I 26M typically will strike up conversation/approach girls out at bars and can pull a few pieces here and there, Ive pulled a handful from bars but don’t always slam on the same night sometimes just getting digits and hanging out another day is huge, especially if whiskey dick is a factor. also on dating apps i can manage to scrounge a few however they’re usually pretty mid at best. For me the apps arent reliable and just used for supplementation.

However I rarely approach any girls out in public while I’m at stores or out doing stuff that’s not in a “ social setting “. However saw a cute girl at Walmart who I thought was a solid 9, excellent dumper, cute face, brunette definitely my type. I Hesitated for a little after I first saw her but circled back the next aisle as she was looking at some protein bars and I went and grabbed some good ones and said, “have you ever tried these ones? “ then proceeded to have some small talk,she told me about a trip she’s going on and what not. Asked for the digits but said she had a boyfriend. Convo may have been a bit choppy on my end, but none the less felt good to just send it, definitely a win in my book. It’s really not as bad as you think it is. I think it helped me as well to open with something nonchalant such as talking about protein bars as opposed to giving a compliment to her directly saying I like her outfit or something about her.

Im not interested in going to try and approach 50 women in one day, but will try and further push myself to talk to that cute chick when im just out and about.