sexy for people in general, and I detail all the many nuances and … | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 12:23 AM |
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